This article focuses on Venus, dignities, debilities, and love stories. But Mars has to play it’s part in order for Venus to work. Not everyone is into romance or love stories, but everyone has loved or liked someone I’m sure. That being said, everyone has their own “love scenario”. Everyone has a love story that they’re in favor of even if they don’t realize it. The love stories we favor has a lot to do with the sign our Venus is in at the time of our birth. Our own love style reflects our expectations when we read, watch, or listen to other love stories. You ever see those people who are Team Bella and Edward? But then turn around, and you see Bella and Jake fans? Chances are their hopes and wishes in romance in their own life reflects what romance they want to see happen, especially with women. Women often take on the persona of Venus in romance and love. This is how they flirt, how they attract others to them, their ‘alter ego’ when around friends, associates, and peers at school or at work. Venus begins in the adolescent years, and during this period, it becomes evident whether someone is comfortable with the experience of love, or whether it isn’t an easy transition. Venus is important in man’s life when it comes to the kind of woman he wants to notice him, the woman he finds attractive, or if you’re a lesbian girl, the girl you’re attracted to. I use the term man and woman not because it’s exclusive to them, but because Venus is a goddess, and Mars is a God.
Mars plays a role when it comes to males that females are interested in. It’s how we all achieve what we desire. It is also the planet of sex, and women tend to believe sex to be a very important thing when looking for a man. Women see Mars as the kind of man that they want to notice them, or if you’re a gay man, this is the man you want to notice you.
If you want to find out about your Venus and Mars signs, check out these sources:
http://www.astro.com This is to get a natal chart. sign up for a free account! go to free horoscopes on the left hand side, press horoscope drawings, extended chart, edit data, you may need birth time which you can get from birth certificate or parent, or for now, use 12 noon though not recommended. Press blue button.
http://www.alwaysastrology.com A good place for all 10 of your signs, and rising sign
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/sunaspects.html A good place for aspects
http://astrology-numerology.com/astrology_houses.html A good place for house placements
http://astrology-numerology.com/astrology_planets.html A good place to learn about planets in houses
Venus has certain signs that she favors, and certain signs that she struggles with.
Venus at her BEST
1) Venus is at her best in the sign of Pisces. When Venus is in Pisces, love knows no boundaries. She loves people for who they are, no strings attached. She is ideal. She believes that love conquers all. She always hopes love will be better, day by day, even if the situation looks bleak. She is highly romantic in this sign. She is willing to love someone from afar, even if the person doesn’t return their feelings. She will shyly hope that one day, you will notice her. She is hoping someday, her prince, her knight in shining armor, her soul mate will come to take her away on his steed. This “prince” she’s looking for is determined by her Mars sign. But nonetheless, she’s looking for him to be her savior, her hero. Or maybe she saves him, maybe heals his wounds. She will wait for him while he is away at war. She is the underdog, and she may live in a low-income area. She may be waiting for a lover to help her out of such a situation.
In today’s world, where Neptune has traveled through Capricorn and Aquarius, people feel pressure not to see women in the archetype of Pisces. Women are encouraged not to be “damsels in distress” and to be their own heroes, such as in the song Cinderella by the Cheetah Girls, Play, and I5. Still, Venus in Pisces people can’t help but want to live a fairy tale love story. For them, the perfect romance story can be any story where two lovers live happily ever after. But they especially love stories where the shy girl wants to impress the guy (however her Mars envisions him), but can’t tell him her feelings. The girl watching from the sidelines. Venus in Pisces can be boy-crazy actually. Many girls with Venus in Pisces just love boys for it’s sake! They just simply love the idea of love, even if they aren’t in a relationship. Venus in Pisces girls tend to act as boy-crazy characters on television. Venus in Pisces embodies everything that means girl: boys, fashion, and ideal situations, such as being a pop star or being a model.
All the “girly” things fall under the sign of Pisces. She envisions herself the sweet, shy, overlooked, girly girl. And in whatever love story she’s interested in, the female character will take this archetype to a certain degree. As Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune, those signs must be considered. Pisces is the sign of imagination, and actually, Venus in Pisces can be whoever she wants to be! She can be a model, a servant, a princess, a doctor, anything she dreams, she can be! Everything about her screams a girlish innocence.
Men with this placement often want a shy, gentle, woman, a woman they can protect, considering that Neptune or Jupiter agrees. They like women who are daydreamers. Women who are underdogs. They want the overlooked woman, the woman that no other guy would date. They can see her beauty “beyond the glasses”. However he sees himself through his Mars and Sun sign, he will want this shy girl for his very own. He wants the woman who will never give up on him, that will love him no matter what. Ran from Detective Conan comes to mind.
Remembering that Pisces is ruled by Neptune, and co-ruled by Jupiter, the sign there must be considered. For example, A Man with Venus in Pisces, Neptune in Capricorn, might not want so much a damsel, but may want someone who dreams of her career situations improving and hoping it turns out for the better. Venus in Pisces, Neptune in Sagittarius also wants a woman who’s a little more assertive. This changes the nature of his ideal. This can also change the way a woman sees herself. If she has Venus in Pisces, Neptune in Scorpio, she may still have an addicted personality, and with Neptune in Scorpio, she could be addicted to sex. So she may be connected to Scorpio in some way. Someone with Venus in Pisces, Jupiter in Aries may want a girl who’s a little more assertive and tomboyish, and less girly.
Example: If a girl has Venus in Pisces, Mars in, Taurus, she will be the shy, underdog character who likes lots of boys, and wishes boys liked her. She will be into fashion, but chances are she won’t feel like the most stylish girl walking around, as she wishes to be. She will be wishing the most handsome guy in the world would notice her (Mars in Taurus). A scenario in a story where a shy girl is noticed by a handsome, strong, sensual man is ideal for her. She will wish this man to sweep her off her feet. If she has Venus in Pisces, Mars in Aries, she will want that gangsta man, that daredevil guy, to notice her sweet, soft nature. Romantic scenarios that play out that way appeal to her. If she has Venus in Pisces, Mars in Pisces, she’s hoping that the shy girl will end up with the shy guy, and that one day, somehow, they will both be able to tell each other their feelings.
Archetypes of Pisces: the hopeless romantic, magical child, actress, illusionist, victim, martyr, compassionate healer, mother teresa, beloved, good samaritan, lost soul, soul mate, codependent, sadist, psychic, rescuer, guru, ocean, siren, devotee, dream weaver.
PERFECT LOVE STORY: Fairy Tale Romances
Snow White is a good Venus in Pisces female example because Snow White embodies most of all the qualities Pisces represents. She’s gentle, kind, and compassionate. She is also rather shy when it comes to love. In the movie, she runs away from the prince when he approaches her. She is easily charmed and accepting. Once he sang to her, she was magically in love. This brings out Pisces’s naive, but dreamy side. And it’s obvious Snow White is very dreamy! She never gave up on her dreams of seeing her handsome prince, and that dream kept her going in tough times. Being ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams, Pisces always utilizes dreams, wishes, and song to make others feel happy. I feel she fits the mold perfectly. She charmed her way into the dwarfs heart by sacrificing her time and energy to clean and cook for them in exchange for a place to stay. Self-sacrifice is a natural Piscean way of being. One of the reasons many Pisceans show so much kindness, tenderness, and compassion is because many of them have been victims of abuse or aggression themselves. It’s quite easy for others to dominate a Pisces because they generally treat others so gently. People often think they can take advantage of this, and take this kindness for weakness. This was very evident by the wicked queen in the story. She used Snow White to clean her castle, and dressed her in rags, knowing Snow White wouldn’t stand up to her. Pisces is also usually hoping for a miracle or way out of their situation, just as Snow White was. Many Pisces feel they have to “escape”, just as Snow White did. Many are not aggressive or mean enough to retaliate. That’s how much compassion they have! Snow White ended up having to isolate herself and hide, also a natural Piscean tendancy.
The down-side is the naivety. Pisces trusts others more often than not because they try not to judge others. Snow White was the same way with the queen, who was disguised as the old woman. Snow White was unassuming, and treated her with kindness, despite how she appeared. Of course, many times people take these opportunities to hurt them. The queen ended up persuading Snow White to eat a poisoned apple. But Pisces is so nice, who can hate them? It was easy for her to melt the heart of even the grumpiest dwarf, and this is why Venus is so happy in this sign. Snow White promotes peace and love, and that’s really all Venus wants.
The song is Someday, My Prince Will Come. There is no song more perfect for Pisces. Pisces is always dreaming about someday! They are always hoping for a positive future, and looking at the positive side of a situation, or keeping a happy spirit despite whatever situation they’re in. They know nothing lasts forever, and they have hope that one day they will be happy. In love songs, it’s natural for Pisces to hope and wish for someone to come to them, especially because most are too shy to approach the one they love.
Celine Dion is the perfect Venus in Pisces example. For starters, she actually has Venus in Pisces! Celine Dion has a beautiful, melodious voice, which is a voice Venus can approve of! This song brings out the more poetic and expressive side of Pisces, especially in matters of love! Pisces has a way of capturing the emotion of romance. The line “It was gone with the wind/but it’s all coming back to me” is a line that represents Pisces’s idealistic, romantic side. Venus loves this sign because it will love someone no matter the circumstances, no matter how horrible a relationship is/was. This song captures that so well.
In the music video, something devastating happens to Celine’s lover after he leaves, and she is left alone (Pisces, playing hopeless romantic). She tries to forget everything, but suddenly she begins to see illusions that bring back memories of her time with her lover. As Neptune, the natural ruler of Pisces, rules illusions, this song is perfect. Pisces is the sign of the spirit, and many people with this placement often see things others can’t see.
2) Venus is in her natural skin, at home, in the signs of Taurus and Libra. In Taurus, Venus embodies a beautiful, voluptuous goddess. She embodies a graceful, fashionable woman, rich, strong, and regal. From her comes the most naturally beautiful women in the world…or women who want to be. She is always calm, confident in her skin, and loves herself and her body. If she doesn’t, she won’t be happy until she does. She can be a bit vain, superficial, and maybe defines herself too much by what she owns, but she’s a sensual lover, and loves her cake and eats it too. Venus can indulge in as many sensual pleasures as she wants in this sign, and live the life of ease. Life is uncomplicated and peaceful. Routine is possible, making sure security lasts forever. Brenda Song is the perfect example of this. She’s always playing a fashionista! She played London Tipton in The Suite life of Zack and Cody and The Suite Life on Deck. That character was defined by how much money she had, the kind of clothes she wore, and how many things she owned. She wasn’t quite the intellectual, but she certainly had a lot of money. She was very attractive, and she loved cute boys, a nice hot tub, and to take the “easy” way out of a rough situation. Most Venus in Taurus girls play this archetype strongly. If not that one, they are like Jessica Alba, playing a strong, but beautiful woman, who has beauty and talents, like in the movie Honey. In either case, Venus is very physical in this sign, and that’s how she prefers it. Her ideal romantic situation requires a beautiful woman to be noticed by a hot man (as symbolized by Mars). This archetype is best described in the movie My Date with the President’s Daughter.
Another archetype of the Venus in Taurus woman is to be a good cook and have refined tastes. She is the trophy wife or girlfriend. She can cook, she’s well-dressed, looks good in a bathing suit, and gives her man all that he wants and desires. She’s any man’s dream girl. Aside from her jealous tendencies…In adolescence, she is often sweet, demure, and liked by all she meets. She is there to be the trophy to the object of her affection. Women with this Venus often want to play that role, and they like love stories where the female is a talented, beautiful, well-dressed woman who meets someone special (according to Mars).
Venus in Taurus is also a long-lasting, long-suffering sign, and quite patient. They are iconic for childhood romances because they stay with the same person they’ve always been with, simply because this is more comfortable for them. Many Japanese animes fit into this trope very often. Once they are in love with someone, they already feel they own the person, even if the relationship isn’t official. Ran and Shinichi from Detective Conan are the best example of this archetype.
A man with this placement will want the perfect woman. He wants a lady in the streets, and a sensual lover in the bed. He wants a classy woman, with a beautiful body. Being a good cook helps. He would be quite physical and superficial, but he likes what he likes. He wants a woman who will take care of him, give him massages, and handle things calmly. He doesn’t want a woman with a lot of drama. And he wants a woman who’s loyal and there for him. Someone he can chill with after a long day at work or school…and depending on his Mars depends on the role he wants to play in this love story.
Example: Venus in Taurus, Mars in Aries woman, She will be a beautiful, talented, famous singer, who charms the crowd of men with her beauty and voice (Ariana Grande has this Venus, and this always reminds me of her). So many men love her! It’s hard to know who’s the right one for her! But that daredevil…the man who shows her life outside of her perfect, princess life, that masculine, angry man…that’s the man she wants. It would be the story of a Diva who meets a rugged, gangster (Mars in Aries). Venus in Taurus, Mars in Libra woman will want the most chivalrous of men, the charming, handsome, and polite man, who is sweet and considerate, and thoughtful.
Archetypes of Taurus: the caretaker, sweet pea, Eve (of Adam & Eve), Aphrodite, pin-up, beauty queen, trophy wife, silent screen actress, banker’s daughter, millionaire heiress, earth mama, nature lover, queen, matriarch.
PERFECT LOVE STORY: Material, Sensual Romances, Childhood romances
Swing-Shift Cinderella is the perfect Venus in Taurus example. She brings out the classic pin-up archetype Taurus is associated with. She is a 1940s Aphrodite, with the red hair Aphrodite is often depicted having, and the beautiful voluptuous curves. There’s no guessing why Venus feels so comfortable with this depiction. Just as Taurus rules the throat, Swing-Shift Cinderella sings and dances on stage, displaying her creative talents, in a beautiful white ensemble. Venus loves opportunities to display talents and to wear gorgeous, expensive looking fashion! And the way she dances! The way she holds herself, rubs the wolf’s ears, and rubs her sides is quite sensual. It produces quite an erotic response from the wolf. Venus is the other sexual planet, and rules subtle seduction, unlike the Fairy godmother who served as a contrast to the softness of Cinderella.
But Swing-shift Cinderella just wasn’t a doll. She cooked and cleaned her home (as was evident with the rags she wore in the beginning), and at the end of the day, she became a little “Rosie”, working the 12:00 pm Shift at the Aircraft factory. Taurus is an earth sign, the element of reality and hard-work, and so Tauruses can be strong, beautiful, and hard-working! She has to make her money somehow so she can buy nice things. Though it helps to have a fairy godmother who can give you fabulous fashions whenever you call her!
She’s perfect! It’s no wonder all the “wolves” are chasing her! Her beauty, class, and independence gives her the pick among suitors, which Venus likes.
And just as Taurus prefers a soft, subtle approach to relationships, she carefully chooses the guy she wants. It’s obvious she was very hard to please. Taurus has to be careful being too demanding, and too superficial. What about the inner character? I would say that was one thing the character lacked is depth.
Ariana Grande is the perfect example of Venus in Taurus. Her Venus actually is in Taurus. Taurus rules natural, and it’s obvious that Ariana not only shows natural beauty in her music video, but natural talent. As Taurus rules the throat, it’s no wonder her voice is so beautiful. The floral patterns in her outfits also represent Taurus well, as Taurus loves natural beauty when it comes to nature as well. Many scenes throughout the music video reveal her down-to-earth nature. She truly is doing natural things in her environment, and making it look good! Whether she’s hanging with friends, riding the bus downtown, or relaxing (another Tauruean trait she displays in the video, as she’s shown laying down), she does it with class and beauty.
Taurus makes Venus so proud. It’s hard to hate a sweet-pea like Ariana. She’s just so pleasant, soft, and sensual. I’ll bet all the guys would fall head-over-heels for this beauty. And she’s still classy enough to be respected.
The song is perfect for Venus. It’s a genuine love song, which is all Venus is about. The lines, “Baby I’m so down for you, no matter what you do, I’ll be around” brings out the ever enduring Taurean qualities. Taurus can put up with someone no matter what they do. Taurus truly has a lot of patience.
Venus is also at home in the sign of Libra. In Libra, she’s a sweet, kind, considerate, fun, light-hearted, well-dressed woman. In Libra, she is social, can’t see herself alone, and does very well with the opposite sex. She’s a peaceful woman, and loves to compromise and be at ease with whoever she’s with. She’s the girl who loves roses, romantic notes, holding hands, and puppy love. She loves those sweet gestures that lets her know you’re thinking about her. She sees herself as popular, stylish, friendly, and creative. She’s everyone’s best friend. What’s not to like about her? She’s easy to get along with! Even girls can’t help but fall in love with her charm, even the jealous ones. And she has so many choices in lovers! This is the girl that’s always caught between two men…she can’t decide which one to take! Many girls with Venus in Libra would really think this is the perfect situation, if they’re not already in it. She’s girly, and loves shopping. She loves the arts: dancing, music, fashion, and well-arranged homes and gardens. She loves order and luxury. She’s the girl that has herself well-put-together, even more than Venus in Taurus.
This girl is balanced. She has a girly side, but she can have a tomboy side too. Venus in Libra girls are always trying to balance two sides to them. This is why it’s so easy for them to relate to so many different kinds of girls. But I wouldn’t say she likes playing it dirty. She’s superficial, but beauty is inside her as well. She treats everyone politely, and sweetly, even people who don’t like her. She kills others with kindness. She always tries to wear a smile, and she always gives anyone the benefit of the doubt. She would make a fair and just ruler. She is beautiful, but she is also intelligent. She is truly perfect, and if she isn’t, she wants to be. But being this perfect is stressful. They really want to make everyone happy, and it’s hard to consider everyone’s feelings. The fact that someone will be disappointed is hard for Venus in Libra to accept.
Her ideal romance story is a perfect girl, with slight imperfections (like clumsiness), who can’t decide between two lovers, but wants a boyfriend badly. This girl is never alone. It’s not hard for her to get someone. Beyonce actually has Venus in Libra. She’s the perfect example. She’s beautiful, classy, but intelligent. She relates to all women. Many men want her, but she won’t settle with just anyone. She believes in being an honorable woman, and marriage was in her plans. Hilary Duff who played Lizzie Mcguire also has Venus in Libra. As an adolescent, she played the same roles: she was sweet, smart, pretty, and pretty much perfect. Her only imperfection was that she was always clumsy, which just added to her charm. However, most Venus in Libras are quite graceful. She is innocent. She’s never mean intentionally. It’s not hard for Venus in Libra to melt the hearts of many. To Venus in Libra, no moment is as important as the first kiss. People with this Venus love stories where the first kiss is emphasized.
Pretty much any love interest in male oriented movies fit in her archetypes. Males with this placement usually like pretty girls, who seem nice. They want the perfect girl. The perfect partner. Someone who they can hang out with, and someone who is sweet and considerate of them. Someone on the cheerleading squad, but also gets straight A’s. She’s pretty and stylish, but not arrogant about it. How perfect can you get?
Example: Venus in Libra, Mars in Scorpio, A sweet, kind, and caring girl, who loves to make a difference in her school. She’s perfect, everyone likes her. But she has a crush on this dark, mysterious guy, this loner. People think they are total opposites, but she can’t help but be drawn to this person. He’s dangerous…and she wants to be a part of this bad-boy world. Venus in Libra, Mars in Leo may be nice and sweet, and very friendly. She wants this popular, maybe even famous, guy to notice her. This is the perfect love scenario.
Libra Archetypes: a diamond, social butterfly, judge, scales, red rose, lead ballerina, director, ultimate hostess, one-half of a power couple, tightrope walker, negotiator, peace-lover, lover, mediator, sensitive, “lover not a fighter”.
PERFECT LOVE STORY: Television Puppy Love scenarios
Deena from the Dreamgirls is the perfect Venus in Libra example. Yes, Beyonce who plays Deena happens to have Venus in Libra. But the character also displays some strong Venus in Libra traits. For starters, Deena is very beautiful. It’s obvious that not only did she capture the attention of their manager, but she also captured the attention of a general white audience, something that was very hard to do at this time for African Americans. Her relate-ability is something that Libras are known for. Libra is graceful, beautiful, friendly, and peace-loving. She made her first entrance with a smile on her face. They also make great leaders, being a cardinal sign and all, because they consider everyone’s feeling and weigh the pros and cons of every circumstance. As you can tell she eventually became the lead singer. As Venus loves to display it’s creative talents, I felt it was perfect because Deena sings to charm the crowd. Libra also likes to work in teams, and so Deena being in a singing group was a perfect example.
In the movie, Deena comes up with an intelligent idea for a hair style in the beginning by turning her wig backwards. When Venus is in Libra, she is in a mental sign, so she is always full of creative ideas.
Deena was also peace-loving. She didn’t want to rock the boat by taking Effie’s role as lead. At the same time, she wanted to think about the interests of everyone. Many times, Libra gets caught in the middle of things, and don’t often think about what they want for themselves. This unselfish attitude is what Venus praises. They don’t have the kind of take charge attitude other signs have. They are charming and pleasant, always trying to wear a smile on their faces. Many times, they get pushed around, just as Deena did by Effie and her own husband. All they really want is love, and that’s truly all Deena wanted. However, there did come a time where she had to think about what she truly wanted and what truly made her happy, and most Libras would do well to do the same.
Venus in Libra tries to carry themselves with class. Deena was a good girl who listened and respected the wisdom of her mother (this is why Saturn is exalted in this sign, aside from Libra’s excellent fair business skills). This contributed to her being “America’s Sweetheart”, on top of her golden talents. Often, Libra seems like such an angel, that it can shock people when they actually do something aggressive, as when Deena used profanity while speaking with two movie producers in the movie, making them second-guess her “class act”. Just remember, that Libra is balanced, and like all air signs, will have more than one side to it. They are sweet and polite and ready to please, but also intelligent. Deena showed all of these qualities strongly throughout the movie.
Friendship is very important to Libra, and in the end, Deena showed how good of a friend she really was.
Libra must be careful, however, of not letting their true character shine, otherwise they will be labeled as lacking depth and character, as Deena was in the movie. But it’s just perfect for Venus who really doesn’t care about all of that.
Why is Beyonce the perfect example? Well, you already know she has Venus in Libra. But she also has amazing talents! Venus never wants to miss an opportunity to express quality talent. Beyonce can sing, she dances, and she is quite the fashionista! In Love on Top, Beyonce changes her wardrobe several times, showing her glamorous, trendy taste, and displaying her beauty.
Beyonce is Venusian all the way around, from her beautiful body to her lovely voice. This music video isn’t extremely flamboyant, but it’s classy and appealing to the eyes. It’s just the way Venus likes it: balanced.
The song represents what love is all about. When people are in love, they often feel that they’ve found “the one”, and nothing feels better to a woman than a man who puts her first in his life. Libra loves all the things that help make a relationship work, like date nights, roses, chocolates, thoughtful gifts, sweet kisses in romantic settings, etc. The lines in the full song say “I can hear the wind whipping past my face/As we dance the night away/Boy your lips taste like a night of champagne/As I kiss you again, and again, and again and again” express the beauty of love in a way that Venus can approve of.
Venus in Libra’s goal is marriage, and Beyonce made sure she became an honest woman. It’d be no surprise if this was dedicated to her new life as a married woman.
Beyonce is considered a good role model for little girls, and an example of perfection.
Venus at her Worst
*This is not to say these Venus signs are bad, or that people don’t find them attractive. But the planet Venus isn’t comfortable in them. Many people with these placements (including myself, Venus in Aries) feel uncomfortable often expressing Venusian traits. Of course, you always must consider house placements, and aspects to planet Venus, this even applies to the above placements.
1) Venus in Virgo is Venus at her worst. This isn’t because Venus in Virgos are unattractive, but because Virgo introduces Venus to a concept she isn’t too familiar with: work. Virgo is the sign of Work, and Venus rules slothfulness and laziness, ease and pleasure. Virgo reminds Venus that in order to enjoy pleasures, one must work for them, and not expect things handed on a silver platter. She also reminds Venus that sitting on your behind, lazy all the time, waiting for money to be handed to you, is unrealistic. While Virgo has a right to teach Venus this, this isn’t exactly comfortable for people who have been accustomed to the “girly” stereotypes that define a girl. Venus in Virgos believe in keeping yourself well-groomed, and are very hygiene conscious. They believe in exercise, and keeping one’s body in shape. But they are not out to show-off, or act like the world revolves around them. They are not out to be the perfect girl, contrary to Virgo’s stereotype. The thing they want to do perfectly is their work. They don’t feel looks are everything, but a girl’s work, her contributions, show more about her. They are the girls who have brains. They believe this is more important than physical looks. And Venus isn’t used to looking at things beyond looks. Venus in rags? She can’t bare the thought.
Venus in Virgo also is very logical, practical, and reasonable. With this, they have a hard time believing romance and relationships are as ideal as Pisces would have you believe. And Virgo is right in this, but if too many people took Virgo’s side, it would turn people off from relationships, which is Venus’s fear. Virgo knows that no relationship is ideal, and that in every relationship you have to work on the imperfections in order to make it perfect. Virgo just doesn’t accept you for you. They won’t let just anyone into their lives. They are sizing you up, analyzing you, criticizing you, until they find the perfect lover. But if everything was too perfect, they wouldn’t feel useful. They need something to fix up. Let’s just say they know no situation is ideal and they don’t get into a relationship thinking things are just going to be happy-ever-after.
These girls are used to going where they’re needed, not where they’re wanted, sometimes sacrificing love if they feel they will be in the way of their love interest’s desires (Nanny McPhee, Sound of Music, The King and I, and Changes for Josefina are perfect examples of this). The one thing they and Pisces have in common is that they are shy. The only difference, Virgos don’t have unrealistic hopes and dreams. If they think someone is out of their league, in their mind, it’s already written in stone. Virgo is very critical of itself, everything is wrong with themselves. No matter how perfect they are, they will find something wrong. And Venus is used to thinking she is perfect, no matter what anyone says. Virgo is humble. Virgo can sometimes seem indifferent to love. It’s because they are too shy to admit when they love someone, and they don’t want love to interfere with performing practical duties. Virgo is so shy, that they tease in order to hide their real feelings. While everyone else is whoring around, she tries to have respect for herself. Venus feels that she can’t go after her pleasures as much in this sign because Virgo reminds her to take care of her body and respect it (which can also translate to not eating any and everything you see). Virgo also teaches Venus that there is more to a person than how much money they have or how many items they own, and Venus believes money and things to be extremely important subjects in her life.
Their perfect love story is being a nun or nanny working for or with a man they are in love with (Mars, however it is). They try to focus on their duties. They try to tend to all of his meals, make his bed, and do everything he asks of them. More than likely, he might not notice her. But more than any other woman, she knows him more than anyone else, even if he doesn’t realize it. She’s the one he can confide in. She can play the role of his personal secretary as well. In adolescence, she might play the tutor that he doesn’t notice, or his helpful friend. In some way, she isn’t extremely glamorous. Her clothes may be plain, but she’s still beautiful. Just like Cinderella. Rags can’t hide her beauty. Venus in Virgo believes a woman is more beautiful when she is hard-working and willing to contribute to the world without complaint. Whiners and braggarts annoy them.
Remember, Virgo is ruled by Mercury. Mercury could be in Leo, making the person less humble than they would’ve been. It could also be in Libra, making them even more charming and well-dressed than they would’ve been.
Example: A Venus in Virgo, Mars in Libra girl may be the servant to a handsome, considerate man. He has many admirers, all of them pretty, but she’s the one that knows him best, even if she’s not as glamorous as the other girls. Venus in Virgo, Mars in Taurus might be nanny, secretary, or servant to a rich banker, who is handsome, strong, and sensual. They tend to all of his needs carefully, and stay devoted to him, even when he’s low. She may be in love with him, but she can’t tell him that for fear he might not love her in return, because she’s just a lowly servant.
Virgo Archetypes: servant, rescuer, Cinderella, sexual priestess, Virgin Mary, madonna/whore, angel, helpful one, enchantress, Garden of Eden, the invisible one, prostitute, expert, critic, nag, codependent, masochist, love slave.
PERFECT LOVE STORY: Madonna v.s. Whore scenarios where the servant (madonna) secretly loves the employer.
Maria from Sound of Music is a perfect example, as was mentioned before. Not only does Julie Andrews have Venus in Virgo, but the story fits just right! When Venus is in Virgo, she takes a more humble role. Maria plays the role of a simple nun, without many fancy clothes or items, something Venus isn’t used to. Many girls may also not consider this a very glamorous situation. But Maria has a charm all her own, and is truly a good role model for girls to follow.
When she’s hired as a governess, she’s determined to work hard and prove herself. As Virgo is the sign of work, this fits perfectly. Venus, on the other hand, would not be pleased with this scenario, as it suggests she couldn’t just skate by on her good looks, charm, and talents. It wasn’t easy for Maria to win the heart of the Captain or of his seven children. But with her intelligence (perfect for Mercury-ruled Virgo), and her youthful vitality (also perfect for Mercury-ruled Virgo), she was able to win their hearts.
The madonna/whore scenario is obvious in this movie. Place Maria against the Baroness and you get the picture. The Baroness was a rich, beautiful, and glamorous woman (probably someone Venus would approve of), but she was only perfect on the outside. Virgo knows that looking beautiful doesn’t always make you beautiful.
But this did not mean Maria wasn’t beautiful. Even under her simple dresses, Maria was a hidden gem. She wasn’t out to flaunt it or anything, she was just natural. Earthy Virgo is this way.
Venus in Virgo is shy. Maria in the movie was so used to her sheltered life, she was confused about her own feelings. Virgo tends to be very pure, “virginal”, and innocent in this case. She had never had those loving feelings, and simply ran away from them, feeling she would be in the way. This is another reason Venus has a tough time in Virgo. Virgo feels love interferes with a good job, and practical responsibilities.
Even though she won the heart of the captain, life married to him still wasn’t easy, another thing Venus hates. Virgo doesn’t really believe in instant “happy-ever-afters”. Virgo always knows no situation is perfect. But with hard work, anyone could become happy. Maria had to protect her family when her new husband refused to serve Hitler. This meant she had to be courageous and smart to protect her new family, just the way Virgo likes it.
Pink happens to have Venus in Virgo and this song is just perfect.
Pink isn’t your typical woman. She isn’t dainty, prissy, or superficial. There’s something very real about Pink. She’s a normal and natural woman. She represents how “real” women are. Pink’s beauty is rare. She’s rough-around-the-edges. But this doesn’t make her any less beautiful. Her look and appearance are original, and she’s very particular about it. Her hair is short, breaking the “feminine” idea that long hair represents beauty. Her body isn’t like a coca-cola bottle, but most bodies aren’t, right? Not “real”istically, anyway. And yet, the charm of Pink is her ability to keep every situation real and express real events that go on in her life. She’s always sending out a message through her music, which is very mercurial of her, and perfect for Virgo. Her communication abilities through her songs are amazing.
And okay, she doesn’t have a voice that can put someone to sleep. But the voice is strong and powerful and conveys everything she wants to express. This is a hard-working artist, one that got to fame through quality work, not good looks or particular “charms”.
Most Girls is a good song for Venus in Virgo. The first line “I couldn’t care too much for love/it was all a bunch of mush that I just did not want” represents Virgo’s juvenile view of relationships. They just don’t feel comfortable with open displays of affection. They are quite shy after all, despite how they appear. They are the ones to yell “Get a room!”. Of course, this may alter if your Mercury is in Libra or Leo, as Virgo is ruled by Mercury. But Pink’s Mercury is in it’s natural home of Virgo, making her the perfect example. It’s obvious to see why Venus, and the world, is uncomfortable with such a woman. Today, Pink is more accepted than she would’ve been in traditional times. Still, her edgy personality, style of dress, and disinterest in romance is unusual, shocking, and not truly considered beauty by some people even today, especially men.
But there are many people who can appreciate the charm and beauty of Pink, and recognize how women like her have shaped the music world today. Why do we have to act like sluts or act like dolls, just to attract an audience and sell a record? Why can’t we be “real”? After all, good looks don’t make talent. Oh boy, Venus is in trouble now! Pink truly attacks everything superficial Venus represents!
To add, this song is about Pink not being interested in a man’s money, but “real” love. Venus rules possessions and money, but Virgo is a simple sign. Money isn’t everything to Virgo. This really makes Venus sweat!
2) Venus is least comfortable, out of her natural skin, in the signs ruled by planet Mars, Aries and Scorpio. In Aries, she considers this position to be the most uncomfortable. Aries is about the self. She’s about partnerships. Aries wants to teach Venus to love herself. This isn’t a new concept to Venus, but often, she has a hard time seeing herself as an individual. Aries reminds Venus that when it’s all said and done, she has to remember she is an individual. Aries reminds her that relationships don’t last. People do move on, get bored, argue, fight, and have to start anew. This makes Venus worry a lot, as she always has the hope that when she gets in a relationship, it will last forever. She doesn’t want to think of it ending and having to be independent and alone. But Aries prepares Venus for this. It teaches her that as long as you remember that you are a person, and remember to think about you and your needs, you will not be hurt if a break-up should happen. This makes it easier to move on from break-ups, and to be fearless enough to start in a new relationship.
Aries is ruled by the masculine planet of Mars, and is considered the most masculine sign in the whole zodiac. Venus is shedding her femininity and stepping into the world of the man, the masculine. Obviously, this is not a comfortable situation for Venus. Aries is about masculine sex, passion, and excitement. Venus is used to taking things easy. Aries moves fast. They need a challenge. Venus just wants to stick with what it knows and what it’s comfortable with. When Venus is in Aries, Aries pushes her out of her comfort zone and forces her to seek the next challenging beau. I was watching the new Disney Channel show, Liv and Maddie, and no one exercises this more than Maddie did in the first episode. She proclaimed, “Love/Flirting is a game, I have to win!” Aries believes the art of love is a game. This makes Venus nervous, because she knows that if you take this too far, you could hurt someone.
Venus in Aries women see themselves as one of the boys, and often their male pals feel the same. They may be tomboyish. They tend to understand boys, tend to have some of the same interests, and tend to get along better with boys. They have lots of boys as friends. Many times, these girls may feel self-conscious because they often feel overlooked by more feminine girls. Actually, Helga Potaki from Hey Arnold is not only Sun in Aries, but Venus in Aries! She’s the perfect example of this. Many Venus in Aries have struggles with their own femininity, knowing they’re a girl, but not quite feeling like a girl. Many Venus Aries like androgynous fashion, or may even like girls, feeling more masculine in their tastes. But this isn’t always the case.
Barbie, the doll, is Venus in Aries. And one thing defines her in the fashion world: she’s the leader of fashion. She’s also highly competitive. Competition is a hallmark of Venus Aries. They are the competitive girls, competing against other women for a man’s affection, often times ending up in some trouble…They also compete against the ones they’re in love with. They love a good challenge to win the object of their affection. Meilin from Cardcaptor Sakura is another example of a girl with Venus in Aries. This is all particularly evident in the adolescent years when feelings are most confusing. Many of these girls act mean, tough, or even hard to get so they won’t seem mushy, weak, or like they like you because they want others to think they’re strong. They flirt by teasing and picking fights with the person they’re interested in. They don’t try to act really nice and friendly. They are not phony. And they don’t care what anyone thinks of them. Either you’re with them or against them. If you can’t handle the heat, they will move on. See how uncomfortable this is for Venus, who wants everyone to like her? They like people who are hard to get, it’s a challenge! Many Aries are afraid to express loving feelings, but many of them are straight-forward and open in their display. These are the girls that aren’t going to wait for the man to approach them, they will come right up to you and ask you out. They don’t fear rejection, fear is for cowards. But they do HATE rejection as they expect to be the winner. The Flavor of Love show is an example of Venus in Aries because many women were competing on it, all for one man’s affection. Some might consider this desperate, but to Aries, in the end, all that matters is who wins. Aries is always the first, and so they are often the first to have a boyfriend or to develop crushes.
Once Aries achieves who it desires, it’s hard for them to stay unless the person is really interesting and fun. They always need to be stimulated, otherwise they will go after the next challenge.
In adult years, many Venus in Aries become very sexy and highly sexed. Rihanna, Shakira, Janet Jackson, and Lady Gaga are really good examples. Through all the insecurity, they grow up often openly displaying sexuality. This is where they feel attractive. Some don’t feel like “pretty type” girls, so many rely on their sexuality to attract men to them. They aren’t afraid to arrive in public topless. They aren’t interested in social order and decorum.
Venus in Aries are also full of daredevil women. Femme Fatales come out of Venus Aries. They live a brave, dangerous life. Many people who get involved with them would never be bored.
The perfect love story is being the tomboy/tough girl that competes for the affection of her ideal man (Mars sign). As Aries is ruled by planet Mars, they want a man that’s like themselves, and they challenge the man they’re interested in.
Men with Venus in Aries tend to attract aggressive and masculine women. But as this is frowned upon in society, a lot of these men won’t admit that they are attracted to more masculine women. Some men may not realize they are. These men like the girls who understand boys, the girls who can play sports like one of the guys, and is good at it, the girl he can talk “boy stuff” to and she won’t get grossed out or be bored. These men like women who think like men. These men might also be attracted to highly sexed women, women who may come across to most as slutty, but it is beauty to these men. Some of these men like independent women or women who are hard to please, or hard to impress. They love women who challenge them! But this man also likes women who aggressively pursue him. Love stories where one partner isn’t so likable, or the relationship seems to have some challenge between two partners, is appealing (Arnold x Helga, Sakura x Syaoran, Powerpuff Girls X Rowdyruff Boys).
Let’s remember that Aries is ruled by Mars. Even though Mars is the woman’s ideal man, when she has Venus in Aries, she’s not waiting, expecting that man to show interest in her, she’s going after him. So she will provide some sort of challenge for him. If she has Venus in Aries, Mars in Libra, she might feel a little less tomboyish than most Venus in Aries individuals. If she has Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces, she might be a little more shy and passive than the average Venus in Aries.
Example: Venus in Aries, Mars in Libra. She’s quite the tomboy, she loves sports, she may be considered mean or tough by the boys, and possibly she’s in love with the most attractive boy in the school/office. She may try to compete with other more feminine, attractive girls. She hopes to win his heart (notice this is normally the man’s role, to try to gain the girl’s heart, and compete). Women who take atypical roles appeal to the Venus in Aries love story tastes. Venus in Aries, Mars in Aries women tend to be in love with their “rivals”. They challenge and act tough and cool around the man that they love just so he can think their cool…and thus, be attracted to them. They are not naturally perfect, and many friends will try to give them advice, but it’s always just easier for them to be themselves…especially because they can never be anyone else without a bit of awkwardness.
Aries Archetypes: the daredevil, desert rose, lone ranger, the heroine, femme fatale, rock star, warrior/amazon princess, provocateur, flirt, slut, seductress, competitive girlfriend.
PERFECT LOVE STORY: Story of Two Rivals, Dangerous Lovers
Why is Jessica Rabbit the perfect example for Venus in Aries?
Many people don’t often see the difference between her and Swing-Shift Cinderella, just as people often don’t see the difference between domiciles and detriments in general. As Aries and Taurus are the first two signs in the zodiac, there is something very primal about them both. Usually, however, it’s not so much that these signs lack Venusian qualities, but what they DO with these qualities are…different from Venus’s purpose. I’m going to run down some differences.
Jessica Rabbit enters the stage in a fire-engine Red dress (red being the natural color of the cardinal fire sign, Aries). Everything about her screams hot. There is obviously some strong, passionate sex appeal oozing from Jessica Rabbit. She is the modern-day pin-up girl. But unlike Swing-shift Cinderella, we sense more aggression and not quite as much class (this might change for you if your Mars is in Taurus). The most uncouth thing about her is how she keeps objects in the bustier part of her dress! When she needs something, she just reaches right in, in front of everyone! She daringly dances and flirts with her audience, even though she is married! She’s crossing a line Swing-shift Cinderella didn’t…because Cinderella wasn’t married. This makes Venus uncomfortable. Venus is trying to find a stable loving partner, and not trying to rock the boat. Jessica is using her wiles openly, which tempts men she’s not even interested in. This is called “teasing”, and can be called “game-playing” by most. It’s no wonder she was suspected of cheating on her husband. Aries is so daring, they really don’t care what others think!
And the song she sings! She’s demanding a man bring her some money! The natural selfish, aggressive side of Aries is seen through this song. They want what they want, and they want it now!
Venus in Aries demands it’s freedom and independence, married or not! The best part about Aries is they are decisive. No matter what man comes their way, they know who they want, and that’s that. Jessica was in love with Roger Rabbit, whether she was accused otherwise.
Jessica also plays that dare-devilish, femme fatale role well. Unlike Swing-shift Cinderella, there is something naughty about Jessica. The line “I’m not bad, I’m just drawn that way” says it all. And Venus doesn’t approve of violence or weapons. She wants peace. That’s too much of a Mars thing. Ladies wielding guns? Oh no! What if you hurt someone? But Jessica Rabbit is seen with her hand gun, even though she was using it to protect her husband. She acts as “hero”, usually the man’s role. Since Aries is ruled by the masculine planet of Mars, it’s not shocking to see her play a role traditionally played by men. She is involved in the heavy amount of action involved in this movie, which makes calm, lazy, easy-going Venus uneasy.
Traditionally, Jessica wouldn’t have been a suitable role-model for girls, and even some conservative people today feel this way. But her kind of role is more common today than back in the past.
Lady Gaga is perfect for the Venus in Aries example. The main reason is she actually has Venus in Aries. This is extremely evident, especially because she has a matching sun sign. Lady Gaga is not your average woman. There is definitely something unique about her. Her beauty is very unusual. Her sense of style is daring. This makes Venus uncomfortable. She’s afraid to take big risks. What if people don’t like it? Venus is concerned with being pleasing to others. She likes Libra’s way because they only start trends subtly, with some classic additions. She likes it that way because she doesn’t want disapproval, and her goal is love. But Aries wants to be itself, and doesn’t really care what others think. Aries is willing to take the risk. While there are many people who disapprove of Lady Gaga’s suggestive and outrageous fashions, many people find her to be innovative, original, and a leader, pioneering New Age trends. And Aries is always in the archetype of the pioneer. Lady Gaga fits!
Lady Gaga also isn’t afraid to use profanity in her music, shouting “Cuz I’m a free b****, baby!”, whether others take offense. This isn’t something Venus is used to, and more conservative individuals may find this horrifying for their younger children. It’s obvious that Aries isn’t quite as refined or wholesome as it’s opposite sign. This embarrasses Venus, the planet that cares about her social status. Does Aries care? No! Aries won’t be someone it isn’t. And that’s one thing that’s certain, Lady Gaga will always be who she is. After all, she was born this way!
The song is fitting because it shows Aries’s fun-spirited, edgy view of relationships. It’s evident from this song that love isn’t taken as seriously. “I want your ugly/I want your disease/I want your everything/As long as it’s free”. Aries wants your “bad romance”. Aries usually doesn’t care how chaotic a relationship gets. In fact, that’s what it wants: some excitement! And Aries wants it all! The impulse of Aries is very evident in this song, as it will jump in and out of bad romances, romances that aren’t meant to be stable. This makes Venus terrified.
The music video also has a strong sexual leaning, and who can forget her setting the bed on fire? Aries is a fire sign, and that fits well.
Oh but don’t worry Venus, Lady Gaga sends her Venus shout-out in her piping red outfit! Can’t you see her fingers forming the V for Venus under her eye? Lady Gaga truly redefines beauty and love.
Venus is also uncomfortable in the sign of Scorpio. Scorpio is the sign of chaos…Venus is the planet of peace. Whenever Scorpio is involved, Venus isn’t so sure of herself. Scorpio wants Venus to drop the superficial act, and look for something more “meaningful”. Meaningful to a Scorpio could be something so intense it causes drama. Scorpio wants Venus to express forcefully, not subtle, passive, or weak-willed, as she’s normally accustomed to being. Venus in Scorpio females are very strong-willed and will not be controlled. They resist love strongly, and are resistant in relationships. Scorpio is the bad girl, Gothic girl placement. Think of Caitlin from Caitlin’s Way, a troubled youth, and you’ve got the picture with Venus in Scorpio. Avril Lavigne, who actually has Venus in Scorpio is another example. They don’t want a partner just to have one, just because everyone else has one, or just because someone likes them. They will gladly turn down a partner if it’s just going to be superficial. For them, relationships don’t exist if there isn’t a little tension. They feel no relationship is perfect, and there’s no such thing as a peaceful relationship. Scorpio prepares Venus for arguments, something Venus prefers to avoid. Scorpio is better for Venus than Aries, as at least it wants to form a whole-souled connection with another. But Scorpio also focuses Venus on what happens after the date: sex. Scorpio is a cut-the-crap sign. On dates, and in relationships, it wants you to give up everything, or get stepping. There is no halfway. Scorpio demands the complete attention of it’s partner, and is very possessive. Venus isn’t used to this all -or-nothing approach. She’s used to balance. On the other hand, many Scorpios would like a bit of resistance from a partner. Venus wants compromise. But Scorpio reminds Venus that she can’t compromise on everything.
Venus in Scorpio can be tomboyish as well, being ruled by the planet Mars. They can be bad girls, gothic girls, rockstars, anything underground…they aren’t afraid to be “bad”. BoA is an example of a tomboyish girl who has Sun in Scorpio, and Venus in Scorpio.
A good example of Scorpio’s ideal love story would be one with a lot of drama. Anything deep, anything that reveals the taboo in humanity. The movie Filth captivates this better than any movie. Scorpio wonders, “Why do we hide from our deepest, darkest sides of our lives? Isn’t it human to sin? So why should we hide our natural human tendencies for the sake of pleasing people who won’t like us either way?” That’s the philosophy of Venus in Scorpio. Many Venus in Scorpios love the taboos that can be found in a relationship, no hiding from our human sins, admitting that we all have something ugly in us (which Venus is not happy with), and embracing that whatever “mistakes” we made in the past (getting pregnant as a teen, experimenting with same-sex practices, letting jealousy get the best of us) weren’t mistakes and only makes people stronger. Scorpio tells us that everything we do is normal, it’s other people who try to brainwash us to believe otherwise. They carry this attitude in their relationships. Venus is concerned with her social status and appearance, so it’s uncomfortable for her to reveal such dark secrets, secrets that make other people judge her. But Scorpio is trying to teach her during her time with this sign that we all have skeletons in our closets, so why worry about what others think?
Scorpio tries to teach Venus to be sincere and honest. This also means admitting when you HATE something. Venus is horrified by this because she wants to be likable, and so tries to like everything to keep the peace.
Degrassi is the perfect example of a Scorpio-like show. On the show, so many couples go through so much upheaval and drama, and yet, they always end up coming back for more. Why? Because they feed off of the drama the relationship gave them (to add, ratings would be lowered if the couple were to break up). Scorpio likes when there is more to a person than the superficial face we put on when we go to work and school. It knows that we really don’t want to kiss others’ behinds. We just want to say we want in whatever language we want, that’s human nature, as dark and sinister as it is.
Scorpio is ruled by Mars, so it must be considered. For example, if someone has Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Gemini, they may not feel too intense.
Men with Venus in Scorpio love sexually seductive women, women who are quiet, but have a lot to them. As this is hard to deal with, or not acceptable in society, many men would have trouble admitting that they like the drama a woman brings to them. They like women who are strong-willed, and women who refuse to be controlled. They like powerful women who have their own minds. These men like women who are deep, meaningful, and complex. They appreciate a woman that they can’t have. They love going after a woman, and when she brings out their deepest feelings. They love her, but they hate her, too. This depends on their Mars sign.
Example: A woman with Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Libra, is a troubled young woman who ends up liking the perfect guy, the nice, cute, chivalrous man, that seems so far from her world. His life seems so perfect and she doesn’t think she stands a chance because he’s so kind, popular, and loving. She may be afraid he would judge her if she were to reveal her troubled life. She prefers to watch him from afar, not trusting that he would ever like a girl like her. A woman with Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Leo might be in love with a famous, popular, rich guy, who seems to contrast her own troubled life. She may wish to be a part of his life, and may want him to notice her, but she doesn’t trust her feelings or his. She may resent or be jealous of any pretty or popular women he associates with.
Scorpio archetypes: the black widow, prostitute, phoenix, thorny red rose, belly dancer, erotic dancer, smoldering ashes, scorpion, seductress, celibate, psychologist, jealous one, fortress, the betrayer/betrayed, vampiress, alchemist, shaman, spy.
PERFECT LOVE STORY: Dramatic
There should be no question why I think Megara is the perfect Venus in Scorpio example. I was caught between her and Esmerelda, but I couldn’t deny her. For starters, she works for Hades, Lord of the Underworld. And what is his Roman name? Pluto, the natural ruler of Scorpio!
Just like most Venus in Scorpios, Megara loves hard. She loved her first boyfriend so much that she sold her soul to Hades to save his life. Of course, sometimes, Scorpios often love harder than their partners. This can leave them bitter toward love and relationships. Megara’s distrust of love is very evident, especially in the song above.
Megara carries the Scorpionic qualities well. She’s sarcastic, but not easily fooled. She’s had quite a dramatic life, so she’s sharp. She’s also the only human who can see what’s going on beneath the everyday human world…
Her sharp mouth (“Is Wonderboy here for real?”) is topped with her feisty personality. As the natural ruler of Mars as well, it’s not shocking that she’s this way.
Working for the Devil, aka Hades, makes Venus very uncomfortable. Her goal is to spread peace and love through good deeds. Well, Scorpio realizes that no one is as perfect as Venus would have you believe. We all do things we’re not proud of.
Scorpio also knows that being a good woman isn’t just superficially doing deeds, but doing deeds because you really care about the person you’re doing it for. Megara shows her deep love for Hercules by sacrificing her own life to save him (Scorpio is the sign most associated with death and rebirth).
There’s something genuine, sincere, honest, and real about Megara, despite all the lies, secrets, and poor deeds. This makes her a very good example of the complicated Venus in Scorpio. Scorpio is a cut-the-crap kind of sign, and they often have enough insight to be honest with others and themselves…if you can get them to tell you their business at all. They would rather be silent than lie.
This sign gives Venus the creeps, and makes her feel dirty. But, hey, we all have skeletons in our closets, right?
Avril Lavigne is the perfect example of Venus in Scorpio. Her Venus is in Scorpio. Avril Lavigne is not a perfect, sweet little doll baby. She’s tomboyish, tough, and straight-forward. Yea, she says and does some pretty suggestive stuff. She’s not out to be “Miss Goody-two Shoes”, which is very evident in the video.
Scorpio is guilty of jealousy, and I think this video says it all. They also don’t mind stealing other people’s boyfriends, especially if they don’t like the girl he’s with. They will do anything it takes to get with they want. And if a girl treats them evil, they believe in revenge.
Simply put, “Hey, hey, you, you, I don’t like your girlfriend/No way, no way, I think you need a new one/hey hey you you, I can be your girlfriend”. Straight-forward and to the point. There’s no sense in beating around the bush, so says the Scorpion.
Of course, Venus is never out to take someone else’s peaceful and beautiful security by nabbing their partner. She wants one for herself! So she’s not really happy about this position.
I hope you enjoyed this article. This was only in scenario form. This is not to say how your own relationships are, but only the relationship stories people with these signs may enjoy or may envision themselves being in. I also focused on the signs that have strong dignities and debilities. The other Venus signs can fall in between any of the above signs, which is why some are peregrine, and are neither good or bad to Venus.
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