Who is SHE and What Does She Expect From YOUR Relationship? By the signs (Feminine Identity)

14 Mar

If you don’t understand much about zodiac signs and you are new to planetary signs, aspects, and houses, read the introduction here.

Venus is the planet of love, beauty, pleasure, justice, sex (aphrodisiacs and arousal), and peace. It is an air planet. It’s associated with the Greek goddess Aphrodite. Venus wants us to live a pleasant life of ease. She represents all we appreciate and adore. The sign she enters shows HOW we express our love, adoration, and appreciation. The house she enters shows WHERE we express this love, adoration, and appreciation. The aspects show us how difficult or easy it is to use her energies in our lives and how much of it we use as a result.

Ever heard of the saying, “Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus”?

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In a woman’s chart, Venus is her ruler, while men are ruled by Mars. This is more socialized than anything. We have all the planets in our charts and are capable of using all of our energies.  But in our society, women tend to connect with Venus more than men do. Thus, the sign Venus is in tends to tell woman a lot about her own status as a “woman” and her identity in relation to her peers. Venus is a social planet, after all. Venus also reveals what women expect from relationships in general and her own sexuality, which is what I will be discussing in this article.

Why are women so associated with Venusian sexuality (and not men)? Mars has often been associated with sex as well. So why are women associated with Venus sexually? It has a lot to do with our society. More than men, women are often faced with situations that repress their sexual urges. Slut-shaming is very common. Women are also faced with other issues. I found a very interesting read on Psychology Today titled 5 Myths About Men’s Sexuality by Deborah Anapol. Even though the article mostly focuses on male sexuality, the author made some interesting points about women that relate to the idea that Venus is a woman’s sexual ruler. She discovered that “women are more socialized to channel their erotic yearnings into romantic fantasy”. Women are controlled and criticized when it comes to sexuality and their interest in a partner, especially one of the opposite sex. Because of “sex-negative conditioning and social judgments,” women are not able to explore their sexual potentials as widely or as easily as men. Until they are freed of these restrictions, subtlety will rule over directness. Love will rule over passion. Foreplay will be preferred over actual sexual intercourse.

The article 10 Things You Need to Know about Female Sexuality by Bella-Ellwood Clayton tells us that “[Women’s] desire to appear desirable exceeds desire itself…[Women] are too busy chasing beautiful to want to kiss beautifully.” Of course, she also recognizes that media and advertising does a lot to make women ashamed of their bodies and their “genitalia”. Therefore, women often focus more on “looking like they are having sex” rather than actually desiring to actually have it. They are so focused on being beautiful themselves that they feel uncomfortable seeing this beauty in their partners. This also relates to Venus having power over a woman’s sexuality rather than the sex planet Mars.

Venus has a real beautiful side to it, but she isn’t flawless. While Venus blesses women with charm, grace, beauty, and love, it curses them with a passive nature, vanity, and social conformity (stifling originality). Of course, there are some women who are exceptions to this rule.

Mars is another planet that rules sex, as I mentioned before, but it’s different for women than for men. Readers may remember my article regarding Women and Mars: What Does SHE see in YOU? By the signs

Venus and Mars are the two relationship planets in our charts. But for most women, Mars is projected onto men. She may often expect a man to live up to standards she herself doesn’t feel “allowed” to release. This will come in the form of the man she’s “attracted to”. From my experience, the stronger her Venus is, the more pressure she feels to conform. Therefore, women with Venus in her rulership signs (Taurus, Libra) or her exalted sign (Pisces) tend to project their Mars energy more in relationships and feel more uncomfortable expressing such “masculine” traits. Women with weaker Venus signs, such as Venus in detriment (Aries, Scorpio) or Venus in fall (Virgo), tend to be more comfortable with revealing sides to them that are deemed more “masculine”, though all women struggle with the need to conform. Aspects from Venus to Mars also make a woman more comfortable with her masculine energy.

Because women so often identify with Venus, any planets in your chart that are in Taurus or Libra will affect your feminine identity. If you have Sun in Taurus, for example, you may identify with the principles associated with the Sun.

So you may be wondering: If Mars rules the kind of man a woman is attracted to, why does Venus rule over what she expects out of love? This is the tricky question. It’s actually quite simple. Though women may be drawn to certain men because of their “masculine” energies, they often have certain codes for how even the “baddest” boy is supposed to treat a “lady”. In other words, even though women are attracted to the “bad, rough, and tough” Marsian energy, they still expect to be treated well by him, according to the “lady” she feels she is (which is ruled by her alter ego, Venus). So though she may naturally be drawn to a man’s approach (Mars sign), she may not feel he treats her well if he doesn’t respect or honor her the way she feels she deserves  (reflected by Venus).

Because women project Mars, often times this can create conflict with her Venus energy, especially if there are harsh aspects. A good example of this complicated love life would be singer-songwriter Taylor Swift’s love life (well, as she describes in her music). Taylor Swift has Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Scorpio. Having Mars in Scorpio, she’s naturally drawn to “Pluto and Mars” in a man, the edgy, bad boy types. It’s pretty evident when we listen to songs like “I Knew You Were Trouble” and “Style”. She describes a guy who “doesn’t care” and “she guessed she liked that”. In style, she describes the man as having a James Dean look in his eyes, long hair, slicked-back, white t-shirt…She seems to be drawn to men who sweep her in passionately, who give her a rush, men who have the ability to manipulate and control her psychologically. She likes this bad boy image.

So why would it hurt her for him to leave? Why would she be arguing with him? After all, you can’t expect a bad boy to be good, right? This is because of what she expects when she gets with him, which has a lot to do with the woman she is. It has something to do with her Venus in Aquarius. Unlike Scorpio, Aquarius is a mental air sign. Aquarius upholds humanitarian values, stays away from the depths and drama of messy emotions, abhors power and control, and tends to be social and friendly. When we hear the song, “You Belong With Me” or songs like “Style”, we see the woman SHE is: quirky, lovable, and a good girl. She likes her “tennis shoes” rather than “high heels”. Instead of being “cheer captain”, she’s on the bleachers. This good-girl-geek seems in total contrast to the bad boys she seems to be drawn to. She likes the bad boys, but expects to be treated like a “good girl” BY this bad boy.

What she may not know is the “bad boy” is her projection. It’s only how she PERCEIVES him. Honestly, we all can only “perceive” how others are. We can never know what’s truly going on inside a person. We aren’t them. And no matter how we see a person, they each have their own natal charts that may reveal things we may not totally expect from a person. She may see him as a “bad boy”, and his chart may reveal he’s nothing but a softy! So in all honesty, inside, SHE’S the one who’s drawn to the dark side! It’s her internal bad girl that is constantly drawn to the bad boy! She’s the one who desires to live life on the edge. But she has projected this energy onto the men in her life. That’s how Venus and Mars work in a woman’s chart.

There are other planets in signs that affect our relationships (as well as houses), but Venus is directly associated with our attraction to others, our love for things, and what we desire. Mars works with Venus, but Venus is especially important when it comes to women understanding their gender identity.

Moon is another planet that reveals a woman’s “feminine identity”. But Venus is the beauty and charm in women, Moon is the wife and mother in women. Venus is the girl, Moon is the woman. Venus is our identity when we’re among our peers and potential lovers. Moon is our mother’s identity or our identity as a “parent” or “wife” or long-term girlfriend. This is how we represent our family and how we see ourselves among our family and close friends. Mother’s influence often follows us wherever we go, so we carry her presence with us in public, too. We just don’t often realize it (or if our relationship with her is shaky, we don’t want to).

In a lesbian’s chart, she tends to balance both her masculine and feminine energies well in a relationship, considering she may not feel the need to be the submissive or assertive one in her relationship. It may vary according to her partner. Still, even lesbian women may feel the pressure to conform like all the other women. She may not project her Mars on a man she’s interested in, but she may end up projecting her Mars on men in general. She may even look for a partner who has more masculine qualities if she really is out of touch with Mars.

In a man’s chart, Venus tends to reflect the qualities he would rather “project” and reveals his idea of the “ideal” woman.

Read What Does HE see in YOU? By the signs

The Moon in a man’s chart also reflects his

Mars in a man’s chart will reflect his social identity and what he expects from a relationship, especially sexually.

Who is HE and What Does He Expect From YOUR Relationship? By the signs

This article can be the most enlightening for men who are looking for a lovely lady or for men who are particularly interested in a woman right now. This article can be very helpful. Many men have a hard time understand the female mind and often may feel confusion when trying to date women. They may notice that though some women claim to be attracted to certain qualities in a man, some women may wish for that man to treat her just the opposite of who he is! Therefore, he may feel women are difficult to please. Well, worry no more! If you look into her natal chart and observe her Venus and Mars signs, aspects, and house placements, you will understand her better.

For ladies, this article can help you understand yourself better in relation to society. This can help you exactly define what you are searching for in relationships. You may relate to the following explanations.

Now that you know a little bit more about Venus and her partner Mars, we can learn how each sign utilizes Venus’s gifts and how women define themselves differently according to her Venus sign!

Venus signs

Venus in Aries

Venus in Taurus

Venus in Gemini

Venus in Cancer

Venus in Leo

Venus in Virgo

Venus in Libra

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in Pisces

Venus in Aries

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Feminine Identity: Venus first enters Mars’s domain, Aries, the sign of her detriment. Aries is a fire sign and cardinal. Venus and Mars are two of the relationship planets, but they are polar opposites. Mars has always been the planet associated with masculinity. Venus is the feminine principle. Mars is the planet of war; Venus is the planet of peace. Mars is active; Venus is passive. While being in the sign of Aries can be a little scary for her, it’s always exciting! Thus, when Venus is in Aries, these women don’t often mind doing things that are considered…well, unladylike! For them, men are not the only ones from Mars!

It’s not that these women can’t be “girly” (with some people’s interpretation of “girly” being someone who likes clothes, make-up, cooking, and romance). It’s just that their way of expressing themselves as a “girl” may come across a little too strong, dramatic, or too loose, which seems to actually be in far contrast to the social standards set for women in our society. One thing is for certain: these women often break social rules without even trying! In this way, they are leaders who are not as “controlled” by society as other women are. Still, they struggle to “fit in” with the world’s idea of feminine or with the world’s idea on how a woman should behave.

You may find some of them to be really tough and independent. They may be competitive, aggressive, and energetic. They may be athletic and maybe a little tomboyish. Some of these women may even seem much tougher and more active than men! Even if they are not athletic, they respect athleticism and strength in others. They may enjoy competitive video games as well. These ladies can easily be one of the guys and may have quite a few male buddies. This could make more insecure men uncomfortable. They are also quite brave and can be dare-devilish. They never want anyone to think of them as weak.

Unlike most women, they don’t feel as strong of a need to conform. This allows them to be original in their thoughts and actions. In this way, they are able to compete “in a man’s world”. On another note, they can be too girly. Mars gives them a passionate and forceful nature. Sometimes, this doesn’t come in the form of being rough, but they may have a passion for fashion, make-up, style, beauty, or anything else girly! Barbie the doll is said to have Venus in Aries and she has come to be an icon of intense girlishness, materialism, vanity, and female sexuality. Of course, for a woman to be too involved in these sorts of things is bad in most societies. It breaks the rule that “girls should be modest”. Somehow, Venus in Aries have learned to separate “feminine” interests from actually being delicate and soft. Venus in Aries women are hardly ever soft or delicate though they may be interested in the same things other women are. Everything Venus in Aries women do is done with flair. They tend to be avante-garde and bold in their tastes and attitude.

No matter if these women are extremely tomboyish or extremely girlish, most Venus in Aries women can’t help but be the “alpha personality” among their female peers. Sometimes these women challenge other women and produce a spirit of rivalry and competition. They could equally challenge women to do better and be better in a broader sense.

They can be daring flirts (i.e. boyfriend thieves), which can irritate some women. Venus in Aries women are generally more confident than most women and jump on opportunities other women lose out on due to being shyer. They are also quite brassy and boastful at times. They must be careful of creating a “civil war” among women. Some of them are mostly independent and have a hard time mingling with other women, feeling they hold them back. These women always have a few male buddies hanging around. Sometimes, they are too active for the kind of activities other women enjoy.

Still, these women are not afraid to make new friends. They usually initiate friendships with people, never afraid to give away their heart. They can be generous and usually jump to their friends’ rescue when needed. Their problem is maintaining their friendships. They tend to be better at making new friends than keeping the ones they already have. They will better stay with friends that keep up with their independent natures. They don’t want to be controlled and have no qualms with letting friends down if they don’t want to do something. If it’s not something they are comfortable with, they will choose being themselves over doing something just to support their friends. For instance, if they dislike wearing dresses, they may not wear one to their friends’ wedding–even if they are one of the bridesmaids! They have a hard time being told what to do and can be headstrong in this way. They won’t even let their friends control them. They would rather not be in a friend’s wedding. Some people may consider them selfish and defiant. They see it as being honest. They really want to be comfortable inside, but it’s difficult because it conflicts with their desire to keep their loved ones. They often get caught between doing something they want to do and pleasing others.

Despite some Venus in Aries women’s issues with other women, there are those Venus in Aries women who unite instead of divide! Venus in Aries women are heroic. They often start trends and pave the road for other women to follow. I wouldn’t be surprised if one of the first women to buy a pair of pants had Venus in Aries! Their archetype is the warrior, so they are the first to fight for the rights of all women. And they just aren’t all talk! They are ruled by the planet of action after all. Women can’t help but admire these ladies! Before any barrier is broken, someone has to break it. Just leave it to them to do it.

Their fellow female peers may find them to be the best cheerleaders. They are good at encouraging their friends and brightening up their friends’ days. Other females think they are fun to be around, though their friends may also think these women can be too much to handle at times. Any partner who ends up with a Venus in Aries may feel taken for a roller coaster ride. Every day may feel dramatic. Partners may feel that these ladies have fully taken charge, and they have no choice but to follow. Partners may willingly follow because Venus in Aries women are easily magnetic and exciting. These wild women will have you living la vida loca.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

The most beautiful things about these women are their bravery, confidence, sex appeal, and originality. Everyone thinks they’re fun and exciting. They redefine beauty on every level. With Aries leading the way, anyone can feel beautiful! They seek to challenge our usual perceptions of beauty and they seek to come out blooming like a rose.

Relationships: Because of their natures, you can only imagine what they expect from relationships. It’s definitely not what we would all consider “traditional”. These passionate women are looking for a relationship to be passionate, exciting, and fun. They demand to be noticed and doted upon. They often don’t have the patience to care if their partners are satisfied or not. But they want a partner who is eager to please! They can be a little selfish and may expect their partners to cooperate with them without any rejection or objection. They often don’t feel it’s their responsibility to cater to someone else’s needs, and in fact, dislike needy partners. No matter what, these women want to maintain their independence and freedom. So, they prefer a partner who is on the same page with them on anything they do. For them, a partner is a side-kick. Despite these selfish tendencies, however, the mission of finding a new partner is thrilling and exciting for them! So during the courting stages, if they’re the one interested, these women tend to be generous, giving their all to get who they want.  They don’t mind being the pursuant one because they are not afraid to make the first move (though this depends on their Mars sign). Still, they love the chase even more and may play hard to get. They can be tough to impress when they are being pursued and it may be better to let them do the pursuing. These women can be super affectionate in the first stages of a relationship, but may cool off later. And if they aren’t with a partner who can spice things up, they will be bored. It’s best for these women to be with a partner that has a lot in common with them because things definitely have to go their way for them to be happy. However, they are impulsive and often don’t take the time to get to know a person before jumping in a relationship. If they like you, you have their full attention. When they don’t, they almost don’t realize you exist.

They are constantly falling in love with Mars, the planet of action, desire, and aggression. There is always something exciting and thrilling about Mars. He’s masculine and challenging. He’s an excellent defender and protector. But woa, can it make for a tense relationship! The fighting and drama hardly ever stop. Things always get a little steamy.

When they like someone, they tend to dress really sexy or flamboyant, with bold colors.  They are not afraid to show off their goodies. Many have athletic bodies, and want to flaunt it! They are power dresses, expressing originality and luxury. After a while, however, they tend to dress more comfortably. For them, they are on-the-go types. They don’t have the patience for the kind of pampering that is usual of most women. They often don’t feel like they should have to dress to impress a partner and they think a partner should love them for who they are. If they do dress up, they normally don’t do this to be attractive to a partner. Most times, they do this to gain the admiration (and envy) of other females. These women pay extra attention to their head. They may be dressed casually for a date sometimes, but you know it’s serious if their hair is nice, they’re wearing make-up, and they have the perfect earrings on to highlight their skin.

The perfect date for them would be something fun or active. A little competition may be fun, like maybe bike racing in a park or playing laser tag. They don’t mind dinner if they are treated like the only person in the room. Whatever they do, it must be fresh and new or at least feel that way. The best compliment would be to acknowledge how fun she is or acknowledge her accomplishments. Don’t talk about your feelings on the date and don’t EVER bring up your ex. Again, she wants this to feel new and fresh. She wants to feel like the first girl in your life.  If you want to get them a gift, find out what they have been desiring for a long time and get it for them. They respond to the color red.

When these women aren’t interested in someone, they are straight-forward and honest, even rude about it. It’s hard to get their attention because they are super independent and always on-the-go. Their love interests have to keep up. It can be hard to catch them or tie them down. Their flirting style is daring and direct. You’ll know when they like you. They will probably just tell the object of their desire how attractive they are right from the beginning! They tend to do the pursuing anyhow. They love nothing more than the rush of a new relationship. That’s when their charms are activated. The excitement shows on their faces and all over their bodies! They may come on a little too strong, but you’ll never be wondering.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

These women feel that all women want to be in charge of their relationships. They may feel it’s normal for a man to do whatever a woman asks of him. They may feel this would make him a gentlemen. They may feel all women agree. They may believe women are strong enough to do things on their own and believe that women should be independent. They believe women should learn to love themselves first, and love a partner only after themselves. They may be surprised to find that this is not the way all women think. On the other hand, it may not be hard for them to understand that not every woman thinks like them as they value themselves as “original”.

Female sexuality: As far as their sexuality, they are always passionate and exciting! They are unrestricted, always feeling young and fresh. They even prefer sex to cuddling and long talks about their “feelings”. Slut-shame them all you want. Condemn them. They are fire-starters in the bed room and in any social scene. They don’t care if others get burned by their open displays of sexiness and they own up to any sexuality they stand for (whether heterosexual, homosexual, or bi-sexual). Because of this, it’s hard for others to warm up to these women. They are just too far ahead of the times. For awhile, most people may try to censor their sense of self-expression. They are just too bold sexually. The way they go about expressing themselves, which often seems a little confrontational with an “I-dare-you” attitude, makes it difficult for them to be well-received by others. They usually challenge social norms. They don’t wait for those people who are more comfortable with tradition to catch up. They are proud of their sexuality. In fact, these women ARE the sexiest women in the Zodiac! They tend to do whatever it takes to beat out the competition, too. They have the potential to explore sexual territory most women feel “dirty” exploring!

Yet, after awhile, things cool down for them. When this occurs, they often give up trying to go the extra mile to please a partner. Their partner would have to keep things exciting and fresh. If not, they often do move on to the next exciting adventure. And trust me, they are not afraid to start over. These women could also take the opposite extreme and be a challenge sexually. They may be hard to impress and difficult to bring to the bedroom. They may also reject someone sexually if they feel it comes with baggage and that their freedom will be taken from them. Sexually, they may prefer to make the first move. Regardless, it’s their choice and they feel they are fully in control. They are still never shy of the subject when presented with it.

The easiest way to arouse these women is to come on to them strong. Passion gets their blood rushing. These women get aroused much faster than other women. They can arouse themselves to action. They like it a little wild and rough. Observe their Mars signs to really understand their sex drive, as they fully explore “Martian” sexuality while still maintaining their femininity. They often like to take the lead. They put in a little more effort than other women. All you have to do is lay down. They can handle it all.

If you’re someone who loves to have fun, someone who finds leadership in a woman sexy, and are a little playful and youthful, this is the woman for you. If you have issues with women taking the lead, if you’re a traditional person, still hung up with your ex, or struggling with emotions, or unsure with your masculinity, look elsewhere. If you have Venus aspecting Mars, you may relate to this description. Venus in 1st house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Aries is ruled by Mars, so your Mars sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Mars sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Aries, Mars in Taurus, you can read Venus in Taurus to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Taurus

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Feminine Identity: Venus enters one of her homes when she comes into the second sign of Taurus, a fixed earth sign. Here, it may not be as exciting as her last domain, but she sure feels safe and comfortable here. Any partner who gets with a Venus in Taurus woman would feel the same. These women may or may not have tomboyish streaks, but they still hold themselves to traditional feminine values. They can be fighters when pushed, but they would rather not reveal this side. They prefer peace to chaos. These women are always moderate in their tendencies. Thus, most women admire them. While they are strong, hard-working, and practical, they don’t always feel like they have to be one of the guys to earn respect. They know how to get attention without stealing someone else’s shine.

They tend to enjoy what is traditionally considered feminine like cooking, dressing up, and socializing, even if what they “cook” is pizza, what they wear are jerseys and jeans, and their social circle is small. They tend to act feminine too, especially if they’re around someone they like. They can be sweet and well-mannered. They are generally down-to-earth, laid-back, and simple. These women love to indulge in simple pleasures such as good food, comfortable but tasteful clothing, and be surrounded by all of their favorite things. They are cozy, comfortable women.

Still, they may care a little too much about their appearance. If they are attractive, they own it and feel it makes them feel valuable. They may come across conceited, but they are just really comfortable in their own skin. If they don’t feel as physically attractive, they may have low self-esteem, be easily jealous of others, and feel insecure in relationships. It’s hard for them to just focus on the beauty within. They feel more pressure in their lives to feel beautiful. They may believe that life is easier for the beautiful people. They also think life is easier for the rich. These women respect others who are rich, popular, have their own personal style, and physically attractive. In this way, these women can be superficial. It’s hard for them to understand femininity outside of the social idea of feminine. Still, they would like femininity to have a broader definition in the world if it will make others more comfortable in their skin. While they do admire someone who lives a life of ease, they admire others who are strong, natural, and enduring despite difficulties. They tend to be fond of natural beauty.

Taurus is a common sense, tried-and-true kind of sign. They tend to be solid citizens in society. If they don’t feel feminine enough, they feel awkward. These women believe that being feminine is something amazing, and they usually have no desire to change that. You won’t see them at the fore-front of any movements on purpose. If they do fight for any rights, it’s not their intention to change people. Mostly, they just want all women to feel good being the woman they are. Most women think they are icons for all women because they are pillars of both strength and grace. Despite how easy-going these women seem, however, they are quite stubborn. It is hard to get them to try new things. They like to do the same things over and over. They are possessive of both their style, values, and identity. Thus, they hate when people dress like them, talk like them, or steal their thunder in any way. This is also why they resist trying new styles and accepting new values.

They generally have casual hobbies and simple tastes. They can be quite predictable. But hey, why change? Regardless, these women stick to the standards women have always upheld for years, and usually this does wonders for their social and romantic life. Around fellow female peers, they are charming. Women love to be around them. It’s hard not to like them or respect them. They are easy to talk to and the calm in a storm. They can be a little expensive to be around though. They like hanging out at the most expensive and luxurious places. Friends may find them to be over-indulgent, ordering up everything on a menu or creating a long shopping list when friends ask what they want for their birthday. Friends may also find them to be possessive and easily jealous.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

They are the definition of beautiful. They are charming, easy-going, and down-to-earth. They have refined tastes and dress with luxury in mind. They are both strong and soft. They are career oriented and domestic. They can be serious and playful. There’s a lot coming from this woman.

Relationships: All of the above is important to consider if you want to date them. These women actually see themselves as “ladies” no matter how they act, and they expect to be treated as valuable as a shiny new car. They expect to be “bought”. This means they believe a partner should be willing to spend time, energy, and/or money for a woman they like. They like to spend a lot of time with someone they love. Though they don’t mind the little things a person does for them, they prefer something tangible. Any love you show must be shown in physical and/or material ways. They expect a relationship to be practical, affectionate, and stable. It’s not easy to get them to go out with you, but when they do, they aren’t out to play games. They put a lot of effort into dating (which they don’t often do for just anybody) and want someone they know is going to stick around. When dating, it takes a while for them to give to their partners. They usually get so comfortable with receiving. But when they do finally decide they like someone, and when they finally commit, they will do anything to please. They love to shower their lovers with physical things. Every bit of love they show is clearly visible. They are extremely affectionate and sensitive to touch. But don’t touch them inappropriately. They prefer hugs and kisses. They are quite cuddly. They love to chill with their partners. They are not afraid to tell their lovers “I Love You”.

These ladies are constantly falling in love with Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and art. Venus is  gorgeous, graceful, and peaceful. She’s soft and sensual to the eye and touch. Of course, this is only on the superficial level. She may be virtuous, but her inner qualities are hardly highlighted. Still, she is picture-perfect. These ladies can hardly resist her beauty, charms, and sense of aesthetic.

Usually, these ladies dress comfortably. They like luxury items, but they prefer something that they are comfortable wearing. They usually have their own unique style and want their partners to appreciate it. They want partners who appreciate the same things in them they appreciate in themselves. They don’t like their sense of style to be criticized. That is something that will hurt them deeply. Being attractive is that important to them. If a potential partner doesn’t like the way they dress, they feel the partner doesn’t like them for who they are. And they will not change their style for anyone. They may refine their look, but never change it. They have a classic and modest look about them. They tend to wear the same kinds of clothes for years, developing a personal and identifiable look. They don’t feel like they have to look up-to-date or overly sexualized in order to be attractive. They tend to be good at creating their own fashions and may show an interest in sewing or style designs. They hope to be sexy to someone without going overboard to prove it. Sexy for them is something that is natural and personal. When they like someone, they dress their best without losing their sense of comfort. They try to wear things that are comfortable, luxurious, and/or beautiful. When going on dates, they put a lot of time and effort into their appearance. Still, they like to be comfortable in their skin.

Their idea of a date is usually traditional: a nice dinner, in a nice, quiet, comfortable place. Make sure the food is good and the seats are comfortable. The scenery must be beautiful. They may also enjoy nature walks and a picnic. They expect their partners to pull out their best manners. No drunken outbursts apply. People with tempers rub them the wrong way. When you’re in her presence, you must act polite. For them, being polite is someone who is not only charming but very careful about their actions and speech. The perfect compliment is to compliment their appearance. But do it in a respectful way. Call them “lovely” or “beautiful” rather than “hot” and “sexy”. Compliment their grace and charms. If you want to give them a gift, make sure it’s something tasteful or pleasing to the eye. It must be both beautiful and useful. The more money you spend on an item, the better. But they would rather something beautiful and useful than something expensive and useless. It must be something they actually like. It’s best to ask them what they want before getting them something. They don’t care for surprises. They respond to warm colors like red and soft colors like pink, mint green, or pale blue. It really depends on the weather and where they live. If they live in colder climates, they are drawn to colors that make them feel warm. If they live in warmer climates, cooler colors appeal to them.

When these women are not interested, they will be honest but remain calm, composed, and polite when they reject someone. The challenge many suitors meet is trying to make them feel secure. These women require physical and material stability. They want their love lives to be stable. Partnering up is not just a fun activity for them. If you want them, you have to provide. When they do like someone, they flirt through physical touch and material things. They often hug and touch anyone they like. They are affectionate. They pay extra attention to their appearance. They are pretty simple and direct when they like someone. There are no guessing games with these ladies. They also like to buy little gifts or cook dinner for someone they like.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

These women may feel that all women want to be pampered and treated like “ladies”. They believe all women deserve respect, and their idea of respect is being doted upon and waited on hand-and-foot. They believe all women want to be whined and dined. They may believe all women want to feel attractive. They feel all women feel insecure when they don’t feel attractive. They believe all women are more affectionate than men and need to be hugged and kissed. For them, this is common sense knowledge for men to consider. However, though most women want respect, they may be surprised to find that not all women have the same ideas about what that respect really means. It’s hard for these stubborn ladies to fathom people thinking outside of the box in this matter. It just complicates things too much for them.

Female Sexuality: While these women don’t mind potential partners admiring their appearance, they do not want to be treated like “sex objects”. No matter how sexy they appear or passionate they seem, they are not overly sexual (no matter what Mars sign they have). They do everything in moderation and that includes sex. As a “lady”, they feel that sex is not something that should be given up easily. For them, it’s a pleasurable activity that should be shared between lovers. They are the women who conform to social standards and live by it. This usually protects them from players. They believe social rules were designed for a reason. And they are about their safety and security first and foremost. They are very good at controlling their sexual urges. In fact, it’s hard to turn them on in the first place. Anyone that wants to do something with them will have to be charming, considerate, attractive, patient, and comfortable to be around because it’s hard for them to feel sexual pleasure otherwise. They have very high standards. Once they do have sex, they like it to be normal (no out-of-the-box routines unless Venus aspects Uranus). They generally tend to like the same positions over and over. If it makes them feel good, why change it? They prefer foreplay to the actual act, but they really just love to feel good. These women really love sex, they just don’t love to do it with just anybody.

Even if they did get turned on easily, had random sex, and tried dirtier positions, they may feel used, washed up, and worthless, especially if they aren’t in a committed relationship. This will make them more insecure and jealous of other women. They will be more possessive of their partners and cause more arguments. They really want to be as valuable to their partners for as long as possible. They want to keep their sexuality as much to their chest before giving up their bodies. This is how much they value themselves. They really want to feel comfortable sexually. An insecure Venus in Taurus will sleep around more, looking for love in all the wrong places and trying to boost their self-esteem.

They may have their reservations about having an open sexuality, but with the right physical touches (literally), they can fully indulge in the pleasure of the moment. This will be most easiest for them in a committed, long-term, solid relationship. Some may even require marriage before having sex. If you want to arouse them, take your time, be soft, physical, and secure. They are extremely seductive. They can make any partner feel at ease. With their soft guidance, love-making feels just right. They like it rather hard, but they like to go slowly and fully experience the moment. They aren’t active participants in the sexual act. They prefer to play the passive or “dominated” role, depending on their Mars sign. They prefer to receive pleasure than give it, but they are capable of giving it as well. They work with care.

If you love a woman who is traditional, can cook, is comfortable to be around, and is uncomplicated, she is the one for you. If you want some excitement, want to experiment, not looking for long-term commitment, if you’re cheap or broke, or looking for passion and depth, look elsewhere. If you have a lot of aspects to Venus, you may relate to this description. If you have Venus in the 2nd house, you may also relate to this description. Venus is in domicile here; this is her home. Any planets or house cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this position.

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Venus in Gemini

Gemini

Feminine Identity: Venus enters Gemini third, the sign ruled by Mercury. Here, it’s not too far away from who she is, but some things are different. I wouldn’t say she feels completely comfortable here, but there are some things that are familiar. Gemini is an air and mutable sign. Thus, these women are adaptable and changeable. They are social and love to have fun. Though many of them tend to see themselves a “girly girls”, you never know what you get with a Gemini! While these girls may love make-up and dresses, they may also be a basketball player who loves to talk about space travel! Venus in Gemini women are usually curious and can get interested in anything. They’ve tried everything. These women mostly love to socialize and talk. They also love admiration and attention. They can be superficial, only paying attention to what’s happening outside and around them rather than tending to anything underneath. Thus, they care more about the way they look than they do about how they feel. Sometimes, they are too concerned with others, which can make them gossipy. It can also make them self-conscious because they can be too concerned with their friends’ opinions of them.

But no matter what, everyone is a friend of the Gemini. They have a new friend for every occasion, though some long for a best friend they can do any crazy thing with. Even with a best friend, they like to be free to make new friends. They don’t form deep connections and often flit from one party, clique, or group to the next. Their social identities often change as a result. They may be Gothic one moment, a hip hop diva, or the peppy cheerleader the next! Venus in Gemini women always have stories about “that time they were…” Gemini has to be careful of being phony and fickle. Venus in Geminis can be independent, but they need people around them to keep their nervousness and boredom at bay. So, they may care about fitting in with the other girls a lot. Their fellow female peers may find them to be fun, charming, and popular. They always seem to wear the latest clothes, seem to have gone to the latest event, and have all the latest technology. They are always up-to-date. They should be careful that they don’t give the impression that they are busy-bodies and wannabes.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

The most beautiful qualities about these women are their stylish clothing, friendly nature, youth (both physical and personality), their flirtatiousness, their liveliness, and, best of all, their brains. They can be beautiful to anyone because they adapt so well to different circumstances. They are not beauty without brains, but they aren’t brains without beauty, either.

Relationships: Now that you know who they are as women, you should keep in mind that this will affect what they expect out of relationships. Really, they are kind of fickle. While they may say they want to let loose and have fun in a relationship, they may also like traditional romance. They really do want the dating experience, especially if their friends have partners. Whatever their partners do for them, they want to be able to tell their friends all about it! It would be best to keep romance interesting and engaging for them. Though they may not care to be treated delicately (and may be down-right juvenile in relationships), they do want a partner that is “socially aware”. So they care that their partner is chivalrous, considerate, attractive, and a pleasant conversationalist. It’s a turn-off when their partner talks about the same things all the time, when a partner is always angry at someone, or when their partner only talks about themselves. They like a partner to make things fun while still treating them like a lady. They don’t like to be embarrassed. Everyone knows them and their social life is very important to them. It’s good to be fun and unique, but in a normal sort of way. Treat them respectfully, but be honest. They really hate liars. Anything you tell them will be repeated, so they don’t like to find out they’ve been spreading a lie. They don’t like partners with bad tempers.

These girls appreciate a lover who is attentive. Pay attention to every little thing they say and do. Exchange with them in a conversation. These women tend to reward lovers with a fun time. They make great lovers, but they are also great friends. These women are quite attentive themselves. They are communicative and flexible, so they tend to know the right thing to do to please a partner.

They are gadget queens, so they love to text their partners. Social Media updates will include information about them and their lovers, so they want a partner who is social and not afraid of some attention. They usually want to share their happiness with the world. Being as social and popular as they are, they tend to have many suitors. Often times, they have a hard time deciding the right one for them. So make sure you bring your “A-game” when you ask them out. Venus in Gemini women must be careful of milking men and stringing them along just to get things for free, like a free meal or movie ticket. If you’re not sincerely interested, decline these offers, no matter how tempting they may be.

These women are always falling in love with Mercury, the planet of communication, intellect, and reason. The idea of hearing and chatting about new information really stimulates them. They are eager to learn new things. Things move fast when in a relationship with Mercury. It can be very logical and hardly physical or emotional.

These women are always stylish. They can be down-right shop-a-holics! When getting ready for a date, they HAVE to wear something new! They want attention, so they make sure they wear something no one else has worn yet or they wear something that will make them stand out. They are natural flirts, so they keep their hair in a style they can flip just right. They are mani and pedi freaks, so their nails and feet are usually always polished. They tend to like loose tops, so they may wear tanks or off-shoulder dresses with some smoking heels. Whatever they wear, they will look fabulous. They like to show off their outfits on social media, so they make sure to buy things people will like. They will even do this for a partner. If they know someone they like prefers a certain appearance, they’re not against dressing in a way that will please the potential partner. They tend to love bright colors, particularly yellow.

Their idea of a perfect date is going somewhere they’ve never been before. Wherever they go, there must be both food and entertainment. This keeps them interested and engaged. It also gives you two something to talk about later. Compliment little things you’ve noticed about them. This means you must pay attention. Let them know how amazing their nail designs are or how nice they look in their heels. They love to flirt, so be a smooth talker. Compliments work wonders with this lady. The perfect gift would be something thoughtful and special, something they can show their friends, something cool and up-to-date. Make sure the date is really great. If it’s not, they will let their friends and everyone else know how boring that date was. That would be embarrassing.

When they aren’t interested, it mostly shows on their faces. They will look bored and suddenly become the “quiet” Gemini. They may also try to avoid you. Some will outright tell someone they’re not interested. Others may just ask to remain friends instead. The biggest challenge for suitors is easing their boredom. They hate falling into routine. When they like someone, they have a sparkling liveliness and they are chatty. They tend to charm the individual with their witty and seductive flirting. They tend to focus on their appearance more. They will often find any reason to strike up a conversation and will cleverly plan to fall in step with the individual at events.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

They tend to think all girls want to experience dating. They may think all girls want someone who is sweet, thoughtful, considerate, and fun. They think girls want to have fun! They may think all girls like shopping, talking, and getting their nails done. They may be surprised to learn that not every girl is like this.

Female Sexuality: Sexually, these women are usually open and curious. Still, it depends on their friendship circle. Sometimes, these women don’t want to be seen as sluts. Their social image means a lot to them. At the same time, they are curious and want their partners to think of them as really sexy. They are also mischievous and tend to tease. They especially like to show off in front of exes or girls that have crushes on their crushes. They can be really competitive in that way. They tend to be experimental and open-minded.

The easiest way to get them aroused is through open communication and seductive flirting. In the bedroom, they are receptive to all styles. But they don’t really have much depth sexually and prefer not to put their emotions in it. They can be chatty and flirty even in the bedroom.

If you love a woman who is fun, someone open-minded, well-dressed, and popular, this is the woman for you. If you like quiet women, someone who is traditional, someone content and practical, look elsewhere. If you have Venus aspecting Mercury, you may relate to this description. Venus in 3rd house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, so your Mercury sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Mercury sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Gemini, Mercury in Cancer, you can read Venus in Cancer to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Cancer

Cancer

Feminine Identity: Venus enters the sign of Cancer, the area belonging to the greater feminine luminary, the Moon. Cancer is a cardinal sign and a water sign. There are some things Venus is comfortable with while being in Cancer, and some things she’s not. Like the Moon, Venus is a planet that represents femininity. But unlike the Moon, Venus is far more social and superficial. She’s more about pleasure, romantic love, and beauty. The Moon focuses on the emotions and commitment, which can be the good, bad, or ugly. Moon reflects overall womanhood and motherhood. Venus would rather think about life in love…rather than the responsibilities of a family and emotional commitments. She’s the young, beautiful, untouched woman. Still, at least here she can find lasting partnerships.

Venus in Cancer women are more than just “girls”. They carry the overall universal principle of womanhood with them, often passed down from their mothers. Their sense of femininity is instinctual and biologically motivated. They tend to be drawn to what has always been associated with womanhood: cooking, cleaning, and caring for the home and family. In this way, their idea of femininity is something that is very natural to their natural-born natures. Many of them love the idea of bearing or raising children. These women tend to look really good pregnant. In fact, they look at their best when they become mothers! It’s often hard for other women to maintain their “beauty” when they have children. These women make it look effortless! Part of the reason is because they don’t see children as a chore. They love caring for others.

Because of their strong association with the home, they have a girl-next-door appeal. They are like buried treasure. They are quite shy and tend to hide their charms and beauty behind a hard outer shell. But to those who look closer, they will see the hidden gem buried underneath. They aren’t flirtatious or flamboyant types, but they will care for you, pamper you, and understand you in ways no other woman would.

Some of them like shopping, getting their nails done, and socializing, but most like to pamper themselves in the comforts of their home and like to chill with close family and friends rather than party all night with random strangers. They are generally good girls. Their mother’s influence is strong in their lives and their relationship with her is usually a pleasant one. They may even resemble their mother. They look beautiful and so do all the women in their families! Even though some Cancer women cater to their appearance, they are never too concerned with their appearance. They are more concerned with developing inner beauty. Moon is the planet that helps us focus on the hidden. They believe beauty is truly skin-deep.

To add to their sweet, affectionate, and kind nature, they are also really down-to-earth, funny, and good with business when you get to know them. These women often spend a lot of time at home, so they end up doing a lot of reading, internet surfing, playing video games, watching movies or tv shows, and/or brushing up on art or home improvement projects. They become quite skilled, cultured, and intelligent as a result. Still, they are romantic and easily swept off their feet. They can be dreamers and can be unrealistic. But they are the best friends anyone can have.

Women tend to find them to be motherly figures. Most women easily relate to them because they never seem to be putting on airs or showing off and they introduce themselves as real girls with real strengths and real weaknesses. They are protective of their friends. Women respect that. They believe in sticking together and uniting with their fellow ladies rather than cat fighting and back-biting (though they have been guilty of these things). Around female peers they don’t know, they can be shy, moody, and defensive. They can be awkward socially. But once you get to know them, they are warm and friendly. Their partners often feel safe and secure with them.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

The most beautiful traits of this lady are her sweet and affectionate nature, her caring and domestic aura, and her romantic and dreamy side. She will really care for you and love you. Her beauty is quiet and modest, but authentic. She makes a good friend, girlfriend, wife, and mother. She was raised to be a beautiful person inside and out. She works hard to make everyone’s dreams come true.

Relationships: Because these girls are sweetie-pies, their relationship expectations are quite romantic. They can fall head over heels over someone and develop deep crushes that almost feel like love. When they are actually in love, they can be moody, especially if that person hasn’t noticed them yet. For this reason, it’s best they have a partner that is willing to commit to a long-term relationship. They are not casual daters. They pour their heart and soul into someone they love. They meditate on someone, observe, and form close attachments to people. They don’t often have elaborate expectations of relationships other than for someone to care about them, to love them, to be affectionate, to remember their birthdays and remember them on holidays. They want someone to care for them when they are hurt or sick. They like that “puppy” love. Love for them is something out of romantic literature or a movie. They want to be treated like they are special and they want a partner who is completely into them. They love to share and exchange their feelings with their partner. This means they need a partner who is in touch with their feelings. They don’t want anyone making them feel shame about their feelings and need someone who understands them. They are usually drawn to partners that have an understanding of women. They may also like partners that make them feel safe, secure, and protected. They can be a big moody mess sometimes, and they need a partner that will reassure them. Partners definitely can’t be afraid of emotions.

These women are constantly falling in love with the Moon, the luminary associated with emotions, instincts, and habits. When with Luna, everything seems to move in a fluctuating motion. Feelings pour over and our human desires take over.  This woman often can’t describe our attraction to the moon. That’s how instinctive it really is. This relationship with her can be full of passion and love or it can be a tumultuous affair. Regardless, she loves it because she is used to it. It makes this woman feel safe to know that no matter what happens, she can always return to the Moon.

These women can be caring and understanding themselves-unless you tell them about themselves or tell them something that hurts them personally.  These women are intuitive. Sometimes, they tend to read into things a little too much, but most times they are right on the mark. They can find a back-handed insult in a minute. And they are sensitive to criticism. But if you want to talk about someone else, they will be understanding and supportive.

They will do anything for someone they love. They aren’t necessarily material girls, but they are all about security and providing for their loved ones. They can be a little clingy. When they fall for someone, they want the love and attention of that partner all the time. It’s not that they can’t be independent, but they just love being around someone that loves them.

Some may have deep insecurities about their appearances or charms, often thinking that they aren’t as attractive as other girls. Many may have stories of being overlooked. This is because they are shyer than most. So, when they get with someone that finds them to be special, they hold on for dear life. Of course, if they sense any indifference in this partner, they can get highly upset.

They do NOT tolerate players. These women don’t even like being “second best” to exes. They don’t want a partner who has had sex with too many women, especially if he wasn’t married to any of them. That would make them insecure. They don’t even want to hear about your sexual adventures. Unfortunately, they can be so swept up in loving someone that they give their lovers the benefit of the doubt and try to assume the best before the worst until it’s too late. And when it’s too “late” (that moment they found out you were running game), look out! Their crabby pincers will come out! Venus in Cancer women can have ferocious tempers because when they feel something, they just let it all out until they are satisfied.

These women don’t care much about appearance as much as inner beauty, as was mentioned before. They also don’t want a partner that is super physical. But when they like someone, they will still dress nicely for a nice date. They are creative with their style, too. However, they are still modest in the way they look. They aren’t flashy girls. They have no desire to get attention from anyone else in the room but the one they like. They still want to be accepted for who they are. Some tend to accentuate their breasts well by wearing dresses or tops with a sweetheart neckline. They never wear anything too revealing or provocative though. Their beauty colors are white and silver, though they also like to wear pink and purple (sweet colors).

Their idea of a perfect date is pretty simple. They just really want to spend some alone time with someone they like. They want little surprises like flowers or a little poem. They do like chivalry. Though they may not say it is mandatory, it is sure to impress them. Opening doors, pulling out chairs, and even feeding them are ways that make them feel special, protected, and safe. When it’s raining, pull out your umbrella or take off your coat and give it to her. If it’s muddy outside, walk on the edge of the sidewalk to protect her from being splashed. These are just suggestions on how to make her feel loved. Still, whether you do these things or don’t do these things, they really just want someone who sincerely cares. These women feel that anyone who cares about them will naturally do sweet things for them, just like that person would for their own mother, sisters, or anyone they care about. They can tell when someone is being sincere and when someone is just being nice with impure intentions. They like sincere compliments. They prefer sweet little compliments to vulgar or embarrassing compliments. Simple phrases like, “You look pretty” or “You smell really nice” go over really well with these ladies. They tend to be shy at first, but once they get comfortable, they can be chatty on dates. They look for someone who is sincerely paying attention to their conversation. If you want to get them a gift, something thoughtful, sweet, and from the heart would work. Show that you really care about them. If you really don’t care about them, it will show. This means you must pay attention to their conversations and remember the things they value, whether it’s a favorite teddy bear or a pair of shoes. Show them how well you’ve been paying attention to them.

When they aren’t interested, they will find it difficult to be direct about it. They are hardly ever that hard-nosed. They may write a note or ask a friend to speak on their behalf. They may try to avoid someone they don’t like rather than hurt their feelings. The challenge for suitors is trying to get these women to trust and open up. When these women finally open up about their feelings, they still feel vulnerable and insecure. They easily get a little jealous or insecure and may constantly break up and get back together with their lovers. When they like someone, they are super shy and awkward around the person, but they will be around the individual often. In fact, they may spend too much time with someone they like. They will be super thoughtful, remembering all the most important things in the other individual’s life. They remember that person’s birthday, their sister’s, and their mother’s! They will try to get close to the family. They may also want to introduce the person to their own family. Their whole family may know of their crushes and love interests! Just ask their parents. They can be obvious to those who pay attention.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

These women believe most stereotypes about women have some truth to it. They believe women are more emotional, more caring, more romantic, and care more about commitment than men do. They believe most women are secondary copies of their mothers. They believe women are more family-oriented and friendship-oriented than men. They do feel that women are more sensitive and need reassurance from their partners. They would be hugely surprised to find that these ideas are not shared by all women.

Female sexuality: Venus in Cancer women will do anything for the ones they love, but they are generally modest. When it comes to sexuality, it’s not unusual to find them waiting until marriage before getting involved with someone sexually. Still, if they feel they have found the one for them, they will easily be swept up sexually. No matter what, though, their sexuality is a private matter. They are not openly sexual or avante-garde in their sexual tastes. This doesn’t mean they’re not sexy. They can dress sexy and be flirty, but this will never be over-the-top. They are generally good girls with good hearts. They don’t play around sexually because their emotions get too tied up with the people that enter their lives. Sex and romance are often linked, so it’s a part of their romantic adventure or romantic fantasies. Romance is a key part of the sexual experience for her. These women only get involved sexually with partners that appeal to their emotions and feelings. If they are the more accepting, romantic, and maybe naive Venus in Cancer women, they may often find themselves with many romantic and sexual partners, thinking each partner is sweet and romantic based on the little things the partner did (sometimes finding out that these partners were not being sincere). If they aren’t the naive Venus in Cancer type, they will be the most challenging women and may be very particular about who they have sex with. The opinions of their family members, especially their mothers, are very important to these women. They often don’t want to do anything their families won’t be proud of.

The easiest way to get these women aroused is to create a romantic scenario, share your loving feelings, and to hug and kiss them. They often get emotional in the act and cling close to their partners. They prefer chest to chest action and like to be the submissive one. They often like to hug and cuddle afterwards. They look amazing in lingerie, especially pastels and silks.

If you love a woman who is sweet, caring, traditional, family-oriented, supportive, and maybe a little sensitive, you will love them. If you are a player, like your freedom and space, not romantic, not family-oriented, don’t want baggage, or not a fan of emotions, they are not the one for you. If you have Venus aspecting Moon, you may relate to this description. Venus in 4th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, so your Moon sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Moon sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Cancer, Moon in Leo, you can read Venus in Leo to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Leo

Leo

Feminine Identity: Venus enters the sign ruled by the Sun, Leo. Here, she meets fixed fire. Sun is naturally falling in one of Venus’s signs, Libra, so there are going to be some things Venus isn’t comfortable with in Leo. Still, there are things that Venus can handle here. For one, Leo is highly romantic. Venus is the planet of love. In Leo, Venus is able to enjoy love to the fullest. Our Venus in Leo ladies are very good at honoring Venus in their own special way.

Venus in Leo ladies want to be the best ladies they can be. They hold themselves (and others) to very high standards. They love glamour and luxury. They tend to be trend-setters when it comes to beauty and fashion. When they step into the room, they make sure all heartbeats stop for a moment. They eat up the fact that there are several potential haters in the room. Some Venus in Leos may think people are simply jealous of them if someone doesn’t acknowledge their greatness! This is because when they do things, they really do it to catch people’s attention. When it comes to fashion and beauty, they can be a little dramatic and flashy. They really like the admiration of their fellow peers. They make sure they are at the center of every gathering, with their best foot forward at all times. They love to plan parties and outings.

Of course, Venus in Leo women have two feminine sides to themselves. On a casual basis, they can be outright tomboyish. Being a fire sign, they are known to be independent in thought and commanding in nature. This is where they disconnect from Venus. Many of these women can be outgoing and on-the-go. They are youthful and love to have fun. They usually strive to have successful lives and be the kind of people they can be proud of. They carry themselves with dignity and have a sense of class about them. They strive to be popular and attractive, but not necessarily loved (though that would be a plus). Everyone may not love them, but they want everyone to respect them.

When around their fellow female peers, there are two types. The first type can be bossy. They tend to be possessive of their group and jealous of anyone who tries to take over-though it’s hard for them to acknowledge these feelings. They seem competitive and self-absorbed at times. They are extremely popular and often have many female admirers as well as rivals and enemies. Sometimes, people really ARE jealous of them because they are so successful and attractive. They can be so attractive, their best friends’ boyfriends often crush on them! Other times, people really dislike them because they seem to think too much of themselves and they seem to care more about their own feelings than the feelings of others.

The other type doesn’t have the bossy or commanding streak. This type often gets attention without trying too hard. They are still successful and attractive, but they aren’t competitive about it. They are sweet and demure, often being bossed around. These types often want to be liked by everyone!

The loyal lion loves hard. They are truly loyal.

Around female peers, they tend to be magnetic, magnanimous, and just a joy to be around. They love to make others laugh and they can really liven a party. Life with them can be full of drama, but always exciting. Friends may find them to be generous, at the same time controlling. It can be hard to live up to their standards and they don’t want their friends embarrassing them. For this reason, they tend to be drawn to people that carry themselves with a sense of authority. Partners find them to be attractive, charming, and generous, but also pushy, bossy, and difficult to reason with.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

Their most beautiful qualities are their warmth, charisma, and strength. They have all of the qualifications of a true leader. They really have some strong attractive powers. They are usually physically attractive as well. These women know how to bring attention to themselves and know how to take control of a room. They are fun, humorous, and smiley. They are generous and kind as well, but they still manage to keep their lives in order. They are superwomen.

Relationships: With such a strong personality, being ruled by the ego-centered Sun, Venus in Leo women have high expectations for relationships and romance. Of all the women in the zodiac, these women really expect to be treated like queens. They would like to be the center of attention in their partners’ eyes. In this sense, they even get jealous when they have to share attention with family members or friends! They don’t mind their lovers having family and friends, but in most cases, they feel their feelings, thoughts, and actions come first. But they may not give their lovers the same courtesy, as they feel their family and friends are equally as important as their partners! Venus in Leo women often believe in loving themselves before loving someone else. I’ve found this to be more true of those that are still single than the ones that are actually in relationships. Those who are in relationships strive hard to please their lovers and gain their lovers’ respect. Regardless, though, all Venus in Leo women refrain from being dependent in relationships. They love relationships for the attention and adoration they can receive from it, but they really don’t need a partner to complete them. Venus in Leo women really are go-getters. These women usually have successful careers and a zest for life. A partner would be an addition to what already is a wonderful life. Venus in Leo women do want to feel special in the eyes of their partners. Sometimes, they just want anyone to see them as special. Even in relationships, they often get flattered when random people compliment them or flirt with them. Often times, they don’t like it when someone flirts with their partners or when their partners are flirting with someone else, but they feel it’s innocent when it’s their turn! Venus in Leo women are quite flirty.

They want to experience romance fully. They want every day to feel like the first day. Their view of relationships can actually be a little imbalanced. They believe it’s the man’s job to take care of his girlfriend, just like he would his wife. But sometimes, Venus in Leo women don’t hold to the wife and mother standard they place on their partners. No matter what though, they always remain giving and loving partners.

These women are constantly falling in love with the Sun, the luminary responsible for the self, main concerns, and vitality. This may seem a little self-centered at times. Really, they just really love themselves first and foremost, then they give a “complete” person over to their lovers. The Sun focuses on them and they bask in the light. It makes them feel alive to be in his presence. She comes first in the Sun’s life and he seeks to adjust his life to fit her needs.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

On a usual basis, they actually dress pretty casual. They are go-getter girls, as mentioned before. But when out with friends or lovers on special dates, they don’t want to be the frumpiest in the room. They will jazz themselves up or focus on their personal style a little more to look more distinct and attractive. On dates with someone they’ve been crushing on, they will really dress the part. They could be pretty casual on a day-to-day basis, but when they go on a date, their partners will NOT be disappointed. They make sure they are looking not only their best, but THE best. They tend to dress for the occasion, so this really depends on the occasion. They have too much pride to embarrass themselves by wearing the wrong attire to a certain event. Still, their style is usually unique and they are proud of the clothes they put together. Don’t you dare tell them they don’t look good. They look best in bold colors. They tend to look and feel amazing in sunset colors like orange, red, and yellow, and they usually top it off with shimmery gold or silver accessories.

Their idea of a perfect date is to have an all-around good time. Dinner, amusements, alone time with a lover, and planned lavishly for the whole day would be the best. They tend to be big kids at heart. They can enjoy a lovely dinner as much as a day at an amusement park. As long as it’s a fun day, full of plenty of romantic attention, they will enjoy it. These women are tons of fun on dates. Of course, they still expect their partner to be well-mannered, chivalrous, and attentive. The perfect gift would be something expensive and glamorous like a diamond ring or necklace. They want quality gifts rather than cheap ones. They respond well to flattery, so any compliment is a good one.

When these women aren’t interested, it’s hard to tell. Some like to be flattered and these types generally like the attention someone gives them. The only thing is they may never actually reach out to a person they aren’t interested in. Other types are more honest, but they try not to be mean. Then again, there are some types that are straight-forward and loud-mouthed when rejecting suitors. How they reject a suitor depends on what their pride will allow and who’s around them at the time (friends, family, etc). It can be difficult for suitors to win them fully. Though they love attention, they are often super involved in developing their own lives. They have strong creative potential and want to express that in the world. They really don’t need a partner to complete them. When they like someone, they will do anything to get the person’s attention. They will be dressed their very best, be at their most flirty, and be super jealous of any girl who comes around the individual. They make themselves obvious. They love the attention.

These women believe most women expect to be treated like queens. They believe that most women want to be adored and cherished. Still, they believe it’s important for women to love themselves and develop themselves. They feel women are capable of doing anything they set their minds to.  They may be surprised to learn that some women don’t agree with these ideas.

Female Sexuality: As sexy as these women may appear, these women place a high value on themselves and hold themselves to a very high standard. While they want potential partners and lovers to see them as the sexiest women in the world, they will not cheapen themselves by having sexual relations with a bunch of random partners. When they have sex, it must be worth it! And best believe they will be getting something out of it. These women have their reputation, their pride, their dignity to uphold, and they will not feel like used, worthless scum. These women easily feel the “shame” from slut-shaming. They build themselves up so much, they hate for anyone to tear them down or make them feel valueless. So, most of the time, these women are not only hard to please, but hard to get into your bedroom. Their partners must be offering something, making them feel like giving up their sexuality is worth the price.

These women are classy. They know how to be sexy without being slutty. If you were to come across a slutty Venus in Leo woman, she may be having sexual relations to build her confidence. The more insecure Venus in Leo women often sleep around with partners to make themselves feel more attractive. Some have many partners to feed an inflated ego. But in the end, they don’t want anyone calling them a slut. They don’t like feeling beneath anyone. In this way, they tend to care too much about others’ opinions.

There are some Venus in Leo women who use their sex appeal to get people to do what they want them to do. This, of course, depends on the Sun sign. Venus in Leo ladies should be careful that they don’t use their amazing power for evil. Leos are charismatic and influential. Don’t let these powerful qualities go to waste by manipulating and controlling others.

The easiest way to get them aroused is to flatter them. Let them take the lead and guide you. They usually want to give their best in the bedroom. They can be spontaneous, but they usually aren’t unusual sex partners. There are just some things they find “beneath” them. However, they love pleasure of all kinds. If it feels amazing, they are down for it. They usually like positions that make them the center of their partner’s attention.

If you love a woman who is fun, attractive, popular, warm, and generous, you will love these women. If you like to be the dominant partner, don’t like drama, passive rather than active, and not extremely romantic, they may not be the one for you. If you have Venus aspecting Sun, you may relate to this description. Venus in 5th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Leo is ruled by the Sun, so your Sun sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Sun sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Leo, Sun in Virgo, you can read Venus in Virgo to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Virgo

virgo

Feminine Identity: Venus enters Mercury’s other sign here, only this time it’s the mutable earthy Virgo. Here, Venus is in a difficult falling position. Mercury and Venus aren’t really opposite planets, but the natural nature of this earth sign makes it difficult for Venus to really blossom the way she would like. This doesn’t mean the women with this position aren’t feminine. Quite the contrary! Some of these women are quite prim, demure, and docile. They have very soft qualities at times. The real issue Venus has in this position has to deal with Virgo’s modesty. Really, Venus and Virgo have some things in common, considering she has triplicity in Virgo. They are both subtle and easy-going (Venus being a planet of pleasure and Virgo being a physical earth sign). They both believe in being fair and have a strong sense of righteousness. But the vanity of Venus is humbled in this sign. Venus is usually a pleasure-seeking, easy-going, mostly lazy goddess. She cares about material comforts as well as her appearance. She is also quite involved with love. Virgo is the sign of hard work. Virgo is practical and rejects idealistic romance. Virgo makes the person less interested in superficial looks and charms and prefers the real girl. This means that the women with this position may look fabulous, but they work hard to get there.

There are some Venus in Virgos who really internalize this. Some Venus in Virgo women end up being critical and particular about themselves. There are some Venus in Virgo women that are so insecure about their bodies, appearance, and charms that they will do whatever it takes to make it perfect. They will often look to other people to boost their self-esteem physically. Some will get plastic surgery, others will eat healthy and work out daily. Whatever the case is, some of them feel compelled to appear just right at times. When they feel like they don’t look just right in the eyes of others or they feel they look offensive, they will try to change it. On the other hand, if others criticize their looks, they may try to get others to change their perspective of beauty to fit their own perspective rather than changing who they are.

Many of these women can do well working with music, fashion, beauty, and self-esteem. They make great fashion and music critics. They do wonderful make-overs because they tend to enhance a person’s natural beauty. They work really hard on their own appearances, developing an understated personal style. They love to be pampered and may love spa dates as it is both relaxing and healthy for their skin.

On the other hand, Venus in Virgo women often reject superficiality, seeing it as holding them back or seeing it as something that divides women. They may want to look attractive but feel tired with having to justify their intense concentration on every detail when it comes to their appearance (since people may find some of them vain when they actually do try to look nice because they put so much effort into it). They want to be respected for doing important things, so they have a hard time being around others who seem to take the “easy route” by using their looks and false charms. Some of it can be stemming from insecurities with trying to fit in with a “superficial world” only to find it is difficult for someone with their modest nature. The real problem is they can be superficial, which is why the opinions, thoughts, and actions of others bother them so much. They must learn to understand the superficial world a little more. It has its uses and its disadvantages.

Venus in Virgo women aren’t the types to get nice things without hard work. Sometimes, they work so hard, they often never get to enjoy what they work for. It’s hard for them to accept gifts as well, especially if they don’t feel they “earned” it. Even though it’s great to work hard, sometimes Venus in Virgo must learn not to make life harder for themselves than it has to be. If you can find an easier way to get the job done or to get what you want, don’t be afraid to try it. Don’t feel guilty about it. Learn to ease up a little. They must learn that we work to live, not live to work. There’s no sense in working hard if you can’t enjoy the fruits of your labor. Don’t think that people will respect you less and don’t think that you have to respect yourself less if you settle with something easier. Venus in Virgo women have a hard time respecting others who take the easy route. They admire strength and modesty in others. They don’t often feel sympathy for those who don’t put forth an effort to reach their goals.

Most of these women are usually strong, intelligent, and hard-working. They tend to be at the fore-front of any women’s rights movements. They often aim to strengthen themselves and other women. They feel stronger in numbers. Some can be really particular and critical when they are comfortable. They are so intelligent, they tend to notice everything. Sometimes, this makes their mind work quicker than those around them and they can’t help but express these ideas.

Still, Venus in Virgo women are always considering how they come across to people. They have self-serving personalities, so they aim to please others. They truly do not want to offend people with poor hygiene, ill manners, and a dramatic personality. They can be clean and/or neat freaks. They want to feel normal and they want others to think of them as normal or “everyday”. If they are famous or popular, this actually gives them a humble quality. If they aren’t so popular or extroverted, this will make them fade into the background even more. They are quite down-to-earth in this way, never trying to get more attention than they deserve. Unfortunately, they do sometimes deserve more attention then they actually receive. These women are helpful, considerate, caring, innocent, funny, and real. They are good friends to have around. They are the kind of friends you can truly depend on. Yet, they are not often appreciated for all that they do. They tend to do things in quiet ways rather than showy.

They don’t like being show-offs so they often get overlooked for those who are. This makes them form a little resentment eventually. It’s not always that they envy the drama queens, but drama queens annoy them because they feel that these girls don’t give the quieter girls a chance to shine and they even feel they give women a bad name. They just don’t think flamboyancy is decent and considerate. They are often quite particular about who they choose for company as a result. They are really loners.

If there are some Venus in Virgo girls who consider themselves “flashy”, it is always tempered with grace and style.

They generally like to keep their lives stress-free (since they are natural worrywarts). They get nervous when strange or unusual personalities attach themselves to them. They may have strange and eccentric hobbies themselves, but they don’t draw a whole lot of attention to themselves or make a big deal about it. They may see themselves as outcasts, but they really wish for their “eccentricities” to be seen as “normal”. They feel too uncomfortable with people that make them feel strange and may try to project their feelings of being odd on the other party to feel more secure. On the other hand, their idea of “strange” can just be someone who they feel is opposite their personality. For instance, if they are girly, they really may feel uncomfortable with someone who doesn’t enjoy dresses and lip gloss the way they do. If they like sports, they may find a girlish girl to be annoying to be around.

These girls can be quirky and they have a dry wit. They are often quite sarcastic and can point out things others miss. These women aren’t loud-mouths or whiners, but they tell it like it is. They will call a roach a roach. They believe in being honest with people. Sometimes, this honesty makes them seem less flattering, but there are many who appreciate this approach to life.

When around their female peers, they are generally quiet, awkward, and shy. They love to tease their friends and can take more sensitive souls off-guard. They can be loads of fun as a wiry mutable sign. Again, they can even be a little eccentric in choosing what to do for fun. Friends may also think they are bossy, critical, and fussy. They hold themselves to strong opinions and if their friends don’t agree, they tend to try to “fix” them. Usually, though, they are right. They are so studious and smart, it’s hard to refuse their advise. Partners may find them to be helpful and down-to-earth. They are quite natural. There is nothing phony about this woman. Partners may not find them to be super glamorous, and may find them to be a little pushy, but they always know that Venus in Virgo has their interests at heart and mostly want to see their loved ones live a happy and healthy lifestyle for as long as possible. Overall, they are simple girls.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

Their most beautiful qualities are their modesty, intelligence, taste in clothes and cosmetics, and willingness to serve. These women work hard and put more emphasis on their service to others than their own worth. They have an understated grace and charm. They are real. Their beauty is hardly ever fake. Many are naturally gorgeous and don’t have to do much but eat right and exercise. They know how to improve on their imperfections to make themselves even more attractive.

Relationships: Being the modest girls they are, they are really simple and realistic when it comes to relationships. They are not interested in “frilly” romance. They not only find it to be unrealistic, they find it to be uncomfortable. Usually, though, these women still enjoy simple luxuries, like being treated to dinner or a movie. They are not largely affectionate, but they appreciate gifts. They enjoy giving and receiving them, if they feel they are deserved. When they think of a relationship, they envision two people working together and helping one another. They want their partners to be dependable and responsible. They like to relax with their partners. Relationships aren’t really a major thing for them. When they really like someone, they are very shy. They often put duty before love. They might love their partners, but they don’t want it to interfere with the important aspects of life, like keeping a decent job instead of running off into the sunset or helping a sick family member even if they have to cancel a date. Even when the situation isn’t important, they are often so shy, they will create something important out of the relationship and focus on it to avoid having to show too much affection. They feel more comfortable just doing nice things for their partners. They even often find it hard to say “I love you” without feeling a little embarrassed. If they say it, they say it simply, in a private setting, without too much drama. They never do anything in a flashy way, not even when it comes to pleasing their partners. They love to tease their partners. Sometimes, it comes across a little critical. They can be fussy. They like things done a certain way and they want partners that are efficient. Because of their natures, finding love feels like a challenge. But it’s not impossible. When they do find the “one”, the person is usually someone they stay with for a long time.

They are constantly falling in love with Mercury, the planet of communication, intellect, and reason. They can’t resist someone so intelligent and interesting. Mercury is never short of information. He is skilled at whatever he does, which is pretty attractive as well as impressive. Every conversation is rational and reasonable. Unfortunately, Mercury is fast-moving. He has no time to develop a deep emotional bond.

They dress quite understated. They may be fashionable or simple and modest, but it will still be understated and tasteful, never extreme. Even when preparing for a date, they make sure they look nice without looking desperate. They don’t generally focus on their clothes. They tend to focus more on their skin and bodies. They like make-up because it hides imperfections, but they don’t like looking too fake. They prefer a natural glow. Their make-up is usually crisp and tidy. Their make-up usually matches their natural beauty well. Their products are usually organic and natural. They think it’s more important to keep the face clean rather than packed with blush, eye-shadow, and lipstick (though some really like those things, too). Their style may not be loud, but it is quite distinct. These ladies really do know how to dress themselves. They always smell good. And they usually have a nice, toned body, so they generally look good in everything. If they don’t, they will make themselves look good in whatever outfit they choose. Again, they are the queens of make-overs because they pay attention to every detail. When they dress for dates, they care that their make-up, hair, and skin are beautiful. They sometimes even enjoy the process of getting everything done. Shampooing and moisturizing their skin can be relaxing for these nervous ladies. They are very good at using the right products and eating the right foods to make themselves look and feel young and healthy. These women usually have toned stomachs, so they look great in cropped tops. They are drawn to earth tone, solid colors and no crazy patterns. They always look sophisticated. They tend to know how to match their outfits up perfectly. They always wear the right top with the right skirt or pants.

Their idea of a date is really simple, like their personality. They love a nice, quiet dinner. They like chilling at home, watching Netflix and eating pizza. They enjoy being cooked for especially. They even enjoy outings where the two of you are just running errands together. But if you invite them over, make sure your house is neat and clean. A junky, filthy place is a deal-breaker. If you’re driving them around, make sure the car is clean and well-cared for as well. The perfect gift would be something that is both beautiful, high quality, and useful. If it’s cold outside, a nice pair of leather gloves would be nice. Expensive perfume would also be perfect. In any case, they really want something that will last. The perfect compliment would only happen if someone notices the little details. Complimenting a certain twinkle in the eye or how a hair strip is set just right are ways a partner can show they are attentive. They also like their efforts acknowledged. They prefer a “thank you” to random compliments.

Venus in Virgo women are honest towards those they aren’t interested in. They may be critical, but they will try to present their disinterest in a constructive and precise way. They will also not accept phone numbers or give out their phone numbers. They may not even give out their names. The challenge many suitors often face with these women is living up to their strict standards. Their standards aren’t high, just particular. If they are interested, these women will be playful and teasing the one they like constantly, but they will do little odd favors, like being around to help someone clean up or helping a family member. They will be super shy around someone they like and you may not be able to really tell that these women like you. But they do tend to pay a little too much attention to someone they like.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

These women believe that all women are particular and have high standards. They feel that women are stronger than society portrays them. They generally have viewpoints about women that often contrast society’s views on women. They are aware that some women will not agree, but they may not realize that their ideas are not truly the “right” way of thinking and are just their own personal thinking.

Female Sexuality: Venus in Virgos have a madonna/whore syndrome really. Overall, they are very hard on themselves when it comes to sexuality. There are those Venus in Virgo women who see sexuality as a practice that should be controlled and monitored. They may even find the act indecent. They may feel that sexuality destroys society and these ladies prefer love to sex. These women may feel guilty when they feel any sexual desire, especially if that desire is toward the opposite sex. This type may be harder on potential lovers.

Then there are those Venus in Virgos who like sexual encounters and see it as healthy, but they may not necessarily flaunt their sexuality all over the place. In the privacy of their homes, they take great care of their partners sexually, trying to perfect their skills. This type is not likely to have many partners, as they care about sexual health, but they may do it frequently with one partner.

Finally, there are the Venus in Virgo women who are open with their sexuality, being the honest and real earth sign that doesn’t hold any punches, and may choose to use their bodies to get attention from the opposite sex. These women become experts at serving men. Some Venus in Virgo women have low self-esteem and may need the attention of others to make them feel beautiful. Venus in Virgos often feel overlooked in life, so some may pay extra attention that they are noticed and desired. These women could end up working in a job that is “sex-related” like prostitution. Some Venus in Virgos will only have sex with you if you pay them or provide another service (being a service-oriented sign and all).

Still, regardless, these women can be independent of sex. They are perfectly fine with being a virgin or celibate for many years. If they feel it is practical to do so, they will cut all ties with a partner, that includes sex.

It’s not easy to arouse these women. If you want to arouse them, the setting must be just right, their partner has to make them feel extremely comfortable, and they must feel safe. Once aroused, they tend to all the details of love-making. They can play any role their partners want them to play. They can be the one serving their partner or being served. It’s nice for them to get what they want. They hardly ever do, so they appreciate when a lover is attentive enough to try and please them.

If you love a woman that is modest, humble, down-to-earth, helpful, and practical, she’s the woman for you. If you need some excitement in your life, need to be in control, don’t like to be fussed or nagged at, and into a passionate romantic life, look somewhere else. If you have Venus aspecting Mercury, you may relate to this description. Venus in 6th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Virgo is ruled by Mercury, so your Mercury sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Mercury sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Virgo, Mercury in Libra, you can read Venus in Libra to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Libra

Libra

Feminine Identity: Venus enters her second home when she comes in contact with Libra, the air and cardinal sign. This means these women have a strong feminine identity, one that most women can’t help but admire and relate to. Libra is the sign of relationships. It’s easy for people to relate to them and therefore easy for them to form relationships with people. They are very charming. This is because they are polite, well-mannered, and considerate.

These ladies can be very feminine, loving all the usual things associated with girlhood like fashion, make-up, and socializing. They love anything that brings pleasure and ease in their lives. From my experience, they especially love shopping. They don’t always necessarily buy clothes, but they love to observe what’s being bought and sold in their local stores. They tend to like cute and cuddly items like stuffed teddy bears, puppy dog socks, and kitty cat purses. They are also really creative. They like to put arts and crafts together. Most importantly, they love any chance to socialize. They are generally the leader in getting their friends together for special outings or they manage all the party affairs. They are generally the person that connects all the people in the room with one another. They are extraordinarily popular, well-dressed, and intelligent. They make great conversationalists. This makes them magnetic. They are usually the diplomat, laughing friends out of their anger with one another. They believe in peace before violence, love before hate.

Though they are generally diplomatic, they can be a little stiff and judgmental. They are quite superficial in their personality, putting on a smile even when they are irritated with someone. Though they treat everyone respectfully and nicely, they tend to have high moral standards and super self-respect. They often strengthen these ideas when others agree with them. They are a mental sign after all, so they have ideas on how they feel life should be run and they care that they have support. If things were left up to them, they would direct people’s lives like they do their parties or gatherings. They believe in holding to social standards of decorum. This doesn’t mean they can’t let go and break the rules every once in a while, but they make sure they help others transition into the changes they make. They expect others to be as courteous about the disruptions they make, but others are not always so careful as they are.

Some Venus in Libras judge people on the clothes they wear. This doesn’t mean they believe everyone should dress as stylish as they do, but they tend to think people shouldn’t show too much skin and should be more modest or they may feel people should practice good hygiene. Some Venus in Libras judge behaviors as well and tend to stay away from people who seem crude, loud, or boisterous. Still, they will never admit this to anyone’s face. Though they like to see both sides of a situation when it comes to others, if they are the ones in an argument, they will debate until they win. They generally don’t like to argue, but they will try to have the last word.

As judgmental as Venus in Libras can be, they are always fair. Most people think they are reasonable. If they can’t tolerate something, more than likely others can’t tolerate those same things. They tend to side with popular ideas, which is why most people always agree with them. It’s difficult to argue with them because they have such a balanced view of the world.

Venus is the planet of refinement; Libra is balanced. These women know how to keep their life balanced. Even though they like girly activities, they make sure to balance their masculine energies with their feminine energies. Some may be both interested in shopping and sports, as well as reading. They never go overboard with anything. Unfortunately, they often seem to lack passion as a result. They generally approach things in a cool and easy-going manner.

Still, they are strong about justice and fairness, as mentioned before. They are strong supporters of feminism. They believe in equal rights. They want to be treated fairly among their friends, lovers, and society as a whole. Of course, their idea of “fairness” may not be the same as everyone else’s. Deep down, Libras can manipulate these ideas about “justice” to suit their own agendas. Libras can turn their charm into manipulation, and they are convincing when it comes to getting people to see only their pure intentions.

Among their fellow female peers, these women are cool, attractive, friendly, and a joy to be around. They are balanced around everyone. They are not too retiring, so they can keep up with lively souls, at the same time they like the easy life. They are not likely to take over, but they know how to be the leader when given the chance. They must learn to stand up for themselves a little more when it comes to their loved ones. They put up with things from their loved ones when they wouldn’t normally take certain things from strangers. Then, there are some women who find them to be too passive when dealing with others or plain out phony. Libras are known to play two against the middle. They don’t do this on purpose. They just don’t want anyone to hate them and try to see everyone’s point of view, even if the two views contrast greatly.

These ladies can be lazy. They have plenty of energy, but they would rather put this energy towards something pleasant. Generally, they hate dirty, difficult work. They would do better in jobs where they can be creative like fashion, art, and music. Otherwise, they would need to be working in a harmonious partnership to enjoy their job more.

Venus in Libras can be superficial in other ways. They tend to be attracted to the pretty, popular, and rich people. Though they like everybody, they take a special liking to these sorts of people as they see a significant social advantage they can gain from hanging with those who have a high social status. They’re not exactly users; they are genuinely drawn to these people and will think of them as best friends-even if these people really don’t treat them right. Sometimes, they care a little too much about their reputation and need to learn to let go of people that they have to put on a fake face for. As Dr. Seuss said, “Be who you are because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

Eventually, Venus in Libras learn to balance their love of others with their love for themselves. They really work hard to love themselves. They do this by highlighting the good in themselves and staying away from negative thoughts. They learn to love their “haters” with the help of their supporters. They often seek to be around people who like them and find them attractive instead of staying around people who make them feel unattractive in some way. Still, they must be careful of relying on others to boost their self-esteem and give them worth. They must learn to find this worth within themselves, regardless of others’ opinions. They also must be careful of comparing themselves to other people. They often forget to be thankful for the situation they are already in when they see someone doing things they wish to do. They must remember that things are never as they seem.

Venus in Libras can be independent, but they prefer company to loneliness. This is part of the reason they put up with people. They are socialites. You’ll never really find them alone unless absolutely necessary. They need the mental stimulation and they feel insecure when left alone.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

These women embody beauty both inside and out. They are charming, sweet, affectionate, well-dressed, easy-going, and super friendly. They have class and always relate to people from many walks of life. They know how to bring attention to themselves without coming across arrogant. They have a humble beauty that is hard to disguise, no matter what they’re wearing. They know how to bring out their most charming qualities in any situation and they understand what truly makes people beautiful. They are good to people and try to keep the peace. They know how to translate their own beauty to the world around them. It’s infectious.

Relationships: Because they feel so lonely so often, Venus in Libra women really feel they need a partner in their lives to complete them, more than any other planet in Libra. They truly believe that life isn’t worth living if you have no one to share it with. And if their friends are dating, they feel lonelier. They can’t stand to see other couples cuddling up when they are alone. Because of this, they may get in a relationship with anyone, even if they aren’t really in love with that person. They may be entirely superficial about their partnerships, only getting with a partner just to be in a partnership or just to keep up with their friends. In this way, they may use a partner for social status. Still, there are those who do want a partner that is at least compatible with them. They view relationships as something that should bring happiness and peace. They are drawn to sweet, peaceful, and thoughtful partners. They like when people get them gifts and shower them with affection. In a relationship, they like the special attention they can get from a partner. They are really into romance. But they believe in being equal partners. They like to give as much as they get. They keep score in their heads. Heck, they may keep a record of it! If their partners give to them, they will give to their partners. And they generally feel that they do all they can to please. These women hate to be lonely so they try to make their partners feel as comfortable as they can. Still, they want to feel comfortable, too. Special holidays are important to them. They expect their partners to remember them on Christmas, Birthdays, and Valentine’s Day. Never forget their anniversary. They like to keep up with their friends’ relationships. If all their friends got something special on Valentine’s Day and they didn’t get anything, they will not be happy. They want partners that care about their reputations to a certain degree. They dislike being embarrassed. They want people to see the good going on in their lives and they hate to air their dirty laundry in public. They hate drama in their relationships. Their problem is they can be flirty and tend to always think the grass is greener on the other side. They can be indecisive when choosing partners as a result. They always think some other person is treating someone better than their partners are. They are the queens of ‘compare and contrast’. This isn’t always bad. Sometimes, they look at other relationships and draw creative inspiration. They may find new ways to show their love for a partner. Still, they may often have a hard time choosing partners. They are often so caught up in the attention and love from all of their suitors, they are not sure which one they like better! But they better make a decision because no one likes to share.

These women are always falling in love with Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and art. They can’t resist Venus’s grace and love of balance and harmony. Everything about Venus seems pleasant and refined. Life with Venus is peaceful and nice all the time. Of course, there’s not much excitement going on. Just a nice easy life, without chaos.

On a usual basis, they dress comfortably and casually. They like to feel comfortable and at ease with themselves. But they do like looking nice sometimes as well. They do everything in moderation. And they love shopping, so they tend to have tons of clothes, shoes, and accessories. For dates, they really make sure they are attractive. They generally don’t like to wear things that are too outrageous, but they make sure every detail is in place. They have a sense of grace about their personal style. Sometimes, they like to match their partners when they go on dates, kind of like prom. They may ask what color their partners are wearing and may find an outfit in the exact same color. They like to look like they are with someone no matter where they go. Most Venus in Libras are natural. They don’t wear a whole lot of make-up. When they do, it’s so subtle, it almost looks like they aren’t wearing any. They mostly like to highlight their natural look. They have so much charm it almost doesn’t matter what they wear! They can wear charm and get away with it. Their personalities make them more attractive than any outfit could. Still, they have a vain side. They still like for people to pay attention to their appearance. They are also trend-setters, wearing all the latest fashions (since they like to shop so much). Some of them are so creative, they are excellent at designing their own fashions. In any case, they have an eye for color. They prefer subtle colors to bold colors. When dressed up, they like for others to pay attention to their back and butt. But they try not to highlight their beauty in an offensive way. They can be indecisive about what to wear, usually having a friend help them decide what’s best.

Their idea of the perfect date is lavish. They want to feel special. They generally like just being with someone, but it’s more impressive when someone adds a sense of luxury to the event. They like to go to the most expensive restaurants. They like to be treated to a lavish breakfast, lunch, or dinner. They like the flowers, candy, and other gifts. They want the night to be something they will never forget. It must be really romantic. They can be idealistic in this way. If it’s not perfect, they will be disappointed. Their idea of the perfect gift is definitely something romantic. They like expensive jewelry, teddy bears with hearts, a dozen roses, sweet cards, or whatever else is sweet and thoughtful. They love compliments. Sweet words work wonders. Still, they don’t like anything too rude. Everything must be said in a sugar-coated way.

These women have a hard time rejecting suitors. When asked out, they try to be considerate. They really don’t know whether they don’t want someone until after that first date, unless that individual has been completely obnoxious. They always give others a chance. If they are dating when asked out by someone else, they try to reject someone as nicely as possible, may try to hook that person up with someone else, or try to avoid them. Some may date two people at once, just to see if they’re missing out on something better in the other. The challenge many suitors face is winning their hearts permanently. It’s hard to get them to focus on one lover because they are always considering whether the grass is greener somewhere else. They expect equality at all times, but this equality depends on their own idea of fairness. Their standards can be high at times because they are easily turned off by crude behavior and ugliness of all kinds. If they like an individual, they will be super flirty and sweet. They may pull out their best manners and charm. They will definitely try to look their best.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

They tend to think all women want to be treated like ladies. They believe that most women care about their appearance, but want to be respected for more than that. They believe most women are softer, more balanced, than men are. They also feel that women are more sensitive to things and more thoughtful. They believe every girl has a feminine side and a masculine side. They would be shocked to find that other women don’t view the world the way they do. In fact, this would make them a little uncomfortable. Still, most women wouldn’t think these ideas are threatening. It would be easy for them to convince other women of their ideas.

Female Sexuality: Venus in Libra see “sex” as a superficial thing. They really like the “look of sex” rather than actually having it. They tend to dress really sexy sometimes (though their idea of sexy is pretty modest) and tend to have a flirty personality. Still, they don’t like being objectified. It may seem a little confusing for some people. How can they both like people paying attention to their appearance and hate being objectified? Does this have to do with their indecision? I think it has more to do with their need for balance and moderation in their lives. They do want to feel sexy to someone, but they don’t want to be treated just as a sex object and not a person who has thoughts, feelings, and the ability to do other things. And really, they aren’t overly sexual. They see sex as a part of love-making rather than focus on the act itself. They often see the actual act as dirty and a little uncomfortable. They don’t really like the wildness and energy that comes with it. They have a hard time focusing on what they desire and have a hard time just releasing their passions. They also focus so much on looking good while doing it, they don’t actually do it. They hate making weird faces during the act as well. These women prefer love to sex. They are really influenced by the need to conform and are far more socialized to translate their erotic yearnings into romantic fantasy. They also care what their friends think of them at the end of the day. I would even say they care how women in the world will view them as they want to be good role models to others. They usually want to wait until marriage to be sexually involved with someone. They believe in doing things “right”. Their elders have a strong influence on them. They keep their legs closed until someone “puts a ring on it”. Or at least they want someone who seems sincerely in love with them before they give up their bodies.

On the other hand, there are the more insecure Venus in Libras that have sex to keep a partner around. If they are in love with someone, they will generally do anything for them. If they feel they are in love, they will be more sexual for that person. Still, they must feel that the person will be loyal to them. They are not the kind of women to like jumping from partner to partner. They are not that loose. Still, they can be a little naive.

In order to arouse these women, their partner must be charming, attractive, smooth, and considerate. A sweet date is likely to arouse them. In the bedroom, they are considerate and soft partners. They like for their partners to pay attention to their bodies. They love all positions, but they aren’t extremely unusual in style.

If you love a woman is charming, graceful, attractive, and modest, you will love these women. If you are crude, rude, not romantic at all, or see women as the inferior gender, look elsewhere. If you have a lot of aspects to Venus, you may relate to this description. Venus in 7th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Venus is rules Libra. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Scorpio

Scorpio

Feminine Identity: Venus enters another uncomfortable position when she enters the sign ruled by Mars and Pluto. That sign is Scorpio. Scorpio is a fixed water sign. In the watery depths of Scorpio, Venus feels like she’s suffocating. Though Scorpio is subtle on the outside, Venus can’t help but feel there is something not-so-subtle going on underneath. Underneath the quiet Scorpio is a whole lot of passion and desire. Venus is not comfortable with such an extreme energy. She does everything in moderation. Scorpio, on the other hand, is an all or nothing sign. And when it comes to their own feminine identity, they are no different. They can be powerfully feminine or reject femininity altogether. If they are women who are powerfully feminine, they are all about female empowerment. These women may feel more content being single than being with a male partner. These women are fiercely independent, but they still enjoy all the things that make up a girl. In fact, they may feel that more people should honor femininity. These women may put a lot of emphasis on their own individual charms and beauty. They may reject the idea of women having to live up to “masculine standards” and may feel that men should do more to be like women.

The Venus in Scorpio women that reject femininity mostly reject the social idea of it. These women tend to feel they have more in common with men than other women because they tend to want to try things society doesn’t often feel is “suitable” for women. They may not feel like they fit in with anyone. These women don’t like to be classified or defined. They often dislike having to live up to standards and may do the opposite just to get on social conformists’ nerves. It really stems from a deep insecurity. They feel so strongly about being liked that they feel strong rejection when they aren’t liked. This makes them resentful, so they tend to take their disappointment out on the social world in general. Because of their experiences, they have the ability to see the beautiful in the ugly and the ugly in the beautiful.

Regardless of their stand on feminine issues, they are real fighters for whatever cause they believe in. And they all value inner beauty over outer beauty (even if they are also beautiful on the outside). They are never what they seem and they believe in the saying “Never judge a book by its cover”. They may seem innocent on the outside with dark hidden secrets. They may seem like a wild child and hold some traditional values. They don’t believe that “looks” can define a person. And Venus in Scorpio likes being this complex. They like being “layered” and having “depth”. These women are anything but shallow. They keep an air of mystery and are fierce about their privacy. Really, they fear being judged and controlled by others’ judgments.

Venus in Scorpio women are always rebels. They may not dress odd or act eccentric all the time, but they always hold contrasting views to everyone else’s. They are true rebels inside, not superficially. Really, they see the world much deeper than others and they value this depth in others.

Around their fellow female peers, they are also all or nothing. Women may be fiercely attracted to them at times, finding them strong and charismatic. Other times, women may find them rude, reckless, and to hold opinions that don’t seem “acceptable”. Sometimes, they seem really shy and quiet. These same qualities can be translated as mysterious and suspicious. They are also always transforming themselves, whether it’s their style or ideas. So for a long period of time, they can be one way, and then suddenly change their whole identity. Still, they always remain the same on the inside. They will always be strong-willed and passionate, no matter where they stand. They seem to be hard to predict among their friends. They can be cutting and sarcastic. Sometimes, they can be devious, playing pranks on friends. Not everyone can handle their intensity. They tend to be very picky about the people they choose as company. They can be ice cold to people they don’t like.

Still, women may be magnetically drawn to them because they will do anything for their friends. They are protective and are not afraid to stand up to bullies.

They attract many enemies as well as friends. Women may find themselves really jealous of them because they are so magnetic. Sometimes, they encourage this competitive attitude in women without realizing it. Venus in Scorpio women tend to go after whatever it is they desire, regardless of the toes they step on along the way. They both hate and love their rivals. While their rivals make life more difficult for them, they feel they push them to be even better as well.

These people like to be in control and to have influence. If they end up around other strong-willed people, there will be a power struggle. They often get possessive and controlling of their loved ones, even if they don’t like being controlled themselves. Well, sometimes. If it’s someone they really like, they can be wrapped around that person’s finger, feeling an intense bond. They tend to have a love-hate relationship with everything because they are so intense. They love so hard they end up controlled, at the same time they hate this feeling because they feel so deeply about things. Their partners find them to be intense but magnetic. They can cause a lot of drama, but they are addicting. They make their partners feel a certain rush, a certain purpose, you just can’t feel with the other women of the Zodiac.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

These women have a way of reversing the “beauty” roles. What most others consider ugly, scary, forbidden, or mysterious, these women can find the beauty within it. These women have a mysterious, magnetic, dark, and powerful beauty. It can attract both lovers and rivals. Their charms are both subtle and loud. They are quiet, but those who notice can’t resist their aura. They truly feel that beauty is skin-deep and only within. They believe that the prettiest faces could hide the ugliest intentions and shouldn’t always be trusted. Thus, they work on being both physically attractive and a person of substance. These women are always respected as a result.

Relationships: That love-hate thing applies to their romantic relationships. They see relationships as nothing but a bunch of drama at times; other times they see relationships as something deep and meaningful. They are looking for meaningful, passionate partners. They want their relationships to have depth. They just don’t want a superficial affair to make themselves look good in front of others or to fit in with friends. They truly want someone that they connect with on a deeper level. They just don’t want to be around someone that has the same hobbies in common, they want someone that understands their deepest fears, their deepest desires, and they want that person to feel the same way they do. For them, it is all or nothing in relationships. Either their partner is completely compatible with them or they don’t belong together at all. This intense view of relationships can be a lot for potential lovers who are not prepared for it. This is why they only want someone who can see below the surface of things. They absolutely HATE partners who were attracted to them only because they were attractive. They want a partner who is attracted to more than their outer looks. And they can tell when someone isn’t being sincere. These women seek to transform in their relationships. They tend to be drawn to dramatic relationships as a result. When these women get into a relationship, they suddenly seem to “change”. Even their family and friends will notice this. This is because they are looking to bring out hidden or concealed tendencies with a close partner. They want a partner that is intelligent, someone that thinks about the world. They tend to be attracted to taboo love affairs. They often get caught up in encounters with people most would think are not good for them. Overall, they do not want love to be shallow. Therefore, they tend to be drawn to people that are both attractive and intimidating. They love when their partners are jealous because it confirms their partner’s strong love and attraction to them.

These ladies are constantly falling in love with both Mars and Pluto, the planet of action, desire, aggression and the planet of transformation, obsession, and power. Basically, the thrill and intensity blows their minds. The passion that they feel in their relationship with these two planets is so intense, it changes them for life. It’s always a relationship full of power struggles, fighting, and drama…yet, they can’t seem to shake themselves out of it. No other relationship can make them forget it. When pulled away from Mars and Pluto, they desire to return. It has control over them in many ways. Mars and Pluto makes them feel dominated, yet they like it because it makes them feel wanted.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

When it comes to dressing themselves, they can be both casual and girly, but they will always have their own unique style. They want their style to mostly reflect their inner nature. They tend to be drawn to dark colors and dark make-up. Ruby reds and jet blacks tend to appeal to them. They like solids more than anything, but they tend to like outrageous patterns sometimes, too. Some reject the superficial and tend to dress more casually and comfortably all the time. Some can be extremely modest, others can be extreme. But they are always all or nothing. And keep in mind, they are constantly transforming themselves, so they constantly change their look every 5 years or so. When dressing for dates, they know how to be both sexy and modest in their appearance. They tend to be fans of mesh or sheer. They like the subtlety of showing a little skin without giving away too much. They always have a magnetism that is hard to resist no matter what they wear. They have seductive eyes and intelligent personalities. Yet, these women always worry about being attractive enough. Because they have such an all or nothing magnetism, some people either like them strongly or really hate them. So, they end up unsure whether they are attractive enough.

Their idea of the perfect date can’t be generalized. It really depends on the woman and her individual interests. They aren’t really romantics. They just like what they like–strongly. If they have a passion for baking, for example, they may consume themselves with it at times. Therefore, the perfect date may be to a baking show or to a restaurant that specializes in deserts. Another good date could be somewhere mysterious, like to a magic show. They may like quiet places like museums or isolated dinners. Generally, the date must pique their interest in some way. This means they are looking for an intriguing partner, someone who goes beyond the normal, traditional standard date. Sometimes, they may be all-or-nothing regarding partners. Either they are drawn to you or they or not. If they aren’t drawn to you, it doesn’t matter what date you take them, they will never be interested in you. But if they are drawn to you, they can go anywhere with you and be happy. That first impression is everything to them. They’ve already investigated everything about a person long before they were asked out. No amount of charm can replace what they have investigated about a person.

The perfect gift for them varies. They really aren’t impressed by material things. Still, if you give them something they really desire, and you constantly shower them with gifts of the things they desire, they will cave. Compliments do nothing to flatter them unless they are really into you. They prefer others to acknowledge their strengths if anything. They mostly want someone who is honest with them. Cut the crap. Whatever their date says must be sincere and not something that person says to any girl who crosses paths with them.

Either they like you or they don’t. If they don’t, they won’t pull any punches. They can be sharp and cutting when rejecting someone. The challenge suitors face is overcoming this woman’s trust issues. They demand commitment. They really don’t trust love. If they like you, they can become a little obsessed. They are quiet and subtle, so you wouldn’t think their feelings are that deep. They may just wear a little smile and show extreme shyness. Yet, the next moment, they will be jealous of any other girl the individual is around! They may spend a lot of time researching the individual, if they don’t already know them well. But no one will know this. They know how to hide their feelings. They often wait until the object of their affections shows interest in them first before revealing their feelings.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

They feel femininity is a deep and personal feeling that can’t be generalized or defined. Therefore, they feel that each woman experiences things differently from one another. They wouldn’t be shocked to find that people disagree with them, as they meet opposition often, but they still may be surprised that some women really think all women are the same.

Female Sexuality: Venus is in the sign of sexuality. Scorpio is well known for being sexy. But their sexuality is not always totally explored or completely open. It isn’t really defined. It’s not that Venus in Scorpio women are unrestricted sexually. On the contrary, in fact. They are ALWAYS in control of their sexuality. Pluto, their ruler, gives them this power. This means that Venus in Scorpio women will either be openly sexual or completely reserved sexually. These women can be so in control of their sexuality that they can go without it for the rest of their life. They see sexuality as a powerful thing. Giving up their sexuality is like giving up their power and control over themselves. This is because they experience everything completely. When they have sex, their emotions pour over, giving themselves completely to a partner. It is a psychological thing. They always try to keep that part of themselves close. So, when it comes to their sexuality, they tend to keep it concealed and hidden until the right partner comes along. With their reputation for being distrustful, this may take a long time. They have no problem with being a virgin or being celibate. In fact, they value being that way.

Of course, there are Venus in Scorpio women who desire to feel power and control over others. In this case, they may be more promiscuous. They may use sex to dominate others and to feel stronger. They may see sex as a tool to get the things they desire. These women may also just want to anger conformists and they may express their sexuality to make a statement. They also are drawn to taboo sexual practices. Think Fifty Shades of Grey.

Scorpios can be contrasting in their effort to prove you can never judge them by the superficial. They may dress really modest, but live an openly sexual life. They may dress provocative and be a straight up virgin, celibate, abstinent, or asexual.

In order to arouse these women, you must consider whether they want you or not. If they want you, it will be easier to arouse them. If they don’t, you’ll never stand a chance. For those she shows an interest in, you must surrender to her or you must convince her to surrender to you. There is always a wall there. If you can break these defenses, they’re all yours. At some point, she must feel in control. After that, you must prove that you can be trusted. They also feel aroused when there is an air of mystery or tension between themselves and their partners. They also desire their partners more when their partners aren’t interested.

In the bedroom, they are passionate lovers. Once they have decided to give themselves up, they give their all and can wear their partners out. Observe their Mars signs and Pluto signs closely to understand what “all” means for them. They like to have a measure of control. They don’t like to feel vulnerable. At the same time, they may also like being completely dominated. They like the struggle. They may like sex to be a little rough and maybe a little taboo. At all times, though, they want to feel something deep and transforming. They are likely to let sex change them and get obsessed with their sex partners. They must be careful to moderate their tendencies. Scorpio is the sign most associated with sex after all. They often get attached to the rush of an affair. It’s easy for them to seduce others, but it’s just as easy for them to be seduced.

If you love a woman that is unpredictable, deep, powerful, strong-willed, and in control, you will love them. If you have to be the dominant partner, looking for sex to be without restriction or weight, not a fan of emotions, and/or dislike drama, these women are not for you. If you have Venus aspecting Mars or Pluto, you may relate to this description. Venus in 8th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Scorpio is ruled by Mars traditionally and Pluto, so your Mars and Pluto signs will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Mars and Pluto signs within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Scorpio, Mars and/or Pluto in Sagittarius, you can read Venus in Sagittarius to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Sagittarius

Sagittarius

Feminine Identity: When Venus enters Sagittarius, the mutable fire sign, she enters a lucky placement. She doesn’t feel entirely comfortable in Sagittarius, but there are a few things she has in common with the sign. For one, Venus is a benefic planet just like Sagittarius’s ruling planet Jupiter. This makes both energies positive and beneficial all the time. Neither can ever bring too much harm. Of course, too much of a good thing can cause some problems. Still, Venus is different from Sagittarius in many ways. Venus likes that Sagittarius provides a life of ease. With all the luck she gets in this placement, why work? But she may not like the exaggerated nature of Sagittarius. It can cause too much drama.

Venus in Sagittarius women love luxury and beauty. They have a zest for life. These women focus on having a positive view of themselves. Self-esteem is their focus. They work really hard to develop confidence in their own bodies and they encourage other women to love themselves. Sometimes, these women seem a little vain as a result. In the process of loving themselves, they often boast or brag about their “progress”. They try not to let anyone tear them down. Exercising humility is usually the last thing on their minds.

Jupiter is the planet of expansion. Sometimes, this means these women indulge in their pleasures more than the average. They tend to gain a little more weight as a result. Many of them actually look good with weight! Still, they must be careful of this tendency as it can cause health issues in the long run. No matter what, though, they never let anyone shame them.

These women tend to have a strong feminine side, loving all the things girls usually like. They can be into fashion and accessories and also love cooking and taking care of the home. Really, they have the confidence to do anything they put their minds to! However, they are always independent and freedom-loving. They don’t like to be compared to other women or grouped together with others as a result. They always find a way to make themselves more individual, whether it’s through a unique personal style or deviating principles.

These women have strong moral and ethical values. But their idea of right and wrong is based on their own experiences. Sometimes, their view of what’s right isn’t popular with other people. Still, they fight for their beliefs and can be preachy when trying to tell others about it. They have very strong opinions about femininity, and they expect other women to follow their example. They are also blunt and straight-forward, not caring whose feelings they hurt.

On the other hand, they do more talking than walking. Being freedom-loving, they don’t often hold themselves to their own principles. They certainly don’t want anyone judging them and placing standards on them. They want the freedom to have many experiences. Still, no matter how they act, their advice is wise and always steers others in the right direction. They are quite intelligent, thinking on a higher plane than most people. They tend to be broad in their views, viewing things in the context of the world rather than just their own community. This is why they value having as many experiences as possible. They want to continue to expand.

These women can be really sporty. They are lively and playful at times as well. Though they sometimes like primping and being pampered, they aren’t afraid to get rough and dirty. They love the outdoors and have an adventurous side to them. They are open-minded and love exploring various cultural backgrounds.

Among their peers, these women tend to be both likable and obnoxious. They are fun, funny, confident, and strong. Most women enjoy their company. They are out-going and hate to be trapped indoors. They really inspire the best in women and most can’t help but admire them. And just like women admire them, they always have one female heroine that they admire as well. They always have a teacher or guide in their lives. They have the courage to do things other women fear which makes them exciting company. At the same time, some women may find their personalities to be a little arrogant, haughty, preachy, and dramatic. These women don’t really care what other people think. They try to give themselves space from friends and peers anyway. Those who like them will; those who don’t won’t. Partners may find them to be lively and fun, but hard to pin down.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

The most beautiful quality about these women is their pure love of life! They embrace life with everything they do. Thus, they radiate positivity and life. These women are lucky. No matter what they wear, how much weight they lose or gain, they will always be attractive. They learned to love themselves early in life and this upbeat outlook inspires others to love themselves, too. It makes them ten times more attractive.

Relationships: They are so freedom-loving, they mostly want a relationship without any strings attached. They prefer to have a relationship where they can grow and learn about life. They want to experience a relationship thoroughly. They really want the dating experience. They put their partners on a pedestal and expect their partners to admire them as well. These women let their beliefs influence their relationships, so they are drawn to partners that share the same beliefs. They want distance and acceptance in their relationships because they like to do what they want to do whenever they want to do it. These women do want to have fun in their relationships. They are likely to run away from a relationship that has too many problems. They want to have many adventures with their lovers. These women value honesty and hate liars. They prefer someone who doesn’t beat around the brush or someone who isn’t afraid to speak their minds.

They are always falling in love with Jupiter, the planet of expansion, optimism, and abundance. He’s a positive influence in this woman’s life. He expands her life and gives her new experiences. Anything she wants, she gets, and as much as she likes! In her life, Jupiter gives her all the benefits and opportunities she’s looking for in life. He pushes her forward and allows her to reach her dreams. With him, she never feels bad.

When dressing, they can be casual and on-the-go types, but they care about their appearance a lot. They are always concerned that they are looking fabulous and attractive. They want people to see them as the best looking woman in the room. When dressing for dates, they tend to be jaw-dropping. Sometimes, they can be a little extravagant or eccentric in their tastes. They love colors and patterns. They tend to be bold and bright. They don’t mind showing off their shapes and body. They are confident in their skin. Even when they aren’t, they learn to love themselves by highlighting what makes them feel beautiful. They love attention from suitors. They may be attracted to exotic attire, wanting to wear a Kimono if they are black or wanting to wear buckskin even though they are white. These women may have been accused of culturally appropriating at some time in their lives. In this case, they should use their desire for knowledge to do more research on the “costumes” they choose to adorn themselves with. They tend to focus on their legs, thighs, and butt. They may like wearing skirts, shorts, or tight-fitting jeans as a result.

Their idea of a date is doing something fun or adventurous. Take them somewhere amazing, almost exclusive. They love V.I.P tickets to special events or reservations to the most expensive restaurants in town. They want to experience something they can tell others about. They like to share their experiences. They want the V.I.P treatment wherever they go. They don’t mind doing an outdoor activity, but it must be wild and fun, like water skiing. The more experiences this woman has had, the harder she will be to impress. Their partners would have to reach for ‘bigger and better’. The perfect gift for them would be something they can easily carry around, something that doesn’t have too much baggage. But they still like items that are expensive and extravagant. Show them how much they mean to you. They like jewelry because they can easily put them on and keep moving. They actually prefer quantity over quality. They like being showered with many gifts even if the gifts themselves mean little to them. The best compliment for them would be to stroke their egos and make them feel amazing. They like compliments. But they prefer people who are honest and straight-forward. So don’t hold back if you think they’re hot or sexy.

These women hardly ever reject suitors. Every chance is a chance for a new experience. But if they really don’t want to date someone, they will be honest about it. They won’t sugar-coat it. The challenge suitors face is trying to catch and tie these women down. They are so tempted to try everything, it’s difficult for them to focus on one partner. If they like someone, they are open, flirty, and spontaneous about jumping into an affair. They tend to go over-board to impress someone. After all, the expansive planet Jupiter is their ruler. Love is more open in this sign, and they show it in grandiose ways.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

These women believe that all women hold themselves to the same moral and ethical values regarding womanhood and relationships. If they don’t, they feel all women should hold themselves to the same values. They can be really preachy about this. They may clash with other women as a result.

Female Sexuality: These women tend to be really comfortable with their sexuality. They believe in being honest and straight-forward. When they desire it, they just go for it! Of course, this depends on their moral and ethical values. As a mutable sign, they tend to have these conflicting views. While they are unrestricted in their idea of exploring sex, if they feel certain sexual actions are wrong, they will not do it. These women focus on strengthening women and this could be sexually as well. They feel that a woman’s sexuality is a powerful thing. Since they are focused on self-esteem and feeling positive, they believe in looking at female sexuality as a positive thing. Of course, these women must be careful of exaggerating their sexuality and boasting that it is more than what it really is.

The easiest way to arouse this women is to tempt them. They must be convinced that they are going to have a fun time. They are also tempted by partners that offer a new bedroom experience. They tend to bring their own experiences to the bedroom. They are fun partners and a little wild. They tend to like outdoor sex or other such adventurous sexual experiences. They tend to over-indulge in sex at times and should learn to moderate their tendencies (considering Venus combines with Jupiter in this position). Too much of a good thing can be bad.

If you want a woman who is fun, lively, adventurous, with high moral and ethical values, she’s the one for you. If you need commitment, want someone more quiet, someone more reserved, and looking for someone submissive, you won’t find it in these women. If you have Venus aspecting Jupiter, you may relate to this description. Venus in 9th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, so your Jupiter sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Jupiter sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Capricorn, you can read Venus in Capricorn to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Capricorn

Capricorn

Feminine Identity: Venus enters the cardinal earthy Capricorn. This sign is ruled by the cold and calculating planet Saturn. There are some things that Venus is comfortable with here, and some things she’s not too keen on. Saturn is exalted in Venus’s own sign, Libra. Therefore, Venus understands Saturn’s need for self-control, modesty, and relationship responsibility. She relates to Capricorn’s reserved nature. But Capricorn can be a little more firm about it.

How these women were raised has a strong influence on the kind of women they are. The lesson in life for most of these women is to learn to love and respect themselves without validation from others.

Venus in Capricorn women are naturally conservative, mature, and sophisticated in their thoughts and ideas. They are cool and try not to make a big deal about too much. They often look really serious and rarely smile. I should say they have that settled sly grin. They are usually very successful and business savvy. They are able to set their feelings aside so that they can accomplish things in the world. This doesn’t mean they are unfeeling, they are just good at channeling their feelings in appropriate ways or saving them for the right time.

As women, they are not afraid of a “man’s world”.

They can be down-to-earth. They are honest and tend to be real about their feelings and thoughts. They can be sarcastic and cutting in their opinions. They don’t have patience for babyish behavior. These women hate arguing, especially over petty things. They especially don’t like cat fights. They really do believe women should learn to respect one another.

They aren’t the kinds of women that expect to be coddled and protected. They are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves.

They may be into feminine activities, but they are never over-done. Though they like pampering themselves and looking pretty, they are generally practical and may not emphasize these things. They have a natural interest in luxury or big-money items. They are generally classy girls. They seem prim and proper. Even if they have a wild streak, there is always a good girl streak within. They were raised to be well-behaved. They were also raised to be responsible and take care of themselves. They are good at taking care of their homes and balancing their careers, though sometimes it leaves them little time for pleasures.

While they may see themselves as mature, others may not see this in them. Some people may think they care too much about their status. Others may see them as attention-whores because they seem to be bent on doing anything for attention and recognition. Respect for their work and gaining recognition are very important to these ladies. No matter how others see them, though, there is always a reason for their behavior. They are capable of being objective and good at seeing things for what they really are. They also know how to sell themselves and tend to be good at the interview process.

Sometimes, though, they feel like the road to success is much harder for them than for other women. They really want to be successful, but it’s hard for them to work their charms the same way other women can, being so honest, reserved, and sarcastic, among other things. But when people finally do respect them, they always respect them for what they do rather than what they look like or rather than for any “charms”.

Among female peers, they seem like loners. They distance themselves from most people. As a result, they are easily misunderstood. They aren’t concerned exactly with other people’s opinions unless absolutely necessary. The opinions must be constructive or useful. However, they like to be at the top of their social game. They dislike feeling like failures and truly want to be admired. They generally tend to be stylish and sophisticated, so women respect and admire them at times. Other times, women find them to be cold, removed from society, sarcastic, and biting. They can be socially competitive and distrustful. Some people may feel Venus in Capricorns are consumed with their careers and reputations. Their friends find them to be cool to hang around but not the easiest to get close to. There is always a wall there. No matter how people see them, they will work hard to earn respect. They have to be careful not to envy other women who have gotten things much easier than they have. Somewhat, they like being around women who aren’t going for the same goals or women who aren’t as successful. They like to be around normal girls who are down-to-earth and easy to talk to. On the other hand, they may only respect women who have made a name for themselves and are successful in their own right. They must be careful of using friends to climb the ladder. Despite this, they are usually actually fun to be around and they have a great sense of humor.

These women carry a certain strength that is hardly found in the world of women. They are capable of conquering the world if they wanted to. These women want to feel worth it in life. They try to develop a substantial life as a result. As strong as they are, they never seem satisfied with where they are. This is why they always remain ambitious and continue challenging themselves. They always create goals for themselves and enjoy accomplishing things. These women will have accomplished a lot in their lifetime. They start moving upward at a very early age. They tend to seem very mature at a young age. As they get older, they seem younger. It’s possibly because they grew up too fast and so it’s hard for others to understand them when they grow up and change. They often already seemed grown-up to most people.

Venus in Capricorns can endure a lot. Because they try not to take things too personal, they don’t let too much shake them. People can talk about them all they want and it will never stop them from doing what they want. Still, they can get pessimistic and get depressed. They don’t mind people’s opinions, but they hate failure. Failure is never an option for them. They are patient about reaching goals and sure-footed. This is because they plan things very well. They are good at planning parties for their friends because they tend to think practically about how this can be accomplished, budget well, and are very good at turning ideas into a reality.

They are strong about boundaries and privacy. They are always aware of the consequences of their actions at all times. This can make them reserved or open. If they are looking for more results, they know just how to get the results they want. If they are trying to avoid the results, they know just how to avoid making mistakes. Everything they do is intentional because they think before they act. Friends may find them to be the “practical one”. Partners find them to be someone they can depend on. They seem truly faithful, though they aren’t too romantic. They respect tradition and tend to be close to people who are older.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

The most attractive qualities about these women are their class, their independence, their strength, and their endurance. These women are fully developed and in order. They are capable of taking care of their own lives. They carry a certain “mystery” about them because they are so independent. This is alluring to people who want a real and competent person in their lives. There is a certain luxury that follows these ladies. They seem to be of high esteem, so most people try to step to them right. If you get with them, you will have some serious social and professional connections. They usually are respected in whatever career field they get into. These ladies are cool and in control. Even in the most stressful situations, they know how to remain calm. At the same time, they are honest and straight-forward. These women are purely valuable.

Relationships: They are such busy, busy women that they hardly have time to develop a decent relationship. To add, they are so well-developed on their own, they can make their partners feel a little useless. Their idea of a relationship is something really realistic and practical. A relationship must add to their life rather than hold them back. They tend to be either drawn to partners that boost their status in some way or drawn to partners that aren’t related to their business and are someone they can relax with when the job gets too stressful. They want mature relationships. They tend to want commitment. They don’t have much time for game-playing. They also need a relationship that moves slowly and patiently. They like to take their time getting to know someone before diving in. Of course, once they do dive in, they need a clear direction. They can be really traditional in their idea of relationships. Marriage is usually in the plans in the near future. Of course, they mostly want a chilled relationship where they can relax. They have too much stress in the outer world to be dealing with it in their relationships. They like to enjoy simple luxuries with a partner. These women are not extremely affectionate or flirty. When they like someone, they spend a lot of time with that person and try to be reliable. That’s how they show they care.

They are always concerned about the consequences of their actions. Past relationships really affect their current relationships because they focus on learning from their mistakes. They also try not to let others’ mistakes become their mistakes. If they have friends or family members who have suffered poor relations with partners, they will be distrustful.

These women are constantly falling in love with Saturn, the planet of restriction, pessimism, and structure. His reserve, cool, and detached demeanor makes her feel secure and safe. The restrictions may feel suffocating, but in the end, there are no consequences. Boundaries are respected in this relationship. With him, love takes patience. It’s easy for her to feel relaxed because Saturn has everything under control. He is responsible and knows his limits. It can be a bit chilly and distant here, but always trustworthy. Saturn follows the “rules” of courtship and takes her seriously.

Some are generally conservative in their appearance. Others just like to wear the latest fashions. When dressing for special events, like dates, they vary. Some may be very modest and practical in their attire, not showing an ounce of flesh, wearing dark colors, with simple accessories. They are the classier types. Others may wear more form-fitting attire, showing off their petite figures. They may like leather. All of them look good in suits. If they are more practical, they may have more sensible accessories. If they are more luxurious, they are hardly ever seen without a name-brand item. Gucci, Prada, Calvin Klein, it will have a famous name to it. They generally like to show off their legs and they wear simple make-up that brings out their pretty smiles.

The perfect date for them is going some place that has a sense of luxury and tradition. They wouldn’t mind going to an old-fashioned restaurant that has a sense of history and style. Of course, they also like modern conveniences. The more socially conscious Venus in Caps may like socially prestigious outings, like tickets to the opera or ballet. Rent up that limo or get your car washed and waxed. They like to ride in style. It’s important for their partners to be excellent drivers. They can be very serious about their relationships and may have a long list of “dos and don’ts” when it comes to dates. The simpler girls wouldn’t mind a nice dinner in a comfortable place. They may feel guilty if too much money is spent, especially if it was out of the budget. They also don’t want to feel like they owe anyone anything. Whatever date you plan, make the plans together with them. They don’t mind surprises, but they really need to know what’s going to happen next and need to be able to fit it in their busy schedules. Save the surprises for the actual date, but don’t pop up out of nowhere to take them out. Though they seem capable of paying any bill, if you ask them out, they expect you to pay. Still, they bring their purses just in case. It’s a deal-breaker if they have to pay a large bill, though, especially if it’s because of your irresponsibility. The perfect gift would be something they like, something that matches their taste, something they will actually use, and something that doesn’t wear and tear too quickly. They like flowers, being an earth sign and all, but they don’t have the time to take care of them. Otherwise, they love sensual gifts that smell good and feel good. They really appreciate items that help them reach their goals. Some of them prefer expensive gifts. Whatever gift you give them must reveal your dedication to them. The perfect compliment would be something sincere, yet nothing too elaborate. Just a simple, “You look nice” or “I admire how hard you work”. Too much flattery makes them question your sincerity.

They are honest about everything. They are comfortable rejecting others. But they are always respectful and mature about it.The challenge many suitors face is living up to her high standards for a relationship. She is reserved, cautious, and doesn’t easily express her feelings. It’s hard to break down her wall. If they like you, they are simple and honest about it. They will more than likely just tell you if they are comfortable enough. They don’t smile much, but when they like someone, those lips will widen into a beautiful smile often.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

 

These women expect all women to be as strong as they are. They believe that all women are capable of taking care of themselves. They don’t have pity on women who act weak (as they think this is just an act for attention). They also don’t believe in the stereotype that all women are emotional. They have strict ideas on women’s behavior in public. They may be surprised to find that some women don’t think the way they do. Of course, they may just see any other ideas as “unrealistic”.

Female Sexuality: There are three types of Venus in Capricorn ladies sexually. There are the more conservative women who believe women should be modest and proper.  Their parents’ influence is strong. They are cautious about their sexual encounters, even when married. These women consider the consequences of everything, including sex and sex appeal. Sometimes, this makes them inexperienced sexually, which also gives them insecurities. They also have a hard time feeling sexy to their partners. They may not admit this, though, as their social reputation is very important. They also want to respect themselves and want others to respect them, too. These women are the types to promote women being more than “sexual”.

The other type of Venus in Capricorn is very experienced sexually and uses sex to gain more prestige or respect. These women seem to care a little less about their reputations, but that’s actually not the case. These women are usually caught between being honest about their sexuality and being respected by others. They may use their material accomplishments to make themselves feel better about their open sexuality, especially if they receive backlash from others. They may also use suitors as a way to boost their self-esteem. They may use their sex appeal to get ahead in their careers or to reach their goals. They may make a career out of sex or their sex appeal. People may think these women lack all self-respect, but it’s actually the opposite. They respect their sexuality so much, they hope to get others to respect their sexuality rather than hide it to gain others’ respect by hiding who they are. These women often encourage other women to love their bodies and own their sexuality. These women hope to gain a sexy reputation.

The last type is open to sexual encounters but only within the context of marriage and commitment. These women may believe in only sex after marriage. Once committed, they may be really open (even taboo) in the bedroom, though they are the types that are private about their sex lives in public. Just like the first types, they care that people respect them in the outside world and care about their public reputations. They are often well-known in their careers or highly respected among their family members, so they feel like people are always watching them. This is mainly the reason why they respond to sex by keeping their sex lives private.

Overall, all of these women associate their sexuality with their reputations. They want people to think they are sexy and pleasing to their partners, at the same time, they don’t want to seem like sluts or desperate women that rely on sex to feed their egos. This is because they really want others to respect them and they want thriving careers. So, yes, they feel the need to conform sexually in some ways (or to at least hide their dirtier streaks). There are a lot of insecurities and guilt-complexes surrounding their sexuality (It doesn’t matter what her Mars sign is). There are plenty of people who make them feel guilty about their sexuality, too.

If you want to arouse them, just be honest and tell them you want to have sex. Communicate with them. They prefer this to you jumping in with physical touch or flirting. Most of them want someone who prepares them for what’s in store. When comfortable, they have a really earthy, simple presence in the bedroom. It’s raw and lusty. They are an earth sign and quite sensual. They like to perfect and improve on their skills. They can actually be open to many different things, no matter how taboo. They like to add to their experience and become “professionals” at whatever they do. Still, they never kiss and tell. What goes on in the bedroom stays there.

If you like a woman that is career-oriented, chilled and unemotional, strong and capable, loyal and committed, you will love these women. If you want to feel needed in your woman’s life, are super affectionate, and/or unconcerned with your reputation, they may not be the one for you. If you have Venus aspecting Saturn, you may relate to this description. Venus in 10th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, so your Saturn sign will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Saturn sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Capricorn, Saturn in Aquarius, you can read Venus in Aquarius to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Aquarius

Aquarius

Female Identity: Venus enters the erratic and changeable Aquarius, ruled by changeable Uranus and limiting Saturn. Aquarius is a fixed air sign. In this sign, there are some things that are similar to her nature. She’s an air planet; Aquarius is an air sign. Venus is about close social encounters; Aquarius is the sign of friendships and associations. Both Venus and Aquarius are about fairness and justice. But they have some differences. Venus is partner-oriented while Aquarius is independent. Venus is all about physical pleasures and gratification. Aquarius can live without the material and physical world. Venus likes when things are a little more predictable and pleasant. Aquarius sweeps in with it’s changes regardless of who’s ready for them.

Venus in Aquarius women are female rebels. They rebel against any strict ideas about femininity. These women are progressive and are all about the latest ideas on “female improvement”. They are always involved in movements, clubs, groups, organizations, or religions. Feminism is one movement they support. They are strict about their freedom and independence. They may be open-minded regarding other things, but this they are firm about. Venus in Aquarius ladies want to be free to change and try new things.

This doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in feminine activities. They tend to like the latest innovations in fashion, make-up, and accessories. They are either really trendy or one step ahead of them! They are very good at starting trends because they know both how to innovative and how to appeal to the general social consciousness. Still, they don’t think their feminine interests should define them. In fact, they don’t tend to put a “gender” label on “hobbies” or “interests”. They can like skirts and dresses and still be interested in sports and technology. They may like to look nice, but they want to be respected for their brains rather than their looks. They need the freedom to be seen in many different ways.

As rebellious as they are, it’s mostly on the superficial level. In the outside world, they are open to trying new things and developing wacky hobbies. They like their dorky sides. They can be erratic and spontaneous among peers and friends. But on the inside, in the world of emotions, they have a conservative view of the world and prefer to keep things light and airy. They are all about emotional boundaries and tend to be strict about this.

These women are super intelligent and great conversationalists. They are always aware of what’s going on in the world. In fact, they have plenty of ideas on how to improve the world around them. Sometimes, they seem a little eccentric and crazy, other times they seem like geniuses. They are public-oriented and career savvy.

These women naturally care about the state of affairs in the world. They are natural humanitarians and altruistic. They’ve probably donated to more charities and other causes than any other women in the zodiac. They notice the little things that others miss. They are very observant and they are ponderers.

As caring as they are, they tend to be disconnected from others on a personal level. They often leave close intimates for outer, public pursuits. This causes a lot of confusion from people who know them well and require closer connections. They seem to care more about the world than their loved ones. Some may get the impression that their “humanitarian causes” are superficial as a result because they don’t really take the time to get to know people personally. They are very general about the people they help. As much as they hate labels, they tend to group people together in cliques or organizations with labels stamped on them. For them, who you hang with is a reflection of you. This is why they are careful about the people they associate with.

As careful as they are with their associations with others, they tend to be around the oddest people or people you would never expect them to be around. They tend to be open-minded when it comes to picking friends. They only require that their friends be just as open-minded. They don’t like to surround themselves around people that judge others (though they may be guilty of doing this from time to time).

Venus in Aquarius women are also careful about their friends because they generally like their freedom and hate emotional drama. They may be friendly and polite with everyone, but they can’t spend too much time with people who are emotionally dramatic. They are cool and aloof themselves. They keep their feelings inside. They aren’t afraid to express their thoughts and opinions, but they know when and how to keep these things to themselves. They know how to give constructive criticism without losing control of themselves and their tempers.

These girls aren’t physical fighters. They believe in civil disobedience. They believe in changing ideas through influence rather than force. They don’t want to be forced to change, so they certainly won’t try to do this to others! Still, they have an authoritative way about them that makes them seem like “know-it-alls”.

These women are generally good girls. They have a certain innocence about them. They are actually a bit shy. They can be really sweet and adorable. They have a certain beauty about them that is hard to describe.

They are a tad bit awkward in social situations. Their fellow female peers love being around them because they are so fun, funny, and awkward! Ladies feel like they can let go and be themselves in their presence. Many women may admire them and find them to be progressive and forward-thinking. Their independence is one of the most admirable traits. They are never too attached to things. They also prove to women that it is possible to pick up and move on from hurts, as they do this so effortlessly. However, some women find them to be self-righteous and flaky. As much as they have ideas they stand for, they don’t like being predictable or defined. While it’s hard to convince them they are wrong, they will change what they stand for just to be unique or different. Their individuality is very important to them. They may claim to associate with certain groups and organizations, but sometimes act contrary to what they stand for just to maintain their freedom from being labeled.

For example, a Venus in Aquarius woman may be a part of the Feminist Movement, but be a stay-at-home mom. When questioned, they will often respond, “Being a stay-at-home mom doesn’t stop me from wanting to be seen as an equal to a man. My job should be respected just like a man’s.” In this case, though they may support movements, they look at these movements as a way to ensure their freedoms, no matter how they choose to exercise those freedoms. They see freedom in the form of “rights” not “requirements”.

If they were to support female suffrage, they would push for women to have the “right” to vote, not the requirement. Therefore, sometimes, they may not choose to vote at all! And for them, that would be exercising their “rights”.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

The most beautiful qualities about this woman is her individuality, her friendliness, her kindness, her intelligence, and her quirkiness. She’s anyone’s friend. She is attractive to people of all backgrounds, creeds, and colors. She’s open-minded and willing to try new things. Her trend-setting ways make her a magnet. People often want to follow along just to see what she will try to pull off next! She’s an oddball but it makes her even cuter. She can get away with things others can’t because she times herself well. After all, she is associated with the sign of genius!

Relationships: Venus in Aquarius women are truly independent creatures with a traditional interest in romance. They love that “puppy love” kind of romance. They are always teenagers at heart. They love long walks on the beach. They like sweet, maybe quirky, little gifts. They actually tend to have an idealistic view of romance. They crush easily. They really do like to receive special attention. They really want to feel special and unique to a partner. They generally tend to like partners that are more like best friends. Friend-zone isn’t quite that bad for them as for other women. Still, they feel they should always have the choice to date someone or not. They don’t quite often think about their partner’s choices or feelings regarding this matter. As much as they love all the ambiance of romance, they would like it to have no strings attached. They still want to maintain their freedom to roam about and be involved in the public world. They don’t want baggage or drama. They don’t want any commitments that prevent them from living a free or independent life. They don’t want to be in a relationship where there are expectations. They want both partners to be equals and to work together on everything. They are generally drawn to partners that are flexible and open-minded. They are progressive, so they need partners that are progressive. They also don’t like feeling “owned” in a relationship. Even with a partner, they still feel entitled to certain rights and freedoms. They don’t like being told what to do or how to think and feel. They really hate being criticized.

These women constantly fall in love with two conflicting energies: Saturn and Uranus. Saturn is the planet of restriction, pessimism, and structure. Uranus is the planet of rebellion, eccentricity, and upheaval. They like an odd mix of both. These women love the respect of boundaries that Saturn offers. There is a cool reserve that keeps their relationship free of emotional baggage. But sometimes, a little rebellion against these rules is nice, too. They eccentric nature of Uranus keeps them free from society’s standards. This lover is never boring. He breaks all the rules. At the same time, Saturn creates some rules that prevent things from getting out of hand. With Uranus around, it can create chaos and instability. Love is full of upheaval with him. With Saturn, love is hardly expressed openly and it takes time. Still, freedom is given.

There are many fashion types coming from this sign. They are unpredictable after all. There are those that have a distinct look. They may be known for wearing jackets all the time or wearing a pink hair bow. They may have an eccentric look, like trying punk or Gothic looks. Their style may be very individual. They may also dress to represent some club or subculture they support. The other type of Venus in Aquarius is always changing their fashion identity. They like trying the latest styles, cosmetics, and accessories before anyone else. Their outfits may seem to come right off the runway! They may even be good at designing their own fashions. The last type may be those that are uninterested in fashion and cosmetics, preferring to express their natural beauty. They may be more conservative and modest, preferring to be known for their brains rather than their bodies. These types reject objectification. When going on a date, expect the unexpected. They may usually look really casual on a day to day basis, and then suddenly look like a bombshell when going on a date. It all depends on the date they go on. If you’re taking them to a ball game, for example, they won’t see the need to wear a dress. They may wear all the sports gear necessary to support their favorite team instead. They are always perfect for the occasion. Still, they always manage to add their own personal touch to everything they wear. They want their partners to think they are both attractive and original.

When it comes to the perfect date…surprise them. They really like to go places at random and spontaneous moments. Kidnapping them from work or school (not literally, but maybe :P) and taking them to the beach or to an amusement park would be the perfect way to woo these ladies. They are okay with the dinner, flowers, and candy, too, but the man that is creative and random will win their heart much faster. They also like to go to new places or events. It’s hard to surprise and impress these ladies. They act like they’ve seen and done everything (some have). The easiest way to get around this is to take them to a newly opened restaurant, a rare event, or some place that is difficult to find. If you aren’t able to take them to any special, new places, it’s up to the partner to make the night full of unexpected surprises! Use your creativity. Even when it comes to gift-giving. Make sure it’s both surprising and romantic. The presentation is probably more important than the actual gift. Placing a diamond necklace in a piece of cake or a surprise visit from a florist with a bouquet of roses from you would be good ideas. They like awkward, cheesy compliments. They like being told they are beautiful and amazing and special. They like when you point out random quirks that you like. They prefer sweet compliments to vulgar compliments. And they like intelligent compliments, too.

If they aren’t interested in a suitor, they will be outspoken but polite. They are generally open-minded, so they may give anyone a chance. But if they’ve observed the individual, and found the person to be obnoxious and mean, they will not hesitate to reject that person. However, it’s not their style to be mean. The challenge potential lovers may face is tying these ladies down and picking the right time to do so. They not only love freedom, they need it. Even if they do like someone, these women are super involved in the world. They have many progressive ideas that they want to implement and don’t really have time for commitment. They are cautious about getting with individuals because they want to be with people who won’t confine them to stereotypical roles. If they like someone, the spontaneous Aquarius suddenly shies away. They have a hard time addressing their feelings. They may spend a lot of time communicating with the individual, trying to drop hints, or slipping in their interests within the conversation. The more outspoken types may find the most random or surprising moments to confess their interest. These girls tend to make friends with those people they are interested in.

What Venus Means in Your Chart

Their beliefs on women are molded by the generation they are raised in. They tend to think that other women are just as progressive as they are. They may feel that all women want the same freedoms and rights. They may not be prepared for women to disagree with them. Still, they believe that eventually, other women will catch up to them in time. They are the outspoken ones that speak out on issues they have. They have to be careful not thinking that their view of the world is for the best of everyone.

Female Sexuality: In idea, Venus in Aquarius women are open to all sorts of sexual experiences and identities. They are open-minded. They have no qualms with trying heterosexuality, homosexuality, or even asexuality. Even if they won’t try it all, they respect others’ stand on sexuality. They aren’t afraid of internet sex or even porn. They may even enjoy erotic literature. But “ideas” and “actions” are two different things. Generally, these women could take or leave sex. They are actually asexual creatures that prefer a good friendship to a romp to romp in the bedroom. They are open to everything when they actually have sex, but they seldom do. If they do have sex, it must have no strings attached. As random as they are in thought, life keeps them conservative in this regard. There are a lot of things about sex that bother them. For one, they hate the emotional attachment some people get after the experience and they are afraid of getting too involved emotionally themselves. They don’t want to feel weighed down with feelings. Second, they hate the idea of getting pregnant when they’re not ready (which is usually never) and they don’t want to feel tied down with a family or extra baggage. Some may believe in sex after marriage, but they also don’t like the idea of marriage too tough unless they are sure the relationship will remain the same it was before marriage (in this way, they hate change just like any other fixed sign). Some may like having a friendship with benefits sort of thing, where both parties agree to stay friends no matter what happens. In this case, they may be very open sexually.

In modern times, Venus in Aquarius women can explore sex without worrying about having children. This is why they love progress! We have more tools to help prevent unwanted pregnancies. Venus in Aquarius women also like homosexuality for this reason as well. They don’t have to worry about pregnancy then. Of course, these women always have to live with the fact that people will not accept their open views on sexuality.

Still, there is always emotional baggage when dealing with sexual encounters. They are particular about their sexual partners as a result. They don’t want anyone possessive or anyone desperate for it all the time. They may like to explore sex in a way that doesn’t involve actual physical penetration. Venus in Aquarius women are not the types to dress overly sexual or exploit their sexuality. They don’t really care for a whole lot of attention in that regard. There are some of them that want to be respected for their brains so much they reject sexual expression. They tend to have a lot of self control regarding this. But they are not afraid to express their sexual ideas or tell others where they stand sexually. Sex is more of a mental thing rather than anything physical. And they really dislike sexual partners that are all about the physical.

These women aren’t easily aroused. Their thoughts must be touched first. They are more aroused by someone with an intelligent mind. Spark up an engaging conversation. Offer to try something new. They will be more aroused by someone who is more like a friend than a lover. They will be aroused in a chilled environment. In the bedroom, they are light, fun, and open to new techniques, but they have a bit of reserve and distance. They aren’t extremely emotional or passionate. Believe it or not, they may have a hard time letting go, being reluctant to tie themselves down to someone else and fearing messy emotions. They may love a good conversation even when making love. They may love to play with “toys”. If you want to get them out of their minds and into their bodies, be creative. Let it happen casually without a big to-do.

If you like women who are independent, good friends, open-minded, both sweet and intellectual, you will love these women. If you get emotionally involved sexually, want a traditional woman, looking for a partner you can spend lots of time with, or looking for stability and consistency, they are not the ones for you. If you have Venus aspecting Saturn or Uranus, you may relate to this description. Venus in 11th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Uranus, so your Saturn and Uranus signs will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Saturn and Uranus sign within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Aquarius, Saturn or Uranus in Pisces, you can read Venus in Pisces to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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Venus in Pisces

Pisces

Female Identity: Venus enters Neptune’s and Jupiter’s sign, her exalted position, Pisces last. Here, she is at her best. She sheds her physical skin for something more spiritual (or rather translucent). Here, love is boundless (they tend to see friendship, family, and romantic love as equal forms of love and they have no qualms with homosexuality and asexuality, seeing both as acceptable as heterosexuality). Beauty is limitless. Friendship is forever. Anything else you can think of that transcends the boundaries of our normal reality relates to Neptune and the sign of Pisces.  Venus can get a lot accomplished in the realm of dreams. Of course, she’s more at home with physical pleasures usually. Here, she’s reaching places she’s never reached before, but not without sacrifice. With Pisces being ruled by Jupiter, the other benefic planet, Venus sees that nothing but good can come from this sign. There is a strong moral and idealistic lean coming from planet Jupiter which makes love seem far more beautiful than it ever does in her own home. Of course, Jupiter is the planet of exaggeration…

The women of this placement usually fit the feminine ideal. The reason for this is not because they care about their reputation or social status. They are actually recluses and prefer to be isolated from others. They are generally really shy. They fit the feminine ideal because they are easily moved and inspired by the women around them. They are always admiring and looking to someone else as a guide rather than seeing their own potentials. These women always have heroines that they look up to. When they want to be like someone else, they will try to embody the qualities they admire so much. Sometimes, they better see their own potentials through other women, almost projecting their own strengths on others. They don’t often have a whole lot of esteem and look for others to empower them and make them feel stronger.

They definitely feel much stronger in numbers, but they are scared of being hated or judged. They are afraid of stronger personalities because they generally like to go with the flow rather than worry about things. They get easily stressed out around “Type A” personalities. Because of this, they tend to be drawn to more easy-going company.

While they get lonely and lost easily and want to connect with someone, they also need quiet time alone and hate drama. Trying to find a balance can be hard for them and confusing for others.

Venus in Pisces women don’t like showing their vulnerabilities, so they may seem a little cold or distant to mask their weaknesses. But they spend a lot of time with themselves because they are so sensitive. They are so in tune with the vibes around them, they often need to take a step back to really understand their own vibes. They can easily understand how people feel and think. They are excellent listeners and they can definitely keep a secret. They really absorb too much around them. This makes them weak physically at times and they tend to tire easily. They often reflect the ideas of someone else rather than their own. They must be careful of repeating other people’s ideas and passing it off as their own.

Some of these women’s favorite hobbies are sleeping and dreaming. They also enjoy reading, watching movies, and surfing the internet. They love to escape from everyday pressures. They have a large imagination. They can also be a little naive. It’s easy to reach their heart with things that sound too good to be true. They are easily drawn into subcultures that provide an alternative lifestyle. Many of them might be interested in Kpop and have a huge obsession with Korea. Some of them might be fascinated with Frozen and anything associated. Venus in Pisces can be impressionable and can find inspiration for their dreams anywhere!

These women make excellent friends when they’re around their friends, but it’s hard to rely on them to do important things. Again, they get stressed out over little things. They might be late for their best friend’s birthday party or they may cancel dates with friends for no apparent reason. This isn’t because they are phony, but they need a lot of time to themselves to build themselves up. Their moods change from day to day. This may surprise people who don’t understand this side to them. They like to relax and take things easy. They don’t want to be around people who don’t understand them.

These women enjoy all the things that make a girl a girl. They usually tend to have strong artistic, creative leans. They see the art in all kinds of fashion, cosmetics, and accessories. Their vibes are tuned into the latest fashions, even if they don’t particularly care to wear them. Venus in Pisces can appreciate the beauty in others without actually seeing that beauty in themselves. Though these women may be girly, they have many different faces. Being the planet of illusion, they can really be any girl they want to be! They tend to change faces according to who they’re around. Again, this isn’t because they are phony all the time. It’s mostly because they want to get along with everyone, and they easily merge with people of various backgrounds. They must be careful not to get with the wrong types of people. They will easily get caught up doing things that prove detrimental.

Venus in Pisces women are often envious of other women who are able to go after what it is they actually want. These tender-hearted, gentler souls have a hard time standing up for themselves and being noticed. They have a hard time making a move. They tend to admire women who can so easily do things they can’t do. What they may not realize is just how many people actually admire them! They don’t generally think too much of themselves and actually consider themselves underdogs. Other people may find them to be sweet, kind, playful, and easy-going. They may not be the most popular women around, but no one ever says they dislike them.

These women may not seem outgoing, but when alone, they can accomplish anything! Without others pressuring them, they are quite independent. They are capable of taking care of themselves when they don’t have to deal with others.

Of course, some of their peers may find them to be deceptive. Some women may recognize their fickleness and wishy-washy nature. They never seem to stick with anything and seem uncomfortable with everything. They may annoy women who wish they would just speak up and do something. They have too much to consider before they act. They have their own methods of doing things and other women may not understand this. They really can’t tell others “no”. They are so deeply in touch with their own inner feelings, they don’t want to do to others they wouldn’t want done to themselves. They hate hurting others’ feelings and creating bad blood between themselves and others. Sometimes, they can be manipulative or play one against another. They may have secret complaints that they tell to one party but may say something different to someone else. They also try to get friends to speak for them rather than saying what they want confidently. Sometimes, they also will deny they dislike someone or avoid people they don’t like rather than tell them they dislike them. They tend to keep their friendship circle tight.

Despite their tendencies, they are genuinely caring and compassionate. They always try to do the right thing by others. If they do something wrong, it’s easy to make them feel guilty about it. They have strong moral and ethical values. They tend to merge their moral principles with others, seeing how all people share a desire to do the right thing.

With the right support and push, they can become excellent leaders because they are good at uniting others under one goal, idea, or principle. They are open to people’s differences, they are good at sharing ideas, and they are creative about putting their ideas out in the public. Best of all, they are generally humble about it. They may need help making things more concrete, but they are good at inspiring others and making them feel more positive about their goals. They encourage people to dream big.

To learn more, The Magnetism, Charm, and Attractive Power of Venus is a good article.

These women transcend the physical realm when it comes to beauty. Their beauty is on a plane us “lower” folks can’t understand or appreciate. They see beauty in terms of the inner workings of the soul, through a beautiful mindset. In other words, they believe many things can be beautiful besides the outer appearance. They truly believe there is beauty in everything in the universe. These women often have many beautiful qualities themselves, whether on the outside or purely on the inside. Their ideologies translate outward towards others. People often have at least one good thing to say about them. They often absorb their environment so well, they can come off different to many people. They are good at projecting an image of beauty towards others through visual art, like through paintings, film, or photography. They best translate their charms through these mediums because they are actually typically shy around others. Not everyone will notice their charms on a more intimate level, but those who get hold of them will realize their luck! No one is as sweet and demure as these ladies. There is a pure quality about them that seems both enchanting and vulnerable. Others just feel a need to jump to their aid and assist them. Their innocent eyes draw others in all the time. There is also a mysterious air about them. They seem both easy and difficult to really tie down.

Relationships: These women love to dream. They are content with their romantic fantasy rather than a real romantic life. Sometimes, they hope their romantic dreams will come true and will go throughout life looking for the perfect partner to fit their love story. These are the types of women that get caught up in literature like Twilight and hope to find that vampire-like man. Or maybe they are interested in Kpop group EXO, dreaming of meeting one of the members and falling in love. Whatever the love scenario, the idea is usually beautiful and idealistic. In their relationship vision, their partners love them always, no matter what. There are no problems, no arguing. They are always attractive and special. Anything they ask for is done without rejection or complaint. They are soul mates. Their partners are never disappointed. Life is always amazing when with their lovers.

Back to reality and we realize that Venus in Pisces seems to always be in their own romantic world. They are always searching for a “Mr. Right”. They are always trying to set love up like a scene in a play. Unfortunately, we can’t pick and choose who we want to love us (or who we love). Sometimes, love comes in unexpected ways. Their problem is not seeing people for who they really are and seeing a perception or vision of them. The reality will reveal real human imperfections. Not everyone will accept everything these women offer. Venus in Pisces women will continuously have to make sacrifices to really achieve their dream. Sometimes, they end up losing those who are really right for them, all while chasing a “dream”. Even when they do reach that dream, sometimes it’s not all it’s cracked up to be, either. There are always pros and cons to everything. No situation is ideal. They have to learn that it takes work for all of us to make relationships work. They view relationships in the context of love. For them, love is forgiving, acceptance, kindness, and sincerity. Love is pure and innocent. They are therefore looking for partners without standards, partners that don’t cause any problems in their lives, partners that make them feel like they are strong, amazing, courageous, or anything they dream of being. It’s not realistic at all. They may feel ashamed because of this so they might keep these dreams stored at the back of their minds. They don’t want to to be judged or criticized. They know they can’t help desiring their dream-like relationship.

At the root of their dreamy natures are deep insecurities. They don’t feel that unique or special. They don’t feel like they are able to conquer the world the way they want to. They are hoping someone will come and “save them” from themselves and help them escape what they feel is a harsh and unsympathetic world. Instead of having to change, they just finally want to be accepted for who they are. They are truly tired of molding to please. But the issue isn’t that no one accepts them, but that they haven’t learned to accept themselves. Until they do that, they will always feel like something is missing in their relationships and they will feel insecure. Until they do that, they will always feel like to have to make sacrifices in order to please others. These women may have a hard time feeling good enough in a real relationship. In their dreams, they can do anything. In real life, everyone has limitations and they have many. They are hard on themselves because they expect too much of themselves. And when they are hard on themselves, it makes it harder on their partners as well. Their partners may not be alone, but they may still end up feeling lonely. These women may often feel this way at times, too.

In an actual relationship, these women are playful and sweet and flirty (in a subtle way), but a little distant. They may like to chill with their partners and do quiet activities. Still, they need some time alone with their thoughts. They have a hard time with commitment and are really freedom-loving at heart. Too much pressure is sure to make them run away. They are too sensitive to be criticized. Whatever you have to say, say it honestly but gently.

These ladies are constantly falling in love with Jupiter and Neptune. Jupiter is the planet of expansion, optimism, and abundance. Neptune is the planet of imagination, dreams, and delusions. These women are in love with the Neptune the most. He’s dreamy! Everything about him seems to have stepped out of her favorite movie, book, and/or music video. He’s everything she imagined a lover would be. He whisks her away from this harsh world. Neptune isn’t always understood by everyone else, but this lady understands him, no matter what anyone thinks. Jupiter makes a great lover as well. His positive spirit keeps her in bliss. There is never anything going wrong in her love affair with Jupiter. He only sees the good in her. He adds so much to her life, expanding her world beyond normal, everyday thinking. He’s her savior. There is much wealth and happiness with Jupiter. They both live happily ever after.

As far as fashion goes, they are actually not superficial women. They tend to dress comfortably majority of the time. But they look amazing in everything! They honestly wouldn’t mind someone picking their clothes out for them. When going on dates, they are usually unsure about what to wear overall. They tend to have a creative and artistic mind, but they have a hard time translating that in their actual wardrobe. Some of them have such abstract visions, they look really eclectic sometimes. Often times, they settle with something feminine and something that may be generally attractive to most people. They especially sacrifice their personal style to be more attractive to someone they really like. Other women influence their viewpoint on clothing, too. If they are currently inspired by women who encourage being modest, they will choose modest looks. If they are currently inspired by a rock star, they may wear punk attire. Whoever inspires their look will have the most influence on their style. Depends on when you catch them. They are generally shy, so they never wear anything too revealing. They tend to be colorful. They have clothes in many colors, patterns, or designs.

Their idea of a perfect date is something that sets them in their favorite scenario. They love just spending time with someone they love. Treat them gently. Care for them. They can go on any date as long as their partners are romantic and sweet. They are not about the money. In fact, they see love as something that goes beyond the material world. Material things do not necessarily impress them. They appreciate anything you give them, but it’s never the fancy gifts you give them or the fancy places you take them. They are just happy to be on their partners’ minds. If they feel that soul connection, like they were meant to be with you, everything will feel right to them. They usually use their vibes to determine whether someone is right for them. They often tend to see things others miss. In this case, they must be careful of seeing things that aren’t there. They may see someone as sweet when they are really evil. They generally want to see the good in everyone, but not everyone deserves their kindness. They must be careful of being used and abused.

As far as compliments, they can take them or leave them. They want to know they are loved more than anything. The most important words for them are “I love you”. They want to feel like their partners have eyes only for them. They want to feel that their partners love being around them. That three letter word is worth more than any compliments. Most compliments just make them shy.

If the person that asked them out seemed really nice and sweet, even if they don’t like them, they will feel bad about rejecting the person. They can easily put themselves in someone else’s shoes. They try to be nice. They may avoid the person or date the person just so they won’t hurt the person’s feelings. If they’ve observed an individual, and found the person to be mean and rude to others, they will definitely reject the person without looking back. They may not be rude, but they will be honest. The challenge many potential lovers face is actually tying them down to a relationship and then trying to live up to their ideal  expectations. They really assume the best in people and see what they want to see in others. It’s hard for individuals to live up to their “perfect visions”. Staying on their good side can seem hard because they are so sensitive to any negativity. While it’s easy to land a date with these ladies, it’s difficult to get theAside from this, they dislike duty and routine, believe it or not. They like to go with the flow and may not be reliable in a stable relationship. They don’t like hurting feelings, so they may not always make a definite choice in love. It’s hard to get them to commit. If they like someone, they are super shy about showing it. They may act more sweet, demure, and nicer than normal. They have a soft flirting style. They may show more of an interest in everything the individual does, asking questions or observing. They tend to dress to impress the object of their affections. They may be a little moody, playing the role of “hopeless romantic”. It’s hard for these shy souls to get their feelings across because they are so often misunderstood.

These women tend to feel that all women are sensitive and more caring than men. They generally do feel that all women have a need to feel understood. But they can understand that not every woman will see things the way they do. In fact, they are capable of adapting new ideas into their own minds.

Female Sexuality: These women aim to please, but they are generally shy of the whole sexual experience. They need a gentle, considerate, and attentive partner until they become more comfortable with their own sexuality. They are more open to alternative sexual practices like phone sex or porn. The actual act is something a little deeper for them. At the end of their fantasies, they are often giving their bodies to their lovers. Many of them fear the experience will not be as they dreamed. They are also afraid for the dream to be over. Sometimes, they feel confusion over their sexuality, not sure what they desire. Many of them enjoy a pure relationship, released from the chains of the physical. If only we could procreate without intercourse! Venus in Pisces women would be all aboard.

Their moral and ethical beliefs influence their sexuality as well. They are usually tuned into current trends regarding female sexuality. They actually like to read books regarding relationships and sex. They often seek advice. Depending on their stand, they may or may not be open to everything. It’s best to discuss this woman’s ideas. Partners may have to help her reveal and overcome her insecurities. No matter how open she is sexually, these women never feel good enough because they are always searching for the ideal sexual situation rather than just letting go and releasing their inner desires. More than likely sex will be pure and looked at in the context of love-making.

Venus in Pisces women can be alluring. They usually give themselves completely to their lovers and let their partners take the lead. Some Venus in Pisces women may act fragile and innocent to entice their lovers. They need to be careful of allowing partners to just do anything to them sexually, even things that are dangerous. When they let down their defenses, they can be extremely vulnerable. These women may secretly like “humiliation” in sex. They may love wearing costumes as a form of foreplay (their ruling planet, Neptune, is associated with illusion). Still, most need to know they are loved. The easiest way to arouse their sexual desire is to keep telling them how much you love them, how much they complete your life, and how much you appreciate all they have done for you. Really boost their esteem as much as you can. Create a romantic scenario.

If you love a woman who is sweet, accepting, forgiving, and dreamy, this is the woman for you. If you’re more physical, realistic, impatient with passive people, and/or looking for someone more open and confident, she may not be the one for you. If you have Venus aspecting Jupiter or Neptune, you may relate to this description. Venus in 12th house natives may relate to it a bit as well. Pisces is ruled by Jupiter traditionally and Neptune, so your Jupiter and Neptune signs will alter your expression. You can read the description of your Jupiter and Neptune signs within this page. For example, if you have Venus in Pisces, Jupiter or Neptune in Aries, you can read Venus in Aries to see if it sounds more familiar to you. Any planets or house placement cusps in Taurus or Libra will be affected by this planet.

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I hope you enjoyed this article. Sorry for the length. :/ But I hope you’re able to understand women and their feminine energy a little more. Leave me a comment and let me know what you think! Share your Venus sign!

Venus the goddess is everywhere there is love, peace after war, beauty and style, comfort and pleasure

Venus the goddess is everywhere there is love, peace after war, beauty and style, comfort and pleasure

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