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What Do Your Zodiac Signs’ Colors Say About YOU?

22 Jun

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Many of you have probably heard of your “astrological” or “zodiac” sign before. You probably know whether you’re an Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, or Pisces, right?

But many of you may not know that the signs we’re most familiar with are our “star” signs or Sun signs and that we have 9 other important “planetary” signs in our astrological natal charts.

For those who don’t know this, this article may be too confusing for you.

To Learn more about this, move on over to this article first: Introduction to the Planets, Signs, and Aspects

For those who are aware, this will be a good, simple read.

We’ve all heard that certain colors are associated with certain Sun signs. Well, those colors are not just for the Sun. We could exude other planetary energies if we wear the colors associated with our other signs. This could bring balance to our wardrobes and allow us to have some variety.

I created this color guide so that everyone can bring out the best of their natal charts and so people won’t feel so consumed by the colors of their Sun signs.

First, let’s start off with the colors associated with the 12 signs:

Aries, vibrant and bold 
Main-Red
Other: violet, blue, black, and white, gold

Taurus, calm and sensual 
Main-pale Pink, Green
Other: pale Yellow, pale blue, pale purple, white, brown, black

Gemini, bright and social
Main-Yellow
Other: bright green, burnt orange, blue, pink

Cancer, caring and dreamy 
Main-Silver, Grey, white
Other: purple, green, blue

Leo, dramatic and dignified
Main-gold, orange
Other: purple, red, copper, baige, rose pink, yellow

Virgo, intelligent and down-to-earth 
Main-brown, green
Other: dark blue, grey, white, rust purple

Libra, classy and easy-going 
Main-Blue
Other: pale green, purple, white, pink, white, pastels

Scorpio, magnetic and powerful
Main-shades of red, black
Other: dark Purple, dark gray, seaweed green, dark blue

Sagittarius, adventurous and wise
Main-Purple,light and dark shades, dark blue
Other: blue, green, dark brown, black, red, yellow

Capricorn, cool and goal-oriented
Main-Black, dark brown, dark gray
Other: indigo, dark purple, navy, dark red, brown, white, dark green

Aquarius, spontaneous and altruistic
Main-Electric blue, turquoise,aquamarine
Other: blue, green, purple, neon pink, red, electric colors, strange colors

Pisces, imaginative and perceptive
Main-Sea green, shades of purple
Other: mauve, silver, white, blue, violet, all decided by their moods

If we combine the colors of the signs with the planetary meanings, we will begin to understand how we can bring out the best in our outfits and ourselves.

Next is how planetary meanings can resonate with the colors in your clothes:

The Sun-Rules the ego and the basic self, the inner identity. Wearing the colors of our Sun sign will feel the most natural. To the world, it will seem to fit with your general identity. Reflecting who you “are”, you are likely to attract the right opportunities to yourself that will make you content, happy, and confident in your skin. People have developed their identities since they were children, so wearing the colors will seem to bring you back to your youth. At the same time, because you are one with yourself, you will have more confidence, which will make you seem like an authority figure to others. These colors would be perfect to wear for any occasion, especially when you need a confidence boost.

Example: When Sun is in its rulership sign of Leo, wearing bright and bold colors like orange or gold will fit well with their natural dramatic identity. They will definitely be able to attract attention and adoration, which makes them happy and confident!

J-Lo looks naturally aglow in orange! It suits her regal personality!

J-Lo looks naturally aglow in orange! It suits her regal personality! It won’t be hard for this Leo to get attention!

The Moon-Rules the home, moods, feelings. When we wear the colors of our Moon sign, we may be conveying several energies depending on our feelings and mood. The moon is the innermost part of us. It’s very personal. If we wear the colors of our moon, it’s almost like a mood ring reflecting our general moods and feelings. At the same time, these colors could attract circumstances that could improve our overall mood and feelings. We may also feel more connected with our family, culture, and home environment when we wear these colors. The colors could go well with our home décor to improve the overall mood of our homes. These colors would be perfect to wear when feeling down or feeling inspired.

Example: When the Moon is in Scorpio, its falling sign, the people influenced tend to have brooding or deep feelings all the time. Their feelings are extreme and overwhelming at times. Dark colors reflect this brooding mood and depth of mind. But it can also be healing and powerful for them to wear such dark colors. These colors may remind them of darker memories, but these private individuals may still find comfort in black or dark red for home décor and fashion styles. It keeps the busy-bodies away.

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Beyonce expresses her inner fierceness in this dark red leather coat! Moon in Scorpio at its finest!

Mercury-Rules communication and the conscious mind (thoughts). When we wear the colors of Mercury, we’re revealing the natures of our thoughts and helping ourselves communicate better. Any creative ideas will be expressed easier through the colors that resonate well with our thinking patterns. We would also attract the right circumstances and people for easier communication and mental stimulation. These colors would be perfect to wear when giving a speech, going to work or school, going to a party, or roaming about the neighborhood.

Example:  When Mercury is in Libra, light pastel colors reflect their cool and diplomatic thoughts on matters. They can better present diplomatic ideas when wearing colors that are soft on the eyes. Most people will be able to listen to them when they aren’t loud or flamboyant in their color choices. They will also attract diplomatic and easy-going people, the perfect types for socializing and helping to create a scene of harmony.

Leonardo is showing off his cool Mercury in Libra side. Doesn't this outfit scream "laid-back"?

Leonardo is showing off his cool Mercury in Libra side. Doesn’t this outfit scream “laid-back”?

Venus-Rules Beauty, love, art, affection, aesthetic sense, values, harmony. Venus rules over the color scheme, taste, and style. When we wear the colors of our Venus sign, we are introducing to the world our own individual style and taste!  As a result, we are also sharing our own unique charms and physical beauty. Venus refines us all. When wearing these colors, we tend to look more refined and elegant to the outside world. Venus softens any rough edges and adds an appealing glow to us. These colors would be best to wear on a first date or a night out with friends. If you want to look fabulous all the time, wear a hint of it every day! With Venus colors, we can look quite sexy in a subtle way.

Example: When Venus is in Aries, her detrimental sign, bold red could bring out this individual’s beauty, charms, and graces. They just really look good in red! These people usually like the color red, along with blue, purple, black, and white.

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Lily James looks both natural and lovely in red! (Sun and Venus in Aries)

Mars-Rules energy, ambition, drive, aggression, and sex. As a malefic planet, Mars can be tricky. It can be intense or cruel and yet powerful. When we wear the colors of Mars, we are bringing out our own fierce energy and ambition. We will be attracting the right situations to us to help us reach our goals! Unfortunately, we’ll attract competition and enemies, too. Yet, this intensity can make us appear strong and sexy, and not the subtle kind of sexy. Steamy hot! Our greatest passions come out in the colors represented by our Mars signs.

Example: When Mars is in Gemini, these individuals will show their fun but scattered energy and drive when they sport bright and vibrant colors like yellow. They will certainly attract plenty of people who are interesting, and it will be because they look bold and interesting! They will be able to ease any sort of boredom when they wear vibrant colors. Situations will come towards them that promise a good time. Who wouldn’t want to hang with someone in bright yellow? Seems like a fun person! Of course, these people are taking a chance when they sport such a bold color. There will be people who think this color is too loud. But they still manage to blow off some steamy sex appeal in bright colors.

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Uma Thurman definitely looks interesting and bold in yellow! She really brings out her Mars in Gemini energy. Doesn’t she seem more approachable?

Jupiter-Rules luck, expansion, beliefs. This is the greatest benefic. When we wear the colors of our Jupiter signs, we attract all sorts of fortune! We attract the right opportunities to expand our horizons when we step into these colors. Anything that does some good in our lives could ultimately make us happy. Therefore, wearing these colors will bring smiles to our faces and give us a boost of energy. These colors may also put us in touch with our beliefs. Our beliefs will be taken seriously if we reflect what we believe.

Example: When Jupiter is in Scorpio, these people attract the opportunity to get involved in some deep and intense experiences that will change their world forever when they sport dark colors like black, dark red, and purple. They also reflect their deep beliefs when they wear these colors. I mean, anyone looking as intense as a Scorpio must have some deep thoughts, right? These people enjoy shaking things up and living life on the edge. A dark color like black and dark red is enough to make them smile!

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Britney shows us sexy and edgy in this hot dark red sequined stage ensemble! It’s no surprise she’s Jupiter in Scorpio

Saturn-Rules structure, form, limitation, and responsibility. When we wear the colors of our Saturn, it may take a while for us to warm up to it. But we won’t regret it! We will bring out our professional talents when we wear these colors and will attract success. These colors will thus make us look more mature. If you want to look wiser, wear the colors of your Saturn.

Example: When Saturn is in Sagittarius, wearing the color purple would put them in touch with their more mature and wise side. These people want to learn from the world and teach others or inspire others. In purple, the combination of passionate red and subtle blue will help them find experiences and students to teach.

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Madonna gives us the adventure but still carries her “diva” wisdom in purple. Saturn in Sagittarius can make even the most outrageous outfit seem sophisticated.

Uranus-Generational Planet. Rules change, spontaneity, and innovation. When we wear the colors of our Uranus signs, we reflect the changing attitudes of our generation and our sense of rebellion against the norm. These colors could bring us closer to inspired thought. Free your inner rebel in these colors! There’s probably more that we can do with this color than ever before. Now is your time to get innovative and start integrating these colors in spontaneous ways!

Example: When Uranus is in Aquarius, its rulership, these individuals are growing up at a time when anything is possible! They want to be seen as unique and original, so bold electric colors best help them get in touch with their generation’s message. These are the times to dip into some new unusual colors that have probably never been heard before and start trying new things with them!

Definitely representing the Uranus in Aquarius generation!

Definitely representing the Uranus in Aquarius generation! Kylie Jenner made a bold fashion statement with turquoise blue hair!

Neptune-Generational Planet. Rules imagination, artistry, illusion, fantasy. Most of these things are found in books, movies, magazines, tv shows, the internet, and in stores. We are all influenced by entertainment and other art forms, even if we don’t realize it. That’s how subtle influence can be. Neptune could rule over the fashion worn by our favorite celebrities in our favorite movies or music videos. It also inspires fashion designers and what they put out in stores. When we wear the colors of our Neptune, we may very well be wearing the colors most popular among the celebrities! We are recreating our generation by wearing these colors and inspiring others in later generations.

Example: When Neptune is in Leo, bright and bold colors like orange, gold, and yellow reflect the glamor of the time period.

Marilyn Monroe perfectly captured the glam of Neptune in Leo! She was everyone's "dream" girl!

Marilyn Monroe perfectly captured the glam of Neptune in Leo! She was everyone’s “dream” girl!

Pluto-Generational Planet. Rules power, obsession, transformation. When we wear the colors of Pluto, we are revealing the deepest part of our generation. We will be able to attract powerful positions and transformative situations when we embrace the colors of our Pluto. Pluto can make us all intensely sexy in a mysterious and magnetic way. We may reflect our deepest secrets and obsessions. Not too many people may feel comfortable when wearing colors that reflect their “dark side”, but it may lead to healing if we come to terms with our deepest fears and bring it to light. Then we show we don’t fear it anymore.

Example:  When Pluto is in Sagittarius, the color purple shows the generation’s obsession with travel , foreign cultures, and wisdom. They show that they want to combine passionate adventure and cool intelligence together in their lives when they wear purple.

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Zendaya manages to look cool and empowering in purple!

So try and combine your planetary energy with your sign energy and see what magic you can create!

Leave me a comment and let me know what combinations have brought out the best in you!

What Does He Want You To See in Him? By the signs (Masculine Identity)

21 Mar

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If you don’t understand much about zodiac signs and you are new to planetary signs, aspects, and houses, read the introduction here.

Mars is the planet of war, aggression, drive, assertion, energy, force, the sex drive, and male sexuality. He represents how we express our passionate natures and how we obtain anything we desire. Mars also represents drive, energy, and freedom. Mars is instinctive about survival. It can also represent frustration and aggression. Mars wants us to compete, to fight, and to climb over obstacles in life. He wants to accomplish something and be independent. He thrives on the rush of the moment. Really, he just wants to release some tension.

The sign he enters shows HOW we express our passion and drive. The house he enters shows WHERE we express our passion and drive. The aspects show how difficult or easy it is to use his energies in our life and how much of it we use.

Ever heard of the saying “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus”?

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In a man’s chart, Mars is his ruler. This is more of a socialized condition than anything. We have all of these planets in our charts and are capable of using anything for survival. But in our society, men tend to connect more with Mars than women do. Even though women are more active today, women still shy from most of the principles of Mars and women still expect men to be more active and driven than they are. Thus, Mars tends to tell men a lot about their own status as “men” and their identities in relation to their peers. Mars is considered one of the social planets, though not quite as sociable as Venus.

Mars also reveals what how men go after the women, what they do to impress the woman they want.

Why are men so associated with Martian sexuality (and not women)? Mars is supposed to be the planet that represents sex directly. But since women are more encouraged to channel their yearnings into romance, the actual act is far less important for them. Men, on the other hand, are taught something different. The article 5 Lies that Distort Male Sexuality by Jamie Utt and Men’s Sexual Response by David Delvin expresses that men are often taught to see sex as something for their own pleasure “rather than their partner’s”. Men are often encouraged to see sex as a conquest and to have as many partners as they can. Thus, relationships are seen more as a game or a battlefield. Their role is to try to be the conqueror. This is very similar to the principles associated with Mars.

Men are taught they have to be “in control” sexually. Men feel pushed to be adequate sexually. As a result, men are likely to take sexual risks to build their experience and confidence, regardless of the consequences. They are not shamed for exploring their sexuality to the fullest. On the other hand, a man who can’t have sex for whatever reason will feel a heavy burden. He will feel more pressure to perform and others will make him feel like a loser. Men will more than likely feel “unhappy with their partners” and “disaffected with life” if their partners are not having sex with them. A man will also usually feel “desolate” if the object of his affections reject his sexual advances.

Mars can be a very powerful planet for men, blessing them with freedom, strength, energy, and leadership abilities. But Mars can curse them with rivals and enemies, competition, aggression, violence, tension, and loneliness.

Readers may remember my article regarding men and Venus.

What Does He See in YOU? by the signs

Venus and Mars are two relationship planets in our charts. For most men, Venus is projected onto women. He may often expect women to express qualities he himself doesn’t feel “allowed” to express. Men with Mars in his ruling signs (Aries or Scorpio) or in his exalted placement (Capricorn) have a harder time living up to the principles of Venus and will project their energies more. Men with Mars in detriment (Taurus or Libra) and his falling placement (Cancer) have an easier time with Venus and don’t project as much.

In a man’s chart, Venus represents his feminine ideal, a woman he is drawn to and attracted to. This is the woman he thinks is sexy, good, and perfect.

So if men project Venus on women, how can Mars influence what they expect from women? This is a tricky question and yet simple at the same time. Though men are drawn to certain women because of feminine energies, they still feel they deserve to be catered to by even the most passive woman. Quite frankly, men aren’t so soft. A softer woman would have trouble keeping up with his sex drive, wouldn’t understand his activities, and wouldn’t have the energy to make themselves useful in his life. Venus is superficial. Sometimes, Mars helps us see beyond the superficial and understand what people do and how people really behave.

Women can benefit  from reading this article. This article is useful for women who have a hard time understanding the male mind and may feel confused when dating a man. They may notice that though a man may say he is attracted to her and would often talk about how special she is, he may expect her to treat him the total opposite! So, women may find men difficult to please in this way. Well, women, worry no more! If you look into his natal chart and observe his signs, aspects, and house placements, you will understand him better.

Because men project Venus, this can create some conflict with Mars, especially if there are harsh aspects between the two planets. A good example of this complicated love life would be shown through Michael Jackson’s music. He has Venus in Leo with his Mars in Taurus. Having Venus in Leo, it’s clear he was drawn to dynamic women in his lifetime. Many of the women he was drawn to (as well as those drawn to him) wanted to be a “star”, much like the sun-ruled Leo! In songs like “Dirty Diana” and “Billie Jean”, he mentions women wanting “fortune and fame”, seeking him out just to get media attention. Though he may later dislike these women, he’s initially drawn to them allowing them into his life in the first place. So why does he dislike her later? When thinking about this question, we first have to observe how he sees himself. In music videos like “The Way You Make Me Feel” and “Bad”, we can tell that he’s really a peaceful guy like his fixed earthy Mars in Taurus suggests. He’s actually really affectionate and artistic. He doesn’t see himself as aggressive. He’s more easy-going and pleasant. MJ would rather use his music to impress a girl rather than any bold or assertive tactics. He’s really a loyal, stable man who hates drama! The problem is he keeps attracting drama to himself!

Michael Jackson’s Mars is how he wants to be seen, so it’s how he wants to be treated.

For MJ,  the “drama girl” is him projecting his own “dramatic nature”. He’s only perceiving these women as dramatic. But we can never truly know what’s going inside of a person. We aren’t them. Each person has their own natal charts that may reveal things we may not even expect from a person. The woman he perceives as dramatic and attention seeking may see herself as someone else entirely and may just be reacting to him!  Inside, he’s the one being drawn to the fame, attention, and drama. It’s his internal “Drama King” that has led him to people that bring drama to his life. This is probably why he’s the “King of Pop” in the first place!

In a gay man’s chart, he tends to balance both his masculine and feminine energies well in a relationship, considering he may not feel the need to be the dominant one or the submissive one. He may even use both energies interchangeably. Still, he may feel pressure to conform, like all the other men. Society will make him feel out-of-place if he’s not like other men. He may also feel he has to defend himself more, causing him to express more assertive and strong-willed tendencies. He may not project his Venus on a potential  partner, but he may end up projecting Venus on women in general or on close female friends.

In a woman’s chart, Mars tends to reflect the qualities she would rather project on men and reveals her idea of the “ideal” man. A gay woman is likely to own both her own Mars and Venus, but may not really consider Mars as important as Venus in relationships.

What Does SHE See in YOU? By the signs

What Does HE See in YOU? by the signs

What Does She Want You to See in Her? By the signs

Venus in a woman’s chart will reflect her social identity, what she expects from a relationship, and her own sexuality

So now that you know more about Mars in a man’s chart, we can learn how each man utilizes his own Martian gifts, how each man defines masculinity in his own terms, and his own sexuality through the signs.

*Some parts of the interpretations might be too much for those under the age of 18. Reader discretion is advised.

Mars signs:

Mars in Aries

Mars in Taurus

Mars in Gemini

Mars in Cancer

Mars in Leo

Mars in Virgo

Mars in Libra

Mars in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Mars in Capricorn

Mars in Aquarius

Mars in Pisces

Mars in Aries

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Male Identity: Mars first enters his own domain when he enters the sign of Aries. Aries is a cardinal fire sign. Here he is at his best, free to be as forceful and assertive as he would like to be. He can get the most accomplished here.

Some Mars in Aries men would like to be seen as strong, assertive, and passionate in the eyes of the object of their affection. They would like someone they’re interested in to see them as super masculine.

Other Mars in Aries men would like their love interests to see them for who they really are. These men like to let it all hang out and be themselves. They are not the most refined types and they are strongly independent. Many times, they aren’t really too serious about anything, not even relationships. They would want a partner to accept everything about them and have fun. So, in this case, no matter what their Venus, they can’t stay with people who restrict them in any way.

When trying to impress the object of his affection, Mars in Aries men are generally forward. They aren’t the types to put on airs. They will make you see how interested they are in you. They act confident, even when they don’t always feel confident.

Some may do daring stunts or fight for the object of their affection, all just to impress this person. They may join competitions or show off at a sporting event. When out with someone they like, they try to take initiative. They might be the ones to pay the bill, even when they weren’t asked to. They are the types to ask for a dance without waiting to see if their partner wants to. They act to make sure things go the way they want it to go.

His weakness is he can be selfish when pursuing the object of his affections. He may not be considerate about the time or place or the person’s circumstances. He may mostly choose dates that are filled with activities he wants to try. Generally, he isn’t accommodating, and would rather have a partner who is on the same page. This would allow him to freely take the lead. He’s also a risk taker and doesn’t often consider the comfort level or safety of the partner when trying things. When you go on a date with this person, be upfront about what you don’t like. Don’t passively go along with the program.

He also has a quick temper. He may not always be abusive (depending on aspects, anyone is capable), but when someone slights him or upsets him, he’s impulsive and often acts without thinking. This can be troublesome for some people.

He’s also competitive. He might compete with other men, even when it’s not warranted. Sometimes, he may feel the need to compete with his own partner, especially if his partner makes more money or is more successful than he is. He might not be comfortable with a partner that dominates him in any way, but sometimes he might enjoy the challenge or receiving attention and stuff for a change.

These men might be rather immature or unrefined at times. I mentioned this. They might say or do things that might seem rude or obnoxious. Generally, they aren’t oily at all.

Another weakness these men might have is their impatience, especially sexually. They want what they want when they want it. This could frustrate people who want to take it slow. And if you’re too slow, they will move on! Did I mention they can be selfish?

Any activities he may enjoy doing with someone has to be exciting and thrilling. They can’t sit still. He may enjoy motorcycling with a love interest, attending a sporting event with a love interest, or even skydiving with a love interest! These activities are sure to get him pumped for another date.

Sexually, these men are passionate. They jump right into sex if they can. They tend to have sex after just one date! However, they tend to be rather forceful, quick, and selfish in the bedroom. They might forget to please their partners and may be more concerned with pleasing themselves. They are generally looking for a partner that has the same drive anyway, so they would want someone who finds pleasure in the same things they do.

They get impatient when they have to wait for sex, though they might also like the challenge.

Celebrities: Steve Jobs,  Andre 3000, Russell Crowe, Clint Eastwood, Tobey Maguire, Michael Pitt, Prince, Paul Newman, Daniel Craig, Marquis de Sade, Russell Brand, Russell Crowe, Iggy Pop,  Malcolm McDowell, Zachary Quinto, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, Confucius, Allen Iverson, Erik Satie, Nat King Cole, Kris Humphries, Larry Bird, Otis Redding, Mos Def, David Cross, Ron Jeremy, Rod Serling, Idi Amin, Dr. Seuss, H. R. Giger, Tony Goldwyn, Lee Scratch Perry, Jeb Bush, Bruno Mars, Cristiano Ronaldo, Kevin Costner, Hayden Christensen, James McAvoy, David Letterman, Jay Sean, Sam Smith

Kpop Idols: G-Dragon (Big Bang), Baekhyun (EXO)

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Mars in Taurus

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Male Identity: Mars enters the domain of Venus, his opposite planet, when he moves into Taurus. Taurus is a fixed earth sign. Mars doesn’t feel very comfortable here. Mars is in detriment. Taurus is an easy-going energy. Mars is active and assertive. Taurus takes its time and finishes things on its own time. Mars wants everything done now. Venus is the planet of beauty and charm. Taurus lends the men with this placement attractive qualities. Mars would rather impress others with its actions.

Just because these men have a detrimental placement doesn’t mean they don’t aim to be masculine. In fact, some Mars in Taurus men want their love interests to see them as a traditionally strong man. They want to be the rock in their relationship.

Others want their love interests to see them as people who are affluent, practical, patient, and calm. They would like their love interests to find them attractive, charming, and appealing to all the senses. They particularly try to smell good.

In order to impress their love interests, these men generally like to shell out money or other resources they have. They pick up the tab. They also try to impress their love interests by looking their best, showing calm in a chaotic situation, and by picking and lifting heavy things (just to prove how strong they are).

They might show off a business they own or work for. They might take their love interests to the finest restaurants, just to show they have exquisite taste.

Taurus is ruled by the throat. These men might sing their love interest a song.

Their weakness is they are not open to trying new things. They might do the same things to try to impress their love interests. They might seem a bit conservative or rigid in many ways, too. They generally do what they’re comfortable with. Some people might find this boring.

They are also possessive. They might feel they own a lover when they’ve only gone on one date with someone. They get jealous rather easily.

They are also rather hesitant when approaching a love interest. They aren’t really “go-getters”. This isn’t to say they can’t be outgoing, but when it comes to getting what they want, they take their time. Some may lack confidence or may not be comfortable trying new things for fear of losing their security. Or they just don’t think that they should have to exert too much energy.

Sexually, they enjoy all the sensual pleasures. They like the touch, smells, sounds, and sights of a sexual experience. Venus plays a major role in this regard. He can only be turned on for sex if he’s attracted to his partner. He’s a patient man, and may not like to jump right in. He may enjoy a little pleasurable foreplay or teasing.

He also needs to be comfortable in order to enjoy sex. A comfortable bed or couch is preferable.

Look at his Venus sign to get an idea of what pleases him. Read the Mars sign on this page that is closest. For instance, if he has Venus in Gemini, find Mars in Gemini.

Generally, once he gets started, he can go all night if he wants to. He’s not a rough or experimental man, but he loves playing around with food, whipped cream, sensual baths, and petals of sweet-smelling roses.

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Mars in Gemini

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Male Identity: When Mars enters Gemini, he’s entering the domain owned by Mercury. There are many things Mars has in common with Gemini, and some things he’s not so comfortable with. Gemini is a mutable air sign. Gemini is a busy, busy energy. Mars likes to keep busy. But Gemini is so scattered it lacks focus. Mars likes to accomplish things and likes to focus on one thing at a time. Mars is very direct.

Mars in Gemini men typically want their love interests to see them as fun, charming, clever, intelligent, experienced, and socially aware. They want their love interests to find them funny and unique.

Mars in Gemini men impress their love interests first by flirting, talking with their love interest, and trying to charm them with their wit.

Next, they would try to be more adaptable to impress their love interests. They would rearrange their schedules and bend backwards to make time for their love interests. They would also try many different creative ways of getting their love interest’s attention.

To further impress their love interests, they would try to take their lovers out to all the newest and trendiest spots. They want to show their love interest how open-minded and cultured they are. They might introduce their lover to some fascinating locations they’ve been to, possibly a place their partner hasn’t been to, so they can seem like they’ve experienced a lot. They might show off how smart they are by fixing their love interest’s smartphone or by engaging in an intellectual conversation. They may show interest in a book or article their love interest is reading and they may share whatever it is they’re reading. And they really love to crack jokes. They might crack jokes all night.

Mostly, they try to show a mental interest in their partner. They want their partner to know that they are interested in the mind. That’s why they’re ruled by Mercury. Look at his Mercury sign to get an idea of his conversation. Read the Mars sign on this page that is closest. For instance, if he has Mercury in Cancer, find Mars in Cancer.

They try to impress their lovers in clever ways. They are likely to have little treasure hunts or leave notes leading to places they want to have dates. They send clever and interesting gifts. They want their love interests to be mentally engaged with them.

Because they are ruled by Mercury, they might like to move-that means dance! They might like to show off their dance moves or make their lovers laugh with the way they dance.

His weakness is he can be a little immature. They have a little boyishness about themselves all their lives. Not only do they like to crack jokes, they like to tease and play pranks. They can be mischievous. They also talk A LOT. In fact, they have nervous and wiry energy. They can’t sit still, they don’t listen long, and they talk, talk, talk.

Sexually, these men like to experiment. They are open sexually. They like to try new things. They generally want a partner who is open to new things too, otherwise they will seek multiple partners to satisfy their need for variety.

They generally don’t get too emotionally wrapped up in their sexual partners. Sex is just a fun activity for them. They aren’t the most passionate sex partners, but they’re a whole lot of fun. They generally enjoy quickies. They get bored if they do too much on the first night. They like to leave a little surprise for later.

CelebritiesTyler the Creator, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tiger Woods, Mike Tyson, Martin Luther King Jr., Al Pacino, Sean Penn, Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan, Daniel Day Lewis, O.J. Simpson, John McEnroe, Bernie Madoff, Damon Wayans,  Louis Vuitton, Tom Brady, Joseph Fiennes, Nigel Barker, Jason Momoa, Eli Roth, Ghostface Killah, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ed Sheeran, Kendall Schmidt, Elton John, Robert Downey Jr., Big Sean

Kpop Idols: Kris Wu (EXO), Seungri (Big Bang), Daesung (Big Bang)

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Mars in Cancer

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Male Identity: When Mars enters Cancer, he enters the sign ruled by the Moon. Mars falls in this sign. Cancer is a cardinal water sign. The Moon is the planet of emotions, most associated with women in general, the mother, the “motherland”, and our early home environment or our roots. Mars is a masculine planet, associated with independence, which separates him from his roots. These men often feel a pull. They want to be close to their families, to keep traditions strong, but they also want to be independent and be seen as their own man.

Mars in Cancer men want their love interests to see them in many different lights. Some may want their love interests to see them as strong and protective. They may want their love interests to feel safe around them.

Others may want their partners to see them as good providers and family men.

Other men with this placement may want their love interests to see them as sweet, thoughtful, and understanding.

Mars in Cancer men often try to impress the object of their affections in indirect ways. They try to be there for a love interest whenever they can. They conveniently keep themselves in the presence of their love interest. They try to be a listening ear or “best friend” to a love interest. They should be careful this doesn’t put them in the “friend zone”.

Mars in Cancer men generally try to protect their love interests in even the smallest ways. They walk on the dirtiest side of the sidewalk. When it’s raining, they give their jackets and umbrellas to their love interest. If there’s only two items of food left, they let their love interest have the last bite. They try to pay for everything on a date to show they can provide security.

They might try to protect their love interests in major ways as well. They might fight anyone who insults or harms their love interests in any way. They might avoid locations that can even put their love interest in danger.

They try to remember important things. They try to remember birthdays, anniversaries, or the names of all the members of their love interest’s family. They are likely to introduce their love interest to their own family.

His weakness is that he’s rather sensitive and clingy. He may seem a little insecure. He might follow a lover around like a shadow and may always be suspicious. Or he may just be super sensitive to any little jokes thrown his way. The Moon would reveal more about his emotional temperament. Look at his Moon sign to see more about his sensitivities. Find the Mars sign on this page that mirrors it best. For example, if he has Moon in Leo, find Mars in Leo.

He’s also incredibly shy. He might have a difficult time taking initiative in some ways. It’s hard for him to be DIRECT. He just doesn’t go for who he wants and waits to see if his crush is interested in him first.

Sexually, they enjoy sex more when they feel secure in a relationship. They literally have to have feelings for a person to really feel fulfilled in a sexual partnership. They may not necessarily have to wait for marriage, but they need to at least feel their partner is the one or they have to feel like the only one in their partner’s life.

They are generally moody sexually. They might enjoy different things according to their moods. Sometimes, they may be soft and gentle, albeit a bit traditional and conservative. They still might enjoy some romantic foreplay, like a nice bath or meal at home together beforehand. Other times, they may be rough and aggressive. It all depends. Overall, though, they prefer sex to be performed in a secure and comfortable environment, mostly at home.

Celebrities: Michael Phelps, Chris Brown, John Mayer, Keanu Reeves, Ashton Kutcher, Roger Federer, Ryan Reynolds, Pablo Picasso, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, William Shakespeare, Stephen King, Robin Williams, Al Capone, Notorious B.I.G., Ludacris, Noam Chomsky, Shawn Mendes, Nick Jonas, Kendrick Lamar, Busta Rhymes, 

Kpop Idols: Jr. (Got7), Suga/Agust D (BTS), Jin (BTS), Rap Monster (BTS), Chanyeol (EXO), Kyungsoo (EXO), Suho (EXO), Chen (EXO)

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Mars in Leo

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Male Identity: When Mars enters Leo, he enters the Sun’s domain. Mars’s own sign, Aries, is exalted when the Sun enters it. This shows that Mars has a lot in common with Leo. Leo is a fixed fire sign. Mars is a masculine planet and the Sun is considered a masculine planet. The Sun represents the father and manhood. Mars is the masculine principle. Yet, when two dominate forces combine, they are bound to bump heads eventually. Leo is all about “attention” and putting on a “show”. It wants lovers and admirers. It wants to be important. Mars is only concerned with accomplishing goals, overcoming obstacles, and getting what it wants. It’s a planet of action, not “displays” of action.

Mars in Leo men want to be seen as confident, generous, popular, attractive, affluent, and creative in the eyes of their love interest. They might also want their love interests to see them as strong dominant. Some may want to be seen as fun and adventurous.

If they could, they would want their love interests to see them as the ultimate man, anything and everything to anybody. They would want their love interests to always see the best in them, so they often seek to highlight their strengths rather than their weaknesses.

They might try to impress a love interest by bringing attention to themselves and their love in some way. They might sing to a lover, give open proposals, or carry loud signs stating their love. Whatever they do to impress a lover, they like to do it big! And with a whole bunch of people witnessing it all.

They generally like to give a lot to their love interests. They pay for everything. Heck, they may pay for everyone in the restaurant if they have the money like that! Some of them like to appear like they have that kind of money, even when they don’t.

They might take on dares or try to win competitions to impress their love interests.

They love to make their love interests laugh. They like to be the one to keep their love interests entertained.

They might throw large parties or have double dates with a large number of friends and fans just to show off how popular they are. They even want to show off how desirable they are. They may get a kick out of other women flirting with them and making a love interest jealous. They should be careful with this tendency.

These men like to be creative when trying to impress someone. They don’t want to imitate other men or fade in the background as just another guy. They want to stand out and be noticed by someone they like. Whatever it is they decide to do to impress someone they like, it will be unforgettable.

Their weakness is their ego. The Sun would tell you more about that. Look for the Mars sign that’s closest. For instance, if he has Sun in Virgo, look for Mars in Virgo.

While they like to do the most to impress someone, they tend to do things in front of people, not considering the feelings of the person they are trying to woo. It could be a stab to their ego to be turned down or rejected. And then, because they do everything so flashy, they end up embarrassed, too!

They also tend to get frustrated when they’re rejected after doing the most for a love interest. The love interest may not have asked them to go broke or embarrass themselves, but they still might feel salty towards the person they did all of that for. They can’t take outright rejection too well. They should try to be a little less flashy so they won’t feel the loss. They should also try to consider other people’s feelings. Not everyone cares for the flash.

Some people might get the impression that they do things for the show and that they aren’t really serious.

Sexually, these men can be fun, adventurous, and romantic. They generally want to have a good time and they want their partners to feel they had a good time, too. They like their egos stroked.

They may want to dominant though. Some of them want to give, and don’t leave any room for the other person. On the other hand, some may expect the partner to do everything like a humble servant. Some of them may be more concerned with their own satisfaction, they forget to make sure their partner is satisfied. But they don’t like to be talked about negatively, so they will try to satisfy as best they can.

Celebrities: Michael Jordan, George Clooney, Robert Redford, Frank Sinatra, James Franco, Channing Tatum, Quentin Tarantino, Derek Jeter, Ne-Yo, Donald Trump, Bill O’Reilly, Duke Ellington, Anthony Kiedis, Ralph Fiennes, Ringo Starr, Leonard Cohen, Steven Tyler, Seal, Marlon Wayans, Lamar Odom, Conan O’Brien, Neil Young, Pedro Almodovar, Jim Henson, Joel Osteen, Bob Fosse, Dennis Rodman, Jon Stewart,

Kpop Idols: Youngjae (Got7), Tao (EXO)

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Mars in Virgo

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Male Identity: Mars enters the other area belonging to Mercury when it enters Virgo. Virgo is a mutable earth sign. Mars has some things in common with the mutable sign, and some things he doesn’t really feel comfortable with. Virgo is a busy, hard-working sign. Mars likes to keep busy and get things accomplished. But Virgo is earthy, practical, and a little more cautious. Virgo is also scattered. Mars doesn’t hesitate to jump into things, regardless of the consequences. He’s also direct and focused.

Mars in Virgo men want to be seen as pleasing and efficient men. They want their partners to always be happy with them. They may expect themselves to be perfect. They would want their love interests to be easily satisfied because they feel pressure around high-maintenance individuals.

They might want their love interests to see them as hard-working, intelligent, resourceful, ingenious, and creative in some way. They want to be their love interest’s ideal.

They try to impress their love interests by being a humble servant. They will do ANYTHING for someone they are interested in. They will help you clean your house, take care of kids, do your homework, fix your car or bathroom sink (as they are “Mr. Fix-its), and they will even think with you and help you come to a decision.

They aren’t the flashy types. They might not propose to you on live television, but they will pick you up from work, take you out to dinner, and hand you a gift of roses.

These men tend to cater to every little detail when it comes to the things they want to do to impress someone. They plan each step carefully. They try to be creative in a simple way and thoughtful.  They try to show their love interests that they’re attentive and notice the little things about them. Mercury plays a role when it comes to what they actually pay attention to. Look at his Mercury sign and then find the Mars sign on this page that’s closes. For instance, if he’s Mercury in Libra, read Mars in Libra.

Their weakness is they’re perfectionists. Sometimes, they get so lost in the details, they forget the big picture. They might want everything to go so smoothly for a date they often forget why they created the date in the first place. They may focus so much on being the ideal lover they forget to highlight their own personal strengths and express who they really are.

They are also rather modest and shy. It’s hard for them to let go even on an easygoing date. They get nervous and often don’t know what to say or do in some situations, especially if there are things happening that they haven’t rehearsed or planned ahead of time. They may not go out of their way to be adventurous if they hadn’t planned to be.

Sexually, this men aim to please. They want their partner to be satisfied in every way. Just tell them what you want. They also appreciate a lover who takes initiative and aims to please them. They may never ask a lover to do this. They would hope a lover willingly wants to.

Again, they may get so caught in the details of a perfect sexual night, they may forget the greater picture. They might be too focused on the foreplay and getting it down perfectly, they may not get to the act.

Celebrities: Mikhail Baryshnikov, Barack Obama, George W. Bush, Ben Affleck, Charles Manson, Friedrich Nietzche, Trent Reznor, George Michael, Matt Damon, Will Smith, Johnny Depp, Hugh Jackman, Jeff Buckley, Thom Yorke, Eddie Vedder, Ernest Hemingway, Stevie Wonder, Jeff Bridges, Quincy Jones, Jerry Garcia, Wiz Khalifa, Evel Knievel, Idris Elba, Joe Jonas, Chris Hemsworth, Carlos Pena, Jr., Logan Henderson

Kpop Idols: Taemin (Shinee), BamBam (Got7)

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Mars in Libra

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Male Identity: Mars enters another one of Venus’s signs, Libra-the cardinal air sign. Mars feels uncomfortable in this position. Mars is in detriment here. There are a lot of things about Libra that rubs Mars the wrong way. Though Libra is one of the extroverted, masculine signs, Libra is like Venus in the fact that it is passive-aggressive, balanced, and superficial. Mars has no time for indecision, moderation, and superficiality. Libra is considerate and thinks about things before taking action. Mars wants to come to quick decisions, go after whatever it wants with fierce intensity so that it can get what it wants faster, and doesn’t really care what anyone looks like while doing it. Libra cares about others; Mars is an independent energy. Libra baffles the planet Mars. Still, Libra is an energetic and positive placement, so Mars can have some fun along the way at times.

Mars in Libra men want their love interests to see them as charming, romantic, attractive, irresistible, fun, affluent, cultured or worldly, and intelligent. They want their lovers to be dazzled.

Generally, they aim to be a “ladies’ man”. They want their love interests to feel swept off of their feet.

They try to impress their love interests by tending to every romantic aspect they can think of. They buy the gifts, give the roses, send the cards, give the kisses and hugs, and they’re known for their chivalry.

They are the types to open the doors, pull out chairs, feed, and lift their love interests. They try to be the knight-in-shining-armor type. They pick their lovers up in a nice and clean vehicle (or even by horse and carriage). They try to look attractive, smell good, and wear a smile. They generally try to put their lovers at ease and win their lovers affections.

These men try to appear intelligent and well-mannered. They discuss sophisticated topics. They appreciate beauty and the arts. They may show off their knowledge in these areas. They might be artistic, musical, or a great dancer.

These men like for their love interests to see them as fun and adventurous. They might enjoy rock-climbing or horseback riding on the beach.

Their weakness is they have a difficult time taking initiative. They might be indecisive and may not know what to do around their love interests. They generally just do whatever their lover wants to do. If their lover is looking for them to make a decision, they will be disappointed. Their favorite thing to do is shrug and say “I don’t know. What about you?” They may try to take initiative but then second-guess many of their choices.

These men are really subtle in their approach. Somewhat, they may give the impression that they lack confidence because they don’t seem sure of themselves.

Another weakness of theirs is the fact that they are natural flirts. Though they are really romantic when they want to be, some people may feel like they treat all the girls the same. They may seem romantic and charming towards everyone, and it might make their love interest insecure. They may have too many obligations to people and may not know how to say “No” to other people’s advances.

Sexually, these men enjoy the sensual aspects of it all. They generally have to be attracted to someone they get sexually involved with, too. Venus plays a role in this. Analyze the Venus sign. Look at the Mars sign that’s closest. For instance, if his Venus is in Scorpio, look at Mars in Scorpio.

They may be adventurous and fun as well as romantic and sensual lovers. However, they aren’t usually too kinky and rough.

Celebrities: Alexander Skarsgard, Kobe Bryant, The Dalai Llama, John Lennon, Elvis Presley, Bill Gates, Freddie Mercury, Eminem, Bill Clinton, Frank Ocean, Sigmund Freud, Nelson Mandela, Jean Reno, Zac Efron, Roman Polanski, Abraham Lincoln, Alfred Hitchcock, Winston Churchill, Jean-Michel Jarre, R. Kelly, Gore Vidal, Niall Horan, Liam Payne, Rain, Jason Derulo

Kpop Idols: T.O.P (Big Bang), Mark (Got7), Yixing (EXO)

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Mars in Scorpio

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Male Identity: Mars traditionally rules over Scorpio. It’s not surprising. Both have intense and passionate energies. Scorpio is a fixed water sign. On the outside, Scorpio is a quiet energy. Within, Scorpio boils with watery feelings that are channeled in a powerful way. Mars can certainly find an outlet for all of his intensity.

Mars in Scorpio men want their love interests to see them as powerful, resilient, wise, magnetic, passionate, and sexy. They don’t want to reveal too much about themselves until they trust the person they want, so they don’t mind being a little mysterious for awhile.

These individuals want their love interest to be wrapped in their spell.

They try to impress love interests by giving their all to the person, whether it be money, time, or energy. They are the types to do whatever it takes to win their love interest’s affections. They are not intimidated by rejection. They know who they want and they aim to get who they want. If it takes a soft romantic approach, they will do it. If it takes a forceful and assertive approach, they will do it. However, their favorite way of getting what they desire is in a quiet and secretive way. Generally, they aren’t the types to put on fancy airs. They feel out a person, get to know a person, and then go after them with everything they’ve got. They may have been observing who they want for a long time, long before anyone else knows.

They are willing to be a little vulnerable, but there still may be some things they keep close to them. If they really feel the person they want is truly to be trusted, they will let it all out.

Their weakness is their intensity. It does fuel their passionate drive. They never give up on trying obtain someone they want. But they do a little too much to try to get who they want. Some of them tend to go overboard, which can be a bit intimidating to others. They need to lighten up a little. Mars and Pluto show you more about his passion and depth. Look at the signs and find the Mars sign that’s closest on this page. For instance if he’s Mars and/or Pluto in Sagittarius, read Mars in Sagittarius.

They are also rather possessive. They may not give their love interest their space or freedom to think about who and what it is they want. Mars in Scorpio is known for giving ultimatums.

These men might also test their love interests, just to see how loyal or into them they really are. This can be frustrating and intimidating to people, too.

Sexually, Mars in Scorpio is famous for their magnetism and raw sexuality. They are passionate and really like to dive in deep into a sexual affair. Their style is not necessarily light, airy, and experimental, but they can be kinky. And they want everything a partner’s got.

They might explore too many sexual experiences within one night, and they may not leave enough for next time.

Some people may find their style to be too much, but those with the same passion will appreciate their sex drive.

Celebrities: Bruce Lee, Ryan Lochte, Kurt Cobain, Jimi Hendrix, Leonardo Dicaprio, Joaquin Phoenix, Marilyn Manson, Jude Law, Mel Gibson, Joseph Stalin, Charlie Sheen, Mark Zuckerberg, Benicio Del Toro, Usher, Jean-Paul Sartre, Karl Lagerfeld, Deepak Chopra, Bobby Brown, Martin Scorsese, Billy Idol, Howard Stern, Danny Devito, Mao Zedong, Bill Murray, Frank Zappa, Hunter S. Thompson, Jean-Paul Gaultier, Dr. Phil, Ravi Shankar, Dylan McDermott, Richard Pryor, Terry Gilliam, Louis Tomlinson, Lloyd Polite, T.I.

Kpop Idols: Jungkook (BTS), Jimin (BTS), Kai (EXO)

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Mars in Sagittarius

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Male Identity: Mars enters the placement ruled by Jupiter. Mars has a lot in common with Sagittarius. Mars likes freedom and independence. Sagittarius likes freedom and independence. But like most mutable signs, Sagittarius scatters its mutable fire in various directions. Sagittarius is too freedom-loving. Mars needs focus and drive, otherwise he gets into trouble. So, there are things Mars is comfortable with and some things he’s not comfortable with here.

Mars in Sagittarius men want their love interests to see them as fun, good-humored, adventurous, honest, open-minded, achievement-oriented, and philosophical. They are ruled by Jupiter. Jupiter will shed more light. Check his Jupiter sign and then find the Mars sign that’s most similar. For instance, if he’s Jupiter in Capricorn, find Mars in Capricorn.

They want their love interests to notice their “no strings attached” approach. They can’t really maintain a long-term relationship with someone who clips their wings, no matter their Venus sign.

Mars in Sagittarius men seek to impress the object of their affections by sharing their adventures with the person. They generally want to appear exciting to the person they want. They may take on dares.

Some of them want to make their love interest laugh. They might try to impress the person with their humor.

They may try to prove their honesty in some way. They may lay cards down on the table about something most people wouldn’t reveal in an attempt to appear “open and honest”.

They might try new restaurants or other new locations, especially if it’s cultural or has an ethnic theme, just to show how open-minded they are.

They like to appear like they’ve achieved or want to achieve something. They may share their goals and dreams. They may exaggerate their achievements a little as well.

They might spend a lot of money on someone they’re interested in. They will max out their credit cards if they really want someone. They should be careful not to be so careless and extravagant. Generally, they tend to be overly optimistic about what they could do to please a love interest and may go overboard to do so.

They might try to appear intelligent or philosophical. They may quote some of their favorite philosophers and books. They might want to show they are spiritual men and may quote verses from religious texts. They often want to appear knowledgeable about the world, like they have a higher understanding.

Their weaknesses are their carelessness and irresponsibility. They generally don’t take things as seriously as maybe the object of their affections may want them, too. They are also not responsible when it comes to remembering their commitments or promises. They tend to talk a good game, but they don’t always deliver everything they aim to.

And because they don’t like their wings clipped, they may go from romantic interest to romantic interest, not really caring who’s heart they’re breaking along the way. They should be careful playing with people’s hearts.

Sexually, these men can be adventurous and fun. Sex can be like a sport to them. They generally like to be open and want the experience to be memorable. Maintaining their fidelity and loyalty may be an issue sometimes, but trying to maintain their loyalty through sex would not work. They may not see sex as a sign of commitment.

On the flip side, some of them may be so into their religions, they may follow their religious principles regarding sex.

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Mars in Capricorn

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Male Identity: When Mars enters Capricorn, the sign ruled by Saturn, he enters his exalted position, his most effective state of being. This may shock people, considering Saturn is falling in Mars’s sign Aries and considering Capricorn is really not like Mars. It’s not that they have similar natures (that’s the role of Mars’s rulership signs). Mars is most EFFECTIVE in this sign, meaning he gets the most accomplished and finds the best channel for all of his energy. Usually, Mars is impulsive, passionate, and fast-paced in getting what he wants. In Capricorn, he can still be ambitious, but he’s able to channel his passionate energy towards goals and his career. He finds outlets for his anger instead of impulsively jumping into senseless fights he’s not prepared for. Capricorn allows Mars to be focused but slows down his pace a bit so that he can really accomplish MORE. But Capricorn doesn’t slow him down too much. Mars can still be a leader in this cardinal earth sign, but he’s more responsible with his actions. Capricorn disciplines Mars so that Mars can accomplish a great deal more. It may feel a little suffocating for Mars, but Mars won’t be disappointed. Mars has to make some sacrifices in this sign, but it’s well worth it in the end.

Mars in Capricorn men want to be taken seriously. They want the object of their affections to see them as dependable, responsible, ambitious, hard-working, and mature men. They want their love interests to see them as competent, cool, and in control.

When trying to impress their love interest, they are generally traditional and practical. They plan out what they are going to do and say before they ask someone out. Usually, they ask someone out formally, in a polite and respectful way.

They generally try to impress the object of their affections by showing off how dependable and responsible they are. They provide receipts of their labor. They like to show their love interest how many things they are responsible for. They might show off a home, car, business, or anything else that shows they can manage their lives well.

They might handle each situation in a mature fashion. They want their love interests to respect them, so they try not to fly off the handle in tense situations and they consider the safety of their partner. They will speak to protect their partner, but they won’t get in all-out brawls while they’re on a date.

Saturn, the planet of limitation and wisdom, is their ruler. Check his Saturn sign and find the Mars sign that’s similar. For instance, if he’s Saturn in Aquarius, read Mars in Aquarius.

They will be there for their love interest whenever their lover needs them. They try to be on time for dates and they try to make sure everything runs smoothly so that their date is comfortable.

They want their love interests to see that they have goals and that they aren’t just stuck in one position. They may discuss some of their goals and the steps they’re taking to reach them.

And they pay for everything! If they ask someone out, they will be the one to pull out the wallet. They aren’t unrealistic though. They buy within their budget and they will point out that they have limitations.

Their weakness is that they are a little too controlled and formal. They have a difficult time just letting loose and getting wild while around their love interest. They may expect everything to go exactly as they plan, and may get a little frustrated when things don’t. They have a bossy tendency as well, which sometimes makes them seem like a big brother or someone’s father.

Some people might find them to be a little formal and outdated in their approach. They aren’t necessarily spontaneous or creative people. They are simple and straightforward when asking someone out.

Sexually, they tend to like it raw and straightforward, like with everything they do. They don’t necessarily care about experimentation or kinks (though they might have some). They generally just like to get down to business.

Celebrities: Marvin Gaye, Brad Pitt, Aleister Crowley, Walt Disney, Bob Marley, Marlon Brando, Robert Pattinson, David Bowie, Rafael Nadal, George Harrison, Jim Carrey, Edgar Cayce, Ewan McGregor, Taylor Lautner, Woody Allen, Jake Gyllenhaal, Usain Bolt, Shia Labeouf, Tom Selleck, P-Diddy, Jerry Seinfeld, Mark Ruffalo, Samuel L. Jackson,  John Wayne, Gavin DeGraw, Big Sean, Ross Lynch (R5), Drake Bell, John Legend, Mac Miller

Kpop Idols: JB (Got7), Yugyeom (Got7), V (BTS)

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Mars in Aquarius

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Male Identity: Aquarius is a fixed air sign, ruled by Saturn and Uranus. Mars has a lot in common with Aquarius. Aquarius is an independent and free energy. Mars likes independence and freedom. But Aquarius is rooted and doesn’t have the passion or drive Mars is used to. Saturn cools Aquarius’s normally erratic nature.

Mars in Aquarius men want the object of their affections to see them as original, unique, intelligent, cool, and independent.

These men are generally friendly and outgoing, and they don’t like people to see them sad, brooding, or depressing.

They try to impress the object of their affections by coming up with surprises. They want whatever they do to be unique and innovative. They want to switch up what they do and do something forward thinking. They want a potential lover to be impressed by their ingenuity.

They also want potential lovers to be impressed by their intelligence. They often talk about high-profile and sophisticated subjects. They normally produce controversial opinions on these topics, just to show that they are independent thinkers.

They want to appear cool and fun. Sometimes, they might seem like they are above petty feelings and behavior. They try to remain detached from situations. They try not to act too jealous or possessive. They try to give their love interest their freedom. They remain hands-off. They try to have a good time with everything and may try to make things easy for a potential love interest.

Even though they have a few ways they try to impress a love interest, nothing is as important to them as being with someone they are already in sync with. They don’t like having to do too much to try to impress someone. Either the person is impressed with them or not. They really can’t deal with high-maintenance and judgmental people too long. Of course they want to see their crush smile, but if the person they’re interested in looks down on everything they do, they will move right on.

Mars in Aquarius men’s weakness is that they are a little too detached and independent. They don’t get too personally involved with people, even people they are interested in. They aren’t the types to sit down and listen to a long sob story.

They do their own thing and expect a love interest to do the same. They are ruled by Saturn, the planet of limits and detachment, and Uranus, the planet of change and independence. Check out those signs and find the Mars sign that’s similar on this page. For instance, if his Saturn and/or Uranus is in Pisces, read Mars in Pisces.

They are also not the most passionate individuals. They won’t do the most just to win someone’s heart and they have a hard time coming out of the head and into the body. They aren’t usually “hugs-and-kisses” types. Sometimes, their cool act can be frustrating.

But then again, these men are full of surprises. You just never know with them. They might bottle up so much passion inside that it explodes later.

Sexually, these men are open-minded, into experimentation, and kinky. They get motivated when they are trying something new and different. They are the types to get into sexting, filming, cross-dressing, and even role-playing. The only thing that may be missing is the passion and the close intimacy. Sex for them is another experiment, not truly a display of their love.

Celebrities: Justin Timberlake, Justin Bieber, Pharrell Williams, Leonardo Da Vinci, Drake, Gerard Butler, Serge Gainsbourg, Jay-Z, Tupac Shakur, Cary Grant, Lance Armstrong, Gary Oldman, Axl Rose, Mark Wahlberg, Ang Lee, Jamie Foxx, Julian Assange, Alec Baldwin, Hugh Hefner, Snoop Dogg/Lion, Howard Hughes, Matt Dillon, Elijah Wood, Adrien Brody, George W. Bush, Akon, Sacha Baron Cohen, Justin Theroux, Tennessee Williams, Rush Limbaugh, Trey Songz, Karl Rove, Harry Styles, Silento,

Kpop Idols: Jonghyun (Shinee), Taeyang (Big Bang), J-Hope (BTS), Xiumin (EXO), LuHan (EXO)

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Mars in Pisces

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Male Identity: Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. Pisces is a mutable water sign. Mars likes Pisces’s freedom-loving energy (thanks to Jupiter), but he’s not too fond of Pisces’s passive nature. It has some things in common with the sign, but there are a lot of differences.

Mars in Pisces men want to be seen as self-sacrificing, creative, alluring, and the ideal man. They want their love interests to really accept them overall. They are willing to be anything and everything for win the affections of someone they want.

Mars in Pisces men try to impress their love interests by basically being a chameleon. Whatever their lover needs, they are there. If their love interest is crying, they’re there to be a listening ear and fight their love interest’s battles. If their love interest is stuck in the snow, they will come by to help shovel that person out. If their love interest needs them to be romantic, they get creative. If their love interest needs them to back off, they will.

Their weakness is that they’re not the most direct men in the world. They aren’t the types to just say what they want or take initiative. They generally react to their partner’s demands. This can make them a bit of a doormat.

They also have an issue with pretending to be something they’re not. They don’t try to lie or be fake, but they don’t like disappointing their love interests either. So, some of them may stretch the truth and may pretend to be their love interest’s ideal just to make that person happy. Sometimes, though, this may not make them happy in the long run. There’s a difference between acting as prince for a night to please a lover, while your lover knows who you really are, and pretending you’re a prince when you’re really a pauper.

Sexually, these men have quite the imagination. They can be creative and visionary. They enjoy role-playing a lot. They can be adventurous sex partners. They may be open to experimenting and they enjoy kinks. They can be romantic, sensual, and gentle with a lover. They can try and do it all.

However, some of them may have an idealistic view of sex. They might believe sex is like what they see on TV or online or from what their friends tell them. They are impressionable. They may get so caught up in fantasies about their sexual experiences and adventures that the real thing ends up far more disappointing. In this case, sometimes their expectations are too high. They might go through partners, looking to make their dreams or fantasies come true only to find out that there’s nothing real about a fantasy. They should try to see people for who they really are. It would be best they avoid media and gossip that distorts their image of sex so that they can go into a sexual relationship with few expectations.

They are ruled by Jupiter and Neptune, so it would shed more light on this placement to look at those planets’ signs. Look for the Mars sign on this page that’s closest. For instance, if Jupiter and/or Neptune is in Scorpio, read Mars in Scorpio.

Celebrities: Che Guevara, Lebron James, Heath Ledger, Vincent Van Gogh, Michelangelo, Keith Haring, Tom Hanks, Bob Dylan, Denzel Washington, Steve McQueen, David Beckham, Miles Davis, Josh Brolin, Christoph Waltz, Ian Curtis,  Socrates, Chris Isaak, Ray Liotta, LL Cool J, Vincent Gallo, Paco Rabanne, Desi Arnaz, Michael Cera, Phil Spector, Zack de la Rocha,  Ralph Nader, Art Tatum, Danny Boyle, Corey Haim, Enrique Iglesias, Tupac Shakur, Adam Levine, Machine Gun Kelly, J. Cole

Kpop Idols: Jackson (Got7), Sehun (EXO)

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What Does She Want YOU to See in HER? By the signs (Feminine Identity)

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Venus-the planet of love and beauty

If you don’t understand much about zodiac signs and you are new to planetary signs, aspects, and houses, read the introduction here.

Venus is the planet of love, beauty, pleasure, justice, sex (aphrodisiacs and arousal), and peace. It is an air planet. It’s associated with the Greek goddess Aphrodite. Venus wants us to live a pleasant life of ease. She represents all we appreciate and adore. The sign she enters shows HOW we express our love, adoration, and appreciation. The house she enters shows WHERE we express this love, adoration, and appreciation. The aspects show us how difficult or easy it is to use her energies in our lives and how much of it we use as a result.

Ever heard of the saying, “Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus”?

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In a woman’s chart, Venus is her ruler, while men are ruled by Mars. This is more socialized than anything. We have all the planets in our charts and are capable of using all of our energies.  But in our society, women tend to connect with Venus more than men do. Thus, the sign Venus is in tends to tell woman a lot about her own status as a “woman” and her identity in relation to her peers. Venus is a social planet, after all. Venus also reveals what women expect from relationships in general and her own sexuality, which is what I will be discussing in this article.

Why are women so associated with Venusian sexuality (and not men)? Mars has often been associated with sex as well. So why are women associated with Venus sexually? It has a lot to do with our society. More than men, women are often faced with situations that repress their sexual urges. Slut-shaming is very common. Women are also faced with other issues. I found a very interesting read on Psychology Today titled 5 Myths About Men’s Sexuality by Deborah Anapol. Even though the article mostly focuses on male sexuality, the author made some interesting points about women that relate to the idea that Venus is a woman’s sexual ruler. She discovered that “women are more socialized to channel their erotic yearnings into romantic fantasy”. Women are controlled and criticized when it comes to sexuality and their interest in a partner, especially one of the opposite sex. Because of “sex-negative conditioning and social judgments,” women are not able to explore their sexual potentials as widely or as easily as men. Until they are freed of these restrictions, subtlety will rule over directness. Love will rule over passion. Foreplay will be preferred over actual sexual intercourse.

The article 10 Things You Need to Know about Female Sexuality by Bella-Ellwood Clayton tells us that “[Women’s] desire to appear desirable exceeds desire itself…[Women] are too busy chasing beautiful to want to kiss beautifully.” Of course, she also recognizes that media and advertising does a lot to make women ashamed of their bodies and their “genitalia”. Therefore, women often focus more on “looking like they are having sex” rather than actually desiring to actually have it. They are so focused on being beautiful themselves that they feel uncomfortable seeing this beauty in their partners. This also relates to Venus having power over a woman’s sexuality rather than the sex planet Mars.

Venus has a real beautiful side to it, but she isn’t flawless. While Venus blesses women with charm, grace, beauty, and love, it curses them with a passive nature, vanity, and social conformity (stifling originality). Of course, there are some women who are exceptions to this rule.

Mars is another planet that rules sex, as I mentioned before, but it’s different for women than for men. Readers may remember my article regarding Women and Mars: What Does SHE see in YOU? By the signs

Venus and Mars are the two relationship planets in our charts. But for most women, Mars is projected onto men. She may often expect a man to live up to standards she herself doesn’t feel “allowed” to release. This will come in the form of the man she’s “attracted to”. From my experience, the stronger her Venus is, the more pressure she feels to conform. Therefore, women with Venus in her rulership signs (Taurus, Libra) or her exalted sign (Pisces) tend to project their Mars energy more in relationships and feel more uncomfortable expressing such “masculine” traits. Women with weaker Venus signs, such as Venus in detriment (Aries, Scorpio) or Venus in fall (Virgo), tend to be more comfortable with revealing sides to them that are deemed more “masculine”, though all women struggle with the need to conform. Aspects from Venus to Mars also make a woman more comfortable with her masculine energy.

Because women so often identify with Venus, any planets in your chart that are in Taurus or Libra will affect your feminine identity. If you have Sun in Taurus, for example, you may identify with the principles associated with the Sun.

So you may be wondering: If Mars rules the kind of man a woman is attracted to, why does Venus rule over what she expects out of love? This is the tricky question. It’s actually quite simple. Though women may be drawn to certain men because of their “masculine” energies, they often have certain codes for how even the “baddest” boy is supposed to treat a “lady”. In other words, even though women are attracted to the “bad, rough, and tough” Marsian energy, they still expect to be treated well by him, according to the “lady” she feels she is (which is ruled by her alter ego, Venus). So though she may naturally be drawn to a man’s approach (Mars sign), she may not feel he treats her well if he doesn’t respect or honor her the way she feels she deserves  (reflected by Venus).

Because women project Mars, often times this can create conflict with her Venus energy, especially if there are harsh aspects. A good example of this complicated love life would be singer-songwriter Taylor Swift’s love life (well, as she describes in her music). Taylor Swift has Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Scorpio. Having Mars in Scorpio, she’s naturally drawn to “Pluto and Mars” in a man, the edgy, bad boy types. It’s pretty evident when we listen to songs like “I Knew You Were Trouble” and “Style”. She describes a guy who “doesn’t care” and “she guessed she liked that”. In style, she describes the man as having a James Dean look in his eyes, long hair, slicked-back, white t-shirt…She seems to be drawn to men who sweep her in passionately, who give her a rush, men who have the ability to manipulate and control her psychologically. She likes this bad boy image.

So why would it hurt her for him to leave? Why would she be arguing with him? After all, you can’t expect a bad boy to be good, right? This is because of what she expects when she gets with him, which has a lot to do with the woman she is. It has something to do with her Venus in Aquarius. Unlike Scorpio, Aquarius is a mental air sign. Aquarius upholds humanitarian values, stays away from the depths and drama of messy emotions, abhors power and control, and tends to be social and friendly. When we hear the song, “You Belong With Me” or songs like “Style”, we see the woman SHE is: quirky, lovable, and a good girl. She likes her “tennis shoes” rather than “high heels”. Instead of being “cheer captain”, she’s on the bleachers. This good-girl-geek seems in total contrast to the bad boys she seems to be drawn to. She likes the bad boys, but expects to be treated like a “good girl” BY this bad boy.

What she may not know is the “bad boy” is her projection. It’s only how she PERCEIVES him. Honestly, we all can only “perceive” how others are. We can never know what’s truly going on inside a person. We aren’t them. And no matter how we see a person, they each have their own natal charts that may reveal things we may not totally expect from a person. She may see him as a “bad boy”, and his chart may reveal he’s nothing but a softy! So in all honesty, inside, SHE’S the one who’s drawn to the dark side! It’s her internal bad girl that is constantly drawn to the bad boy! She’s the one who desires to live life on the edge. But she has projected this energy onto the men in her life. That’s how Venus and Mars work in many womans’ chart.

There are other planets in signs that affect our relationships (as well as houses), but Venus is directly associated with our attraction to others, our love for things, and what we desire. Mars works with Venus, but Venus is especially important when it comes to women understanding their gender identity.

Moon is another planet that reveals a woman’s “feminine identity”. But Venus is the beauty and charm in women, Moon is the wife and mother in women. Venus is the girl, Moon is the woman. Venus is our identity when we’re among our peers and potential lovers. Moon is our mother’s identity or our identity as a “parent” or “wife” or long-term girlfriend. This is how we represent our family and how we see ourselves among our family and close friends. Mother’s influence often follows us wherever we go, so we carry her presence with us in public, too. We just don’t often realize it (or if our relationship with her is shaky, we don’t want to).

In a lesbian’s chart, she tends to balance both her masculine and feminine energies well in a relationship, considering she may not feel the need to be the submissive or assertive one in her relationship. It may vary according to her partner. Still, even lesbian women may feel the pressure to conform like all the other women. She may not project her Mars on a man she’s interested in, but she may end up projecting her Mars on men in general. She may even look for a female partner who has more masculine qualities if she really is out of touch with Mars.

In a man’s chart, Venus tends to reflect the qualities he would rather “project” and reveals his idea of the “ideal” woman.

Read What Does HE see in YOU? By the signs

The Moon in a man’s chart also reflects his

Mars in a man’s chart will reflect his social identity and what he expects from a relationship, especially sexually.

Who is HE and What Does He Expect From YOUR Relationship? By the signs

This article can be the most enlightening for men who are looking for a lovely lady or for men who are particularly interested in a woman right now. This article can be very helpful. Many men have a hard time understand the female mind and often may feel confusion when trying to date women. They may notice that though some women claim to be attracted to certain qualities in a man, some women may wish for that man to treat her just the opposite of who he is! Therefore, he may feel women are difficult to please. Well, worry no more! If you look into her natal chart and observe her Venus and Mars signs, aspects, and house placements, you will understand her better.

For ladies, this article can help you understand yourself better in relation to society. This can help you exactly define what you are searching for in relationships. You may relate to the following explanations. This article might be enlightening for gay women as well.

Now that you know a little bit more about Venus and her partner Mars, we can learn how each sign utilizes Venus’s gifts and how women define themselves differently according to her Venus sign!

*Some parts of the interpretations might be too much for those under the age of 18. Reader discretion is advised.

Venus signs

Venus in Aries

Venus in Taurus

Venus in Gemini

Venus in Cancer

Venus in Leo

Venus in Virgo

Venus in Libra

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in Pisces

Venus in Aries

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Feminine Identity: Venus first enters Mars’s domain, Aries, the sign of her detriment. Aries is a fire sign and cardinal. Venus and Mars are two of the relationship planets, but they are polar opposites. Mars has always been the planet associated with masculinity. Venus is the feminine principle. Mars is the planet of war; Venus is the planet of peace. Mars is active; Venus is passive. While being in the sign of Aries can be a little scary for her, it’s always exciting! Thus, when Venus is in Aries, these women don’t often mind doing things that are considered…well, unladylike! For them, men are not the only ones from Mars!

Some Venus in Aries women want to be seen as fun and sexy individuals. They want their love interest to feel an irresistible pull towards them. They want to stand out as the hottest female in every group. They might wear bold and bright colors to stand out. Red may be preferred. Their other preference might be the edgy color black. They might make sure they have their hair done or their faces made up so their love interest can see how pretty they look from first glance. They might show some skin so their love interest notices their assets right away. Most importantly, they wear confidence. They generally try to be the first one on the dance floor, just so their love interest notices them. They might also dance in a sexy way so their love interest wants them.

Other Venus in Aries women may want their love interests to see them as brave, confident, and independent. They might play hard to get or present some sort of challenge for a suitor. They might be daring flirts or they tease their love interests. They might show off their accomplishments. Some of them might take on challenges or dares to impress their love interests. They should be careful not to do something too reckless just to impress someone.

They might want their love interests to see them as passionate. They want their love interests to see that they will do anything for them, anything to win their affections. They will do whatever you ask if they really want you.

They attract people to them by taking initiative. They don’t really “attract” people so much as they “approach”. They really come on to a person they want. When they try to attract someone to them, they do it obviously. They aren’t false charmers. Most people know exactly who and what they want. They don’t play games. If you don’t know that they want you, you are pretending you don’t know. They make sure they are visible around their love interest. They often can’t contain their excitement. When they  like someone, they wear a smile around that person all the time. As a sign that rules the head and face, their love is written on their face. Plain as day.

They come on so strong because they want to make their love interests feel wanted and desired. They hope this will win their love interest over.

These women are not too shy to ask someone out. Most women expect the man to do it. These women don’t have time for those outdated rules! They know who they want and they go for it!

But if you’re the one asking them out, some of them won’t make it easy for you. Depending on their Mars sign, some will test you to see if you can handle them or to see how far you’re willing to go to prove yourself. Some of them are far too independent to be tied down and must really be convinced that the person trying to ask them out is the one.

The Venus in Aries woman’s weakness is selfishness. They often expect to be catered to, to be given all the time and attention, and to be doted upon or considered in every occasion, especially in a committed relationship or if they were asked out (rather than asked someone out, as they tend to do). They get impatient with people who don’t do what they want them to do. But they have a hard time meeting others’ expectations or accommodating to other people. They expect to just be accepted for who they are in every way and they don’t often believe it’s their role to have to do anything for someone else (unless they get something out of it). Some of them may be too demanding or aggressive for some people.

Despite the fact that many Venus in Aries women would rather approach a love interest, some of them may expect their love interest to notice them and take initiative. They may get impatient when the person doesn’t notice them quick enough! This could cause them to be frustrated and they may take it out on the person. They are famous for their temper. It would be better for them to just let their real feelings out.

Unfortunately, they can’t handle rejection. It might stab their ego for awhile. They often go through this because, unlike other women, they actually go after who they want instead of waiting until the guy notices them. But when you do the approaching, you have to face the rejections. Venus in Aries may face this dilemma all the time. They may avoid approaching to avoid rejection, but may be too impatient to wait for a response to their love. It complicates things for them.

They can be a bit aggressive and unrefined. They aren’t always ladylike. They aren’t into tradition. Even if they have some ladylike traits, they are free-spirited by nature. They may be accused of wearing the pants in their relationships.

They’re also rather bored easily. Most of them may expect their love interest to spice things up or keep it exciting. Others might openly flirt with other people. Some of them may grow tired of a settled relationship and may find themselves crushing on someone new.

In order to feel loved and happy, they need someone in their lives who keeps the romance going. They need someone who’s just as enthusiastic about the relationship as they are. They would expect their lovers to keep them on their toes constantly. Try new things, be bold, create a challenge for them, and they’re all yours.

But they don’t need their lovers clinging on to them. They need their independence. They need to be able to do their own thing sometimes. They often need the absence so they can desire their love interest or so their love can grow fonder. They need a partner that accepts that part of themselves. Their partner needs to have their own thing, too. They don’t like being controlled or monitored.

However, when you two do get back together, they want the relationship to be just as exciting and romantic as it was when you first met.

Sexually, these women often want the experience to be fun, passionate, and a little rough. They want to try new things, but they often don’t want to waste too much time getting into the act. They like it wild. They can do the act anywhere, but may get really excited if they’re in a dangerous location.

They may enjoy their heads carrassed. They may also like their hair pulled or tugged at. They love to kiss during the act.

Aries is ruled by Mars, the planet of war, action, sex. These ladies’ Mars sign will shed more light. Look at their Mars sign and then find the Venus sign on this page that’s closest. For example, if the lady has Mars in Taurus, read Venus in Taurus.

Celebrities:  Jennifer Aniston,  Mia Farrow,  Shakira, Sarah Palin, Christina Ricci, Lana Turner, Rosa Parks, Roberta Flack, Anna Pavlova, Rihanna, Elizabeth Taylor,  Eva Longoria, Queen Latifah, Carrie Underwood, Liza Minnelli, Emily Blunt, Chelsea Clinton, Chelsea Handler,  Jean Harlow, Lady Gaga, Sarah Jessica Parker, Keira Knightley, Rooney Mara, Mariah Carey, Marcia Cross, Doris Day, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Linda Goodman, Leona Lewis, Ashley Judd, Alessandra Ambrosio, Mandy Moore, Jayne Mansfield, Joan Crawford, Susan Boyle, Julia Stiles, Julie Christie, Ali MacGraw,  Rosie O’Donnell, Elizabeth Montgomery, Vivienne Westwood, Melissa Joan Hart, America Ferrera, Jessica Chastain, Alek Wek, Caroline Winberg, Jessica Hart, Verushka, Renée Zellweger, Audrey Hepburn, Lily Allen, Katharine Hepburn, Cate Blanchett, Sofia Coppola, Janet Jackson, Toyah Wilcox, Donatella Versace, Arielle Dombasle, Virginie Efira, Alison Goldfrapp, Audrina Patridge, Sophie Anderton, Andrea Corr, Bianca Jagger, Miranda Cosgrove, Natasha Richardson, Arissa Hill, Shirley Temple,  Marilyn Monroe, Bar Refaeli, Helena Bonham Carter, Priscilla Presley, Lea Thompson, Fairuza Balk, Annette Bening, Carey Mulligan, Mutya Buena, Annette Bening, Denise Van Outen, Anne Heche, Jewel

Kpop Idols: CL (2ne1), Lee Hyori, Sulli (f(x)), Mina (Twice), Dahyun (Twice), Lalisa (BlackPink), Yeri (Red Velvet), Yoona (Girls’ Generation/SoShi/SNSD)

Sun in Aquarius and Sun in Pisces with Venus in Aries

Sun in Aries with Venus in Aries

Sun in Pisces with Venus in Aries

Sun in Taurus with Venus in Aries

Sun in Gemini with Venus in Aries


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Venus in Taurus

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Feminine Identity: Venus enters one of her homes when she comes into the second sign of Taurus, a fixed earth sign. Here, it may not be as exciting as her last domain, but she sure feels safe and comfortable here. Any partner who gets with a Venus in Taurus woman would feel the same. These women may or may not have tomboyish streaks, but they still hold themselves to traditional feminine values. They can be fighters when pushed, but they would rather not reveal this side. They prefer peace to chaos. These women are always moderate in their tendencies. Thus, most women admire them. While they are strong, hard-working, and practical, they don’t always feel like they have to be one of the guys to earn respect. They know how to get attention without stealing someone else’s shine.

Venus in Taurus women want to be seen by their love interests as beautiful and valuable. They want to be pleasing to the senses in all aspects. They want their love interests to see them as worth more than all the riches in the world. Thus, they hold themselves with a lot of dignity when in the presence of their love interest. They always show they have a lot to offer a lover, whether its with their money, cooking skills, or calm temperament. They might wear jeweled colors, like ruby red and emerald green, to show their value.

They may want their love interests to see them as feminine and traditional, especially amidst a changing world. They might have some traditionally feminine traits that they feel would be valuable to many people. They might go for soft and feminine colors, pastels like pink, to show their feminine and soft side. They may enjoy soft and sensual fabrics at times.

Don’t get it twisted though. They are practical and perfectly capable of taking care of themselves. They are money-savvy. But they would like their partner to add to the pot.

They may also want their love interests to see them as sensible and practical. They tend to be rather down-to-earth. They may go for earth-tone colors to show how practical and humble they are. Some of them may even dress practically

They tend to embellish all of their looks with jewelry, especially necklaces. Or they might show off their necks and collar bone area by keeping it bare. They tend to have a classic appeal when trying to impress someone they like. They don’t go overboard, and may only show a little skin. They may accentuate their bodies though. They may possibly show off their curves. But they try not to appear desperate.

These women want their love interests to see them in a calm state. They may be embarrassed if their love interest were to see them lose their cool or get angry.

They also want to look, smell, and sound their best when a love interest is around. They may not like their love interest visiting them when they’re sick.

They want their love interests to feel comfortable around them at all times.

Venus in Taurus women attract a potential love interest to them by being graceful and feminine. They try to tickle their love interest’s senses.

They tend to make physical offerings. They give massages, cook for you, buy or make little gifts, and spend a lot of time with someone they’re interested in. They’re known for their subtle flirting style. They give hugs and pecks on the cheek (the lips come after commitment). Taurus being ruled by the throat, they always make sure they watch their tone of voice around someone they’re interested in. They don’t want to scare anyone away. They might even sing to their love interests if they have a good singing voice.

They are always patient when they really like someone. They will wait forever for their love interest to come around. They may even be long-suffering when dealing with a potential love interest.

The Venus in Taurus woman’s weakness is her superficiality when dealing with people. She’s more drawn to people who do things physically for her. It’s not that she’s all about the money and good looks, but they are assets. She at least wants someone charming. She doesn’t really get too deep and meaningful when it comes to love. She’s relatively simple and may be confused by any sort of loving that happens beyond the physical and material realm.

She can also be difficult to please. If she’s not interested in anyone in particular, she will make potential suitors work for her love and she takes a long time choosing the right one. She will enjoy a couple of dinner dates before she decides. This might cost suitors a lot of money. She may not make a decision for many years! Most suitors might move on by the time she decides. She really needs to spend a lot of time with a person before deciding to date them for real. She’s also not likely to sleep around on the first date unless the person is really attractive and convincing. Some people might consider this a strength. More impatient suitors might consider this a weakness.

They might be daring in other aspects of life, but they are not the most experimental or adventurous person when it comes love. If it makes her uncomfortable, she will refuse to do it with a lover. She tends to stick to what she’s used to and can do the same thing every day. This doesn’t just apply to what she wants to do in public but also in the bedroom. If she’s never tried something or she’s tried something that failed her before, she will be hesitant to try it at all. In public, she prefers simple and traditional dates like dinner and a movie or just a walk and picnic in the park. Or maybe even just sitting at home or in a hotel doing nothing.

She likes for love interests to make her feel safe and secure. If you do want her to try something different, you need to make her feel at ease with it. She has to trust you. She has to feel relaxed. She won’t mind a nice motorcycle ride or trying a smoke, but don’t try any “fast and furious” type of garbage or drugging her drink. Show that you have some sense.

This woman is rather traditional. Even when she likes someone, she doesn’t like to be the one asking someone else out. She would rather her love interest notice her and ask her out. She tends to be cautious with love and definitely doesn’t want to face rejection. She would rather the other person take the chance. Some potential suitors might like that she’s willing to let them take initiative, but others might be confused as to what she really wants because she isn’t open. They might pick up the wrong signs. It’s not that she plays games, because she’s genuine and honest, she’s just subtle in her approach.

She’s traditional in another way: She prefers her partner to be the one paying all of the bills. If she has to reach in her pocket for any reason, that’s a turn off.

Last, these women can be possessive. They get jealous rather easily. They won’t like their love interests around other women. They might even get upset if they even THINK their love interest is around someone else. They like to be the only woman in their love interest’s lives. They don’t usually lose their cool in front of a love interest, but if you really want to excite the bull, surround yourself around female friends.

But they are not against stepping out of the relationship if they don’t feel their partner is pleasing them enough or giving them enough attention. The worst part is they may string a lover along while cheating because they don’t want to lose their security or start any drama.

Yet, you don’t want to please them too much. They tend to get comfortable. They get so comfortable they forget to give as much as they’re given. When they get used to something, they won’t know how to change their ways.

In order to feel happy and loved, Venus in Taurus women want to be treated like a valuable item. They want someone to care for them, be patient with them, and to protect them. They want a partner that makes them feel good and satisfies their desires. They want someone who is willing to spend money and time. They want someone to make them feel secure and special. They expect their lovers to be loyal. Fidelity is very important to them. They prefer a partner who has had few relationships to one that has had many. Though they love a skilled sex partner, they would prefer a man who has never had sex to a man who has slept with too many. They can’t stand a player.

Sexually, these women enjoy the sensual aspects of it all. They want to experience every touch, taste, sound, sight, and smell that could enhance their feeling of pleasure. They need the physical pleasures to actually get aroused. Usually, they are cautious when jumping into sex, so you have to make them feel secure and at ease. They will make you work or wait.

While they are generally basic and simple, not caring to jump into experimenting and such, they focus on ultimate pleasure. They take their time and enjoy foreplay. They prefer a comfortable environment to a rough one. If you really want to spice things up, foreplay dealing with a nice bath or playing around with food might be nice.

They like their neck and collar bone stroked or kissed.

Taurus is ruled by Venus, the goddess of love and beauty. Taurus is her home, so she blesses them with a lot of charm, beauty, and grace. They just have to be careful not to get vain and spoiled.

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Kpop Idols: Irene (Red Velvet), Jessia (Girls’ Generation/SoShi/SNSD), Shinbi (GFriend)

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Venus in Gemini

Gemini

Feminine Identity: Venus enters Gemini third, the sign ruled by Mercury. Here, it’s not too far away from who she is, but some things are different. I wouldn’t say she feels completely comfortable here, but there are some things that are familiar. Gemini is an air and mutable sign. Venus is considered an air planet. Like Venus, Gemini is social and charming. But Gemini’s energy is too scattered for Venus to find a consistent love. Gemini is also too curious about everything that it never stops to settle down. Venus likes to relax sometimes. Gemini is too nervous to relax. Thus, these ladies are charming, but they hop around too much.

Venus in Gemini women want to be seen as fun, young, attractive, charming, and intelligent individuals by their love interests.

They usually wear bright and cheerful colors to give them a youthful and lively appearance. They might tease love interests by showing a little skin here and there. They tend to often show off their shoulders and arms mostly. They make sure their hands look well-manicured. They also pay attention to their lips. They try to appear kissable.

They are generally open to trying all new looks, and may pick a style depending on who they are going out with and depending on the occasion. They should be careful not to pretend to be something they aren’t to impress a love interest. Mostly, though, they tend to dress in the latest trends, which gives them a young vibe no matter how old they are. To most people, they always look young, which helps them find love timelessly.

They want love interests to know that they are open-minded and willing to try new things.

They want to appear witty and funny. They love to make their love interests laugh. They love to tease their love interests, too.

They may want love interests to see them as busy socialites with places to go and plenty of suitors waiting. In their own way, they feel this will convince slow suitors to pick up their feet. Really, plenty of suitors are usually waiting for these dynamic women. If you don’t scoop them up when you can, you will miss the boat.

Venus in Gemini women attract love interests to them by being talkative and flirty. They have an airy charm. They aren’t necessarily stupid though, even if they act ditzy. They generally have a smooth and adaptable way of talking to people, and this draws all kinds of lovers their way. They can change up their whole approach to attract the one they want to them. They also know how to work that body language. They tend to be good with languages of all kinds really.

These women try to stay open to things. They attract people to them by trying new things with their love interests.

They might try to show interest in the person. They typically try to get inside a person’s mind and see how they think. They are naturally curious.

Venus in Gemini women’s weakness is being scattered. They are so scattered all over the place, they have a difficult time giving the attention and time to their love interests. They are relatively independent and don’t really need a partner around them all the time. They tend to have so much going on at once, they are hard to pin down. It’s hard for them to be a domestic homebody.

They keep their options open, too. Some potential suitors may get frustrated with this. They tend to go on dates with two different guys at the same time until they decide which one they want. Everyone might not be okay with this. They don’t mean to play with people’s hearts, but sometimes they come across that way.

They’re also friendly with everyone. They tend to have a lot of people surrounding them from both sexes. This might make some people insecure. And they’re not going to let go of their friends just because it makes some suitor uncomfortable (especially if they haven’t decided if they really like the person yet).

They can be rather shallow. They tend to only care about things superficially and may not offer any depth. They might not be interested in anything too deep, intimate, personal, and meaningful either. They just want to laugh and have a good time. They don’t like when people act coy, “woke”, or dull.

They can be two-faced, too. They may let their friends influence them too much. They might be turned off from a suitor just because their friends don’t like them. Or they might only be interested in a suitor just because all of their friends are interested.

As mentioned before, they might pretend to be someone they aren’t just get with a love interest. Some of them might be a little fake.

They generally talk a lot, too. If you want to keep some aspects of your relationship private, it’s nearly impossible with this woman. She slips up all the time.

In order to keep the Venus in Gemini happy and feeling loved, you have to keep things interesting. She doesn’t want to be bored.

Not only do you have to mentally engage and entertain her, you have to communicate. She needs to be able to talk to her love interests at all times, no matter where you are or who you’re with. She needs to hear that she’s loved. Constantly make her feel attractive by complimenting her when she changes her looks up. Pay attention when she speaks and at least show some interest in what she’s saying.

You need to do some fun things with her. Invite her places. Show her off to all of your friends.

If you don’t cheat and lie, she won’t either. But if she catches you, best believe she will find someone much easier than you did.

Sexually, these women want to have a good time. They want someone who makes the experience fun for them. They are open to trying new things as long as it’s not too weird (and even if it is, just don’t film it).

They find pleasure with words. Pillow talk might be a favorite. They might also enjoy some tempting text messages or little romantic notes. Be clever and creative if you want them knocking down your door.

They need someone that can get them out of their heads and into their bodies. They might be so focused on talking, they may not actually get down to the act. They might be thinking so much about what they want to do, they may not actually do it. A nice massage might be just the thing to release that nervous energy and tension.

These women like their shoulders and arms touched or kissed. They may like being kissed in general. They might enjoy holding hands during the act as well. They might like their hands kissed. They may enjoy playful touching. They enjoy anything oral.

Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and movement. Look for their Mercury sign and then find the Venus sign closest on this page. For instance, if their Mercury is in Cancer, read Venus in Cancer.

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Kpop Idols: Chaeyoung (Twice), Sunny (Girls’ Generation/SoShi/SNSD),Eunha (GFriend), Hyuna (4 Minute)

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Sun in Gemini with Venus in Gemini

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Venus in Cancer

Cancer

Feminine Identity: Venus enters the sign of Cancer, the area belonging to the greater feminine luminary, the Moon. Cancer is a cardinal sign and a water sign. There are some things Venus is comfortable with while being in Cancer, and some things she’s not. Like the Moon, Venus is a planet that represents femininity. But unlike the Moon, Venus is far more social and superficial. She’s more about pleasure, romantic love, and beauty. The Moon focuses on the emotions and commitment, which can be the good, bad, or ugly. Moon reflects overall womanhood and motherhood. Venus would rather think about life in love…rather than the responsibilities of a family and emotional commitments. She’s the young, beautiful, untouched woman. Still, at least here she can find lasting partnerships and romance.

Venus in Cancer women want to be seen as sweet, feminine, and maternal by their love interests. They might wear sweet and feminine colors like pastels or white. They might enjoy some glitter or silver, too. But if they want to get a little dangerous, they go for eye-popping red. To show that they are capable of being nurturing mothers, they might accentuate their chest a little.

Usually, they aren’t gaudy or too provocative. They want to appear like good wives. They often think about how their attire will influence their future children, too. They want to be good role models.

They don’t really care about the design of their clothes. Most of them might be fine with just a simple top and jeans. They may like loose-fitting dresses. Still, they are artistic, so they may be drawn to certain colors and designs.

However they look on the outside, it’s underneath that they care about. When going out with a love interest, they make sure to choose the finest underwear and sleep attire. Lingerie makes them feel sexy.

Venus in Cancer women attract love interests to them by being a caring, understanding, and thoughtful person in their love interest’s life. They are the ones who are there whenever they’re asked to be, buy thoughtful gifts, and lend a shoulder to cry on. They always try to be understanding.

They try to remember birthdays, the names of their love interest’s family members, and other important information about that person.

They also try to appear like good wives and mothers. They might cook and clean for a love interest. They might show interest in babies or children. They might care for animals. They will always think about their love interest’s family. They usually get close with their love interest’s mother. They work hard to win the family’s approval.

They might also want potential love interests to see how practical and smart they are. These women are capable of providing for their families because they are business-savvy, know how to nurture a business, and know where to find money. They are creative as well. They may want to be admired for these qualities.

One of Venus in Cancer women’s weakness is that they expect others to intuit their feelings. It’s hard for them to just go after whatever it is they want, so they tend to leave indirect clues that they expect love interests to pick up on. If their love interest doesn’t get the hint, they get upset. They might expect others to be as intuitive as they are.

Venus in Cancer women are also rather shy. This can be an endearing quality in some ways, but it can be a limiting quality in other ways. Because they shy away from certain things, they aren’t the most experimental and adventurous lovers. They stick with what’s familiar to them when it comes to love.

These women can be unrealistic and impressionable when it comes to what they expect out of love. They might be extremely romantic or they may be influenced by movies and romance novels to be this way. They might expect partners to wait beneath their balcony windows and whisk them away on midnight excursions. They might be disappointed by lovers who lack imagination.

Venus in Cancer women can be sensitive and moody. They might get their feelings hurt rather easily, and they aren’t against being manipulative to get back at someone.

In order to feel loved and happy, Venus in Cancers need to be pampered and cared for. They need someone to treat them gently and sensitively. They need to feel understood. They also love some imagination and romance from time to time. They need a thoughtful lover that thinks about what they want without having to be told to.

Sexually, these women are all about intimacy and feeling a sense of closeness. Sex feels pleasurable for them when they are in love with their partner. Romantic foreplay would make the experience more memorable. They may not be avante-garde, but they may be open to trying new things if they really love a partner enough. Their feelings influence them.

They may enjoy their chest being played with or kissed. They might like being touched or held by their lower stomach. They mostly like to face their lover so they can feel a connection in that person’s eyes.

Cancer is ruled by the Moon. The Moon is the planet of emotions, the past, and nurturing femininity. Find out what her Moon sign is. Then find the Venus sign that’s closest on this page. For example, if she’s Moon in Leo, read Venus in Leo.

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Kpop Idols: Luna (f(x)), Joy (Red Velvet), Yerin (GFriend), Hwasa (Mamamoo)

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Venus in Leo

Leo

Feminine Identity: Venus enters the sign ruled by the Sun, Leo. Here, she meets fixed fire. Sun is naturally falling in one of Venus’s signs, Libra, so there are going to be some things Venus isn’t comfortable with in Leo. Still, there are things that Venus can handle here. For one, Leo is highly romantic. Venus is the planet of love. In Leo, Venus is able to enjoy love to the fullest. Our Venus in Leo ladies are very good at honoring Venus in their own special way. They are just a little more independent and can be self-centered.

Venus in Leo women want to be seen as faithful, generous, sweet, creative, popular, and attractive but also confident and independent.

If Venus in Leo women could have their way, they’d want their love interests to see them as any and everything any man would want! Venus in Leo women are all about putting their best out there. They want their love interest to see nothing but the best in them. They want their love interest to see their strengths.

Generally, when these women are around their love interests, they try not to show their sadness or anger. They want their love interests to see them smiling and having fun at all times.

They want to appear confident and independent. They don’t want to appear clingy. They want to show a love interest that they have a lot to offer. They want to show their accomplishments and what they could share with a love interest if they were to merge. They want to be considered “rare” and valuable.

When trying to attract their love interests, they might choose colors that help them stand out. They usually go for sunny or sunrise colors like red, orange, yellow, and gold. They might like soft pinks and purple as well. They may like to show or highlight their back and shoulder, which would make them seem confident. They might show a little bit of their chest as well. They do like to show some skin, but they have too much dignity to come out of the house looking tasteless and classless.

They try to attract their love interest to them by looking their best when they’re around them, by wearing confidence, by flirting, and by giving everything they’ve got.

They are very generous. They give of time, resources, energy, and effort when they like someone. They want their love interest to feel special. They can get really creative when it comes to trying to impress their love interest. They want to be unforgettable. They want their love interest to feel like royalty.

They generally like to make their love interest laugh. They try to be a ray of sunshine in their love interest’s life.

Venus in Leo’s weakness is that they have very high standards for love. They treat their lovers like royalty, but they also expect to be treated like queens. They usually want their way in a relationship. They want the relationship to go the way they want it to. They expect their partners to be romantic, chivalrous, sexy, attractive, confident, and accomplished-just as they feel they are. You have to get on their level in life.

They’re also popular and they know it! They can get any suitor they want to. Though they generally are faithful, they aren’t against flirting a little and dancing a little with someone else if they feel their partner isn’t giving them enough attention.

And they require a lot of attention. If they get a flat tire, you’d better be there to pick them up. If they are having a bad day, you’d better listen. If they’re bored, you’d better entertain them. They aren’t giving anything up for anyone who isn’t willing to jump and leap for them.

They get jealous rather easily as well. Don’t you dare even acknowledge that another woman is attractive. Though they love to be flattered and may innocently flirt with others, they can’t handle it when their partners do the same thing. They may only accept their partner stepping out if both parties agree to have more than one partner. This means Venus in Leo women will explore, too. It’s only fair.

They can be a little bossy and dominant. They are often more sure of themselves than some of their love interests, so they end up doing all the planning and telling their lovers what to do.

In order to feel loved and happy, these women have to feel like queens. They need their partners acting as both kings and servants. They need someone to take care of them, someone who is always there for them, someone who is always into them. They need attention and affection. Their partner should always notice when they style themselves up or when they need help. They need a partner that is creative and romantic. They need someone adventurous and fun. They need to be living their fullest life with a lover.

Though they want a servant, they also need a king. They need a partner that is proud of them and stands by them. They need a partner that takes the lead in most affairs and takes the reins from this women every once in a while. They want a partner that is confident and content.

Sexually, these women want to feel wanted. They want their partners to work to please them. They also want to have fun. They can be adventurous and a bit of an exhibitionist. Sex is usually a love-making experience for them. They would want all of their sex partners to be in love with them. They won’t tolerate their partner having too many other sex partners.

They might enjoy their backs being caressed and their chests being played with or kissed.

Leo is ruled by the Sun. Look at the Sun sign then find the Venus sign that’s closest on this page. For example, if her Sun is in Virgo, read Venus in Virgo.

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Venus in Virgo

virgo

Feminine Identity: Venus enters Mercury’s other sign here, only this time it’s the mutable earthy Virgo. Here, Venus is in a difficult falling position. Mercury and Venus aren’t really opposite planets, but the natural nature of this earth sign makes it difficult for Venus to really blossom the way she would like. This doesn’t mean the women with this position aren’t feminine. Quite the contrary! Some of these women are quite prim, demure, and docile. They have very soft qualities at times. The real issue Venus has in this position has to deal with Virgo’s modesty. Really, Venus and Virgo have some things in common, considering she has triplicity in Virgo. They are both subtle and easy-going (Venus being a planet of pleasure and Virgo being a physical earth sign). They both believe in being fair and have a strong sense of righteousness. But the vanity of Venus is humbled in this sign. Venus is usually a pleasure-seeking, easy-going, mostly lazy goddess. She cares about material comforts as well as her appearance. She is also quite involved with love. Virgo is the sign of hard work. Virgo is practical and rejects idealistic romance. Virgo makes the person less interested in superficial looks and charms and prefers the real girl. This means that the women with this position may look fabulous, but they work hard to get there.

Some Venus in Virgo women want to be pleasing in the eyes of their love interest, no matter what that means. They want to be helpful, useful, attractive, self-sacrificing, sweet, modest, sexy-whatever will please their love interest. They work really hard to be the kind of girl their love interest can fall in love with.

Other Venus in Virgo women generally want to be seen as down-to-earth and smart. They don’t want their partners to have super high expectations of them. They would rather be their natural selves.

Many Venus in Virgo women swing between desires.

Some of them tend to want to look perfect when around someone they like. They attend to every aspect of their appearance until they can attract the right love interests to them.

They tend to choose form-flattering attire. They use natural but enhancing makeup. They don’t usually go for gaudy or colorful clothing, even if it is a bit revealing. They want most people to consider them stylish. They prefer professional and muted colors.

Other Venus in Virgo women try to be as natural and down-to-earth as possible in their appearance. They try not to put on airs. They just try to look decent and tend to their hygiene. They might want their natural beauty to shine through.

They don’t directly try to attract potential suitors to them. They are often too shy to openly flirt and they are apprehensive about love. They are modest and quiet about their feelings.

However, when they really are interested in a person, they will do anything for that person. You will notice their affections in the little things they do. They won’t outright tell you they like you. You have to pay attention.

They are the type of people to help their love interest with small errands and household tasks. They are really helpful and useful. They will be there to give advice, too.

They tease the people they like a lot, too. They tend to have a playfulness about them that’s endearing.

These people keep themselves together. When they feel unattractive, they work hard to improve themselves. They are constantly blossoming because they are always fixing themselves. They keep their bodies tight, their skin clear, their teeth in check, and their health in order. This makes them physically attractive to people.

One of Venus in Virgo women’s weakness could be that they are perfectionists. They are often very hard on themselves. Some of them have all sorts of insecurities, especially when it comes to their appearance. Many women with this placement get plastic surgery, go on diets, and try to fix themselves up in other ways to get that “perfect” look. They know logically what the beauty standards are. Many of them don’t believe in the “everyone is beautiful in their own way” philosophy. Really, all of their imperfections are what make them perfect. But it’s hard to convince them of this.

The ones that do believe everyone is beautiful in their own way had to work through many insecure moments in their lives to get to that point. This side of Venus in Virgo usually comes out much later in their lives.

They also expect perfection from suitors. They can be picky. The littlest thing can turn them off. If you really want them, you have to fix yourself to their liking. They won’t let just any person in their lives.

Venus in Virgo women are also not the most romantic individuals in the world. They are not the most imaginative. They might find some gestures to be corny or cheesy. They aren’t easily impressed by the flash or sappy gestures. They prefer someone to be real and down-to-earth in their approach.

In order to feel happy and loved, Venus in Virgo women need someone in their lives that accepts them, flaws and all. They need someone that can stick with them through everything. They want someone that appreciates them and acknowledges their efforts. They want someone who makes an effort to show their devotion as well. You don’t have to do it in fancy ways. It’s the little things that count. Just pick them up from work, offer to help them fix something, or spend some relaxing time with them. If they are having a bad day, be there to comfort them or provide a listening ear. Make life easier for them so they won’t have more stresses and worries. Help them pay some bills.

Sexually, Venus in Virgo women tend to be service-oriented. They perfect their craft until it becomes an art. They want their partners pleased and satisfied in all sexual areas. At the same time, they want a partner that is just as skilled to please them, too, even if they don’t always ask for what they want. Though they aren’t going to initiate any kinks, some of them can be kinky at times.

Their issue is they have a hard time seeing the big picture. They may get so focused on pleasing a partner, they forget to enjoy it or connect with their partner. They might also have a hard time getting out of their worries and stresses so they can be there mentally for sex. A good massage can cure this. Their partner would have to take some initiative.

They aren’t always shy, but if they don’t feel their best they won’t be aroused too easily. Their partners have to make them feel attractive and secure.

They might enjoy being touched in general while doing the act, but holding their waist might arouse them more.

Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and movement. Look at Mercury’s sign then find the Venus sign on this page that is closest. For instance, if Mercury is in Libra, read Venus in Libra.

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Venus in Libra

Libra

Feminine Identity: Venus enters her second home when she comes in contact with Libra, the air and cardinal sign. This means these women have a strong feminine identity, one that most women can’t help but admire and relate to. Libra is the sign of relationships. It’s easy for people to relate to them and therefore easy for them to form relationships with people. They are very charming. This is because they are polite, well-mannered, and considerate.

Venus in Libra women tend to want their love interests to see them as cool, sweet, intelligent, cultured, attractive, and charming-beautiful on the inside and out, mind, body, and spirit.

They want their love interests to see them as equal to them.

In order to appear calm and sophisticated, they might wear cool and soft colors like blue or pink. They tend to like clothes that bring out their best assets. This depends on their body shape, personality, and other natural assets. They know how to make their clothes work for them. They aren’t usually provocative though. They might showing some skin, but they are typically sophisticated, casual, and/or cool when dressing up. They never over-do it. They just dress up their usual.

They might want to emphasize their butt in some way, though. They might wear jeans, skirts, or shorts that give them a nice rump.

They don’t usually need to wear anything special. All they need is their charm.

Venus in Libra women attract love interests to them with their natural charms. Their ruler, Venus, gives them a natural sweet and cool temperament. Most people feel at ease in their presence. They generally try to be pleasant, polite, and open-minded when dealing with others, which makes them endearing. They use this charm to attract their love interest.

They try not to get impatient or frustrated with others, but they especially do not like to lose their temper in front of their crush. They want their love interest to mostly see them in a collected state.

They usually hate being alone, so they try to make friends with people. They are good at finding what they have in common with others. This makes them pretty popular and makes them gain others’ love quite easily. They especially try to find common ground with their love interest.

They are flirty, but they aren’t vulgar with it. They will acknowledge when someone looks good or when they like the way someone smells, but they will try not to be rude or step over any boundaries. Many people appreciate this about them.

They go out of their way to show their love for the person they’re interested in. They aren’t forceful, but they do tend to lavish affection, gifts, and other tokens of their love.

They try to fall in step with their love interest. They will attend events where their love interest is present.

The Venus in Libra woman’s weakness is that they are flirty with everyone. Sometimes, it’s hard to know who they are really interested in. They treat everyone equally. They act too cool to act desperate, but some people are left wondering about their feelings.

Venus in Libra women are also indecisive. Even when they have someone they like, they are always wondering whether they’re making the right choice. And if they have two really good suitors, they might date them both just to see if they can find the right one! They also don’t like to hurt people’s feelings, so they might give others a chance even if they know who they like.

Some of them want to be in a relationship so bad or they fear being alone so much, they settle with the first person that asks them out. They may not be sure if they like the person, but they just like the attention they’re getting from this person.

They might let their relationship define them. They might lose their own identity when with their partner. Sometimes, they end up sharing too much with their partner. If the relationship doesn’t work out, they end up losing half of the things they worked hard for. They often have a difficult time separating themselves from their partner in many ways. They should find some things they can keep for themselves and learn that it’s okay to do so.

Some Venus in Libra lack confidence. They may not feel they have what it takes to fight for the one they love. But the opposite is true! They have so much going for themselves! They just need to believe in themselves.

Venus in Libra women should avoid being superficial and judgmental. Though they’re generally pleasant around most people, deep within they tend to judge people based on their lifestyle, appearance, behavior, or mannerisms. If they let go of some of these judgments, they might be able to pick the right person for them.

In order for these women to feel happy and loved, they need to be treated as an equal. If they do something for someone, they need it returned. They don’t like double standards.

They want to feel wanted, loved, and cared for. They want someone to romance them. They want someone that buys them luxuries, takes them on dates, and tells them they are loved.

They want a partner they can do anything with. Do couple things with them. Make them feel special. Own them and acknowledge them in public.

Sexually, they just like the art of love-making and being with a partner. They love a little foreplay and romance before the act. They generally want to be pleased and they’re willing to please their partner. They may not be avant-garde in their approach, but they still have an adventurous and playful side. They can enjoy any sexual style as long as it’s not too painful or disgusting. They don’t like to get too dirty.

They might like to be held by their waist or they may enjoy their buttocks squeezed, held, or carressed during the act.

Libra is ruled by Venus. Venus, the goddess of love and beauty, gives them all the charm and beauty they need. They just have to be careful not to get too dependent on the ease Venus offers.

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Venus in Scorpio

Scorpio

Feminine Identity: Venus enters another uncomfortable position when she enters the sign ruled by Mars and Pluto. That sign is Scorpio. Scorpio is a fixed water sign. In the watery depths of Scorpio, Venus feels like she’s suffocating. Though Scorpio is subtle on the outside, Venus can’t help but feel there is something not-so-subtle going on underneath. Underneath the quiet Scorpio is a whole lot of passion and desire. Venus is not comfortable with such an extreme energy. She does everything in moderation. Scorpio, on the other hand, is an all or nothing sign. And when it comes to their own feminine identity, they are no different. They can be powerfully feminine or reject femininity altogether. If they are women who are powerfully feminine, they are all about female empowerment. These women may feel more content being single than being with a male partner. Some of them may be more interested in dating women. These women are fiercely independent, but they still enjoy all the things that make up a girl. In fact, they may feel that more people should honor femininity. These women may put a lot of emphasis on their own individual charms and beauty. They may reject the idea of women having to live up to “masculine standards” and may feel that men should do more to be like women. The ones that reject traditional femininity are out to prove they can just as powerful and strong as the boys.

Venus in Scorpio women want to be seen by their love interests as powerful, self-reliant, magnetic, sexy, wise, and intuitive individuals.

They both want to attract the right suitor towards them and scare away those that aren’t any good or can’t handle them.

While they want suitors to be attracted to them, they want suitors to like them for their strength, natural beauty, and brains. They aren’t superficial ladies. There’s always more than meets the eye, and they want suitors to know that.

While, they want suitors to be mesmerized by them, they want suitors to know they don’t need a lover to complete them. They are capable of taking care of themselves, just as a warning. Even if they know the love interest they want, they won’t let that person subdue them or stop them from getting all they want out of life.

Though they can be wrapped around a love interest’s fingers in many ways, they try not to let a love interest control them in every way. They don’t like feeling like they have to change everything they are for a love interest. They aren’t the types to want to appear desperate for a love interest, either. They know where it leads. So, they tend to tease and play hard to get sometimes.

And yet, deep down, these women are willing to change everything about themselves to gain their love interest’s affections. It’s because these women are the types to be willing to do anything for a love interest that they put up their defenses. They just don’t want their love interest to know that and use it to their advantage. It takes the right love interest to ignite their passion and desire to be and do anything for love.

Everyone wants to be attractive and loved. In order to give just enough sexiness and yet keep some power to themselves, these ladies tend to be drawn to clothing in black or dark red and maroons. They go through many style transformations. At one point in their lives, they might go for more form-fitting attire, only to add sharp accessories that instill some fear. They might wear loose-fitting clothing so they can leave something for the imagination. They might wear a little sheer just to tease a love interest. They might get their nails done and wear perfume, too. They can be gaudy and provocative at times, and then flip the script and be conservative. They tend to be like a spy, switching identities constantly.

Venus in Scorpio women attract love interests to them in very subtle ways. They aren’t open flirts. They aren’t overt at all. While everyone is asking a partner to dance or sitting down and flirting, Venus in Scorpio women are hanging back in the corner, watching and observing. They are lone wolves. Some might already be on the floor by themselves, eyeing the one they want and silently asking their love interest to come and get them.

They can be a little shy of too much attention, so they might not make themselves noticeable to their love interest. But if that person is observant enough, they can catch their seduction through their eyes. The eyes are the window to their emotions. That’s where they hide their deep well. Through their eyes, you can see their real feelings.

Venus in Scorpio women are the queens of staring. They know how to mesmerize love interests with a look. They tell a story and send signals with their eyes. They might even add a little magnetic smile there.

Their mysterious aura can be attractive to those who take the time to notice. They’re like a magician casting a person under their spell. And the fact that they are hard to catch is even more appealing.

They also tend to do a lot of research about the one they are interested in just so they can know what their love interests like and want. They observe, too. As a result, they know how to satisfy their love interest’s desires. By the time a love interest has noticed them, they would’ve known more about the love interest than that person knows themselves! The right one will find this intriguing. They are super intelligent and can work rings around a partner. This can be powerfully sexy. Their research helps them keep a love interest satisfied and content.

Despite the fact that Venus in Scorpio women hate to be desperate for love, they are willing to do anything to obtain the one they love. This is what makes their love so deep and meaningful. It’s because their emotions run so deep. They are willing to give their everything-money, time, energy, body, and soul. Some of them are even willing to die for the one they love. They will be cute, sweet, sexy, good wives, anything their love interest wants them to be if it means they can have the person’s love in return. Some people find their undying loyalty irresistible.

These women are passionate about anything and anyone they want. Their passion is evident in the way they do things. This can be alluring.

These women are also willing to break all social rules when it comes to love. Many people find this appealing. They don’t care what others think. They can get lost in a love.

The Venus in Scorpio woman’s weakness is her need to control how everything goes. She plans all of her moves carefully, but when things go astray, which it often does in love, she gets knocked off-balance. She may form love-hate relationships with lovers because she’s both in control and out of control when in love. She may want love to be the way she wants it to be, but the other person is another being with needs and desires as well.

There’s also some things she keeps close to her chest, things she’s not willing to give up, and things she’s not willing to accomodate on. But she may expect that from a partner.

As much as these women respect control, they can get lost in love and lose all of their control. They might lose their whole identities while in a relationship. This is why infidelity is the worst for them. If you leave them, they might feel as if they are losing everything. This can cause them to get vengeful.

They are known for not fully trusting others, not even the one they love. They don’t always stalk their lovers, but they might at times. Their jealousy can be nasty. They can be possessive and obsessive. They don’t let things go. If they even suspect their lovers of giving their time and devotion to someone else, it can get ugly. Remember I said they’d do anything for the one they love?

With harsh aspects and the right motivation, they will fight and kill for their lovers, too. They don’t like competition. And if their love interest gives the competition any attention, they will be resentful. They don’t even want their lover spending more time with family and work than with them, let alone another broad.

Then the amount of drama they need to be happy in a relationship can be overwhelming. They need a relationship to be deep, passionate, and meaningful. They expect their partner to make a lot of sacrifices for them. They are known for their ultimatums, which can make lovers feel like they’re in a binding contract rather than a loving relationship with a healthy moderate exchange.

Because they get so deeply involved in their relationships, it’s hard for their lovers to let loose and have a good time. This isn’t to say they can’t be fun partners, but they aren’t a “hook up” buddy, either. There are always strings attached with these ladies. You’re not just going to have your fun with them, move on, and come back later. If that’s what you’re looking for, you’d best lay all your cards on the table. Once you’re with them, though, you’re with them for life or you’re not with them at all. There’s no fooling around and playing games with this emotional water sign. No way. They will find a way to keep you or they will let you go and you’ll be dead to them.

In order to keep the Venus in Scorpio woman feeling happy and loved, you must be genuine. That’s it. While you would think it would be that simple, in order to prove you’re genuine you must be willing to sacrifice and share everything you have and are with this person. You must be willing to ride or die with them, just like they are willing to do the same for you. The ones that aren’t serious will cower away from this. The ones that are totally in love with Venus in Scorpio will find these demands to be easy.

She wants someone who’s willing to invest the time and effort it takes to keep her around. She wants love to have meaning. She wants it to transform her life. She needs someone deep, someone who isn’t superficial.

Sexually, these women are passionate. They don’t just give up their bodies to anyone, so when they do find the right lover, they let it all out. They enjoy skin to skin action. They might be experimental and a little kinky (they are willing to break all rules when it comes to sexuality), but they need to have a deep connection with their partner in order to be willing to do it at all. And when they do give and get it all, they need to know that they are the only one. Sex is their confirmation of their love. If their partner steps out on them, that’s ultimate betrayal. They might pretend to forgive you, but they will never forget. Best believe they will find some way to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

They should be careful not to use sex for power in their relationship or to keep a relationship going, though. Sex can’t buy love all the time.

They may enjoy their inner thighs rubbed or kissed during the experience. They may like to be held at the waist. They may like their toes kissed or rubbed, too. The may like their sexual organs teased in some way, too. They might like to return the favor to their partner.

Scorpio is traditionally ruled by Mars and is currently ruled by Pluto. Look for her Mars and Pluto signs. Then, find the Venus sign on this page that’s closest. For example, if she has Mars and/or Pluto in Sagittarius, read Venus in Sagittarius.

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Venus in Sagittarius

Sagittarius

Feminine Identity: When Venus enters Sagittarius, the mutable fire sign, she enters a lucky placement. She doesn’t feel entirely comfortable in Sagittarius, but there are a few things she has in common with the sign. For one, Venus is a benefic planet just like Sagittarius’s ruling planet Jupiter. This makes both energies positive and beneficial all the time. Neither can ever bring too much harm. Of course, too much of a good thing can cause some problems. Venus likes that Sagittarius provides a life of ease. They both want to have a good time. With all the luck she gets in this placement, why work? On the other hand, this combination can cause laziness and weight gain. Venus is also different from Sagittarius in many ways. She may not like the exaggerated nature of Sagittarius because it causes too much drama. She might also find Sagittarius to be blunt, fiery, and unrefined. She’s into balance and harmony. Sagittarius isn’t always interested in pretending they’re everybody’s friend. Last, while it’s easy for her to attract love in this sign, it’s hard to keep it consistent.

Venus in Sagittarius women want their love interests to see them as fun, good-humored, adventurous, positive, knowledgeable, and experienced individuals. They want their love interests to know they won’t tie them down.

They tend to want to be the ideal girl in their love interest’s eyes. They want to be sexy, cute, beautiful, sweet, quiet, talkative, independent and yet co-dependent, a friend, a good wife, a good mother and everything in between! While achieving all of this is difficult, if it’s not impossible, they will try it!

Some of them are religious, spiritual, and/or philosophical. They want their love interests to know they have morals and ethics. They generally try to be good to people, especially the one they love. This might tame the wild spirit of Sagittarius just a little more.

They can be generous with their love interests, showering affection and an abundance of resources to impress their love interests.

They also try to impress their love interests with their accomplishments. They want their love interests to know that if they get with them, they can share in their wealth.

These women might wear clothing that displays their success and wealth in some way. They might like wearing designer items when around someone they like. Or they might prefer casual clothes that are loose-fighting, like a loose-fighting dress that blows in the breeze or some dusty jeans. They might care less how they look in front of their love interest. Some might like to show some skin. They may especially like to show their legs. Short skirts and shorts might be preferred. Some of them tend to like colorful or eclectic fashions that display their humor and individuality. These ladies look good with or without weight, so they can gain or lose and still manage to look good!

Venus in Sagittarius women attract love interests to them through their sheer zest for life. They just appear like a lot of fun. They have a careless nature that makes them seem easy to be around. They always seem young, no matter how old, so they never lose suitors.

They are not usually shy. They are flirty and honest. They compliment their love interests and might invite them to dance. You’d better take them up on that offer when you can. These ladies tend to move on fast!

The ones that are shy can’t help but show their excitement all over their face. They are known for being a little too enthusiastic when their crush is around, so they’re pretty obvious.

A lot of suitors are attracted to them because they don’t seem demanding. They seem to keep lovers at arms-length and they seem up for a good time. They seem down for an open relationship. Even if they are looking for something stable, they seem to know how to keep things exciting and sexy even in committed relationships.

They know how to make people laugh. They always know how to make love interests smile, which is very appealing. And they tend to have dazzling smiles themselves.

The Venus in Sagittarius woman’s weakness is that she’s difficult to pin down. She might think you’re cute and all, but that doesn’t mean she’s always looking for anything serious.  Even sex is not enough to make her stay in a steady relationship. You’ve got to offer so much more than that. Even when in a steady relationship, she’s also always busy doing something. She’s outgoing and on-the-go. If you’re looking to make her into a domestic kitten, you’ll be disappointed. For her, “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. She needs her space, independence, and freedom.

As easy-going as she looks, she’s far more difficult to please than she appears. It’s not that she can’t get all she wants herself, in fact she’d rather, but if you really want her to stay loyal and connected to you, you have to be an asset. You need to make a committed relationship beneficial and worth her while. You need to be dropping money. You need to be making love to her. You need to be going out of your way to take her on some of your adventures. And most importantly, you need to respect and accept her right to be herself.

It might seem that she expects perfection from a lover. She is idealistic and does want to be put on a pedestal. She wants to be treated like a trophy girl. You need to be proud of her and show her off. You need to show her how much you want her. That means you’ve got to travel the world over to please her.

She can be a little insensitive. She tends to be blunt to a fault and may seriously hurt a person’s feelings. She might jump into affairs and quickly cut them off, not caring who she hurts. She might dump people for lacking in some way, and she won’t be afraid to say it. Venus certainly doesn’t get along with this unrefined nature, so she might lose love interests because of her mouth.

Some of these women are careless in general. They might drink and drive, they might sleep around and have too many children, or they might go out clubbing all night, no matter who’s at home watching the kids. Of course, the whole natal chart would shed more light on this tendency. This happens with the less evolved types. This type might have a difficult time taking responsibility.

She has a hard time taking responsibility during arguments, too. If you come to her about something, about anything, her first reaction is to run, run, run. She doesn’t like negativity. She doesn’t want to talk about her feelings and how serious she needs to be. She wants to think about nothing but positive things when with someone she loves. She feels if a lover can’t make her happy all the time, then that person isn’t the one for her. This is a nearly impossible standard though.

She might be preachy or take the moral high road. She won’t act like a victim, but she may always think she’s right and everyone else is wrong, including her lover.

In order to keep this lady feeling happy and loved, she needs someone who makes her life better. She wants a partner that makes her feel more attractive, happier, and more confident. She wants someone who is positive, someone who is generous, and someone who accepts her. She needs to feel like a trophy in the eyes of her partner.

Sexually, these women are open-minded and adventurous. They enjoy the experience best when it’s fun. They like to try new things, but they don’t like when foreplay is too complicated. They don’t like to take too much time on foreplay. They eventually need the action.

They may like their legs held, kissed, or caressed during the act.

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Look at the Jupiter sign and then find the Venus sign on this page that’s closest. For example, if Jupiter is in Capricorn, read Venus in Capricorn.

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Venus in Capricorn

Capricorn

Feminine Identity: Venus enters the cardinal earthy Capricorn. This sign is ruled by the cold and calculating planet Saturn. There are some things that Venus is comfortable with here, and some things she’s not too keen on. Saturn is exalted in Venus’s own sign, Libra. Therefore, Venus understands Saturn’s need for self-control, modesty, and relationship responsibility. She relates to Capricorn’s reserved nature. But Capricorn can be a little more firm about it. Venus is easy-going and not as serious as Capricorn is. She’s happy as long as a relationship is pleasurable. Capricorn wants to place rules and boundaries, which can make a relationship less pleasurable and ideal.

Venus in Capricorn women want their love interests to see them as ambitious, hard-working, down-to-earth, cool, dependable, mature, and loyal individuals.

They want their love interests to know that they can be good providers and will make good mates. They want their love interests to see they have a lot to offer. But they want the dirty dogs to know they also don’t play any games.

These women are mature and looking for real love. Even with someone they’re really attracted to, they set those boundaries.

Mostly, though, they are goal-oriented. When they set their sights on someone, they are determined to win that person’s affections.

In order to give them just the right class and just the right sexy, they aim for form-fitting attire in business, earthy, or sleek colors. They might be a fan of pencil skirts or bodycon dresses. These ladies like to stay in shape. They might choose attire that gives them a slimmer waist.

They may not show a lot of skin, but they make sure you know what’s going on underneath. Some do show a lot of skin if they’re feeling ambitious enough. They know what it takes to get their love interest to notice them. When they do show skin, they might like to show off their legs.

Leather always makes them feel sexy and in control.

They might whiten their teeth and make sure their skin is glowing before they get around their love interest. They might feel self-conscious if they wear braces unless braces are the new trend.

They like to look like they are worth it, so they might wear name brand attire or high-quality clothing and accessories.

Then there are others who are more simple.

Venus in Capricorn women attract love interests to them in traditional ways. They might flirt quietly and maturely. They might offer to cook dinner for a lover or they might buy or make their love interest a gift.

Love interests are drawn to them because they appear cool, calm, and in control. There’s a bossy sexiness about them. They seem to be able to manage a whole lot at the same time. The only thing they can’t control is their charisma.

These ladies like to take their time. They don’t like to rush. Those who appreciate that in a woman will love this about her.

These women seem like they have it all together. They are smart, practical, and wise. They are good with finances. They seem to have their scruples. When you get to know them, you realize they know what they’re doing.

Despite the fact that these women seem to be in control, these women cherish the simple things in life, and this makes them appear like simple lovers. While some Venus in Capricorns may intimidate suitors because they seem difficult to please and they seem to be self-reliant, others may be so appreciative of the little things in life that they may seem easy to please.

Because these women usually have their own money and other assets, they are willing to split the bill or treat their partner to some dinner sometimes. This can be attractive to a partner who wants to be taken care of.

These women aren’t attention-seekers when it comes to love. In fact, they can even be shy. Even if they love attention in other aspects of their lives, when around their crush they play it cool and keep their distance. They prefer to be approached, but if they want you, they will approach you in a smooth and straightforward way after they’ve carefully thought out what they want to say.

They don’t toy with people’s feelings. Eventually, they will let you know how they feel. They just need the right time to do so.

These women are classy. Despite what you might think, they have standards and they know how to behave on a date. This can be very attractive.

They are down-to-earth though. They know how to let go and have a little fun. They can be easy-going as well. They have a sense of humor, too.

The Venus in Capricorn woman’s weakness is that she’s got far more to offer than most of her suitors can compliment. Really, she doesn’t often need a partner accept for companionship. But her success can really be intimidating, especially because she often expects partners to offer even more than she has! She wants to be taken care of, but she can really take care of herself. It’s hard finding a partner that can truly meet her halfway. She may have to lower some of her expectations a bit. But trying to tell this stubborn lady to do that is more difficult than pulling teeth.

She’s also really distant. Despite the fact that she wants companionship, she’s rather reserved and traditional in some aspects. She’s always waiting for the right time to take the next step in her relationships. While this protects her from those who aren’t serious, it can also appear like she doesn’t trust the people she loves until they have really proven themselves.

She also might take love too seriously. She’s looking for someone loyal and dependable. She’s not really into airy affairs. If she does get in one, she has to get something out of it. When she’s serious, she is. This might dull the relationship a little bit, but she will definitely try to make sure it’s worth it.

They also take their time choosing lovers. They may be sure they love someone, but they may not always be sure that person is the one. They might run away from people who really care for them because of their insecurities or fears. They sometimes take too much time trying to decide when to tell someone their feelings or when to decide to choose a lover. By the time they’ve decided, their lovers might have moved right on. They need time. Lovers who are interested have to give them that time.

She might be known to use people for money or status. Most Venus in Capricorns are not like this, but there are some out there. They might get with people for the benefits or for business rather than love or pleasure. They are practical women and study the advantages of every situation. They have to be careful not to hurt people while climbing the ladder on someone else’s back.

Most of them would rather be with someone they’re in love with though.

She’s a realist. Sometimes, this makes it seem like she lacks imagination or that she’s negative. There are times where she might cut down others’ self-esteem or bring the mood down. A lot might sound good to her, but if your promises seem unrealistic, she’ll burst your bubble quickly. It’s best to be realistic about what you can do for her.

In order to keep the Venus in Capricorn woman feeling happy and loved, you must be serious about her. Take all the steps necessary in a courtship. Take her out on a couple of dinners. Spend time with her. Get to know her life and family. Be someone she can depend on.

Nothing makes her happier than tokens of commitment. If you can’t afford a ring right now, or if she’s not ready for marriage, do something to show her how much you want her and care about her.  You have to make her feel secure.

Sexually, these women are raw and straightforward. They like the experience to be simple and earthy. They have boundaries and rules, but they don’t mind a few kinks here and there. They like role-playing a lot.

They may like their legs rubbed, kissed, or caressed. They like skin-to-skin action in general.

Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, the planet of limitations and boundaries. Find the sign Saturn is in and then look for the Venus sign on this page that’s closest. For example, if Saturn is in Aquarius, read Venus in Aquarius.

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Kpop Idols: Jihyo (Twice), Yuri (Girls’ Generation/SoShi/SNSD), Sooyoung (Girls’ Generation/SoShi/SNSD), Sowon (GFriend)

Sun in Scorpio with Venus in Capricorn

Sun in Sagittarius with Venus in Capricorn

Sun in Capricorn with Venus in Capricorn

Sun in Aquarius with Venus in Capricorn

Sun in Pisces with Venus in Capricorn

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Venus in Aquarius

Aquarius

Female Identity: Venus enters the erratic and changeable Aquarius, ruled by changeable Uranus and limiting Saturn. Aquarius is a fixed air sign. In this sign, there are some things that are similar to her nature. She’s an air planet; Aquarius is an air sign. Venus is about close social encounters; Aquarius is the sign of friendships and associations. Both Venus and Aquarius are about fairness and justice. But they have some differences. Venus is partner-oriented while Aquarius is independent. Venus is all about physical pleasures and gratification. Aquarius can live without the material and physical world. Venus likes when things are a little more predictable and pleasant. Aquarius sweeps in with its changes regardless of who’s ready for them.

Venus in Aquarius women want to be seen as unique, independent, cool, and intelligent individuals. They would want their love interests to see them as a best friend, as someone easy-going and easy to talk to.

These ladies don’t like to be boxed in, so they generally just want their love interests to see their fun sides. They want their love interest to know they are open-minded and quirky. They are someone who doesn’t mind being a little dorky and cute at times, sassy and sexy other times.

When around their love interest, what they wear all depends on their mood and what they like at the moment. Some of them tend to wear the newest trends. Others might have their own original style. They might enjoy bold and/or cool colors like electric blue, aqua, or turquoise. They might go for some neon, too. They might like to show a little skin sometimes, and other times they might not. They might generally like to show their legs or ankles. They might like sandals or ankle bracelets. Whatever they wear, they want their love interest to see them as someone who isn’t like any other girl they’ll ever meet.

Venus in Aquarius women attract love interests to themselves by being friendly, cute, a little flirty, and honest. They aren’t overt flirts because they don’t like being desperate, but they may give hugs and cute little love notes. They might even be a little spontaneous in their approach. They like to shock their love interests.

Love interests are attracted to them because they seem to be a little rebellious. They also seem really sweet and friendly.

People are really drawn to their intelligence. They care about world affairs and have their own independent thoughts and opinions on current events. They can be a lot of airy fun, but they are brilliant thinkers.

They make great conversationalists overall. They get close to their love interest by first conversing and becoming a good friend.

These ladies are experimental. This can be really attractive. They are unafraid to try the odd, eccentric, or unusual. They draw in quite a bit of suitors as a result.

The Venus in Aquarius woman’s weakness is that she’s impersonal and super independent. She doesn’t like being defined by her relationship and won’t let a partner hang on to her. She needs space. She needs her own thing. She won’t share everything with a partner and doesn’t need to know everything about her partner. This might make the partner feel as if they’re not in a real relationship but an actual friendship.

Venus in Aquarius women never want to feel owned by a partner, no matter who they’re dating. Some of them may not even want to be introduced as someone’s girlfriend and would rather introduce themselves as an individual. Some of them might think it’s perfectly fine for them to kiss someone just for fun, swing partners, or have sex outside of the relationship as long as they officially stay with their partner. Few do this, but if there are harsh aspects and the person isn’t evolved, it’s possible. Even if these women never step out of a relationship (because most of them are loyal, being a fixed sign and all), they don’t like feeling owned or possessed. That jealousy thing is not cute to them, either.

Venus in Aquarius women can be unusual. Some of them are just quirky, but others can be real oddballs. They might have radical viewpoints. They might be involved in some suspicious things. They might do eccentric or erratic things or have weird hobbies and interests. If they can find someone with the same interests in common, this may not be a problem.

You can always count on them to be non-traditional. If you’re expecting them to be a quiet little lady cooking in the kitchen, you’ve got another thing coming.

Speaking of radical viewpoints, they can be fierce about their beliefs. They might act like know-it-alls or they may act above certain petty behaviors. As open-minded as they usually are, there are some behaviors and personalities they just don’t like. And when they don’t like it, they look down on it.

In order to make them feel happy and loved, you simply have to accept them as they are. They don’t require too much. They enjoy sweet little gestures here and there, some spontaneous surprise dates, and kisses and hugs at times. But mostly, they need someone who will treat them like a good friend. They get scared when relationships get too serious or emotionally messy. Just keep it cool and calm for them. Be open-minded.

Sexually, these ladies can take pleasure in being a little experimental. They like to try new things and step outside of the box. They might identify with many different sexualities, so sex might be an interesting experience for both partners.

On the other hand, some of them might be completely asexual and may care to have a mental connection rather than a physical one. They may be above petty physical desires and may not like being in overly sexed love affairs. These are the types that don’t like being objectified too tough.

They do get so caught in the mind that they have a difficult time coming back down to the body. They have to be tempted to want to experience it at all.

When you do bring them down to earth, they like their legs and ankles kissed and caressed during the act.

Aquarius is traditionally ruled by Saturn and currently ruled by Uranus. Find the Saturn and Uranus sign. Then look for the Venus sign that’s closest. For example, if Saturn and/or Uranus is in Pisces, read Venus in Pisces.

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Kpop Idols: Rosé (BlackPink), Seulgi (Red Velvet), Moonbyul (Mamamoo)

Sun in Sagittarius with Venus in Aquarius

Sun in Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius

Sun in Aquarius with Venus in Aquarius

Sun in Pisces with Venus in Aquarius

Sun in Aries with Venus in Aquarius

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Venus in Pisces

Pisces

Female Identity: Venus enters Neptune’s and Jupiter’s sign, her exalted position, Pisces last. Here, she is at her best. She sheds her physical skin for something more spiritual (or rather translucent). Here, love is boundless (they tend to see friendship, family, and romantic love as equal forms of love and they have no qualms with homosexuality and asexuality, seeing both as acceptable as heterosexuality). Beauty is limitless. Friendship is forever. Anything else you can think of that transcends the boundaries of our usual thinking relates to Neptune and the sign of Pisces.  Venus can get a lot accomplished in the realm of dreams. Of course, she’s more at home with physical pleasures usually. Here, she’s reaching places she’s never reached before, but not without sacrifice. With Pisces being ruled by Jupiter, the other benefic planet, Venus sees that nothing but good can come from this sign. There is a strong moral and idealistic lean coming from planet Jupiter which makes love seem far more beautiful than it ever does in her own home. Of course, Jupiter is the planet of exaggeration…

Venus in Pisces women want their love interests to see them as sweet, feminine, easy-going, understanding, attractive, and as a soul mate. They want to be their love interest’s ideal girl. They want to make life easier for their love interests. They are willing to sacrifice a lot to make sure their love interests are happy.

They want their love interests to always see the good in them, to always be happy with them, to always accept them. They want to always be considered beautiful on the inside and out by a lover, no matter what happens or what obstacles come in the way. They even want their flaws to be accepted by a love interest.

In order to make their love interests happy, they might often shape-shift their appearance. They are amazing when it comes to the art of disguise. They are the best actors and queens of shape-shifting. They can recreate themselves into their lovers’ ideal. So, their image may change according to who they’re interested in.

If they are more confident in themselves, they may go for more feminine and soft colors. They might wear sensual and flowing fabrics. Some of them like to show skin, but many of them are too shy to expose too much. If their love interest really likes it, they will do it. But if they find that their love interest dislikes it, they will cover up more. They are adaptable. They might enjoy trying to figure out which look will work.

They may not care too much about their wardrobe, but their shoes will say everything. They might wear sexy shoes to attract the one they like. They will have pedicures more than likely. That’s how you’ll know they’re serious.

Venus in Pisces women attract love interests to them by being kind and sympathetic. They listen to their love interests. They quite often let the ones they love take the lead and seldom complain. They seem quiet, humble, and feminine, which is highly attractive to suitors.

They allow their love interests a lot of freedom. They don’t care if their love interests have a girlfriend or doesn’t love them in return. Their love is boundless. They tend to be the hopeless romantic at times and they often accept things from a relationship other women would not.

They are easygoing and content. They don’t have physical or material demands. They just want to have a good time and feel connected with their partner. They want to be held and kissed. They want to be told they are loved. That’s all they require. Most suitors are drawn to their simplicity.

These women have a soft and gentle allure. They appear delicate, like they need someone to help them and care for them. They also welcome all sorts of people with open arms, so they seem like a good person to go to for anything. They are willing to help and care for their love interests in return and they are seldom judgmental.

Venus in Pisces women are too shy to outwardly ask someone out. They might flirt shyly or they may be a little playful with someone they like. But actually confessing their feelings might be a little challenging. They might hope their love interest notices them.

The Venus in Pisces woman’s weakness is that she’s just not sure what she wants. She wants to be loved, but she’s often not sure who she really wants. If too many people ask her out at once, she might date them all, not really knowing how to push suitors away and maybe not really wanting to. She may like keeping her options open and having many suitors dote upon her.

She doesn’t state what she wants in a relationship either. This is because she doesn’t really know what she wants. She often lets her lovers walk all over her. She may be unhappy, but may not say anything. She may not know what to say. Later, she might become like a passive-aggressive or manipulative shark to get what she wants. All she would’ve needed to do was speak up. But because she’s afraid of disappointing her lover and arguing, she may be indirect and secretive.

She might even cheat behind her lover’s back.

This woman is also rather sensitive. She hates arguing, as was mentioned. She won’t like her flaws being thrown in her face. That’s sure to destroy the ideal love she wants. And it’s sure to make her want to run for the hills-or into the arms of someone else.

These women are also too idealistic in love. It can be bad for them and their partner. They tend to let in losers that aren’t good for them just to have love and that feeling of freedom. They really shy away from commitment because there’s too much responsibility and obligation involved. They also don’t like having to meet others’ expectations. That’s partially why they don’t state their demands. They don’t want people handing them a list of demands so they try not to do it to others.

This idealistic streak can be bad for their partners, too. They might expect their partners to be the perfect lovers, like the ones they read about in books or see on the movie screen. They might idolize their crush even. That can be hard to live up to.

These girls have a difficult time functioning alone. Though they can be independent and like their freedom, they suffer with break-ups more than others. It’s hard for them to bounce back. The problem is they tend to give too much of themselves away. They also become too emotionally dependent on their partner to the point they get lost after the relationship is over. They have to maintain some independence.

These ladies can be distant. They know how to distance themselves emotionally. They just don’t know how to hurt others’ feelings, which they have to do sometimes.

Last, these ladies are too quick to lose themselves in a partner. They are willing to change everything they are. They shouldn’t have to do all of that to please anybody. If the people in their lives can’t accept them for the beautiful, alluring, and compassionate people they are, they don’t need them!

In order to continue feeling loved and happy, these women need to be accepted, loved, and romanced. They want their fantasies to come true. They want to feel like they can escape the pressures of the world when with a love interest. They want to spend alone time with a lover. They want to be hugged and kissed. Show your affection.

Sexually, these ladies are open-minded but a little shy. They need someone to help them test the waters. Once they dive in though, they generally just get consumed by the experience. They have to be careful not to get addicted. They absolutely love sensual pleasures. They love losing their minds, bodies, and spirits for a while. Love-making could be an outlet for them.

They tend to like role-playing, experimenting, and kinks. They might have some fantasies they want fulfilled, but they might be too shy to initiate them. If they have a gentle and pleasing partner, they might be able to share their fantasies or their partner will ask.

Pisces is traditionally ruled by Jupiter and currently ruled by Neptune. Find the signs of Jupiter and Neptune. Then find the Venus signs that are closest. For instance, if Jupiter and/or Neptune are in Aries, read Venus in Aries.

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Sun in Capricorn with Venus in Pisces

Sun in Aquarius with Venus in Pisces

Sun in Pisces with Venus in Pisces

Sun in Aries with Venus in Pisces

Sun in Taurus with Venus in Pisces

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I hope you enjoyed this article. Sorry for the length. :/ But I hope you’re able to understand women and their feminine energy a little more. Leave me a comment and let me know what you think! Share your Venus sign!

Venus the goddess is everywhere there is love, peace after war, beauty and style, comfort and pleasure

Venus the goddess is everywhere there is love, peace after war, beauty and style, comfort and pleasure

Introduction To Astrology: The Signs, Aspects, and Houses

6 Mar

You may have heard of zodiac signs. You may have gone through life asking people what their “signs” are. You may know of the signs Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces. If you don’t know those signs:

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The 12 signs of the zodiac

The 12 signs of the zodiac

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Keywords for the Signs

sign symbols

sign symbols

What you may not know is that these “zodiac signs”, fit for your birthday, are one of 10 main “planetary” signs you have in your natal chart. The zodiac signs most people know are Sun signs. Did you know that you also have Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto signs? These planets enter each of the 12 zodiac signs you’re most familiar with. So if you thought your sign was “Aquarius”, for example, remember that your Sun sign is Aquarius. This means the Sun, the actual star in the sky, was moving into the sign of Aquarius. This is why you’re able to find your Sun sign just by knowing your birthday. The Sun stays in one sign for about a month. This is why these “zodiac signs” became really popular. The Sun is the center of the universe and is most visible to us. Therefore, it rules over “consciousness” astrologically. It’s no wonder we are most aware of this sign of all of them.

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Finding the other signs often confuse most people. In order to find the other planetary signs, you would have to find a natal chart. With modern technology, you can find a FREE natal chart online! Now people are able to learn more about their other signs. The whole chart gives us a complete picture about ourselves. It’s not something to let rule over your life. It’s more something that can help you reflect upon yourself. It gives you insight. Natal charts don’t tell you exactly who you are, but they do reveal potential and tendencies that we may overlook in our personalities and lives. Only we know how the information can be applied in our lives. The charts just give us the visual to describe what is already there.

To get your FREE natal chart, my personal favorite website is astro.com.

http://www.astro.com

Step 1: Create a Free Account. Go to “Login” at the top right of the screen. You can “Create a Horoscope as a Guest User” or “Create a free registered user profile”. Follow the registration steps.

Step 2: At the top right, you will see “Your Name:” Click that. Then click “Add New Astro Data”. Put in all the information required.

Step 3: Roll over “Free Horoscopes”. Under Drawings and Calculations, press “Natal Chart, Ascendant”.

This is what your chart should look like.

chelsie's chart

After you have your natal chart, look at the box on the left-hand side. There is the symbol representing the planet, the name of the planet written out for you, and the sign to the right of it. On the big wheel, the different symbols on the chart show you the planets’ symbols as well as the sign it’s in. Let’s just focus in the box to the left. First pick a planet, then to the right of the planet, pick a sign. Look at the signs next to them.

Sun to Pluto are the most important for those just studying. They are the “planets” that rule over the 12 signs. They have symbols next to them, too. When you see a planet next to a sign, it means this planet has entered this sign when you were born. So basically, you have a Sun sign, Moon sign, Mercury sign, Venus sign, etc.

All of the planets have their own meaning. All of the signs have their own meaning. Let me help you understand what they mean. We combine their meanings to get the whole story. When a planet enters a sign, it is telling you “your needs” (planet) and “how you express yourself to get your needs met in that area” (sign). The planet is the “need”, the sign is “how you express the need so you can get the need met”. The chart is telling you things about your personality.

In order to begin to understand the rest of what you’re about to read, it’s important to get to know the planets and signs well. It takes practice.

To understand the gist of planetary meanings, the Charts Above titled “Ruling Planets”,”The Planets”, “Planets”, and “Planet” can tell you what the planets and luminaries mean in basic terms. Then move to the charts that elaborate on the signs, which are also above, just below the planets. Combine the meaning of the planet and sign charts to get a better understanding of what the planet in sign means in full detail.  We are most familiar with the Sun, so I’ll start there.

If Sun is in Leo, let’s look at the meaning of the luminary/planet Sun and the meaning under the sign of Leo. The Sun is the ego or expression, just using two key words on the charts above, right? Leo is creative and popular, using two words from the charts above. This means the individual expresses their “ego” and “expression” in a creative way. This may also mean their ego and expression are somehow related to being popular, too. This tells us that the Sun in Leo individual must be one dramatic person who loves attention! Their ego and expression are tied to being popular and creative. The Sun is the “need” to express ourselves, our ego, our identity. Leo is “how” someone would express that need to get it met, and Leos would be pretty creative in order to express themselves and get noticed.

We all have a Sun sign, and all need attention or to feel important to a certain degree. The Sun represents that side to all of us. But how we go about it makes all the difference, and that’s where the Signs come in.

Let’s look at some of the other luminaries and planetary bodies.

I’ll use Moon in Taurus as an example next. Moon is the planet of emotions, jut picking a keyword from the chart here. Taurus is sensual and pleasure-seeking. So, this may mean that these individuals need something sensual and pleasure-seeking for emotional reasons or that it is related to their feelings and emotions.

Do you see how it works now? If not, leave me a comment.

Each sign is also ruled by one of these planets. The Charts Above shows which planet rules over each sign. The Ruling planet’s sign has influence on other signs ruled BY the planet. I’ll explain this a little more.

Sun rules over Leo

Moon rules over Cancer

Mercury rules over Gemini and Virgo

Venus rules over Taurus and Libra

Mars rules over Aries and Scorpio (traditionally)

Jupiter rules over Sagittarius and Pisces (traditionally)

Saturn rules over Capricorn and Aquarius (traditionally)

Uranus rules over Aquarius

Neptune rules over Pisces

Pluto rules over Scorpio

So even though each of these planets enter a sign, they each rule over a sign, even when they haven’t entered in one. This means that particular planet is so similar in meaning and expression to that particular sign, the planet influences any other planets that enter the sign similar to the planet.

The Sun and Leo have a lot in common, for example. The Sun is about the ego and creativity. Leo is known as a sign that can be a little egocentric and VERY creative. So, no matter what planet is in Leo, the Sun, the ruling planet of Leo, will influence that planet. So imagine how powerful the expression will be when the Sun is IN the sign of its ruler! That person would have the Sun sign of Leo.

So let me elaborate a little on what I said. For example, if your Mars is in Leo, you would look at Sun, the ruling planet of Leo, and see the sign Sun is in. In the chart above, they have Mars in Leo. Their Sun sign is also in Leo. Sun in Leo influences Mars in Leo because that is Leo’s ruling planet, no matter what.

Another example, They have Moon in Taurus. Taurus is ruled by Venus. This person’s Venus is in Leo. So Venus in Leo influences Moon in Taurus. Sometimes, the person may connect with a Moon in Leo simply because their ruling planet, Venus, is in Leo.

Look for your venus and mars

Look for your venus and mars

Almost every luminary and planet has a domicile position, an exalted position, a falling position, and a detrimental position. These are called major dignities and debilities. There are other dignities, but these are the main ones. The outer generational planets (Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto) are still undecided when it comes to exaltation and fall. There have been suggestions, but nothing definite.

Just because someone has one of these positions doesn’t mean that people are more blessed or more cursed than others. But it does give us insight as to how closely connected the individual sign is to the planet. It’s something to study and reflect on for anybody.

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Domiciles-Usually when the planet is in the sign it rules. In Chelsie’s chart above, for example, the Sun is in Leo and Pluto is in Scorpio. The Sun rules over Leo and Pluto rules over Scorpio, no matter where it is in the chart. However, when it enters its own sign, it is in its “own house”. Therefore, it operates freely and is a strong position for the planet. If thinking about an acting role in a movie or play, let’s say the planet is acting in a role it is used to playing. It could be like the individual who considers themselves nice and sweet in real life playing a kind and thoughtful person in a play or movie. These individuals are capable of fully expressing the planet’s energy naturally. This isn’t always a good thing, but it isn’t necessarily bad. The individual is unafraid to express the nature of the planet. The things that the planet represents aren’t a threat. For instance, the Sun in Leo above would be uninhibited when it comes to expressing the ego, their full creativity, or their dominance (though astrological aspects would alter their expression of course, so I’ll talk more about what aspects are later). Normally, they wouldn’t see too much wrong with being confident. Sun in Leos don’t fear the spotlight or taking on the role of leader, no matter what. People respect them because they put themselves out there, regardless of the consequences. They are comfortable with all eyes on them! Pluto in Scorpio would help the individual seek power in all its forms. They may not have any hang-ups with subjects that are taboo, unlike other generations. Pluto in Scorpios don’t fear the dark sides of life. In fact, that’s where they thrive! Despite the fact that the planet can operate freely, I’ve noticed that the benefits usually come in more intimate, long-lasting settings rather than on a mass level or in the public. Sun in Leos, for example, tend to be very good parents, family leaders, and role models, while commanding and demanding bosses and authority figures. Still, they are capable of channeling their energies in any way they like because they fully understand the nature of the planet.

Exalted-Usually when a planet is at its most refined. It’s almost like the planet is an “honored guest”, treated really well and respected, but not quite “at home”. The planet has to be on his best behavior to remain friends with the energy. If using it in the context of a role the planet is playing in a play, it’s over-dramatizing its role on stage. The planet is acting as a character it really likes, the role brings out their best acting abilities, and the planet fits the role. They look “the part”. It’s like the individual who considers themselves nice and sweet in real life playing a quiet and shy role. Being nice and kind doesn’t necessarily make an individual quiet and shy, but it won’t be difficult to see a nice and sweet person acting quiet, shy, or demure. They are often associated with one another. People often assume that quiet people are considerate and pleasant to be around because they don’t cause drama, but they are different. The expression isn’t completely natural, so it may be a little exaggerated. In the above chart, the Moon is exalted in Taurus. These individuals tend to have a pretty good handle on their emotions. They are warm, affectionate, and love the comforts of home, but they aren’t an emotional wreck because they know how to stay calm in most situations. Of course, again, aspects will affect their expression. Generally, they come from a comfortable background and don’t have too many problems. The planet isn’t challenging for them. This would make them seem to handle the planet better than the rulership sign. I’ve noticed that exalted placements tend to operate better on a mass level, rather than in intimate settings. For example, on the outside and in public situations, Moon in Taurus natives know how to stay calm during a global crisis situation and are very good at not letting their emotions hang out on their jobs. They are kind to their fellow workers, but a little reserved. They are patient and nurturing in professions that deal with caring for others outside of the family. However, on the intimate level, they can be very stubborn and hold too much in. When their emotions finally boil over, it’s hard to calm them down! Still, it is much easier for them to handle the planet than it is for most people. Emotions can get a little messy, but hardly when Moon is in Taurus. We would naturally expect emotions to be stable and practically expressed all the time, like it is when in Taurus. But so often, emotions aren’t that way.

Exalted Signs:

Sun in Aries

Moon in Taurus

Mercury in Virgo (some also say Aquarius)

Venus in Pisces

Mars in Capricorn

Jupiter in Cancer

Saturn in Libra

Uranus (undetermined but some speculate it to be exalted in Scorpio)

Neptune (undetermined but some speculate it to be exalted in Cancer or Leo)

Pluto (undetermined but some have speculated it to be in Aries, Leo, Pisces, and/or Virgo, mostly Leo)

Fall-Usually when a planet is less refined. It is as if the planet is an ignored guest and incapable of having as much influence as it would like. The planet would normally be in the opposite sign of the exalted position. The planet is in fear here. It is afraid to chart this new energy. It isn’t threatening here, but it is challenging. Think of this as the planet playing a challenging role in a play. Think of an individual who is nice and sweet in real life playing the role of a strong-willed and independent person. They aren’t necessarily opposite roles, but it’s hard to see a nice and sweet person exercising too much force or dominance over others. It’s not the native’s fault. They may have found a way to be both nice and powerful, but it is challenging. For instance, Moon is falling in Scorpio, Taurus’s opposite sign. The moon is just as watery and emotional as Scorpio, so it isn’t threatening to be here. But the Moon operates most effectively in the outside world when the emotions are stable and steady. Scorpio is the sign of chaos and power. Here, the Moon isn’t secure. The emotions are too intense and controlling, making the emotions go through so much drama and transforming periods in the native’s life. Sometimes, the drama is caused by others and not of their own doing. It could come from issues with the family that have nothing to do with the native. From my experience, however, Moon in Scorpios seem the worst because the position tends to affect the individuals in a mass or public situation. They aren’t as bad as they seem. Moon in Scorpios often hardly have anyone to share their feelings with (considering their emotions are so overwhelming), so they come across biting, power-hungry, secretive, defensive, and extreme towards the public, if they are open with their feelings at all. They may even seem cold and misunderstood. In an intimate setting, however, they do alright, if they can find someone they really trust. They are capable of deep healing and compassion. They are fiercely loyal and protective. They really just need support and the proper channel. The issues with a fall don’t have to be long-lasting and can be reversed. These individuals just have to overcome their fears. Moon in Scorpios, for instance, fear their own deep emotions. This contributes as to why they are so defensive. With someone acting as “psychologist” in their lives, they can be well on the road to deep healing and can help others who suffer.

If you understand the meaning of the planets, and you really understand the meaning of the signs, you can kind of understand how certain qualities seem to fit less smoothly with others. Considering what the Moon is all about, you can kind of see how Scorpio, just knowing what Scorpio is about, could be challenging.

Sun in Libra

Moon in Scorpio

Mercury in Pisces (some also say Leo)

Venus in Virgo

Mars in Cancer

Jupiter in Capricorn

Saturn in Aries

Uranus (undetermined, but some say Taurus)

Neptune (undetermined, but some say Capricorn or Aquarius)

Pluto (undetermined, but some say Libra, Aquarius, Pisces, and/or Virgo, but mostly Aquarius)

Detriment-Usually when the planet is in the sign opposite its ruling sign. Instead of being at home, this planet is in a place that is totally opposite. It’s, in fact, uncomfortable. Think of someone who is in the home of an enemy. Or think about someone who is used to clean homes and they are forced to stay in a messy home for awhile. Regardless, the planet feels a little out-of-place. In terms of acting on a stage, you can think about an actor acting in a role that is totally far-removed from the individual’s personality. Think of an individual who is nice and sweet in real life acting in a role as an evil, selfish person. It feels insincere. The individual might feel very uncomfortable in the role. When the planet is in this sign, it becomes threatened. Similarly, natives with the position often feel threatened, which leads to them worrying about the situation. For instance, Sun is in detriment in Aquarius. These individuals may make excellent leaders and parental figures. However, they often worry about losing their independence and freedom. They both like the spotlight and fear the expectations coming from demanding individuals. They don’t fear the spotlight itself (which can happen when Sun is in Fall); they fear the negativity that comes with being in the spotlight. They tend to worry a little too much. From my experience, the effects of a detriment happen more on an intimate level than on a mass or public scale. Using Sun in Aquarius, for example, they tend to make great leaders and bosses because they are altruistic and humane. They like working in teams and they are full of genius ideas on how to better humanity. But on the more personal level, they are distant, cold, and aloof. They hardly ever show the same care and compassion for their families that they do for the world. In fact, they tend to break free from their intimates. They are not as warm or inviting as they could be and sometimes it’s hard to rely on them. Of course, with enough insight, anyone is capable of reversing the effects of a detriment. The issue is their problem can’t be overcome with a psychologist at hand, like in Moon in Scorpio’s case. They really are going to have to make sacrifices. It is just as they fear. Sometimes, they will have to give up their freedom and independence if they want to remain in the spotlight. They must learn that this isn’t always a bad thing. They will have to try a balancing act: maintaining distance when necessary, but allowing warmth to peep in through the clouds at least some of the time. This is a lesson for all detrimental positions.

Sun in Aquarius

Moon in Capricorn

Mercury in Sagittarius and Pisces

Venus in Aries and Scorpio

Mars in Taurus and Libra

Jupiter in Gemini and Virgo

Saturn in Cancer and Leo

Uranus in Leo

Neptune in Virgo

Pluto in Taurus

Now, let’s study the Natal wheel a little more. That will be important when learning about the next important thing: houses.

On the right side of the chart, you might notice a big wheel with 12 black dividing lines, each labeled 1 through 12 towards the center of the wheel.

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Each line points to a sign. You might see a bunch of symbols and red and blue lines in the middle of these black lines. The black lines are pointing to what are called the 12 houses. There are 12 zodiac signs, and there are 12 houses. In order to get the right reading for your 12 houses, you need to know your birth time.

The houses look like slices on a pizza. The “house” begins when the black line, with a small number in the center of the wheel underneath the line, is pointing to a sign. The house ends when it reaches the next numbered line pointing to a sign.

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Each planet (represented by the symbols) fits into one of the twelve houses, which represents 12 parts of our outer life. The houses are similar to the 12 signs. But while the planets in a sign show us HOW we express ourselves, planets in the houses show us WHERE we express ourselves in our outer world.

In the chart above, the symbol for Venus is in the house labeled 2. This means Venus in Leo is in the 2nd house. So though Venus is in Leo, it is in the 2nd house. Leo is HOW she expresses VENUS, and the 2nd house represents WHERE she expresses this planet. All of the houses have special meaning, just like the planets and signs do.

Venus in Leo in 2nd house

Venus in Leo in 2nd house

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Combine the meaning of the houses between all charts above so you readers can get the full picture of what the houses mean in our lives. By combining the charts above, you can really get an in-depth picture of your outer and inner life.

The 12 houses are often symbolically related to the 12 signs:

1st house-Aries

2nd house-Taurus

3rd house-Gemini

4th house-Cancer

5th house-Leo

6th house-Virgo

7th house-Libra

8th house-Scorpio

9th house-Sagittarius

10th house-Capricorn

11th-Aquarius

12th-Pisces

Okay let’s talk about the planets in the houses.

The gist of the houses are

1st house-the Self

2nd house-money and possessions

3rd house-communication and local travel

4th house-home and family

5th house-pleasure, love affairs, children

6th house-work and duty

7th house-partners and negotiations

8th house-shared resources, sex, and the taboo

9th house-Travel, higher education, and beliefs

10th house-Career, reputation, and authority figures

11th house-Friends, associations, hopes and dreams

12th house-Hidden, Subconscious, unconscious, Fear, Regret

Let’s use Chelsie’s Venus in Leo in 2nd house example to help you better understand the planets in the houses. Venus is the planet of pleasure, love, beauty, romance, femininity, and art, according to the chart about planets, right? Leo is creative and popular, dominating and forceful, as well as prideful, based on one of the chart about signs. Other charts give a more traditional view, stating they are generous, warm-hearted, and enthusiastic as well. This means that HOW Chelsie expresses her femininity is through creative avenues. She’s also enthusiastic about her femininity. Artistically, she is creative and may be interested in performing arts, as it gives her popularity. She may be generous with her efforts and resources when it comes to art. She expresses her beauty, or rather adorns herself, in a creative way and may want others to notice how stylish she is. She’s generous though, and may not mind giving make-overs to others. She’s proud of her femininity, and may be more forceful and dominating in her expression, especially in love. Still, she’s warm-hearted and generous in love, too.

Now, all of this is inside the 2nd house. This means where she expresses her love of creative art and beauty, as well as her proud femininity, is in areas concerning the 2nd house. The charts above relate the 2nd house to money and values, possessions, daily routine, inner and outer resources, work, and other things. So, WHERE are we likely to see these qualities? In the way she makes money, in her system of values, reflected in her possessions or the stuff she buys. She is likely to buy creative stuff and items that give her popularity. She is probably more willing to make money doing something that reflects her creative artistry. She would possibly value her “proud femininity”, making her extra girly. Venus is the ruler of Taurus, and Taurus is often associated with the 2nd house, so Venus is considered comfortable and strong in this house. The 2nd house also reveals work, her environment, and daily routine. She is likely to choose creative and artistic work, possibly has a very creative environment and decorates around herself a lot as well, and has a daily routine that’s pretty pleasurable. Possibly, she gets a chance to show off her beautiful works of art all the time and has plenty of time to create things for herself. As far as outer resources, she may have many items of value, items that anyone could want, and she’s generous about giving them to those who need it. The chart owner is rich, by the way. 😉 This house could be hinting at that. Of course, each house relates individually to us. When we observe this in the context of inner resources, we can examine that she’s very talented within and is generous and warm with her attention to her talents, giving out only the best.

Do you sort of get the picture? If not, leave me a comment.

The signs that the black lines are pointing to on the big wheel are called “cusp” signs. (Cusp signs are not when your Sun sign is between one or another because of the day you were born, if that’s what you heard.) Cusp signs represent our overall expression or outlook of the houses in the outside world. The first black line above the “1” represents the start of the first house. The sign that black line is pointing to is the Ascendant or Rising sign.

Each house points to a cusp sign. In Chelsie’s chart above, her first line, the line above the “1”, is pointing to the symbol for Cancer. This means her 1st house cusp is Cancer. Often, again, this is called the Ascendant or Rising house because the 1st house represents our outer self to others, our physical appearance, our awareness, etc. With Chelsie having Cancer Rising, her “self” or how others see her is related to the qualities of Cancer. If we look back at the sign chart in the beginning, we will see that Cancer qualities are related to being sensitive, friend-oriented, being practical, hating to argue, forgiving but never forgetting. It’s already related to the traditional qualities of being emotional and loving, as well as imaginative and intuitive. So, people tend to see Chelsie as sensitive and all about her friends. They see her as imaginative and intuitive. Her attitude towards life is guided by her emotions and she’s aware that she comes across quite sensitive. This is just a brief example. The 1st house is what we are aware of when it comes to ourselves.

The other houses follow a similar pattern.

Besides the houses, you may see red and blue lines on the chart. You may also see a few dotted lines on there, too. These lines are really from one planet to another. Try to trace them and see for yourself. These lines represent Astrological Aspects.

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The lines can be hard to figure out. This is why you can also look at the symbols that represent these Aspects. These symbols are in the area beneath the planets in signs table to the left of the wheel. They are set up in columns and rows. You may see little red, blue, black, and even green symbols. The most important symbols are the red and blue symbols, much like the red and blue lines on the big wheel. The minor aspects, represented by little black and green symbols, are represented by barely visible dotted lines on the wheel, mixed in there with the red and blue lines. The minor ones will be easier once you get the basics.

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Aspects show the relationship one planet has with another planet. I mean, when you have so many signs in your chart, wouldn’t it make sense that some energies in our lives get along well, while others don’t? The aspects represent those energies within us that get along and which ones don’t, and so create a bit of stress or challenge for us.

There are five major aspects.

The blue symbols and lines on the wheel represent positive aspects. It means that the two planets connected get along in your life so well, you can find hidden talents within their relationship. The two positive aspects are trines and sextiles.

When considering aspects, it’s kind of important to understand the SIGN’s RELATIONSHIP to one another on the natal wheel and as they are listed. The aspects are sort of determined by this relationship (mostly the degree is the indicator as to what aspect is forming, which are those little numbers listed next to the planets on the wheel and listed next to the signs on the table on the natal chart, but normally understanding the signs can help understand where these degrees lay on a natal chart without having to memorize the numbers).

There are 12 signs, and the 12 signs are often divided in many ways in order for astrologers to better understand the signs and the planets’ relationship with one another when they enter these signs. The signs are usually divided by element, energy, and mode. This is important to consider to better understand aspects.

Let me explain this a little. Let’s list the signs in order to understand their element, energy, and mode.

Aries

Taurus

Gemini

Cancer

Leo

Virgo

Libra

Scorpio

Sagittarius

Capricorn

Aquarius

Pisces

Aries is always the first sign when analyzing the signs. Spring is considered the first season of the year in many parts of the year, and the Sun’s entrance in Aries begins on the Spring Equinox (the first day of Spring). That is the day the Sun, the luminary all the other planets and luminaries revolve around, enters the constellation of Aries. That’s why Aries is always first when listing and dividing the signs. The others follow in the order listed above.

Element

When dividing the signs by elements, they are listed every four signs, starting with Aries. So Aries starts off as fire, Taurus is earth, Gemini is air, and Cancer is water. Then the pattern starts over with the next sign, with Leo being fire, Virgo is earth, Libra as air, and Scorpio as a water sign. It continues. Fire signs are usually opposite one Air sign each, and Earth signs are usually opposite one Water sign each.

Fire (opposite Air): Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

Earth (opposite water): Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Air (opposite Fire): Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

Water (opposite earth): Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

Opposite signs

Aries-Libra

Taurus-Scorpio

Gemini-Sagittarius

Cancer-Capricorn

Leo-Aquarius

Virgo-Pisces

Energy

Energies YIN AND YANG are listed every other sign. So Aries, the first sign, is Yin. Taurus, the next sign, is Yang. Gemini, the one after, is Yin. Cancer after that is Yang. And the pattern continues.

Yin: Fire and Air signs-Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Yang: Earth and Water signs: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces

Mode

Modes are decided every three signs. The signs are usually divided into threes. The three modes they represent are Cardinal, Fixed, and Mutable. Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, therefore it is listed under the first mode and leads the cardinal energy. Every three signs, another cardinal is listed. So Aries, Taurus, Gemini starts the first three modes. Taurus is the first fixed sign. Gemini is the first mutable sign. Then Cancer begins the next cycle of modes, with Cancer being the second cardinal, and Leo and Virgo following as the next fixed and mutable signs, and the pattern continues.

Cardinal: Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn (Cardinal represents leadership and initiative)

Fixed: Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius (Fixed represents power, strength, determination)

Mutable: Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces (Mutable represents versatility and adaptability)

Now, let’s look at how this impacts the aspects you might have.

When there is a trine, usually one planet’s sign is in the same ELEMENT (Air, Earth, Fire, Water) as another planet’s sign on the natal wheel. For instance, if Venus is in Aries, it may trine Mars in Sagittarius (Aries and Sagittarius are both fire signs). This indicates that the two planets flow smoothly or easily with one another. With Venus and Mars (considering the meaning of the planets) having this aspect, it can indicate that the romantic life flows smoothly with the sex life.

 

Basically, if one planet in one sign connects with another of the same element, that means these energies don’t cause you much trouble in your life.

Planets in Aries, Sagittarius, Leo can trine each other

Planets in Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo can trine each other

Planets in Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius can trine each other

Planets in Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces can trine each other

Trine Aries-Sagittarius

Trine Aries-Sagittarius

The trine’s symbol looks like a blue triangle and some of the blue lines on the wheel may be trines.

trine symbol

 

When there is a sextile, usually one planet’s sign has the same ENERGY (Yin/Yang or extroverted and introverted) as another planet’s sign, but they aren’t of the same element or are of opposite element (unlike the trine above) and they aren’t the same mode (Cardinal, Fixed, Mutable). If all the planets meet these same requirements, and form an aspect, they could create a “star” on the natal wheel (that big wheel on the natal chart). This is why it’s called a sextile. This usually indicates that the two planets mildly support one another. With Venus and Mars having this aspect, it could indicate that the romantic life mildly supports the sex life.

 

Example: A planet in Aries would normally sextile a planet in Gemini and Aquarius (since they are both Yin signs with a different element (Gemini and Aquarius are air signs, Aries is a fire sign) and they are also of different modes (Gemini is mutable and Aquarius is fixed, while Aries is cardinal)). So, even though Libra is also a Yin sign (being an air sign), it is of the SAME mode as Aries (Cardinal). Even though Leo and Sagittarius are also both Yin signs, they are of the same ELEMENT (fire) as Aries. So planets in Libra, Leo, and Sagittarius can’t form the aspect of sextile with a planet in Aries.

None of the planets in Yang signs (Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces) can form a sextile with a planet in Aries as they don’t share the same energy as Aries.

Each planet in a sign can sextile planets in about two different signs.

Planets in Aries: Planets in Gemini, Aquarius

Planets in Taurus: Planets in Cancer, Pisces

Planets in Gemini: Planets in Aries, Leo

Planets in Cancer: Planets in Taurus, Virgo

Planets in Leo: Planets in Gemini, Libra

Planets in Virgo: Planets in Cancer, Scorpio

Planets in Libra: Planets in Leo, Sagittarius

Planets in Scorpio: Planets in Virgo, Capricorn

Planets in Sagittarius: Planets in Libra, Aquarius

Planets in Capricorn: Planets in Scorpio, Pisces

Planets in Aquarius: Planets in Sagittarius, Aries

Planets in Pisces: Planets in Capricorn, Taurus

sextile example

Notice the beginning of a star is taking shape. If planets enter into these locations, they would form a star shape. It’s like a map.

Sextile’s symbol looks like an asterisk or star.

sextile symbol

 

The red lines and red symbols represent the more powerful aspects. These aspects represent struggle or powerful urges that are difficult to handle or channel. These aspects are called Conjunct, Square, and Opposition.

A conjunct usually happens between two planets within the SAME sign. The planets in the same sign are usually right next to each other on the natal wheel, and they are usually in the same sign. For example, if Venus is in Aries, it may conjunct Mars in Aries. This indicates that the two planets blend well together, almost feeling linked in the individual’s life. With Venus and Mars having this aspect, it can indicate that the romantic life almost gets confused for or mixed with the sex life and vice versa. If Moon and Venus have this aspect, a want or desire gets confused and mixed with the emotional needs and vice versa.

conjunct example

Conjunct’s symbols looks a bit like the male or Mars symbol without an arrow.

conjunct symbol

A square usually happens between two planets that are in signs with the same MODE (Cardinal, Mutable, Fixed) but opposite ENERGIES (Yin/Yang). For example, if you have Venus in Aries, it may square Mars in Capricorn (both being Cardinal signs, but Aries being Yang and Capricorn is Yin energy). This indicates that there is conflict between the two planets. If all the planets are in signs with these traits, it can form an aspect, which could create a perfect “square” on the natal wheel(that big wheel on the chart). That’s why it’s called a “square”. With Venus and Mars having this aspect, it could indicate that there seems to be some conflict between your romantic life and your sex life. This may be more like “inner conflict” rather than anything going wrong in your actual relationship, but for some people, inner turmoil can affect the outside.

Planets in Aries and Libra can square planets in Cancer and Capricorn

Planets in Taurus and Scorpio can square planets in Leo and Aquarius

Planets in Gemini and Sagittarius can square planets in Virgo and Pisces

Planets in Cancer and Capricorn can square planets in Aries and Libra

Planets in Leo and Aquarius can square planets Taurus and Scorpio

Planets in Virgo and Pisces can square planets in Gemini and Sagittarius

 

 

square example

Notice the beginning of a square forming.

A square’s symbol looks like a square.

square symbol

Finally, there’s opposition. An opposition normally occurs when one planet is in a sign that is opposite another planet’s sign. Usually, the two planets are positioned at opposite ends of the natal wheel. If you see this aspect, you will see a red line connecting from one end of the wheel to the other, east to west, north to south. This means the planets are in opposite signs. Opposite signs are usually signs with the same mode and energy, but opposite ELEMENTS (Air and Fire being opposites, Earth and Water being opposites), but of the same ENERGY. For example, if Venus is in Aries, it may be in opposition to Mars in Libra (both being Cardinal and Yang energy, but Aries is a fire sign and Libra is an air sign). In this situation, one planet is pulling the individual away from the other. They are interfering with one another. In this case, it can indicate that the romantic life seems to interfere with or pull the individual away from the sex life and vice versa. These people sometimes have a hard time finding a partner that can meet both needs.

opposition example

Notice the stars on this example are exactly across from each other. They are on opposite sides of the wheel. The stars would be the planets in those opposite signs.

An opposition’s symbol looks like a figure 8 or an infinity symbol or eye glasses.

opposition symbol

Now, if the planets meet the above conditions, they COULD form an aspect. But often, even though planets that even meet the above conditions won’t always form a strong enough aspect to make a difference. The degree between the two planets make the difference as to whether an aspect is actually reflected on your natal chart, or to wide to even take seriously, and so isn’t even present.

Aspects are reflected by the degrees or orbs between two planets.

Example: You see Sun in Leo has a degree of around “22, right? (Sorry, one is so blurry.) Well, the Moon in Taurus has around “22 as well. They are barely 1 degree or orb apart. This means they square on the natal chart almost exactly. This is a very powerful aspect. The closer these numbers are to one another, the tighter the aspect (which means it will affect this person noticeably). This person has Sun square Moon. In this case, their forceful and prideful ego (Sun in Leo) may create conflict with their pleasure-seeking emotions.

You can see this reflected on the chart wheel when you see the “red” line go from the Sun symbol to the Moon symbol. Aspects affect houses as well. For instance, Sun in Leo is in 2nd house and Moon in Taurus is in the 11th house. This person may often find that their money and values (2nd house) conflict with friends, groups, and goals (11th house, as shown in the “house” chart above).

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Conjunctions can have an orb as wide as 9 degrees/orbs apart to be relative to an individual. It’s the same with Oppositions. Squaring planets usually are at least 8 degrees wide before people relate to them. Trines can be up to 5 degrees apart (though this is debatable), and sextiles are usually only felt by those people with the degrees or orbs that really tight. Minor aspects are hardly felt, but if there is only 1 degree between them, they will be felt.

*The Aspects on most charts are sometimes too wide. The one I’m using doesn’t have a function to tighten aspects, but the chart we’re using is simpler to pull up on the website. On astro.com, under “Free Horoscopes, under “Drawings and Calculations”, right under the chart we clicked earlier, there is the “Extended Chart Selection”. With this one, there are setups for a more “extended” chart. There is an “Additional Objects” section at the bottom of the page. Under “Additional Objects”, there is one part that says “_% Reduce/Increase Orbs”. Most astrologers recommend reducing it down to 80%. This chart is more detailed, but may be confusing for you. Above, I explained how you can tell whether your aspect is legit or not even in a chart without this function.*

To Learn More about your Chart:

The Dark Pixie Astrology– For everything regarding your natal chart

Always Astrology -To read more about your Planets in signs

Horoscopes Within -To read more about your Planets in Houses

Skyscript -To read more about your Planetary Aspects

Astro Fix -To read more about your House Cusps

I hope this article helped make the natal chart a little more understandable. Maybe now, people won’t have such a narrow view of astrology. It’s more involved. Astrology is more than just a horoscope. For many who practice it, it’s a science, and even an art. It can be eye-opening for those who attempt to master it. Many people become more psychologically aware of themselves, aware of the forces at work that influence their lives from birth onward.

Of course, we don’t need astrology to define us or decide our future. However, it has been of assistance for people when self-analysis was needed.

What Does SHE See in YOU? By the signs

22 Oct

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Many of my readers may have remembered my original article on this same topic. Several months ago, I accidentally deleted it. 😦

There’s no sense crying over spilled milk, so I decided to re-write the whole topic. This time it will be a revised version of the original. I plan to add a little more “flair” to the article this time.

Most of you probably know what Zodiac Signs are. Usually when someone asks you, “What’s Your Sign?” People will respond with one of the 12 signs that fall on their birthdays: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, or Pisces.

But did you know that the sign that falls in your birth month isn’t your only sign? The sign most people are familiar with is the Sun sign. The Sun rules over Leo. It’s natural that this “planet” would get more attention than all the others. People even tattoo these signs on their bodies.

If you know all this, and don’t need an explanation, skip to Mars Signs

If you want to know how to find your other signs, and learn more about what a natal chart is, CLICK ME.

The Sun is the central planet in the universe. In astrology, the Sun represents our ego, our pride, our “inner” identity, our basic self. It doesn’t represent who we are totally, but it is our central driving force. It’s our inner core values developed from home, from the person who was in charge of our lives as children. It’s developed from our early childhood living conditions. And it stays within the center of our hearts even as we grow older. When we live life by our sun signs, we feel like somebody in this world. We feel significant. We feel like we’ve made someone proud. We feel content and happy in life, as if life is worth living. This is why the Sun sign is more well-known. To add, it’s easy to find. All you have to know is your birthday.

But have you ever felt that you didn’t really relate too much to your sun sign? Have you felt that there were just some things that were a little off? While most of us would like life to be like our Sun, other things influence who we are. You ever met two people with the same Sun sign that seem a little bit different from each other? I know two Sun in Geminis who generally like to socialize and talk, but their emotional responses are different, their interests are different, and their goals and ambitions are different. To add, they are from two different generations.

This shows us that our other signs are just as important.

Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto signs are all important.

Sun rules over our basic inner drive to be important to ourselves and others. Usually, developed by the Father or lead provider in the home. Women usually look for this from men in long-term relationships, projecting her own idea of a happy lifestyle, expecting a man to make her happy by taking care of her. Still, the Sun isn’t the most important factor in a romantic sense. It may be associated with individual pride, but the Sun is weak in Libra for a reason: It’s hard to think about the ego, or only the self identity, when thinking of partnerships or OTHERS. Venus is the planet most people should observe when thinking of romantic compatibility.

This article will be focusing on Mars signs.

The other planets have meaning and archetypes as well. The Sun sign isn’t the only part of our life.

How can you find these planets in signs? By finding your FREE NATAL CHART online!

http://www.astro.com is the best place.

Step 1: Sign up for a free account!

Step 2: Go to “free horoscopes” at the top

Step 3: Press horoscope drawings

Step 4: Move to the extended chart

Step 5: Press “Edit data”, a small button on the right

Step 6: Enter your data. You may need birth time which you can get from birth certificate or parent, or for now, use 12 noon though not recommended.

Step 7: Press blue button.

If you want to learn more about YOUR OTHER SIGNS, click me.

There are Houses and Aspects to consider as well. The Rising sign is included in this. That’s usually the sign that rules over the first house. If you want to learn more keep reading the next few lines. If not, skip to the word “MOVING ALONG”.

To learn about signs that rule over the houses, click me.

You may notice a huge wheel in the middle of the natal chart. You may notice 12 black lines in the center (if you knew your birth time). These 12 divisions are HOUSES. I will talk more about this another time. But if you want to explore,click me.

You may notice red and blue lines in the middle of the natal chart. On the right of the signs, you may also see red and blue symbols. I will talk more about this another time. But if you want to explore, click me.

MOVING ALONG

This article will be focusing on Mars signs.

The Mars symbol looks like this:

Mars symbol

The sign next to this symbol is your Mars sign. So, now that you have your natal chart and your Mars sign, let’s get started.

Mars isn’t particularly the planet of love and romance, like Venus. But it does rule over sex, our actions, our energy, and what we deem as strong or “masculine”. For men, this often reflects his own impressive strengths and abilities, the things he uses to show off and how he approaches a woman. For women it may be the same, but women still expect men to be just as strong as they are, if not stronger! Therefore, women often project their Mars without even realizing it. Women often expect men to take action and initiative even when it comes to asking her out on a date and even proposing for marriage, the same actions she would usually take. She’s drawn to a man who can keep up with her energy and adapt to it. She’s more instantly drawn to men who are exciting and brave before they are attracted to how a man behaves in public or how he treats her, though women eventually realize that’s important as well. They just realize it later on when they are going on a date with a guy. Since women rarely take the initiative in relationships, Mars usually comes in the form of her ideal type. Men may also be attracted to women like this, but may not realize it until way later. Men are not likely to focus on a woman’s impressive strengths or abilities until he’s sexually intimate with her.

Again, Mars is the planet of war, action, energy, aggression, and sex. For a man, it represents his own abilities. It represents how direct he is in situations. It represents his courage. This means everything to his masculinity.

For a woman, it shows her courage as well. But she usually projects this onto men, expecting him to be braver than even she is. This is the man that makes the blood rush to her head. He’s exciting and strong. This is the man she’s sexually attracted to. This is the man she respects. This is the man who breaks her defenses, as many women often tend to have them. Whether she will date him long-term or even marry him is a different story, but with Mars, she’s sexually attracted to him.

Mars is a physical planet. Unlike Venus, it overlooks the superficial and notices the physical actions a person takes. It also shows what physical actions we all are able to take. It represents our energy levels and what motivates us to keep moving or to even start moving. What a person does is often instinctive. A person’s approach can seem exciting or intimidating, depending on how they moved. Someone can act really sweet and have a cute face (Venus), but be a champion boxer (Mars). Someone can look intimidating and mean (Venus), but is often tending a garden or caring for animals (Mars). Someone can act really social at work or at school (Venus), but spends most of their time sleeping (Mars). Our physical activities are ruled by Mars. It also rules over your approach, which means everything you do. It’s not about how you do things (Venus), but literally what you do (Mars).

Venus rules the “label” we have. For instance, with the socialite who sleeps all the time example. Venus may reveal that he is a rebel, but Mars is the physical action he’s usually taking, and that’s sleeping.

Mars is more instinctive than Venus. Women are not likely to relate to it immediately or realize they like these traits in men. But if they observe the men in their lives, they may begin to notice these traits were the very things that drew them to these guys in the first place!

Mars shows a woman’s sex drive and the things she likes to do for fun. Women do love a good challenge as much as the next person. This represents how courageous she would be about expressing her feelings and how quick she’s likely to approach you. It may also show whether she is down for sex, how much sexual energy she has, and any sexual techniques she’s capable of revealing to entice you (once you’ve turned her on, of course). Her Venus signs would represent how she acts when she likes you. But Mars reveals whether she’s brave enough to dive into a relationship with you, whether she’s confident enough to explore her sexual interests, and how she’ll likely show you she’s turned on by you. Mars shows the approach she best feels comfortable with. Her ruling planet influences how this turns out. The ruling planet’s sign will be important in giving more details.

You all know all the signs have a ruling planet, right?

Sun rules over Leo

Moon over Cancer

Mercury over Gemini and Virgo

Venus over Taurus and Libra

Mars over Aries and (traditionally) Scorpio

Jupiter over Sagittarius and (traditionally) Pisces

Saturn over Capricorn and (traditionally) Aquarius

Uranus over Aquarius

Neptune over Pisces

Pluto over Scorpio

Look at the sign Mars is in. Then, look at the ruling planet of that sign and see what sign it’s in. For example, if you have Mars in Leo, look to the Sun. If you’re Sun sign is in Scorpio, your Sun in Scorpio will influence your Mars and color your interests a little more.

Though Mars decides what she’s attracted to in a man, she may not necessarily believe he’s a good boyfriend. She needs to know a man can be a good leader and give her the life she wants to live. Women often don’t feel that a good partner is easy to find. Before getting into a relationship, most women are independent and often care for themselves or have had someone care for them. The hardest thing for women to do is to give up what she thinks is important for a man. Society often expects a man to be the leader in a relationship. Most men don’t feel comfortable letting a woman take the lead. Women sometimes often agree with this. Still, they want the kind of leader they can respect, and often times they would like to have some say-so in the decisions made in a partnership. Everyone has leadership abilities, and women need to know that their values are deemed worthy of respect as well. Women don’t just want a man who is sexy, but also a man who respects her. This would be decided by the SUN SIGNS. If you want to be her long-term boyfriend, observe her Sun sign.

If you want her to marry you, the whole chart must be considered.

Since Mars represents a woman’s ideal type, I thought I’d help the gentlemen out. This can apply to you, too, gentlemen. Mars represents what everyone thinks is hot and sexy, though men may gravitate more to their Venus signs. Women may care more about what a man does and how he acts rather than how a man appears or how charming he is (though women like this, too). Men may equally like what a woman does, true enough, but they care more about how a woman carries herself in public socially than they do about what she “does”.

Still, Venus and Mars are both important in both charts. It’s just Mars is more instant for women.

Basically, for women, Mars is the first step towards “crushing” on a man. Venus is the second step towards “crushing” on a man, but she may not realize it.

Sun is the first step towards committing in a relationship. Moon is the last step towards committing in a relationship, but she may not realize it.

This article will help men get insight as to HOW they can attract a woman they like. But I recommend that you be YOURSELF. You never want to pretend. In the end, it will show whether you TRULY fit her ideal type. Still, it would be useful to know how she views sex and men. Then you can see if it matches up with your views. You don’t have to have the same Mars signs to be compatible. You don’t even have to have the same Mars signs in order for her to “see” her Mars qualities in you. Remember, she’s projecting her own qualities. She may see sides to you that’s attractive to her and they could be coming from all the other planets in your chart. Or even the houses. Or even the aspects! So, you don’t have to have compatible Mars signs in order for her to be attracted to you. This is just what SHE likes in her MIND. This is her “ideal”. How it comes about in person is entirely up to her.

This article can help those who have also been ASKED out. It can show them what she saw in you when she asked you out. That girl that couldn’t stop following you around? That girl clearly makes herself visible whenever you’re around? You may have struck her Mars sign.

For those of you who are Lesbian, Gay, or Bi-sexual, it depends on the planet you identify with. If you identify with your Venus, you will project your Mars more. Therefore, you may be more attracted to a Martian individual. Most Lesbian, Gay, or Bi-Sexual individuals that I know are less likely to project either planet. Most own up to all of their energies instead of expecting others to handle them, which is actually good! For you, you should observe both VENUS and MARS signs. The following could apply to both the male and female gay and lesbian community. Unfortunately, heterosexual women are more than likely to project their own Mars rather than own up to it, causing much confusion for men interested in women. For this article, I used the pronoun “she”, but if you’re a man interested in men or a woman interested in women, you could observe these signs, too.

Even heterosexual men should read this because Mars could even apply to the WOMEN men are interested in on the subconscious level. Many heterosexual men don’t realize it, but these are the things they’re looking for in women as well!

Still, society is harder on all women and their expressions of Mars, whether Homosexual or Heterosexual. This is why I have to cater this to women mostly.

The archetypes presented in this article come from one of my favorite websites: CLICK ME

Again, this article is not for individuals to start pretending they fit these women’s “ideal”. This is so you can get an understanding of HER mind, and see if it really is suited to the kind of person you feel you are. If there are things about her that you KNOW don’t feel like you, then maybe you should let her know what you’re about and see if she’s alright with that. But don’t EVER pretend to be someone you’re not. 

*Some parts of the interpretations might be too much for those under the age of 18. Reader discretion is advised.

Mars signs appear in this order

Mars in Aries

Mars in Taurus

Mars in Gemini

Mars in Cancer

Mars in Leo

Mars in Virgo

Mars in Libra

Mars in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Mars in Capricorn

Mars in Aquarius

Mars in Pisces

It’s pretty long, so you can just scroll down to the Mars sign of interest. I’m really sorry about the length. I still hope you readers enjoy.

To read about Venus, check out my Which Disney animated heroine are YOU? Part 1 and Part 2

The article for the ladies, What does HE see in YOU?, What Does HE Want YOU To see in HIM?, and What Does She Want YOU to See in HER? are available.

Note:

When a planet is at home in a sign, that is the sign it rules. That sign is most like the planet.

When a planet is exalted in a sign, it works easier. This helps the planet gain benefits faster, but maintenance isn’t as efficient as the sign ruled by the planet.

When a planet is in detriment in a sign, that means the sign is totally different from the planet.

When a planet is falling in a sign, it’s hard for the planet to open up. Benefits come slowly, but the outcome could be better than expected.

Mars in Aries

One word description: Honest

These women tend to notice individuals who are direct and honest. If you want her to notice you or to even know if you’re interested, she’s not going to sit around and guess. She’s an outgoing, fast-moving woman and doesn’t usually notice the subtle clues before her. She’s most impressed by someone who’s not afraid of her.

She’s active and energetic, so she needs someone who knows how to have fun around her. Keep her entertained and constantly onto new adventures.

She’s highly drawn to people who stand up to her and confront her. She secretly likes a challenging person, someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves and tell her about herself honestly.

She’ll respect someone who is decisive. She admires people who don’t let anyone boss them around or make them sell-out anything important.

She’s drawn to individuals who are independent. She’s always doing her own thing, and a self-reliant individual is a turn on. The more independent the person is, the more she chases.

They are impressed by someone who is a leader in their own right. She’s often drawn to an individual who takes the initiative or takes the lead whenever they are together, even if the individual is just asking what she wants to do.

She doesn’t always necessarily care if the individual is daring, but they should never be afraid to be themselves. She has a lot of courage, and often likes to try new things, so she’s drawn to individuals who are down for anything. The person she wants will push her to be more courageous and independent.

It would probably help to eat a lot of vitamins around her. She’s always moving. If you can’t move along with her, she’ll pass you up! Some of these women are attracted to active and athletic types, but most just want someone who is forward.

This women may like a man who is a little rugged or alpha.

Sexually, she’s motivated by someone who is a challenge or someone who is up to the challenge. These women don’t want to be an easy catch. They need a man who is brave and confident, willing to fight for them. Make a move, communicate, and take control. She needs to be the focus of his attention the whole time. She needs a man to actually motivate her to action. She has to be in charge of what happens, so she will have sex when SHE wants to. A partner who has high standards may motivate her to break their defenses. She may need someone who is willing to break down her defenses. She may also need someone who is fun and energetic. They don’t want sex to be too complicated. They just need someone who gets straight to the point. These women may secretly be aroused by dominant, even angry, partners. She sees sex as a challenge. She’s a prize that must be won through hard work and dedication.

If she said yes to your offer to take her out sometime, then you’ve probably approached her as if you were fearless. She definitely thought you were confident and didn’t sense any fear from you. You are more than likely someone who believes in being yourself. You seemed fun and exciting, and she liked that.

How do I know she wants me? She will follow you around. She’s not really a stalker, but when she’s decided that she wants to see you, she will. Wherever you go, she will want to go. She will try to fall in step with you.

TURN OFF: Anyone who stops her from being herself. Anyone who can’t decide who or what they want. Someone who asks too many different women out on dates. Someone who is too up-tight and judgmental.

Mars is at home in this sign. So your initial approach is the best one. Just come right up to her and tell her you like her, and that’s it. Offer to do something fun and exciting. She’s much simpler than most women. She won’t require much until she’s ready to commit.

Female Celebrities: Angelina Jolie,  Aishwarya Rai,  Tyra Banks, Emma Stone, Kourtney Kardashian, Vanessa Hudgens, Kate Hudson, Kate Beckinsale,  Iggy Azalea, Hayley Williams, Lauryn Hill, Mel B (Spice Girls), Geri Halliwell (Spice Girls)

Kpop idols: Song “Victoria” Qian (f(x)), Hyuna (Wonder Girls, 4Minute), Eunjung (T-ara), Areum (T-ara), Yubin (Wonder Girls), Lee Hyori (Fin KL),  Solji (EXID)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Aries “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Taurus

One word description: Patient

These women are strong-willed, slow-moving, and down-to-earth. Slow and steady wins the race for them. This is why Mars is in detriment in this sign. The more time you spend with them, the more they will notice you. These women are not easy to impress. Everything takes time with them. It may even take more than one try to ask them out. Persistence is key.

What’s even more attractive to them is someone who takes their time to get to know them. It would be better to ask them out once you feel like you REALLY know them. They often feel insecure when people ask them out without being friends with them first. They are likely to agree to date someone they’ve known for a long time. In this sense, they are really attracted to patient, cool-headed individuals, who don’t mind taking their time getting in a relationship.

Even within a relationship, they want to take it easy. Changes are threatening to them. They are really drawn to people who are understanding and easily let go of disappointments, since it takes so much time for them to even get to one new stage in their relationships. They are drawn to people who make them feel secure and at ease.

Many of these women are attracted to the “bad boy/bad girl” types. They tend to be drawn to individuals who are generally cool and strong, and most “bad” types tend to have these qualities. It’s not that they literally like drama. They just like to feel protected and secure. They may mostly be drawn to someone who looks tough on the outside, but who is a real teddy bear within.

They tend to want the individuals that anyone could want. They are attracted to people they feel will care for them.

Physical things are very important to them, so the physical senses need to be stimulated. This includes appearance, smell, touch, and sound.  Venus will influence this. They’ll be looking for an individual who has some understanding of their social standing in the world as women. Buying things for her or doing nice things for her is sure to impress her.

But most important is the physical presence of someone. You could be broke, but what they really want above all else is for someone to be around them, spending time with them, being there for them when they need love. The more time you physically spend with them, the more you grow on them. After awhile, they wouldn’t be able to see their life without you.

These women like to chill and relax, so she’s attracted to someone who is pleasant to be around. When you take her out, offer to do something pleasant. She has to be attracted to the individual who asks her out. If she’s not, it’s never going to happen. Charm works every time. The more persuasive a man is with the physical senses, the easier it will be to convince her to choose you. Again, these women are very insecure with men, so a patient man can last longer, someone who won’t give up.

Stability is also a key thing.

Sexually, she’s motivated by all the physical senses: Touch, smell, taste, sound, visual. Take your time. She doesn’t want someone who rushes into sex. She wants to feel that the person she’s with is really in love with her first and will be loyal. She wants to take it all in. Don’t come at her too strong. It will make her feel threatened. She will be impressed by someone else’s sexuality if she feels the ultimate pleasure from them. She sees sex as a way to make love to her partners.

If she said yes to your offer, lucky you! You’ve finally broken the stubborn wall! You’ve proven that you really like her and she’s ready to finally move to the first stage: dating. Things may still get off to a slow start, but she’s at least now willing to give you a chance, of all the people out here. You must be one smooth fox! You seemed like someone she could trust and someone she feels comfortable around.

How do I know she wants me? These women are not direct; they take their time approaching the people they want. Sometimes, they never approach the one they really want. But when you come around, she won’t help but smile. She may be quite physical. She may grab your arm, give you hugs, and spend a lot of time around you. She may get jealous when she sees you around someone else. Then she will really make sure she’s physically present around you, as well as looking her best.

TURN OFF: Pushy individuals. Individuals who are argumentative. People who make them feel unattractive.

These women really do need to feel secure, so having something in common with them or having certain charms makes it easier. What do you two have in common? Do you really love them? How can you make them feel comfortable? Venus plays a major role for them. These women tend to be looking for men who really understand what they like. She may often want a man who is on the same page as she is.

This sign is ruled by Venus. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, pleasure, and affection. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Venus sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Venus is in Gemini, you can read Mars in Gemini.

Venus can be in any of the 12 signs while Mars is in Taurus.

Female celebrities: Selena Gomez, Mariah Carey,  Jessica Alba, Celine Dion, Jennifer Lawrence, Lucy Lawless, Kate Moss, Keira Knightley,  Liv Tyler,  Miranda Kerr, Janet Jackson, Courtney Cox, Kesha, Sade Adu, Leona Lewis, Queen Latifah, Jennette McCurdy, Mel C (Spice Girls)

Kpop idols: Taeyeon (SNSD Girls’ Generation), Hyolyn (Sistar), Jia (Miss A),  Hyeri (Girl’s Day), Jimin (AOA), Sohee (Wonder Girls), Jooyeon (After School), Yuzi (EXID)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Taurus “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Gemini

One word description: Interesting

If you want these women to notice how you feel, you need to communicate. These women don’t mind guessing games if you leave out-right leave clues, but they are usually moving around from place to place so much, they don’t usually notice anything subtle.

These women are drawn to people who can stimulate their minds as well as their bodies. They get bored easily. They are drawn to fun, exciting, and interesting individuals. They are always on the move, so if you want to win their hearts, your approach must be smooth, interesting, and flirtatious. They want to see how sharp and quick-witted you are. Generally, they talk a lot and be pretty brash in their speech.

They want to try new things, so they will be interested in people who seem to have a busy agenda and interesting hobbies or skills, as well as an array of associates. Some independence is also a redeeming quality. They also tend to gravitate towards individuals who show an interest in their favorite hobbies or in their friends.

Someone who asks questions and tries to understand their mind is very appealing. Communicate with them everyday because they lose interest as soon as you forget about them. You really have to keep these women interested. Proposing some new activity every time you ask them on a date would really make them say yes every time. They are open-minded, so they generally want someone who’s down for anything without being judgmental. Of course, this depends on their Mercury signs.

Sexually, dirty talk, erotic notes or literature or visuals, as well as tempting her curiosity motivates her. You must promise a fun time. She wants someone who approaches sex like a game. Pull out all your tricks, something she’s never tried before. This will impress her. She’s generally open-minded. Still, the mind has to be stimulated before there is any body interaction. She sees sex as a fun and social activity.

If this woman agreed to go out with you, you must be really interesting, clever, and smooth enough to keep her attention. That’s quite the challenge. You must have some amazing skills with words and body language.

How do I know she wants me? She will communicate. She can be flirty. She’s not the type to seem desperate, so she won’t be everywhere you are. She’ll try to fall in step with you at social events of some sort and strike up a conversation. She tends to flirt. She will also carry her tone of voice in a way that shows she wants you. She might offer to do something with you or invite you someplace fun.

TURN OFF: Anyone who isn’t easy to talk to. Anyone who seems like they have nothing to add to a conversation. Liars. People who are too interested in themselves.

These women do think conversation and the mind is important when choosing to go out with someone. Mercury signs would influence this. What do you talk about? Where is your mind? What do you find interesting?

This sign is ruled by Mercury. Mercury rules over the mind, how we communicate, how we think, how we process information. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Mercury sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if you have Mercury in Cancer, read Mars in Cancer.

Mercury can be in any of the 12 signs while Mars is in Gemini.

Female celebrities: Uma Thurman, Natalie Portman, Sandra Bullock,  Meryl Streep, Milla Jovovich, Kate Winslet, Kylie Minogue, Victoria Beckham, Courtney Love,  Coco Chanel, Naomi Campbell, Demi Lovato,  Jennifer Garner, Carmen Electra, Eva Mendes, Barbra Streisand, Rene Descartes,  Rita Ora, Tina Fey, Diana Ross, Virginia Woolf, Bette Page, Emma Roberts, Aretha Franklin, Emma Bunton (Spice Girls), Victoria Beckham (Spice Girls), Alessia Cara, Charli XCX, T-Boz (TLC), Sia

Kpop idols: Jessica (SNSD, Girls’ Generation), CL (2ne1), ChoRong (APink), HaYoung (Apink), Jiyoon (4Minute), Fei (Miss A), Chanmi (AOA), Hyelim (Wonder Girls), Lizzy (After School), E-Young (After School), Sunhwa (Secret), Irene (Red Velvet), Dami (EXID), Dahyun (Twice), Irene (Red Velvet), Shinbi (GFriend),  Solar (Mamamoo)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Gemini “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Cancer

One word description: Caring

Mars is typically considered falling in this sign. These women generally don’t choose the guys with the “phony glitz and glam” approach. She rarely chooses the individual that’s trying to get her utmost attention. She’s impressed by the individuals who keep it cool and sweet.

She may choose the person that takes the time out to get to know her, someone who shares their personal, intimate secrets with her. She will mostly notice someone who is thoughtful in their approach. They tend to be drawn to people who are caring and memorable.

They are very defensive. Someone would literally have to ease their way into her heart. The approach has to be subtle rather than bold.

Family is important to them. They are protective of the ones they care about. An individual who cares about the same people they care about is very appealing to them.

They really like strong, protective individuals.

Be honest with your feelings. These women are emotionally expressive, even explosive, and they generally are drawn to people who are not afraid of emotions or afraid of commitment. The person she’s drawn to will be very understanding. She has strong, powerful moods and a need to dominate. She needs someone who allows her to be herself and express herself. She’s often drawn to individuals who understand women. It’s important that someone she’s interested in has an open-minded view of women.

Introducing her to relatives will make her feel secure, like she’s a part of your life. She is quite moody and often feels insecure. She needs someone who will make her feel safe. Her Moon sign will reveal some of her insecurities and needs.

These women tend to draw to people who are there when they need them most. She wants someone who remembers all the things that are most important to her. An individual who goes out of their way to cook for her or make heartfelt gifts will definitely win her heart. She’ll choose the man that pampers her. They often expect people to intuit their needs and fulfill them. These women often follow their gut instincts when choosing partners. They have to feel that something is good about you, and this can be hard to predict. Just follow your own instincts.

Sexually, cuddling and her own emotional moods motivate her. If she’s feeling good that day, she will more than likely feel up to it. If she’s not, don’t even ask. She’ll let you know if she’s in the mood. It will impress her if the person knows how to be hard as well as soft in the bedroom. They will also be impressed if an individual can intuit their needs. She mostly has sex with those who have proven they love her and are ready to commit to her. A gentle approach works better than an aggressive one. She mostly wants someone who approaches sex in an adaptable way, according to her needs. She sees sex as a way to confirm feelings of love.

If she chose you out of all the guys out there, you’ve definitely got someone who is hard to obtain. These women usually have their defenses up. You must’ve melted that shell and opened her up! Good for you! You must seem like an honest, caring person.

How do I know she wants me? You won’t know if you’re looking for obvious clues. She’s shy. She will be indirect. Mostly, she will give you little gifts on the most important days. She will become very shy around the one she wants. She may give you hugs if she’s brave enough. She will get jealous around any other woman you’re with and may explode emotionally suddenly. Don’t take this the wrong way. It just means she wants you to be hers.

TURN OFF: Inconsiderate, insensitive, thoughtless individuals. Show-offs. People only interested in her body and not her soul. Individuals who treat women like objects. Bad vibes.

For these women, a considerate, thoughtful person must make them feel secure and safe. The Moon signs reveal the insecurities that need to be protected.

This sign is ruled by the Moon. The Moon rules over the emotions, our needs, our insecurities, our home, our nurturing. It also shows how we care and how we want to be cared for. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Moon sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Moon is in Leo, read Mars in Leo.

Female celebrities: Miley Cyrus, Lana Del Rey, Penelope Cruz, Audrey Hepburn, Halle Berry, Pink, Marie Antoinette, Reese Witherspoon, Alanis Morissette,  Vivien Leigh, Natalie Wood, Julianne Moore, Dolly Parton,  Cheryl Cole,  Zendaya Coleman, Cyndi Lauper, Diane Keaton, Jamie Lynn Spears, Victoria Justice, Megan Good, Dolly Parton, Kelis, Dolly Parton, Pink, Tinashe, Halsey, Cardi B

Kpop idols: Sunny (SNSD Girls’ Generation), Amber (f(x)), YooKyung (Apink), SoHyun (4Minute), Hyomin (T-ara), Hwayoung (T-ara), Yura (Girl’s Day), Yuna (AOA), Youkyung (AOA), Yeeun (Wonder Girls), Jungah (After School), Raina (After School), Kaeun (After School), Ailee, Joy (Red Velvet), Yerin (GFriend), Umji (GFriend), Moonbyul (Mamamoo)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Cancer “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Leo

One word description: Impressive

These women, honestly, only notice the most noticeable person in the room. Honestly, they don’t recognize anyone shy. They can’t read subtle clues and actually subtle clues bore them. If you approach them, you’d best come with your best performance. They want to be asked out the way anyone would ask an important figure, like a Queen, out. They want to be treated like royalty. If you approach them, it must be done in a tasteful, romantic, emotionally moving way, possibly in front of other individuals, especially potential admirers. Basically, it has to seem like you’re proposing to them, even if it’s just asking them out on a simple date. Be creative. They want a partner that’s willing to put forth a lot of effort.

These women tend to be impressed by the popular life, and so they may fall easily for the movie or music star. They love the school and/or work idols. Rich people, major athlete, or accomplished individuals are already impressive to these women. Even more so if these individuals are attractive. But if someone is sweet, generous, and treats them like royalty, that’s even better than some rich attractive person! If you really want their attention, you must give them attention. She can be hard to get, but with confidence and persistence as well as genuine interest, her heart can be won. She wants to see who can handle the heat. The key is always confidence. She wants someone she can be proud of, someone she can show off. Of course, their Sun signs will influence what they feel is worth being proud over.

They are drawn to generous, affectionate, and FAITHFUL people. They want to feel special in a person’s life.

They also are drawn to someone fun, outgoing, and a little adventurous. You have to entertain them.

They usually want their partners to be able to take the lead (even though they are capable of doing so). They are already rather dominant and independent. They need a partner who can do more than they can.

Sexually, a nice romantic night, plenty of flattery, and letting them take the lead will motivate her. Of course, it will impress her when the person she’s interested in is confident and knows how to please. She’s a dominant woman, so don’t force yourself onto her. Let her decide what she wants. If she’s not feeling the atmosphere, she will not agree to have sex. Be confident, but eager to please. Make her feel like a queen. She wants someone who approaches sex in a romantic way. She wants a partner to show her how much he loves her. She sees sex as a pleasurable activity between lovers. She may see sex as a chance to prove her worth as a woman.

If she chose you, you must have been one amazing, impressive, and confident person. It isn’t easy to win her heart, so you got lucky!

How do I know she wants me? She’s not going to beg for you, but she will try to be seen. She’s going to find a way to fall in step with you. She will show off a lot to seem impressive and important.

TURN OFF: Anyone who seems girl-crazy. Anyone who treats them as inferior as a woman. Boring individuals who don’t know how to laugh or have a good time. Selfish individuals.

These women want to be proud of whoever is trying to impress them. They want someone who has the same core values that they do. The Sun signs mean something to them.

This sign is ruled by the Sun. The Sun rules the identity, the ego, pride, the will, vitality, and the creative drive that creates the individual. It also represents our inner core values developed in our childhood. It rules over the husband. Generally, most Mars in Leo women are looking for a husband figure right away. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Sun sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Sun is in Virgo, read Mars in Virgo.

Female celebrities: Beyonce Knowles, Jodie Foster, Monica Bellucci, Brigitte Bardot, Demi Moore, Amy Winehouse,  Mila Kunis, Salma Hayek, Sophia Loren, Cher, Nicole Richie, Mystic Meg, Serena Williams, Sophia Vergara, Sigourney Weaver, Miranda Cosgrove, Mya

Kpop idols: Tiffany (SNSD, Girls Generation), Seohyun (SNSD, Girls’ Generation), Krystal (f(x)), NamJoo (Apink), Dasom (Sistar), Jiyeon (T-ara), Jiae (T-ara), Min (Miss A), Suzy (Miss A), Minah (Girl’s Day), IU, JeA (Brown Eyed Girls), Junghwa (EXID), Haeryung (EXID, Bestie), Wheein (Mamamoo)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Leo “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Virgo

One-word description: Attentive

These women may notice two types of individuals. First, some are pickier than others. Some of these women may choose someone with the good job, stable mental and financial life, and someone who lives a very productive life.

These women may also like someone who can teach them a few things. They have a hidden curiosity about life. They may like intelligent individuals.

Some of the other Mars in Virgo women, however, may be drawn to someone that “needs” them, sometimes drawing themselves to rogue rebels that need to be “fixed”. They must be careful not to be attracted to people that are no good for them.

They sometimes want to get away from their mundane and critical world. Their polar opposite might be appealing to them because these individuals make them forget their stresses. They might fight between going to work or ditching work to hang out with a love interest. Thus, they might be drawn to individuals who are a little free-spirited.

Regardless, these women will take the humble over the loud and brash. They generally like to be approached in a cool and natural manner. They like people who are smart and down-to-earth. Clearly communicate to them what it is you want.

These women like when someone makes themselves useful in their lives. They are sort of looking for an asset. This person has to take care of them. These women have a lot of stress in their lives. They are looking for someone who can come to the rescue and help them when they need it.

They are also looking for someone who recognizes the little things about them. Compliments about their new hairstyle, or newly done nails, or even on some project they’ve worked on that’s gone unnoticed would draw them in. They really do like attentive individuals. Especially pay attention to them when they speak. They like a listening ear.

Sexually, these women are more motivated when they know they are with someone who knows what they’re doing. They love dirty talk. Someone who is hands-on and is eager to please will get them started. She will be impressed with someone who is attentive to all of her erogenous zones. Move in a natural way and don’t do anything weird (unless you’ve asked her first).

She’s easily turned off by pushy individuals. The setting has to be right in order for them to want sex. A massage or a bubble bath will relax them. They want someone who approaches sex in a detail-oriented way, as if they are hard at work. They must be observant and work hard to make the experience pleasant. They see sex as a healthy activity and a way to release tension.

As sexy as they are, they are modest in many ways. Either they wait until marriage to have sex or they have an innocent nature in the bedroom, something about them may seem a bit naive, shy, and humble. They aren’t hesitant to state their inhibitions.

Basically, they can make sexuality innocent and they can make innocence sexy.

If she chose you, you have one of the most helpful and supportive women on the planet. She will be there when you need her most. You have a dime, but that could be because you seem very valuable yourself. Keep doing what you’re doing!

How do I know she wants me? This woman will be there for you when you need her most. She does little things, like run errands for you, to show she wants you. She will go out of her way and offer to do things for you that she wouldn’t do for anyone else. She gives compliments and pays attention to little details about you. She may get you something you’ve been wanting.

TURN OFF: Anyone aggressive towards them or abusive. Anyone who doesn’t communicate clearly what they want. Liars. Someone who doesn’t appreciate the things they do for them. Anyone who seems unusual or mentally unstable.

Of course, again, these women want someone who is attentive. This means there are certain things she’s hoping an individual will pay attention to. This means she wants to see how you think and whether you’re on the same page. She’s a very subtle person. How smart are you? Can you catch on? Her Mercury sign will play a role.

This sign is ruled by Mercury. Mercury is the planet of communication, how we think, how we understand and process information, when and how we speak, and what we speak about. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Mercury sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Mercury is in Libra, read Mars in Libra.

Female celebrities: Britney Spears, Princess Diana, Cameron Diaz, Mother Teresa, Nicole Scherzinger, Gwyneth Paltrow,  Ariana Grande, Hilary Duff, Zooey Deschanel, Sarah Jessica Parker, Eva Green, Joan of Arc, Melanie Griffith, Christina Ricci, Ciara, Amy Lee, Naomi Watts, Hayden Panettiere, Brooke Shields, Joan Rivers, Hilary Swank, Lorde, Michelle Rodriguez, Amy Adams, Raquel Welch, Zoe Saldana, Amber Rose, Grace Jones, Elizabeth Gillies

Kpop idols: Soyeon (T-ara), Hyejeong (AOA), Seolhyun (AOA), Sunye (Wonder Girls), Bekah (After School), Miryo (Brown Eyed Girls), Gain (Brown Eyed Girls), Jungyeon (Twice), Momo (Twice), Sana (Twice), Mina (Twice), Lalisa (BlackPink), eunha (GFriend)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Virgo “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Libra

One word description: Balanced

These women are a little complicated. They tend to notice individuals who are generally physically attractive and well-dressed.

If you approach them, it must be done with charm. Strike up an interesting conversation. They notice the individuals who are polite, romantic, sweet, thoughtful, and sensual. They are drawn to individuals who just seem to have a way with women. They are drawn to individuals with a sense of class, those who seem partner-oriented.

Yet, they also tend to like dominant, macho types. They really do want someone to take the lead because they really hate having to make all the decisions. It stresses them out. They sort of like someone taking control. Still, they don’t want to be pushed around or aggressively handled. Even assertive people make them uneasy if it’s directed towards them, though they need someone who is more assertive.

Why the complication? Mars is in detriment in Libra. It isn’t easy for these women to find the perfect balance in a partner. It may seem like all the people who approach them never seem to be good enough. It’s really because they are extremely picky. They want the ideal partner.

They tend to appreciate an individual when they’re gone. When you give them some space, they will often miss the presence of someone who has been there for them. Space gives them perspective as to what they really want. Though they hate being alone, often times they need to be, just to figure out what it is they truly want.

They want someone that won’t embarrass them socially and will still treat them well. They love luxuries, so they tend to be drawn to individuals with a bit of money. Most of the people they fall for seem to have stepped out of a romance novel.

They want someone that compliments them. They want their partners to make up for their weaknesses. In this case, they always seem to attract people who are completely opposite. This frustrates them because they also want someone they can do everything with. This means they have to have something in common with them, which is decided by the Venus signs. So how can the two be merged? When it comes to handling business and external affairs, they want someone who is assertive and takes the lead. They want someone active who can pay all the bills the easy-going Mars in Libra woman doesn’t want to pay. But when it comes to how they treat her, she wants to be romanced and treated like the finest, most important lady in town. Overall, anyone who approaches her must show that they can be balanced.

She has an active social life and wants someone she can bring to parties and other social events.

Despite her desire for a good partner, she really can’t imagine being alone the rest of her life. She should be careful just settling with any partner just to have one.

Sexually, she wants someone who can take the lead, but the setting has to be romantic. She needs someone to take action, but wants someone who is considerate of every move he makes. She will want her partner’s thoughts to be on her interests and needs. If you’re sure about what you’re doing, she will be more motivated. Still, she must know that you love her. Sensual pleasures make it easier for her to dive in. Anyone who knows how to please her and turn her on will impress her. She’s nice and reasonable. The right persuasive words could make her open to it. But it’s hard for her to feel ultimate pleasure if the timing isn’t right. She sees sex as a way to show how much she loves her partner and a chance for her partner to show their love as well.

If she chose you, that’s impressive. It’s hard for her to choose just one person, considering she has many options and also doesn’t want to make a mistake by choosing the wrong partner.

How do I know she wants me? This is tricky. She’s generally indecisive. She has many potential suitors. So even though she may think she wants you, chances are she’s thinking about other people she may want as well. This makes her rather passive-aggressive. She flirts with individuals that she wants. She spends a lot of time with them and gets them thoughtful gifts.

TURN OFF: Not being treated fairly or equally. Not being considered in plans. Anyone without good public decorum, i.e. good manners. Anyone selfish.

This woman is looking for someone who either has something in common with her or is willing to consider her interests and at least give them a chance. She’s looking to see if the individual is someone she can cooperate with. Venus plays a role in that.

This sign is ruled by Venus. Venus is the planet of love, peace, beauty, pleasure, attraction, and charm. It rules over our style and tastes, as well as how we show we love something. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Venus sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Venus is in Scorpio, read Mars in Scorpio.

Female celebrities: Nicole Kidman, Kelly Clarkson, Pamela Anderson, Whitney Houston, Mylene Farmer, Jessica Simpson, Jessica Biel, J.K. Rowling, Maria Callas, Nikola Tesla, Kim Basinger, Lorie, Kirsten Dunst, Kylie Jenner, Kristen Bell, Amanda Seyfried, Sinead O’Connor, Whoopi Goldberg, Alicia Silverstone, Carly Rae Jepsen, Dua Lipa

Kpop idols: Hyoyeon (SNSD, Girls’ Generation), Luna (f(x)), BoMi (Apink), Eun Ji (Apink), Jisun (Girl’s Day), Mina (AOA), Nana (After School), Hyosung (secret), Narsha (Brown Eyed Girls), Hyerin (EXID), Jihyo (Twice), Tzuyu (Twice),  Rosé (BlackPink), Hwasa (Mamamoo)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Libra “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Scorpio

One word description: Magnetic

Mars is the co-ruler of Scorpio and so feels at home in this passionate and destructive sign. What does that mean for these women? They are drawn to those rebels, no doubt about it. Many of the people they like are trouble. But for some reason, they are drawn to them. It’s because these women are passionate and crave intense experiences. Mars is their ruler after all. They have an urge to live life to the fullest, which leaves them living life on the edge.

You can’t buy their love. The flash and dash does not impress them. You need to have a lot more than that. There needs to be something deep down in your spirit, your aura, that draws these ladies to you.

If any man approaches them, they are looking for someone with an edge and/or magnetism about them. The approach has to be passionate and charismatic. Basically, you have to have a natural chemistry with them. If you don’t, too bad. It’s never going to happen. These women are all or nothing. They either feel an instant attraction to you or they feel dead around you.

These women are consumed with whoever they want. Once their minds are on you, it seems as if they forget about everyone else around them. Thus, they are drawn to very seductive, unforgettable individuals. If you approach them, there has to be an air of mystery and swag about you. They like strength, a measure of confidence, but also a vulnerable side.

They are also attracted to individuals who are powerful, self-reliant, and hard to obtain.

These women are passionate, so they are looking for someone who has the same passion that they do. They want someone that wants all of them, and only them, or they won’t keep you at all. They might test men to see if they are worthy. They are known for their ultimatums.

They are quiet about their affairs. They are drawn to people that are quiet. If you do want to ask them out, do it at a quiet time, when no one is around. Do it in a quiet, subtle way. Leaving notes is better than shouting for all the world to see…unless you convince her that this loud display was to show how much you want her. Even then, she would’ve preferred a less embarrassing approach. Quiet doesn’t necessarily mean boring though. Make dates and proposals interesting and thoughtful.

Regardless, she often wants to feel like her life has changed forever with whoever she gets with. She wants someone who makes life feel way more meaningful than her life is feeling right now. She tends to be drawn to people who seem to have an exciting life as a result. But she also might be drawn to a man with depth and intelligence. Wisdom and intuition are valuable qualities in a partner in her eyes.

As much as she loses herself in a love interest, she still needs a measure of control in every affair. She won’t just get with just any dude that’s interested and it takes a lot to break down her defenses. The love interest would need to be persistent and perceptive to understand all of her inner layers.

She secretly wants to be free of her own pain, so she’s looking for someone who helps her heal from past traumas. Of course, some of these transforming energies are thanks to their other ruler, Pluto.

Sexually, if it isn’t your all, it will be nothing to her. She’s not the type to beat around the bush. If she wants you, she wants all of you and nothing less. She will be more motivated to have sex if she feels in control. Sex transforms her for life. She feels she is making a huge sacrifice when she has sex with someone; she’s losing her power. She will be impressed if the person she is with puts his everything into it and shows her it was not all for nothing. She may be drawn to someone who is challenging and puts up barriers. She needs to know that the partner is hers and hers alone before she jumps in. She wants someone who approaches sex like it’s the final time they will experience it. It must be a life-altering experience for her partner. If she senses that her partner has a more shallow view of sex, she will not be interested in having sex with the person.

If she chose you, you must have that rebel, mysterious aura. You’re one sexy fox, almost like a seductive vampire ready to take her blood. She won’t get enough of you and everyone else can’t get enough of you either.

How do I know she wants me? She’ll follow you around, investigate everything about you until she finds you. But you may not know this. She will find a way to be next to you. You won’t have to guess whether this girl wants you. You’ll know it.  So if you’re asking this question, she doesn’t want you right now.

TURN OFF: Individuals who are show-offs. Individuals that are too superficial and who seem to be one of those “women shoppers”. Those with phony charm (they can tell when it’s natural and when it’s insincere). People who talk too much.

This sign is ruled by Mars. For some of them, your first impression sticks with them. They usually don’t need to see anything more. But if you want to make an extra impact…

These women are hoping to feel some complete change in their lives. They want to feel this powerful urge to want all from an individual. Pluto signs will reveal these powerful urges.

This sign is co-ruled by Pluto. Pluto is the planet of power, self-empowerment, transformation, and healing. It is deep, psychological, and intense. It reveals everything we want to use to fight against a powerless will, and everything we sacrifice or destroy in the process.

Pluto is a generational planet. It can last in a sign much longer than most planets. It can last from 10 to 13 or more years in one sign! It affects complete generations of people. It’s quite the powerful planet.Read the Mars sign that best fits your Pluto sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Pluto is in Sagittarius, read Mars in Sagittarius.

Female celebrities: Taylor Swift, Jennifer Aniston, Alyssa Milano, Grace Kelly, Oprah Winfrey, Christy Turlington, Khloe Kardashian, Shania Twain, Jennifer Connelly, Marie Curie, Michelle Williams, Mischa Barton, Mandy Moore, LeAnn Rimes, Shailene Woodley, Betty White, Bea Miller, Mary J. Blige

Kpop idols: Yuri (SNSD, Girls’ Generation), Bom (2ne1), Yeri (Red Velvet), Nayeon (Twice), Chaeyoung (Twice), Jisoo (BlackPink)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Scorpio “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Sagittarius

One word description: Bold

If you approach these women, just be honest. Don’t beat around the bush. Be straight-forward and confident. They are drawn to optimistic, confident people. They are likely to notice someone who has the guts to follow their heart.

These individuals are adventurers and are likely to be impressed by those that live a fast-track life.

They have certain moral beliefs that keep them moving every day. Their religious beliefs might influence their choices in partners. They may want someone who shares the same spiritual, philosophical, or religious beliefs. They are drawn to individuals that look at the best of life. They are looking at people who believe in something greater than themselves. Jupiter signs will influence this.

They tend to want to experience all that life has to offer, so they may be drawn to those who travel for a living. They are drawn to foreigners. They like to experience new things and like individuals who aren’t afraid to try something new. They are pretty knowledgeable about the world and are drawn to individuals who seem broad-minded. They are often drawn to teachers of some sort because they want to learn something from their partners. They are tolerant of different ethnic groups, so they generally choose people they know will accept their background and other backgrounds.

These individuals need their freedom. They need space to roam. Thus, they are likely to notice someone who seems a little rugged or rebellious. These ladies are outgoing so they aren’t interested in staying at home and cuddling. They are drawn to active people. They are looking for a guy who wants to have fun.

These women are achievement-oriented. They always have goals. They are drawn to men who have a bright view of the future and are working towards broad goals. It’s even more attractive when the people they’re interested in have achieved a lot of their goals. Achievements are a turn-on. A plus is if this individual offers to help this woman achieve some of her own goals.

Sexually, they want someone who approaches it like a sport. Make it sound like a lot of fun. Just the idea of trying something new is enough to motivate them, but there must be no strings attached. They don’t like the idea of having children, neither do they like the idea of jealous, possessive partners. They are impressed by someone who has the guts to do it anywhere and pull something different out every time. They see sex as a new experience.

If she chose you, she probably definitely notices that there’s something different about you. She senses that she’s going to have a good time with you. You must have shown that you were confident and open-minded.

TURN OFF: Judgmental types. Anyone who is mundane or usual. Closed-minded individuals. Those who have nothing meaningful to talk about.

These women have strong principles that they live by. Their beliefs keep them moving in life. This faith is the reason they are so confident and so optimistic. It’s important that no one brings them down. Jupiter signs come into play here.

This sign is ruled by Jupiter. Jupiter is the planet of luck, faith, expansion, and beliefs. This is a social planet. It can last within one sign for about one year. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Jupiter sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Jupiter is in Capricorn, read Mars in Capricorn.

Female celebrities: Jennifer Lopez, Sharon Tate, Rihanna, Kim Kardashian, Joan Baez, Renee Zellweger, Avril Lavigne, Ellen DeGeneres, Janis Joplin, Rachel McAdams, Meg Ryan, Greta Garbo, Cate Blanchett, Rita Hayworth,  Nelly Furtado, Portia De Rossi, Judy Garland, Katherine Heigl, Bella Thorne, Chilli (TLC), Monica, Jordin Sparks, Toni Braxton, Erykah Badu

Kpop idols: Jihyun (4Minute), Boram (T-ara), LE (EXID), Yuju (GFriend)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Sagittarius “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Capricorn

One word description: Respectful

Mars is exalted in this sign. Let’s just break it down as to why. If you want to impress these women, you have to step up whatever game you have one notch. They are a challenge and they want someone who is also a challenge. For them, many suitors can approach them. Not all of them are right. Many have a long way to go to get on their level. What makes you any different?

They are ambitious, goal-oriented, focused individuals. They don’t have time to waste on pettiness. They are serious about any commitments they make. They are hard to impress and hard to distract. If you want to catch their attention, your approach must be cool, collected, and mature.

They are drawn to individuals who have their own goals.

They really respect people who have a measure of self-control. Keep your hands to yourself and ask for permission before you step over boundaries.

Though they may like partying like anyone, nothing earns their respect more than a person who knows when to stop drinking, when to go home, and when they’ve had too much and shouldn’t drive. These women want someone who can make responsible decisions, especially if they’re taking her out. She wants to feel safe and secure, like her life is important to the person taking her on a date. Is that too much to ask? Not really, if you’re a mature individual. Because of this, she’s usually attracted to individuals who are older than she is.

Timing is another important thing. When you ask them out, it has to be at the right time. When their finances are not in order, they are not likely to agree to go out on dates, even if you’re the one paying. They don’t chance it. If they are at work, they don’t want to be asked out over the phone while doing something important. They don’t mind letters and notes as long as they are well thought-out. They also believe in people being on time. If you want them, you must always be on time for dates.

Patience is also important. Everything takes time with them. The more you push, the faster you push them away. They do expect to be treated with respect. Good manners go a long way with these women. They think highly of themselves and believe respect is earned. It is no wonder Mars is exalted in this position. Saturn will give you clues as the kind of respect they want. The planet Saturn reveals what’s most important to them. Be honest, be straight-forward, be cool, be casual. Plan things well. Make plans with her. Ask once, then play the waiting game to see if she replies.

Sexually, they must know that they are secure to even feel motivated. They are fully in control of their bodies. When they want it, they are full throttle. When they don’t, the answer is no. They won’t have sex with a partner that has slept around with the world, someone with too many children, someone who is not prepared for the consequences. They don’t have time to play games. They are not the types to have sex with someone on the first date unless you are something extremely special. If you are the type to want that, move along. It impresses them when they have a sexual partner that knows what they’re doing. It’s even more impressive to be with someone that can get them to have sex with them. They prefer their partners to approach sex with caution and seriousness. They want someone who is mature about sex.

If she chose you, congratulations! Yes, you’ve definitely graduated from being ‘everybody else’ to someone special in her eyes. You must seem like something amazing.

How do I know she wants me? She is ambitious about what she wants and treats it like any goal she has. She plans her moves carefully and tries to find the right time to approach you. Once she does, she will try to be honest. She is actually a bit shy about asking others out, despite her appearance. But she’ll try to remain serious and calm about it. It may seem a little rehearsed, but more than likely she’s really been trying to ask for a long time. She takes her time making one move.

TURN OFF: People who are late for appointments. People with too much baggage and too much drama. People who move too fast in relationships. Irresponsible individuals.

Again, these women have to feel respected. There are certain things that are important to them. If you do anything, don’t screw with this side of them. Saturn rules over this limitation. They have boundaries and limitations. Don’t get too personal and don’t try to get too intimate with them too soon. They will drop you like they never met you.

This sign is ruled by Saturn. Saturn is the planet of limitations, boundaries, rules, law, and restrictions. It also rules over time and wisdom.

Saturn is a social planet, therefore it can be within one sign for about two years. One peer group could have the same Saturn sign. Read the Mars sign that best fits your Saturn sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Saturn is in Aquarius, read Mars in Aquarius.

Female celebrities: Lady Gaga, Niki Minaj, Shakira, Christina Aguilera, Julia Roberts, Sharon Stone, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Katy Perry, Megan Fox, Lindsay Lohan, Katie Holmes, Gwen Stefani, Bjork, Anne Hathaway, Drew Barrymore, Aaliyah, Mary-Kate Olsen, Ashley Olsen, Amanda Bynes, Katharine Hepburn, Jessie J, Mia Farrow, Rihanna, Mehgan Trainor

Kpop idols: Sooyoung (SNSD, Girls’ Generation), Minzy (2ne1), Dara (2ne1), Bora (Sistar), Soyou (Sistar), Jiwon (T-ara, SPICA), Sojin (Girl’s Day), Choa (AOA), Soyoung (After School), Kahi (After School), Hana (Secret), Sowon (GFriend)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Capricorn “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Aquarius

One word description: Shocking

These women are generally difficult to impress. This isn’t because they are particularly demanding. This is because they have seen and heard it all. They are highly intelligent and knowledgeable. They are looking to be surprised. Just try something different. The good part is the more you screw up, the more they like it! Make them laugh! Be as nerdy and dorky as you want to be. That’s exactly what these women like. They are looking for someone to blow all of the other suitors out of the water with something so random and spontaneous, it is unforgettable.

These women value their freedom and independence more than all the other women. They are looking for independent, freedom-loving individuals to approach them. They are resistant to suitors if they feel their freedom will be taken by getting in a relationship. They also must know that things won’t change for them. Saturn plays a part in this.

They are full of many ideas that they want to put out in the world and they do want to be respected for them. It helps to have someone who understands their out of the box ideas. They do need to know that they can maintain some independence, so they need to know they can maintain their security needed to keep their independence.

They tend to be progressive in many ways. Even if they have conservative values, most of them tend to do something that deviates from the norm. Many of them have their own jobs, cars, homes, and goals. They like to be around other progressive individuals.

They might be drawn to people you would never expect them to. They generally like to try new things and they never box in their options. In fact, they would prefer their love interest to be as different as possible.

Sometimes these individuals disappear so they can involve themselves with whatever projects they want. They even disappear from the people they’re in a relationship with. When they come back, they like things to pick up like they never left. This is the kind of freedom they need.

They also generally fall rather easily for their friends. If a really good friend asks them out, they won’t be able to turn it down. Friendship is important to these individuals.

They also appreciate honesty. They are pretty outspoken, so they appreciate someone who randomly tells them they like them, too. These women are progressive, so they are turned off by individuals who think they should live by norms. They are looking for someone with an open mind. Uranus plays a role in this.

Sexually, they are more motivated if you get their minds on it. Their minds have to think about it. They like to experiment, so it will be enticing if you offer to try sex in a whole different way, like sexting. They must know that there won’t be any strings attached, that it will be a fun experience without all the emotional drama that can come with it. They are open people, so they don’t mind threesomes or something like that. They want someone who approaches sex like an experiment or friendly activity. They don’t want someone who takes it too seriously.

If she chose you, well you’re in for a treat! You must have seemed really cool if she chose you. They feel that they can be in a relationship with you without all the drama. How you ever convinced them of that is beyond understanding because they see all relationships as stifling.

How do I know she wants me? She’s too cool to admit she wants you. She’s not going to beg. She may wrestle herself before finally admitting she’s interested. Otherwise, she’s pretty straight-forward. When she does tell you, it may not be at the most expected moment, but it will be said swiftly and to the point. They tend to try to form friendships with people they are interested in. So if you want to know if she wants you, just look at that girl to the right or left of you and ask. Pulling random tricks, as well as some sexual courage, impresses them tremendously, which is hard to do.

TURN OFF: Emotional, clingy types. Jealous types. Drama. Baggage, like you having kids she doesn’t know about. Cold-hearted, intolerant, and prejudiced individuals.

These individuals do think differently from most women. Uranus comes into play.

This sign is ruled by Uranus. Uranus is the planet of freedom, the unexpected, the unusual. It allows us to move into the future with our progressive ideas.

Uranus is a generational planet. Uranus stays within one sign for about seven years, so it affects one whole generation.

These women also need to maintain certain security, the security that they feel keeps them free. In this world, no one is truly extremely free. We all need a base that keeps our life in order in order to be able to explore other parts of life. Saturn also influences them in this way.

Saturn is the planet of boundaries, limitations, and law. It’s a social planet and can stay within one sign for about two years.

Read the Mars sign that best fits your Uranus and Saturn sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Uranus or Saturn is in Pisces, read Mars in Pisces.

Female celebrities: Scarlett Johansson, Boa Kwon, Kristen Stewart, Emma Watson, Monica Cruz, Alicia Keys, Eva Longoria, Winona Ryder, Adele, Fergie, Dakota Fanning, Farrah Fawcett, Kate Bosworth, Jada Pinkett Smith, Sheryl Crow, Maya Angelou, Dorothy Dandridge, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Dove Cameron, Left Eye (TLC), Corinne Bailey Rae, Jessie James, Missy Elliot, 

Kpop idols: NaEun (Apink), Jiin (Girl’s Day), UEE (After School), BoA, Wendy (Red Velvet), Seulgi (Red Velvet), Jennie (Twice)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Aquarius “ideal” can be seen below:

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Mars in Pisces

One word description: Humble

One thing to know about these women: the quieter you are, the better. The fine, fancy, showy displays do not impress them at all. In fact, they withdraw from individuals who seem too arrogant or conceited. They are not drawn to the pushy or aggressive types. They could care less for the macho unless it fits some dream they have or if the individual looks macho but is soft and protective on the inside.

They are so sensitive to whoever is around them, most might wonder what they actually DO like. If you approach these women, it definitely has to be done in a subtle way. Though they seem naive and gullible, they are actually rather distant and shy. They shy away quickly from individuals they feel won’t accept them and from guys who seem to have high expectations from women. They are not the most confident ladies walking around. They are drawn to individuals who are underdogs like they are. They may take kindly to anyone who treats them nicely and approaches them in a way that shows they really care about who they are on the inside.

Though these individuals are generally compassionate, they seem a bit cold and distant as well. They can be quite the loners.  Often times, they need a lot of alone time to recharge their energy. This means they don’t really like socialites. They prefer introverted individuals.

They are unpredictable. They may agree to go on a date with someone and cancel the next day for unknown, unexplained reasons. They easily get stressed out when there is too much of a big to-do. They are looking for easy-going, humble individuals who may be a little artistic and open-minded.

They tend to be rather artistic or creative. They are usually drawn to individuals who have some of the same interests.

They also tend to be influenced by the standards of the times. It’s easy for them to be drawn to idols, movie, or music stars. They can idealize anyone they’ve read about or heard about, and they might seek partners that mirror their ideal.

Neptune influences all of this.

They tend to want to feel like they belong, so they are drawn to warm individuals who welcome them with open arms and accept them, flaws and all.

The key to winning their heart is showing an open-minded attitude. Be down for whatever, whenever. Be prepared to spend a lot of alone time with them, sometimes doing everything, sometimes doing nothing. Be adaptable. They have strong moral beliefs, so they would appreciate someone who shares the same beliefs. Jupiter influences them. On the other hand, they often don’t really live up to their own beliefs because they are flexible and impressionable. It’s just best to keep all thoughts open to all possibilities.

They tend to have strange interests and habits and they aren’t traditional. They are drawn to other nontraditional individuals. If anyone gets with them, they have to be prepared to live a simple life and easygoing life. They really just want to escape the harsh world, however it’s done. They appreciate simple things, and see material things as meaningless. They don’t care what you buy them as long as the thought behind it is pure.

Again, these women are dreamers. They do have the ideal picture of their perfect lover in their heads. If you fit that picture, they may be more agreeable to try and date you. Still, a gentle approach works better than a dream. Neptune has something to do with their dreamy nature. Believe it or not, these women are quite picky because of this. They are feeling-based. Everything has to feel right.

These women are also freedom-loving. They are hard to pin down. This is why they hate high-maintenance people or people who make too many demands.

At the same time, because they often have a difficult time functioning alone, they may settle with just about anyone until they find the one they really one.

Because they’re looking for the ideal, they always have in their minds that others are looking for the ideal as well. If they feel they can’t live up to most people’s standards, they will cower away from a potential love interest.

Sexually, they need a gentle approach with someone who will treat them gently before they even feel motivated. They often have a certain dream or ideal of how it should feel and how the setting will be. For them, reality is so much less satisfying. The environment must be as they dreamed it would be. They are impressed by an individual who fits their dreams. They have a certain ideal and anyone who makes that come true gets them begging for more. Yea, these women often read erotic literature or watch romantic movies or porn. This sort of “educates” them on the sexual experiences they want to have. They want someone who approaches sex in a humble and sweet way. They may like their partners to quietly submit themselves, maybe even beg. They are easily influenced by “needy” types. They see sex as an escape from the everyday world, as a way of giving back

If she chose you, you must have seemed like a dreamy individual. You might have seemed, to them, to have walked straight out of their minds and into the real world. They are quite picky believe it or not. You must have felt just right.

TURN OFF: Pushy individuals. Show-offs. Snobs. Macho, dominant, aggressive types. Judgmental people. Anyone mean in any way. Superficial individuals. Anyone who just doesn’t “feel” right. Rigid or conservative individuals.

These women are dreamers and idealists. They have beliefs that guide them. These beliefs keep them open to all the possibilities. Jupiter influences this area of their lives. Then they have that artsy, compassionate side that is influenced by Neptune.

This sign is co-ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. Jupiter is a social planet and lasts in a sign for about one year. Neptune is a generational planet. It can last in one sign for 10+ years. Therefore, they can influence a generation of people.

Read the Mars sign that best fits your Jupiter and Neptune sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Jupiter or Neptune is in Aries, read Mars in Aries.

Female celebrities: Marilyn Monroe, Paris Hilton, Michelle Pfeiffer, Elizabeth Taylor, Heidi Klum, Tina Turner, Ava Gardner, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Billie Holiday, Christina Hendricks, Kelly Rowland, Annie Lennox, Ellie Goulding, Kimora Lee Simmons, Glenn Close, Rosie O’Donnell, Shirley Temple, Sarah MacLachlan, Rhiannon Leigh Wryn, Addy Miller, Lorraine Toussaint, Utada Hikaru

Kpop idols: Yoona (SNSD, Girls’ Generation), Sulli (f(x)), Gayoon (4Minute), Qri (T-ara), Sunmi (Wonder Girls), Jieun (Secret), Hani (EXID)

Mars is a planet that represents young men. Visual archetypes of the Mars in Pisces “ideal” can be seen below:

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So these are the different Mars types! Later, I may also do the Moon and the Sun to show all of the planets that influence our love life.

Thanks for reading! I worked REALLY, REALLY hard on this one to make up for the one I lost. I hope you guys enjoyed it. Sorry for the length. I just really wanted you guys to get a good picture of the signs.

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Leave me a comment in the comments’ section and let me know what you think!

If you liked this one, I have the male version: What Does He See in YOU? as well as What Does He Want YOU to See in HIM?

I also have What Does She Want You to See in Her? (update coming soon)

What Does HE See in YOU? By the signs

30 Sep
Venus-the planet of love and beauty

Venus-the planet of love and beauty

Many of my readers may have remembered my original article on this same topic. Several months ago, I accidentally deleted it. 😦

There’s no sense crying over spilled milk, so I decided to re-write the whole topic. This time it will be a revised version of the original. I plan to add a little more “flair” to the article this time.

*WARNING: The Following Article is Lengthy. Sorry About the Length. If you enjoy in-depth information, this is for you.

*WARNING: The Following Article is intended for those 18 years old and older.

Most of you probably know what Zodiac Signs are. Usually when someone asks you, “What’s Your Sign?” People will respond with one of the 12 signs that fall on their birthdays: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, or Pisces.

But did you know that the sign that falls in your birth month isn’t your only sign? The sign most people are familiar with is the Sun sign. The Sun rules over Leo. It’s natural that this “planet” would get more attention than all the others. People even tattoo these signs on their bodies.

If you know all this, and don’t need an explanation, skip to Venus Signs

The Sun is the central planet in the universe. In astrology, the Sun represents our ego, our pride, our “inner” identity, our basic self. It doesn’t represent who we are totally, but it is our central driving force. It’s our inner core values developed from home, from the person who was in charge of our lives as children. It’s developed from our early childhood living conditions. And it stays within the center of our hearts even as we grow older. When we live life by our sun signs, we feel like somebody in this world. We feel significant. We feel like we’ve made someone proud. We feel content and happy in life, as if life is worth living. This is why the Sun sign is more well-known. To add, it’s easy to find. All you have to know is your birthday.

But have you ever felt that you didn’t really relate too much to your Sun sign? Have you felt that there were just some things that were a little off? While most of us would like life to be like our Sun, other things influence who we are. You ever met two people with the same Sun sign that seem a little bit different from each other? I know two Sun in Geminis who generally like to socialize and talk, but their emotional responses to situations are different, their interests are different, and their goals and ambitions are different. To add, they are from two different generations.

This shows us that our other signs are just as important.

Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto signs are all important planets with their own sign.

So maybe you’ve always said “Hey I’m a Scorpio.” Again, that’s your SUN SIGN. Your Moon sign might be in a completely different sign, and would have a completely different meaning in your life.

Sun rules over our basic inner drive to be important to ourselves and others. Usually, developed by the Father or lead provider in the home. Women usually look for this from men in long-term relationships, projecting her own idea of a happy lifestyle, expecting a man to make her happy by taking care of her. Still, the Sun isn’t the most important factor in a romantic sense. It may be associated with individual pride, but the Sun is weak in Libra for a reason: It’s hard to think about the ego, or only the self identity, when thinking of partnerships or OTHERS. Venus is the planet most people should observe when thinking of romantic compatibility.

I’m not saying LIBRAS are weak. But all the planets have signs they are weakest in and strongest, and this has to do with how alike or similar they are versus different or challenging. Everything the Sun represents in astrology is so different from what Libra represents…which can create stress for Sun in Libras sometimes. But it makes them humbler than everyone else at the same time. Still, we wouldn’t want to look to the Sun too much to decide romantic compatibility.

The other planets have meaning and archetypes as well. The Sun sign isn’t the only part of our life.

How can you find these planets in signs? By finding your FREE NATAL CHART online!

http://www.astro.com is the best place.

Step 1: Sign up for a free account!

Step 2: Go to “free horoscopes” at the top

Step 3: Press horoscope drawings

Step 4: Move to the extended chart

Step 5: Press “Edit data”, a small button on the right

Step 6: Enter your data. You may need birth time which you can get from birth certificate or parent, or for now, use 12 noon though not recommended.

Step 7: Press blue button.

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This article will be focusing on VENUS SIGNS.

The Venus symbol looks like this:

Venus

The sign next to this symbol is your Venus sign. So, now that you have your natal chart and your Venus sign, let’s get started.

Venus is the planet of love (more like instant, superficial romance), beauty, pleasure, attraction, charm, possessions, society, friendships, and our social status. For women, it often reflects her inner “heroine”, the woman she admires within herself and other women. It reflects the woman she hopes to be, the woman she “dresses” herself after. It represents where she stands in society. It’s her ideal.

In a Man’s chart, it represents his ideal, too. But usually he projects this onto women rather than other men. Venus represents the woman that he is attracted to, a woman that turns him on. This is a woman he wants for a friend, a woman he can hang out with. This woman is his “crush”. This woman is often sexy without trying. This is the woman he wouldn’t mind asking out on a date. Whether he will date her long-term or even marry her is a different story, but with Venus, he’s romantically attracted to her. He wouldn’t mind having her around to show off. He wouldn’t mind having a nice time out with her. He would feel physically comfortable around this woman. Even while married, he’d hope to keep this side of her alive otherwise he will develop new crushes.

Venus is very superficial. It’s guided by the senses: Touch, smell, vision, all the physical senses classify as “love” under Venus’s domain. To a certain extent, we do love those people we are physically attracted to. In fact, to a certain degree, physical attraction is how we spot someone we like first. Even though getting to know a person can help a relationship last, you can’t approach people without observing how they “seem” based on your senses first. To a certain extent, how someone appears does count to a certain degree. It’s not possible to see someone from the inside before we get to know someone. The physical senses must take place first in order for us to want to get to know someone more and find what’s inside a person.

Venus represents how a man (or how anyone) expresses love and affection, too. This represents how he shows love. This represents what he would do to show a girl he loves her. Of course, his Mars sign will show his tactic when approaching her, like whether he’s up-front or indirect. But any gifts he gives her or any dates he takes her on will be shown through his Venus sign. His ruling planet influences how this turns out.

You all know all the signs have a ruling planet, right?

Sun rules over Leo

Moon over Cancer

Mercury over Gemini and Virgo

Venus over Taurus and Libra

Mars over Aries and (traditionally) Scorpio

Jupiter over Sagittarius and (traditionally) Pisces

Saturn over Capricorn and (traditionally) Aquarius

Uranus over Aquarius

Neptune over Pisces

Pluto over Scorpio

Look at the sign your Venus is in. If you have Venus in Pisces, for example, you would also look at your Neptune (and possibly Jupiter) sign as well. If your Neptune is in Aquarius, that would influence your Venus in Pisces. Sometimes, the guy’s ruling planet may give more detail into what he’s interested in romantically.

However, though Venus will decide what woman he’s attracted to, he may not feel comfortable emotionally, like he can be himself. Usually, a man has to feel that she can meet his emotional needs before he completely commits to a woman. Men often don’t feel women understand them. The hardest thing for men to do is open up about their feelings. Society often shames a man for expressing them. And they don’t want to appear vulnerable. Some women don’t even feel men should be concerned with their emotional needs, either. But men do have feelings. Feelings can’t be controlled. So if someone commits to him, he needs to be able to know that she will meet his emotional needs and be accepting of them. So, men subconsciously project the Moon onto a woman they desire as well. The MOON SIGNS would better reflect the committed relationship. So if you want to get him to ask you to be his girlfriend, a good start would be to check his Moon sign.

If you want him to marry you, the whole chart must be considered.

Since Venus represents a man’s ideal type, I thought I’d help ladies out. This can apply to you, too, ladies. Venus represents everyone’s “crush” on a physical level, though women may gravitate more to their Mars signs. Mars is the planet of action and aggression. Women may care more about what a man does and how he acts or behaves rather than how a man appears or how charming he is (though women like this, too). Men may equally pay attention to what a woman does or how she behaves, true enough, but they care more about how a woman carries herself in public socially than they do about what she “does”.

Still, Venus and Mars are both important in both charts. It’s just Venus is more instant for men.

Basically, for men, Venus is the first step towards “crushing” on a woman. Mars is the second step towards “crushing” on a woman, but he may not realize it.

Moon is the first step towards committing in a relationship. Sun is the last step towards committing in a relationship, but he may not realize it.

This article will help women get some insight as to HOW they can attract a man they like. But I recommend that you be YOURSELF. You never want to pretend. In the end, it will show whether you TRULY fit his ideal type. Still, it would be useful to know how he views love and women (at least a little bit, since the whole chart gives the complete story). Then you can see if it matches up with your views. You don’t have to have the same Venus signs to be compatible. You don’t even have to have the same Venus signs in order for him to “see” his Venus qualities in you. Remember, he’s projecting his own qualities. He may see sides to you that’s attractive to him and they could be coming from all the other planets in your chart. Or even the houses. Or even the aspects! So, you don’t have to have compatible Venuses in order for him to be attracted to you. This is just what HE likes in his MIND. This is his “ideal”. How it comes about in person is entirely up to him and his experiences with his own planet Venus.

This article can help those who have also been ASKED out. It can show them what he saw in you when he asked you out. That guy that dropped his number when he saw you eating lunch alone? Something about you struck his Venus sign and you may not have known it.

For those of you who are Lesbian, Gay, or Bi-sexual, it depends on the planet you identify with. If you identify with your Mars, you will project your Venus more. Therefore, you may be more attracted to a Venusian individual. Most Lesbian, Gay, or Bi-Sexual individuals that I know are less likely to project either planet. Most own up to all of their energies instead of expecting others to handle them, which is actually good! For you, you should observe both VENUS and MARS signs. The following could apply to both the male and female gay and lesbian community. Unfortunately, heterosexual men are more than likely to project their own Venus rather than own up to it, causing much confusion for women interested in men. For this article, I used the pronoun “he”, but if you’re a woman interested in women or a man interested in men, you could observe these signs, too.

Even heterosexual women should read this because VENUS could even apply to the MEN women are interested in on the subconscious level. Many heterosexual women don’t realize it, but these are the things they’re looking for in men as well!

Still, society is harder on all men and their expressions of Venus, whether Homosexual or Heterosexual. This is why I have to cater this to men mostly.

The archetypes presented in this article come from one of my favorite websites: CLICK ME

Again, this article is not for individuals to start pretending they fit these men’s “ideal”. This is so you can get an understanding of HIS mind, and see if it really is suited to the kind of person you feel you are. If there are things about him that you KNOW don’t feel like you, then maybe you should let him know what you’re about and see if he’s alright with that. But don’t EVER pretend to be someone you’re not. 

I’m going to go through the signs and explain how men’s Venus signs affect their choices in love.

*Some parts of the interpretations might be too much for those under the age of 18. Reader discretion is advised.

To really learn more about the natal chart, click ME.

Venus signs appear in this order

Venus in Aries

Venus in Taurus

Venus in Gemini

Venus in Cancer

Venus in Leo

Venus in Virgo

Venus in Libra

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in Pisces

It’s pretty long, so you can click one of the signs above, which will take you to the Venus sign of interest. I’m really sorry about the length. I still hope you readers enjoy.

To read more about Venus, check out my Which Disney animated heroine are YOU? Part 1 and Part 2

I’ve also completed What Does SHE see in YOU? if you’re interested.

I have What Does He Want You to See in Him? By the signs and What Does She Want You to See in Her? By the signs.

NOTE:

Sun is at home in Leo, exalted in Aries, in detriment in Aquarius, and falling in Libra

Moon is at home in Cancer, exalted in Taurus, in detriment in Capricorn, and falling in Scorpio

Mercury is at home in Gemini and Virgo, exalted in Virgo and some say Aquarius, in detriment in Sagittarius and Pisces, and falling in Pisces and some say Leo

Venus (the target of our topic) is at home in Taurus and Libra, exalted in Pisces, in detriment in Scorpio and Aries, and falling in Virgo

Mars is at home in Aries and Scorpio, exalted in Capricorn, in detriment in Taurus and Libra, and falling in Cancer

Jupiter is at home in Sagittarius and Pisces, exalted in Cancer, in detriment in Gemini and Virgo, and falling in Capricorn

Saturn is at home in Capricorn and Aquarius, exalted in Libra, in detriment in Cancer and Leo, and falling in Aries

Uranus is at home in Aquarius, exaltation is undetermined, but said to be in Scorpio, in detriment in Leo, and said to be falling in Taurus

Neptune is at home in Pisces, exaltation is undetermined, but said to be in Cancer and/or Leo, in detriment in Virgo, and said to be falling in Capricorn and/or Aquarius

Pluto is at home in Scorpio, exaltation is undetermined, but said to be between the signs of Leo and Aries (mostly Leo), in detriment in Taurus, and said to be falling in Aquarius and Libra (mostly Aquarius)

When a planet is at home in a sign, it has entered the sign it rules. That sign is most like the planet.  For example, the Sun and Leo are very much alike in their representations and descriptions. So when the Sun enters Leo, it pretty much rules over the sign.

When a planet is exalted in a sign, the planet works easier in the sign. This helps the planet gain benefits faster, but maintenance isn’t as efficient as the sign ruled by the planet. For example, the Sun can work easier in Aries because they are similar in some ways, and different in beneficial ways. But the Sun can’t operate as consistently or totally in Aries as it can in the sign it rules over. Mars will have the final say because it’s Aries’ ruling planet.

When a planet is in detriment in a sign, that means the sign is totally different from the planet. For example, the Sun and Aquarius often represent too different things. The Sun is about the self and ego. Aquarius is about the group, humanity, and objective truth. Aquarius deals with everything but THE SELF. The Sun, the planet, is ALL ABOUT THE SELF. So when the Sun enters Aquarius (these are usually the people who say their sign is “Aquarius”), the Sun has to find different ways to express itself or risk not expressing itself at all.

When a planet is falling in a sign, it’s hard for the planet to open up in this sign because they aren’t too alike and they don’t agree. Benefits come slowly, but the outcome could be better than expected. For example, the Sun is falling in Libra. The Sun is about the SELF and EGO. Libra is about OTHERS. The last thing the Sun wants to think about is others. So when the Sun is in Libra, the Sun has a difficult time finding ways to properly express itself without losing itself.

Venus in Aries

One word description: Fun

If the man has Venus in Aries, his ideal type is someone who has an animal sexiness. Yes, he likes his ideal type to be wild. He likes someone who is exciting, passionate, and fun. They like people who are steamy hot. That hot, fun person dancing at the party? That person is going to be his crush. He’s liking the passion. He’s liking the drive. He loves the desire he sees in this person.

They want someone who is direct, someone who wants THEM. Does she have devious intentions? He doesn’t mind. The thrill keeps him chasing. They really want to feel WANTED. If you want them, don’t hold it in. Be upfront! He likes individuals who are decisive and know what they want.

Okay, maybe it isn’t that easy. The complicated part is they do like to take the lead in love, and they do want someone who allows them to do just that sometimes. They like to be the one taking their partner out on dates, planning some of the activities, or leading the way to an adventure or new experience. At the same time, they are drawn to people that take some initiative, especially when trying to attract or seduce him. They would like their partners to be just as enthusiastic about the relationship as they are.

He wants someone who connects with his inner man. This man is more attracted to women who own up to their Mars signs, unlike most men. He really likes what a person “does”. While, many men may see this as a threat, he won’t. This man wants someone who is confident and knows how to work their own charms, no matter how different they are.

There are some Venus in Aries men that like sweeter and innocent types though. Aries is a sign that rules over the first hints of spring, a time of freshness and innocence. However, these men may grow impatient and bored with someone who’s innocent in a reserved, shy, or inhibited way. They prefer the “carefree” type of innocence.

Many of these men are also attracted to athletic people. They often prefer thin individuals to thick individuals, but they can dig some booty, too, as long as there are curves in the right places.

These men tend to like tomboyish women. He’d be more drawn to a girl who challenges him on the basketball court than someone who sits on the sidelines watching (unless you’re energetically cheering for him).

He also likes to be around original people, someone who does their own thing. He likes someone with their own mind, their own hobbies, and someone who doesn’t care about social norms and etiquette. He likes people who can break some rules, maybe try something taboo.

An individual who is independent and assertive may also be attractive. These men tend to often ignore the shy person for the free-spirited and open person. They just can’t help it.

They like people who are youthful. The can get into someone who doesn’t mind playing laser tag for their first date. In fact, they would rather be around this person than someone who wants to go to an expensive and dull restaurant. Their date has to have some adventurous element to it at least. No worries, these men will try to find a way to spice it up.

He will be drawn to the active types, people who seem outgoing and busy. He’s even attracted to strong individuals. He’s not intimidated. He sort of likes it when an attractive figure gets rough with him as long as they don’t try to make him feel weak.

Many of these men take individuals at “face value” (Aries ruling the head), so they are a sucker for an attractive face.

He expresses his love through sex more than the other men do, so he wants someone who isn’t rigid in that way. He likes the slutty types, even if it’s just behind closed doors. He loves someone with a healthy sexuality. He doesn’t think that’s bad! At the same time, he respects a woman who presents a challenge for him. He may not respect someone he can easily get in the bed with.  Their eyes are drawn to the person that all eyes are on…though all of this depends on his MARS sign. Venus is in detriment in this sign because this sign isn’t usually looking for anything serious. They are impulsive in love. Aries is ruled by Mars, the planet of war, aggression, action, and sex. Love is often tangled with sex. Love can be aggressive, active, and a battlefield for this lover. He’s into people that are confrontational. He doesn’t really draw himself to the Mary-Jane types. He wants someone who speaks up, someone who stands up for themselves. Maybe not towards him, but definitely towards other people. He also wants someone who’s open about their feelings and not playing games.

Physically, they are drawn to muscular, healthy, fit bodies. They tend to like individuals who are thin. Aries rules the head, so, again, they tend to like attractive faces and beautiful, distinct hair. As far as clothes go, less is more! They want confident people in their lives, so show off your hot bod! Bold colors really catch their attention, especially red, but they mostly pay attention to that individual wearing all the confidence.

Being of the fire element, his favorite seasons for finding mates would be Spring (where Aries arrives by the Sun) and Summer. Not only do potential love interests show more skin and show more confidence around this time, but he’s drawn to women who are “hot”, literally. These men may enjoy a little sweat, whether it’s because a potential love interest has been playing volleyball at the beach all day, dancing at a club, or exercising.

Sexually, they are turned on by partners that are passionate and active. They want their partners to show enthusiasm and courage in the bedroom. They like people who can let go, get a little wild, and try new things. They may be initially attracted to a sex partner that submits to them, but if the person doesn’t take initiative in some way, he will grow bored.

If he asked you out, you probably came across to him as sexy and exciting, fun and challenging. You must be one hot fox!

How do I know he likes me? He’ll be straight-forward about it eventually. It will be obvious. He may vocally tell you how attractive you are. If he doesn’t show any signs, other factors could influence his decision not to express it.

TURN OFF: They don’t like stuck-up individuals. They don’t like people who follow the crowd and care too much about what other people are thinking. They like to feel like they can be themselves and have fun. They like people who want to take chances, so too many “rules” will turn them off.

After this Venus in Aries man is done watching you have fun, he may now want to observe how much more “fun” you could be. Now, he’s looking to have his idea of “fun”. Let’s say, the fun has only begun. He wants to see if you can keep spicing up his life. There are so many amazing women out here, and trying to keep this man’s interest is hard. This is when Mars comes into place. This is probably one of the main reasons Venus is considered in detriment in Aries. Mars is considered the planet opposite Venus.

Mars rules over Aries. It is the planet of energy, the sex drive, and the actions a person takes. Men own up to this planet, so he’s looking for a woman who can keep up with him. They are looking for some action in their lives. Read the Venus sign that best fits his Mars sign. For instance, if his Mars is in Taurus, read Venus in Taurus.

Male Celebrities: George Clooney, Robin Thicke, Flava Flav, Cristiano Ronaldo, Jack Nicholson, Bob Marley, Robert Downey Jr,  Steven Seagal,  Pharell Williams, Johnny Cash, Jason Aldean,  Gavin Degraw, Stevie Wonder, Bobby Brown, Jay Sean, Akon, Patrick Stump (Fall Out Boy), MC Hammer, Chris Martin (coldplay),  Billie Joe Armstrong (Green Day), Gerard Way (My Chemical romance), Will.i.am (Black Eyed Peas), Miles Davis,  Fred Astaire, Bobby Valentino, Rob Thomas, Mike Shinoda (Linkin Park), Daddy Yankee, Billy Corgan (The Smashin Pumpkins), Gucci Mane, Pierre Charles Bouvier (simple Plan),  Johnny Gill, Cee Lo Greene, Akon

Kpop idols: Jay Park (2 PM), Suga (BTS), Tao (EXO), Soohyun (U-Kiss), Eli Kim (U-Kiss), Max Changmin (TVXQ), Jackson (Got7), Ravi (VIXX), Changsub (BtoB),  Peniel (Btob),  Sungjae (BtoB), U-Kwon (Blobk B), Mino (Winner), Aron (Nu’est), Cha Eunwoo (ASTRO), Rocky (ASTRO), Mingyu (Seventeen)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Aries “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Taurus

One word description: Womanly

These men tend to love beautiful women of all shapes and sizes, but most tend to like a well-formed body over anything.  Yes, they can be very physical and superficial men sometimes. They can’t help it. Beautiful appearances catch their eyes, no matter how much they try to deny it. A well-dressed individual with attractive company goes a long way with these men. His crush is usually the best-looking person in the room, though they may also occasionally be drawn to someone because of their mild spirit. More than likely, they are attracted to that laid-back individual, quietly chatting with friends in the corner. These men are also noticing when you carry name-brand items or quality items.

They are attracted to individuals who are hard to get, usually individuals who haven’t had many relationships with people. There are two reasons for this, depending on the guy. The first reason for this is because they want to feel like that person in their lives will only belong to them. They are possessive deep down and easily jealous. The thought of their crush being only theirs is really enticing for them. Some do have a tendency to see their love interests as objects. Really, they see their love interests as “valuable”. They see them as people who are a prize to be won. And they don’t want to let anyone they deem worthy go to anyone else.

They want loyalty. A woman who hasn’t had too many partners is proof, for them, that she can be a faithful and devoted partner. They usually end up crushing on people they have spent a lot of time with, which helps them learn of a person’s loyalty. This makes them feel more secure.

They mostly just want to feel special in a woman’s life, as if they are special to someone. They don’t like feeling like they are getting someone else’s leftovers or like they are rebound boyfriends.

The second reason they don’t date a partner that has had too many partners is because it’s a sign their partner isn’t easy to obtain, which means they will be able to take their time worming into her heart. They like to take their time. If an individual is hard to get, this means they aren’t easy with their hearts, either. The idea that their crush wants to take her time is even more attractive.

They love to eat, so someone who can cook is definitely a turn-on. They don’t mind that traditional woman. In fact, they are LOOKING for the traditional partner. They are the men asking, “Where have all the feminine women gone?” This doesn’t mean he likes imbalance. He likes someone who is honest, but respectful. He likes someone who works and takes care of themselves. He might even like a sporty side. But he wants someone who carries those tried-and-true traditional qualities at least a little bit. Yet, there are those Venus in Taurus men that like earthier women, women who don’t put on airs or doll themselves up too much. Some of them prefer someone naturally attractive rather than made-up to look attractive.

He may be attracted to artistic types, especially individuals who can sing. Taurus rules the throat, so he may be mesmerized by someone with a lovely voice.

Physically, again, they prefer voluptuous people. But when I say voluptuous, I’m not saying just a little more weight. They tend to like someone with an hour-glass figure. They like weight in all the “right” places. They may also like muscular, toned individuals as well. Generally, they just like attractive people, depending on the beauty standards of their culture. They tend to be fascinated by people who wear designer stuff. They mostly like tasteful individuals who don’t wear anything too outrageous, strange, or provocative. They are really attracted to individuals who literally look valuable. Jeweled, rich colors stand out to them, but the soft feminine and down-to-earth colors like pink and green really draw them in. They like fabrics that feel soft to the touch, from silk to lace to fabrics like soft jean leggings that make them want to touch you. Clothes must accentuate the body to grab their attention. Taurus rules the throat, so a nice necklace adds just that pizzazz. Or maybe you should leave the neckline alone and show it off!

Venus in Taurus men enjoy the Earth, being an earth sign. While this means they like someone down-to-earth, this also means they enjoy watching women in touch with nature. They are drawn to potential love interests sitting in quiet and peaceful parks or gardens, surrounded by plants and flowers. They might find all women to be at their most beautiful when surrounded by nature. Their favorite seasons for looking for a partner are in the Spring when flowers and plants are in bloom and the breeze is comfortably right.

Sexually, they want a partner they can touch. They don’t particularly care if their partners are wild or overtly sexual. These men prefer simple and modest partners that are easily satisfied. However, a skilled but patient partner can make these men very satisfied and loyal mates, as they are directly under the influence of Venus (Venus being Taurus’s ruling planet).

If he asked you out, you are probably all that! Attractive, well-dressed, and down-to-earth. He really couldn’t get his eyes off of you. He sees you as valuable. He won’t want to let you go.

How do I know he likes me? He will buy you things, give you hugs, touch you, and may even try to kiss you, even if it’s just on the cheek. He will show off his money and dress extremely nice around you, smelling good and all. He may get really jealous when he sees you around another guy.

TURN OFF: Drama Queens. They hate fighting. They hate confrontation. They hate bossy, pushy individuals. If you handle anything, handle it with class and coolly. Discuss everything calmly and with a bit of humor.

Venus rules over Taurus, so this is the strongest placement for Venus. These men know what people like and they know how to satisfy. They are looking for someone to match their exquisite taste. These men may seem demanding, and they may not like that if they have other energies in their charts. But this side of them makes them yearn for that traditional person.

When this man finds you beautiful and cool, that’s it. He’s sold for that first date. He’s not looking for anything else until he’s ready to commit.

Male Celebrities: Johnny Depp, Marlon Brando, Steven Tyler, Jackie Chan, Kanye West, Prince, Chuck Norris, Charlie Chaplin,  Paul McCartney, Mark Zuckerberg, James Franco, Michael Phelps,   Michael J. Fox, Randy Orton, James Brown, Sam Smith, Ice Cube, Boy George, John Wayne, Princess Diana, Prince William, Bono (U2), Pete Wentz, Jason Mraz, Darin Zanyar, Ralph Tresvant (New Edition) ,  Tyga, Sam Smith, Luis Miguel, Joel “JoJo” Hailey, Big Sean, Chris Brown

Kpop idol: Daesung, Sehun (EXO), Eunhyuk (Super Junior), Siwon (Super Junior), Daehyun (B.A.P.), Wooyoung (2 PM), Bam Bam (Got7), Kim Sung-kyu (Infinite), Hoya (Infinite), JR (Nu’est), Bi-Rain, JinJin (ASTRO)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Taurus “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Gemini

One word description: Open-minded

These men like individuals who are fun, lively, and crazy! They like to socialize and party. They tend to be attracted to the social butterflies. They love the flirty types. They tend to crush on really cute and flirty girls, girls who are a bit bubbly and maybe even a bit flighty! However, this doesn’t mean they like dumb people. In fact, they want someone who is smart, witty, and funny. Nothing turns them on more than someone who makes them laugh! They actually tend to be attracted to people who seem easy-going and laughs easily.

This man pays attention to lips. He likes to kiss. He’s also a sucker for a cute smile. This man also pays attention to the hands and arms. But these men honestly don’t care too much about how someone looks as much as they do the personality and mentality.

They are attracted to individuals who aren’t afraid to speak what’s on their minds and state their opinions. They are interested in people with ideas. It’s even better if the individual gets their ideas. They prefer people who are open-minded. They want to be able to do anything with her, without having to feel restricted, limited, or bored.

He also likes to be around someone with something significant to say. He likes someone who has their heads screwed on right with interesting thoughts. Of course, his Mercury sign will depend on what interests him. They are looking for someone who is on the same page mentally. They like to have a mental rapport.

They like individuals who are forever young, no matter how old they get. He tends to be attracted to people who are trendy, socially aware, and someone who has tried everything! He generally gets curious about these types of people.

Physically, this guy, again, is attracted to luscious lips, so make sure those lips are kissable! Lip balm, lip gloss, and/or lipstick do wonders. He tends to focus on arms and shoulders, so off-shoulder tops, tank tops, halter tops, t-shirts, and anything else that show the arms would work. These guys like lively, flirty individuals, so they tend to like vibrant or bright colors like yellow. As far as physical appearance, generally just someone who looks young or youthful. Wear a smile. But again, these guys are more interested in the mind than the appearance.

Venus in Gemini men are influenced by the element of air. They are enchanted when the wind tickles a potential love interest’s hair. They tend to like individuals with long hair just for that reason! They enjoy mating in any season they can get out, like Spring, Summer, and Fall. The only problem is they might miss the breeze when it’s Summer and they might miss the warmth when it’s Fall. Spring is their favorite season to find a mate.

Sexually, these men want engaging partners that are flexible and open-minded. They like sweet talk and kissing during the act. They may prefer partners who have youthful energy. They may be drawn to partners that have impressive skills.

If this man asked you out, you must appear young, vivacious, and vibrant in spirit!

How do I know he likes me? Well, he flirts. He’s quite verbal and will try to woo you with his words. He may just ask you out or write a letter or note. He may ask for your number, facebook name, or any way he can talk to you.

TURN OFF: Anyone boring or uninteresting. They don’t find much of an interest in people who don’t get their logic, their jokes, their ideas, or those who don’t want to try new things.

After this man has seen how easy you are to talk to, now he’s ready to get inside your head. How do you process the world? How do you think? Where does your intelligence lie? Mercury is going to come into play next.

This sign is ruled by Mercury. Mercury rules over the mind, how we communicate, how we think, how we process information.

Mercury can only be in one sign before the sun, in the same sign as the sun sign, and be one sign after the sun. Because Venus can only be two places before or after the sun, as well as matching the sun sign, not every combination is possible.

For instance, if Venus is in Gemini, more than likely the Sun sign can only be Sun in Aries, Sun in Taurus, Sun in Gemini, Sun in Cancer, or Sun in Leo (Venus enters Gemini when the Sun is in two signs before Gemini, in Gemini, and in two signs after Gemini). Mercury can only be in one sign before, in the exact sign, or after. If Sun is in Aries, for instance, Mercury can be in Pisces, Aries, or Taurus. Why? Because of the rotation of Mercury in OUTER SPACE, which we have no control over.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Mercury sign. For instance, if his Mercury is in Cancer, read Venus in Cancer.

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Kpop idols: Baekhyun (EXO), Ryeowook (Super Junior), Taemin (shinee), Nichkhun (2 PM), N (VIXX), Hyuk (VIXX), Taehyun (Winner), Jun (Seventeen), Hoshi (Seventeen), WonWoo (Seventeen), Shownu (Monsta X)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Gemini “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Cancer

One word description: Nurturing

These men tend to like individuals who are thicker, but not necessarily always someone with a fit body, like Taurus. These men like breasts and thighs.

Still, there are also those that like individuals who are super skinny and fragile-looking. Some of them really like their crush to look feminine! Not necessarily traditional all the time, but they are attracted to individuals with feminine physical features. Soft, roundish faces, soft skin, soft eyes, these men want someone who looks like a delicate flower, even if that person’s dressed frumpy and/or boyish. This is the complex part. They may like someone who looks physically “feminine”, but actually dresses casually and comfortably!

They are drawn to people who look capable of caring for or bearing children. In fact, pregnancy is attractive to these men!

They tend to be attracted to those sweet, neighborly types as well.

They like quiet, shy people. They kind of are attracted to individuals that make them feel really comfortable because they are shy, romantic men. These men prefer individuals who understand them and listen to them, so the more comfortable the person appears, the more they assume that individual will be comfortable enough for him to share his intimate secrets.

They don’t always care if someone is domestic, despite what is the reputation of Cancer. It all depends on their home environment growing up, which is reflected by the MOON signs. However, if the person they are attracted to does know how to cook, they are sold!

They always crush on their best friends or crush on someone who has cared for them for a long time. These boys tend to crush on their teachers, nurses, doctors, baby-sitters, anyone who took the time out to pamper them and mend their spirits. Even though they have their physical ideals, they generally aren’t drawn to people for physical reasons. They tend to gravitate to people for their personalities. They are more attracted to someone that feels familiar, someone with similar habits and pet peeves, rather than someone that doesn’t feel close to home. They might be drawn to someone from their own cultural or national background rather than outside of it, too. When these men find out they have something in common with someone else, they just instantly connect with them. After that, they can’t get them out of their heads. This depends on their MOON SIGNS as well.

They are also drawn to artistic types, especially artsy people who reach them emotionally and captivate their spirits.

They are drawn to individuals with a bloodline of beautiful people. I guess many of them figure if the family is attractive, any future kids will be too!

He’s drawn to many different types of women just because he mostly loves the presence of femininity. He may even have a lot of female friends!

Physically, this guy isn’t very superficial. Still, he likes the chest area. He may like someone who looks nice but still a bit casual and comfortable. Again, he likes soft or cute features like small eyes, round faces, pouty lips, smooth skin, etc. He doesn’t really care about the body and can be attracted to people of various sizes. He loves underwear and pajamas (believe it or not). White and silver are colors that may catch his attention, but generally he likes understated looks. Nothing too gaudy or provocative will really catch his attention as much as it would other men. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t like when women show some skin, it just means he prefers not to look at too many patterns on a wardrobe or anything too diva-like. He’s fine with a girl in some fitted jeans and a simple cropped top.

Cancer is a water elemental sign. Venus in Cancer men enjoy watching potential lovers splash in the waters at the beach or get rained on by a sudden rain shower. The wetter, the better! They might be drawn to individuals who enjoy water. Taking a bath is one of the most erotic things to them. Their favorite season to find a mate is Spring and Summer (especially summer) when more people are going to the beach and when a light rain shower is more fun than annoying.

Sexually, these men are looking for a partner that is modest and comfortable, but someone who goes with the flow (he is changeable, may like it gentle at times, may like it rough other times). They want someone they can hug and caress. They will only have sex with a partner they are really attracted to and really in love with. He wants sex to be really intimate. He may like for his sexual lovers to wear lingerie.

If this man asked you out, you are his sweet-heart! He may not just even see you as a passing crush, but he may really want to commit to you! He may see himself spending the rest of his life with you. You are a serious potential for a girlfriend! Unlike most men, he thinks about long-term commitment. He’s too jealous, clingy, and intimate not to expect to keep a girl all to himself.

How do I know he likes me? He’s shy, so don’t look for obvious signs. He may ask you when your birthday is and try to get you something nice. He may try to be nice to your family or he’ll invite you to his house and introduce you to his family as a “friend”. He will spend a lot of time with you. A LOT of time with you. He may also get jealous when you’re around other men. He may go along with whatever you want and whatever you want to do. He’ll stick up for you all the time. He will share some very personal, intimate secrets with you, too. Just these little indirect things will let you know he likes you. If you want him to come out with it, you might have to either confess your own feelings first or just wait patiently until he feels ready.

TURN OFF: Telling him to grow up, treating him inferior as a man, indifferent individuals who don’t know how to nurture or show care for another person, attacking his home, nationality, background, and family (in fact, don’t “attack” him at all).

This man is usually ready to commit soon after he’s found his crush. But there are a couple of things he’ll be considering. After he’s seen how caring and kind you are, he’ll start wondering whether you can handle HIS emotional needs. Can you deal with his habits and his insecurities? This is definitely where Moon comes in. Generally, all men need the Moon in order to truly commit, but Venus in Cancer men can’t even feel physically attracted to someone they wouldn’t commit to.

The Moon rules over Cancer. It is the planet of emotions, of home, of habits, and of rhythms. It rules over our emotional needs, our personal insecurities. Read the Venus sign that best fits his Moon sign. For instance, if his Moon is in Leo, read Venus in Leo.

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Kpop idols: Taeyang (Big Bang), G-Dragon (Big Bang), Suho (EXO), AJ (U-Kiss), Micky Yoochun (TVXQ, JYJ), GongChan (B1A4), Kyung (Block B), Baekho (Nu’est)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Cancer “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Leo

One-word description: Dynamic

These men do love beautiful women! They love the woman that all eyes are on! If they get with a person, they have to look as good as these men do! These men want a woman that is unforgettable.

They are attracted to vibrant, sexy individuals, those who know how to turn up the heat. They are attracted to individuals who are fun for them to be around. People are more “fun” and attractive to the Venus in Leo man when these love interests share some of the same amusements and humor in common with them.

These are the men that like confident individuals, individuals who have their lives and appearances together. They are not intimidated by a working woman. They want to be proud of the individual they have on their arm! However, though they like confident individuals, they don’t want anyone to over-power them.

They tend to also be attracted to individuals that are sweet and generous. They are drawn to people who give them some attention. Anyone who makes them feel special in any way will be their crush. They want their girlfriend to be their “#1” fan, so they are looking for someone supportive.

They basically want an individual who has the full package: Good looks, confidence, and yet a sweet, caring personality, positivity oozing from them, just a ray of sunshine that others always want around them. They are drawn to that person in the corner that people just flock around like bees to honey.

These men can be demanding souls, and it may seem they expect perfection. The main thing is they wouldn’t want anything from a crush that they wouldn’t expect of themselves! These men want someone who carries themselves with a bit of pride. The Sun plays a role in this. He’s attracted to individuals who have the same core values that he carries. There are certain things that are very important to him as an individual, and he’s more attracted to someone who finds the same things important. He wants someone who carries a sense of dignity about themselves the way he himself would. He’s attracted to someone who is just like him. These men aren’t intimidated by women who are leaders in the world, as long as they don’t use this dominating spirit to lord over them.

They are attracted to honest, sincere individuals, but they are hoping the “sincerity” is positive and not critical. They want someone who sincerely loves everything about them.

Physically, again, this man is looking for the best of the best. He wants someone who looks great! He’s attracted to the best-looking person in the room, so bring out your best, sexiest outfit. Yes, cover up all blemishes and make whatever you’ve got work. Highlights and a nice tan really catch his eyes as well. At the same time, depending on the culture, he may not like a tan, but still may prefer a really glowing or shiny face. Bold, bright colors, like gold or orange, attract his attention more than subtle colors. However, if you wear a subtle color, make sure you add some bold accessories. Elegance, grace, and tastefulness are what he’s looking for. He tends to notice the back, so halter tops, tank tops, or interesting jackets with details on the back really stand out to him.

Leo is influenced by the fire element. Venus in Leo men’s favorite season to find a mate is the Summer, the time when the rays of the Sun are at its hottest. They enjoy seeing potential love interests sweat or tan under the Sun (as mentioned before). The Sun-kissed look is attractive to them. Of course, culture may play a role in their interest. They do tend to want the person all the other guys want, so if the culture prefers pale over tanning, they will be drawn to the palest person. Still, they enjoy watching potential love interests on the beach, enjoying the Sun, even if they don’t admit it.

Sexually, these men want someone that is both attractive, open, and yet, submissive. They are drawn to partners that are playful and adventurous. They may be drawn to individuals who are generous with offering pleasure.

If these men were attracted to you, look out! What they see in you may seem hard to live up to, but they definitely see you as someone special and worthy of attention from them.

How do I know he likes me? He will show off in front of you. He will flirt with you in front of everyone. He will ask you out dramatically. He will buy you many expensive things, get you anything you need, offer to take you places you’ve always wanted to go. He will definitely make his impression unforgettable. He’ll get jealous if you’re around other guys. He will spend a lot of extra time with you making sure other men don’t get too close. He will try to find out everything you like just so he can make sure he impresses you.

TURN OFF: Someone who tries to put them down, individuals who are a little too frank (though they also hate liars). They don’t like when people let themselves go appearance-wise and show they just don’t care anymore. They also dislike negative people.

After they notice how much attention you get from being so amazing, these men want to know who you are. These are the men that truly care about who you are as a person, right at the core, your personality, what you stand for, who you identify yourself as. They want to know what is most important in your life. The Sun comes into play when they are crushing on someone. The Sun rules over Leo. The Sun is the ego, the identity, our basic self.

Venus can only be in a sign that’s two signs before the Sun sign, in the same sign as the sun, and two signs after the sun. So the Sun can only be in five signs.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Sun sign. For instance, if his Sun is in Virgo, read Venus in Virgo.

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Kpop idols: Leetuk (Super Junior), Heechul (Super Junior), Kibum (Super Junior), Key (Shinee), Yoon Doon Joon (Beast), Son Dong-woon (Beast), Mark (Got7), Choi Youngjae (Got7), Sungyeol (Infinite), Lee Sungjong (Infinite), CNU (B1A4), JinWoo (Winner), MinHyun (Nu’est), S. Coups (Seventeen)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Leo “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Virgo

One-word description: Sincere

These men aren’t really romantic individuals. Venus is falling in Virgo, and these men feel the effects of this more than most women with this placement do (considering Venus is a feminine planet). Most of these men prefer to be independent. But if they were to be attracted to someone, that person must be down-to-earth, real, sensible, and intelligent. They like people who think about things, people with something significant to say, and people who agree with their perceptions of the world.

They are drawn to people who are honest and straight-forward. Most importantly, they are attracted to people who are sincere.

They sort of find a bit of teasing attractive. This makes them loosen up a bit because they tend to be stiff in social situations. They don’t mind when someone gently criticizes them. They are happy to be noticed and tended to by someone else. They might like being around someone easygoing or someone who laughs them out of their nervousness.

They are VERY particular. They barely trust love and infatuation. Secretly, though, they just feel really insecure about themselves. They may be crushing on someone and no one would ever know. It may be the littlest thing about the person that makes them crush. It could be the perfect hair, eyes, body, anything. These things may not literally be perfect in accordance with society’s standards, but it may be exactly what they are looking for. When they spend enough time with a person, they begin to notice these perfect imperfections. Still, they may not admit it because they don’t feel good enough to win this person’s heart.

On the other hand, if this guy isn’t too scared to confess his feelings, it may not come out in a romantic way. His words may sound a little too mechanical or honest.

These men are attracted to people for innocent reasons. If someone touches their hand, compliments them, helps them out, or just spends time with them, they can develop a crush. They won’t admit this, but they’re shy with too much attention. So, when they get attention, they can’t forget the person who gave it to them. They like to be appreciated because they often feel they aren’t. Anyone who notices them and takes the time to get to know them is bound to be worth it for these men!

These men like clean and healthy individuals. They do like the idea of their love interest bathing, and being an earth sign, they like the sweet smell of perfume, cologne, lotion, or scented shampoo, which shows them the individual cares about their hygiene. They tend to be attracted to people who eat fresh foods, are vegetarians, or vegans. Some of them just don’t like seeing someone eating food they think is gross. If they find someone who has similar eating patterns to them, they will be more attracted to that person. For instance, if a Venus in Virgo male hates peanuts, he will find it attractive when someone else hates it, too.

He also tends to draw himself to loners. They don’t like socializing too much. If an individual is a loner, he will find it easier to talk to them. He’s generally drawn to people on a physical level and doesn’t care much for intimate personal feelings.

These men do like sexy people. They like people who are straight-forward with their intentions. They may not necessarily like a provocative person, but they certainly like people who are honest about what they want. Still, they’re shy. They aren’t the types to talk “romance” or gooey nonsense. They don’t even see it as real. They are truly attracted to individuals who cut the romance crap and own up to the “realities” of a relationship. They don’t honestly believe any men are interested in that part, which is a reflection that they aren’t comfortable with that. They would appreciate a woman who understands this.

An understanding woman would actually be very attractive to these men! Their lack of “romance” has to do with their insecurities. They feel like “idealistic” romances in fairy tales give people unrealistic expectations; expectations they feel are too hard for their perfectionist minds to meet (because deep-down they want to please their lovers and will go the extra mile to do so). They are waiting for love to fail them like it has so many times. A lover who makes them feel secure in this regard is a gem. For this reason, they like humble, calm, and cool individuals with few expectations. Those are the most attractive qualities of all. Somewhat, they like detached or indifferent individuals as well.

Physically, he has his particularities. Generally he likes someone who has smooth skin, a fit body, and an understated taste in clothing. He notices every detail about a person. Overall though, individuals are more attractive to him when he likes their personalities. He will suddenly begin to notice just how attractive a person is after he’s fallen in love with their personality. He is often attracted to petite individuals and may like distinct eyes, hair, and defined features. He may be drawn to someone in more muted colors than anything flashy or gaudy. Brown and olive green may attract his attention.

Virgo is an Earth element sign. Venus in Virgo men might be drawn to potential love interests that appear connected with the Earth in some way. They may enjoy watching lovers sitting in a beautiful park or garden. They might be drawn to women who love nature of some sort, especially small animals. Their favorite seasons to find a mate might be Spring and Fall, where potential love interests are connected with nature, but aren’t as showy, gaudy, or provocative in their appearance (since in the warmer climates, people tend to show more skin).

These men are drawn to partners that are sexually skilled. They enjoy a partner that puts in the effort to serve and please. They are drawn to individuals who smell good, dress nice, have neat hair, and who are clean. They may want someone who appeals to them visually. Though they want someone skilled, their partner must be a little submissive and modest. They don’t like eccentric or wild partners.

If these men are attracted to you, you’ve done it! You’ve broken their strong distrust in love! You’ve managed to appeal to these men someway, somehow. The challenge is just trying to keep their interest without turning them off in some odd way.

How do I know he likes me? He’ll be there when you need his help with anything. He might go the traditional route and buy gifts or ask you out for lunch. Beyond that, you may not know unless you ask. Some Venus in Virgos may be far too shy to tell you his feelings.

TURN OFF: There are a lot of things. Really, love turns them off. They are intimidated by it. Don’t come in with the demands for a perfect romance, and they will feel comfortable. They are already hard on themselves as it is. Let them show you love in their own small ways. People who don’t appreciate this turns them off. They also dislike ditsy, dumb types. They dislike demanding, show-offs. They have a list of peeves. They dislike watching someone eat a food they dislike. For example, if they hate pudding, they don’t really like watching someone eat it. They dislike strange smells coming from a person. There are a lot of examples. It’s just best to communicate with these men to find out what they like and what they don’t.

After you make these men more secure, and after you’ve shown yourself to be cool and chilled in demeanor, they’re going to want to know where your head is. What are your thoughts? What do you notice around you? Mercury signs come into place with these men.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Mercury sign. For instance, if his Mercury is in Libra, read Venus in Libra.

Mercury can only be one sign before the sun sign, in the same sign as the sun, and the sign after. Venus can only be two signs before the sun, in the same sign as the sun, or two signs after the sun. This is due to the rotation of the planets in OUTER SPACE.

Male celebrities: John Lennon, Eminem, Lil Wayne, T-Pain, Robert Redford, Mick Jagger, Robin Williams, Charlize Theron, Robert De Niro, Roger Federer, Sean Penn, Antonio Banderas, Sting, Blake Lively, Patrick Swayze, John Mayer, Jason Statham, Vin Diesel, Bruno Mars, Simon Cowell, Jack White, Alexander Skarsguard, Buster Keaton, David Guetta, Adam Sandler, Mika, Chris Hemsworth, Kevin Spacey, Jimmy Fallon, Neil Armstrong, John D. Rockefeller, Will Ferrell, Joe Jonas, Keith Urban, Whiz Kalifa, Bill Murray, Easy E (NWA), Carl Orff, Anton Bruckner, John Cage, John Lennon (Beatles),  Julio Iglesias, David Guetta, Michael Biven, Nick Cannon, Weird Al Yankovic, Teddy Riley, James Morrison, M. Shadows, Stokely Williams (mint condition), Ginuwine,  Tarkan, Marquois Houston,

Kpop idols: Yesung (Super Junior), Lay (EXO), Zelo (B.A.P.), Hoon (U-Kiss), ChunJi (Teen Top), Lee Hong Bin (VIXX), Taeil (Block B),  Seunghyun (FT Island)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Virgo “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Libra

One-word description: Nice

These men literally like the sweet individuals. They like people who are friendly, easy-going, modest, and sociable. They usually notice the quiet, elegant, well-dressed, wall-flower types. They like people who know how to have some good, clean fun. For them, they like to do socially popular things. They want a woman who carries a bit of class and coolness when she’s in public.

They like to feel wanted and needed. They generally tend to be drawn to romantic types looking for a boyfriend. They appreciate thoughtful women, women who buy them gifts.

These men are ruled by Venus, so they are always crushing on physically attractive people, and they take a particular interest in the butt. Sexy for them is literally just beauty, inside and out. Honestly, they don’t really care for the overt “sexy” types.

They are drawn to individuals who are worth giving up everything for. They want someone that ANY man could want. They tend to crush on the most popular person in the room. Not only does this man like someone who’s sweet, but he also wants someone with a bit of innocence. The idea of the person he’s crushing on sleeping with a bunch of men isn’t their idea of the “ideal lover”.

They generally are attracted to people who share the same interests or they like people who take some interest in them. They like individuals who smile and laugh easily.

They tend to be drawn to flirty types. They can tell when someone is flirting with them.

They tend to be attracted to individuals who are unique in their own way, someone cultured and open-minded.

They generally like individuals who are fair and reasonable. When they see someone handling a tense situation calmly, coolly, and respectfully, it really catches their interest.

Physically, he tends to like attractive, pretty people. He generally notices someone dressed their best before he notices someone dressed casual, but as long as the face is nice, he will notice. He doesn’t really care for the provocative types or, to the far extreme, frumpy types. Accentuate the butt as he tends to target that body part first and foremost. He’s always attracted to an amazing smile. He’s mostly drawn to someone wearing cool colors like light blue and other pastels.

Libra is an air sign, so these men enjoy watching the air tickle a potential love interest’s hair or they may be drawn to someone enjoying a breeze. They might like finding mates in cooler breezy seasons like Spring and Fall.

Sexually, they prefer partners that are sweet-natured and submissive. They want their sexual partners to look attractive even in the bedroom. They don’t like partners that are too wild and coarse. They like a little balance.

They prefer pleasing sexual partners, to the eye and touch. They like partners who are accommodating and willing to please as well, but they prefer her to be soft and subtle in her actions.

If you are asked out by them, just know that you have attracted one of the best lovers out there! He will treat you well! You really know how to attract the good guys to you, and this is probably because you’re a good person yourself.

How do I know he likes me? He will flirt, act super chivalrous, and will be romantic. He will send you anonymous romantic gifts like flowers and chocolates. He may even give you a cute pet name.

TURN OFF: Mean-spirited individuals. They dislike bullies who always have something mean to say. They tend to be turned off by closed-minded comments. They dislike rudeness of all kinds.

They are not often interested in individuals who have a nonchalant attitude, someone who acts like they don’t care about anything or anyone.

They also dislike drama queens, individuals who are confrontational, and not cool.Generally, they dislike anyone who isn’t nice, calm, and sweet.

Above all, they hate individuals who exclude them from things. These men really do hate inequalities. It’s a turn-off when someone does something and doesn’t invite them or include them, even if what the person is doing doesn’t seem like their cup of tea.

Though it doesn’t turn them off when you have a casual appearance, they do like those days when their crush gets all dressed up.

Venus is at home in Libra, so generally there are no more steps. When they get a load of that sweet personality, they are sold for a first date. They won’t be looking for anything else until they are sure they are ready to commit.

Male celebrities: Freddie Mercury, Ryan Gosling, Sean Connery, Will Smith, Richard Gere, Woody Allen, Paul Walker, Charlie Sheen, Nick Jonas, Miguel, Matthew McConaughey, Viggo Mortensen, Stephen King, Michael Douglas, Hugh Grant, Warren Buffett, Colin Firth, Rita Hayworth, Lance Armstrong, Mickey Rourke, Kobe Bryant, Oscar Wilde, Steve Carrell, Mario, Romeo Miller, Gene Simmons (Kiss), Julian Casablancas, Sean Combs (puff daddy), B.o.B, Miguel,  Ronnie Devoe (N.E, BBD), Howie Dorough (Backstreet Boys), Cedric “K-Ci” Hailey, Randy Newman, Fred Durst (Limp Bizkit), Fat Joe, Eric Benet

Kpop idols: Chen (EXO), Jang Hyun-seung (Beast), Jungkook (BTS), Kevin Woo (U-Kiss), Niel (Teen Top), JinYoung (B1A4), Baro (B1A4), Zico (Block B), Eric Nam, Minhyuk (Monsta X), Jeonghan (Seventeen), Woozi (Seventeen)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Libra “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Scorpio

One-word description: Thrilling

These men like individuals who are different, unique, bold, and EXTREMELY sexy. I don’t care how nerdy this guy is, he wants a “bad” individual and he wants to have fun. He wants someone sharp, someone who’s independent. They are drawn to the loners. Yes, he likes them mean, though not always in a shallow way. Why? Because he sees it as a challenge. When he can conquer and over-power this individual, he will feel like a winner. This may seem like he’s a power-hungry person. Not necessarily. He just likes someone who takes him beyond the superficiality and the boredom of the mundane world.

He’s drawn to someone with an aura of mystery and intrigue, someone who is a little dangerous, cutting-edge, bold, and spunky. He ignores the cowards. He’s drawn to someone who’s daring and fearless! Still, he doesn’t necessarily like party animals all the time. He’s not completely into that glitz and glam superficial life. He’s looking for someone who’s ready to take life to the next level, or rather who’s ready to dig deeper. He’s drawn to people who are intelligent, who think deeper than most.

Some of them do like sweet-natured individuals, someone who is a little vulnerable. However, there still needs to be some mystery about them and he needs to feel like there’s something challenging about them to stay interested for long.

He’s drawn to those individuals that are strong-willed and powerful. Yes, he likes to be in control, but when someone controls him, he likes it a little, too. He really can’t forget the one that’s causing so much drama in his life. This guy often forms love-hate relationships with his crush. He wants to own this person and conquer them, but he also feels under their spell and control when he does this. And he’s drawn to those who aren’t easy to conquer, which could drive him to frustration. I know, this all sounds a little crazy, right? But that’s what he likes. He wants to get lost in his own world with someone, and yes, do the craziest things. The fighting both infuriates him and turns him on. The emotional drama both makes him want to quit and makes him want to stay.

This man tends to be drawn to magnetic and charismatic individuals. They like people who know how to influence a crowd, individuals who are a part of something greater in life.

Venus is in detriment if you haven’t noticed. These individuals aren’t the most comfortable in their love relationships. They cause quite a bit of drama in their lives and in the lives of others. Their relationships always seem rocky. But again, this is what he likes, even if he doesn’t realize it. He wants love to mean something. He wants a reason to have someone. The more someone rejects him, the angrier it makes him, yet he wants them more!

They do want someone who is confident, just not someone who shows off. They often like individuals they know nothing about because it keeps things interesting. If they feel they have sized you up, it would knock them off of their square when they find there is so much more to you than what meets the eye. They are drawn to layered individuals. Venus is in detriment in this sign because of the amount of drama they need in love to keep it going.

Yet, despite the fact that he’s drawn to individuals that reject him, when someone wants him so badly they are willing to give up everything for him, he will not be able to resist. He’s not usually into the desperate types for fear they may expect something of him or have some other ulterior motive. Still, if he feels you are sincere about wanting him deeply, this may be the most attractive quality of all!

Physically, sexy does the trick. He tends to like people in clothes that accentuate the body, maybe a little see-through, but not gaudy or too revealing. Leave something for the imagination. He likes a cutting-edge look particularly. Tease him just a little. He may also be drawn to someone who looks exciting and different, so own your own unique personal style. He’s drawn to dark, sleek colors, but may also like brighter colors, like red or maroon, if the clothes are sexy. He prefers solid colors to patterns. Regardless of what you wear, however, wear a sexy attitude. Be fearless. That’s more attractive than anything.

Scorpio is a water sign. They might enjoy seeing potential love interests wet in some way, whether the individual is enjoying the water on the beach or a sudden rain shower. They might enjoy hot springs or baths. They might enjoy finding mates in any season really, but Spring and Fall tend to be cooler and breezy enough for them.

Sexually, these men want a passionate affair. They may be drawn to partners that are difficult to turn on or they may be drawn to individuals with an animal magnetism and raw sexuality. They want everything you’ve got or nothing at all.

If this guy asks you out, you must have a very powerful presence. You are unforgettable, mesmerizing, and deep. There is nothing shallow about you. You are someone that makes him find a reason for living.

How do I know he likes me? You won’t know from him telling you. He keeps his secret feelings to himself. He will never give anyone the satisfaction of knowing he’s interested until he’s sure you feel the same way about him. But he may stare A LOT. He may flirt a LITTLE if you approach him. He may try to get inside your head and understand you. He may stalk you, he may do a lot of research about you. Trust me, his aura will ooze his feelings even if he never says it. You will get the message if you stop to notice. You must solve the mystery of this man. Only then will you find out what he really feels. You must be willing to take the time to. Anyone who does will win his heart anyway.

TURN OFF: Shallow individuals. Boring individuals. Individuals who care too much about their appearances. Vanity is such a turn off…unless you prove you have way more to yourself than that. Socially strict, socially concerned, and gossips also irritate them. They want someone with substance over class. They aren’t likely to notice you if you aren’t interesting. They really want someone exciting and sexy. They really just aren’t drawn to “good people”. They don’t like the goody-two-shoes. They want to be thrilled.

After he’s done with his intense adventures with you, he’s going to want to know what you’re passionate about, what your desires are, and your sexual power. Mars comes into play right then and there. He may also want to know those deeper sides to you, the moments that have changed your life. Your generation will have an affect on his interest in you. Pluto is a generational planet that can last for 10 years or more in a sign.

Mars is the planet of energy, passion, drive, and sex. Pluto is simply the planet of power.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Mars and Pluto sign. For instance, if his Mars or Pluto is in Sagittarius, read Venus in Sagittarius.

Male celebrities:Ne-yo, Usher, Drake, Leonardo DiCaprio, Bill Gates,  Jim Morrison, Bruce Lee, Gerard Butler, Romy Schneider, Zac Efron, Matt Damon, Hugh Jackman, Steven Spielberg, Ian Somerhalder, Louis Tomlinson, Anthony Kiedis, Keith Richards, Denzel Washington, Tiger Woods, Snoop Dogg, Jeff Buckley, Till Lindemann, Jason Derulo, Ozzy  Osbourne (Black Sabbath),  Jamie Foxx, Neil Young, Ray Charles, Nelly, Nas, Chad Kroegar,  Kirk Hammett, Tommy Lee, Earl Simmons (DMX), John Legend,  Tyrese Gibson, Little Richard, Frank Ocean,  Shaun Morgan (seether), Rickie Lee Jones, Brad Arnold (3 Doors Down), Fabolous, Mystikal

Kpop idols:  (BTS), Kris (EXO), Donghae (Super Junior), Minho (Shinee), Rap Monster-RM (BTS), Jimin (BTS), Xiah Junsu (TVXQ, JYJ), Jr. (Got7), L. Joe (Teen Top), Leo (VIXX),  Ilhoon (BtoB), Jaejin (FT Island), Ren (Nu’est), Kihyun (Monsta X), Jooheon (Monsta X)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Scorpio “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Sagittarius

One-word description: Free-spirited

These men love their freedom, so nothing turns them on more than someone who’s as free-spirited as they are! The don’t like to be controlled and they don’t like too many commitments. It’s hard enough for them to live up to one. Individuals who are open to an “open” relationship really make them crush hard. They tend to be drawn to individuals who know how to be a friend, partner in crime, someone they can have many different adventures with.

They like individuals who are feisty and independent. They enjoy people who are brave and bold.

Like many fire signs, they like the person who gets the most attention. They like those party animals. The difference is that they want to know if the individual is also smart and thinks about the world. They want to know that they can learn something from this person. They tend to be drawn to people who are exotic or cultured. Individuals with a college education may be appealing as well. In general, they just want someone who has a zest for life and has experienced the world or desires to.

Most importantly, they’ll be drawn to people who share their beliefs. These beliefs are usually based on their own moral ideas. JUPITER will decide this. They tend to have strong moral beliefs. Whether they believe it is right to date a party animal or whether they believe it’s wrong to be so loose, it will influence who they are drawn to. On a complex level, sometimes Venus in Sag men will swallow their beliefs to experience and learn new things, if they find someone who is really interesting. Still, their beliefs influence their attraction to someone. If someone fits everything they believe in, they will want them. Still, they can’t help but crush on that fun, lively individual who is looking for more meaning in life. They can’t help but be attracted to a positive, happy-go-lucky individual. They like those individuals who are strong and never give up on what they believe in, and that’s sometimes more inspiring and attractive than holding on to their own beliefs!

These men tend to think a lot about themselves and it’s hard for them to admit when they are crushing on someone. But when they do, they do. They tend to boast around the people they like. Honesty is very important to them. Wisdom is very alluring.

Physically, he may like thighs, hips, legs, as well as butt. He likes hips and thighs that are thick, so a little bottom weight isn’t bad for him. He doesn’t really care what you wear, however he tends to be drawn to casual individuals. He may like individuals in shorts or skirts or jeans that fit the legs. His beliefs, whether religious or ethical, tend to influence his attraction to someone physically as well. Still, he may also like exotic features, features that seem rather foreign and exciting. He’s drawn to sunset and philosophical colors like purple and royal blue.

Sagittarius is a fire sign. These men love to turn up the heat, like all fire signs! They enjoy watching potential love interests out in the Sun, maybe tanning or playing sports outside. Their favorite season for finding mates can be any season, but the Spring and Summer would get them out more to find what they’re looking for. They tend to like the fall, too, around the holiday season. It tends to be a jovial and optimistic time for them.

Sexually, these men are drawn to partners that are fun, wild, adventurous, and open. They prefer undemanding and uninhibited partners. They want a friendship and a loose sexual relationship. They can’t deal with jealousy or possessiveness.

If these individuals have asked you out, you must seem larger than life and very special! It is actually hard to catch their attention.

How do I know he likes me? He’s pretty straight-forward. He will tell you. He will also boast about himself to make himself seem more important and interesting than he is.

TURN OFF: Jealousy, insecurities with relationships and love, emotional drama, baggage (like extra kids he doesn’t know about, family issues, etc), and someone who goes against everything he believes in. He also tends to ignore the shy and reserved types. They don’t seem like a whole lot of fun to him.

Again, after he’s done exploring and having adventures with you, he’s going to want to talk about the meaning of life, what keeps his spirits going, and what he believes in. For him, this could be the difference between whether his interests last in a person. Jupiter will come into play.

Jupiter is the planet of luck, expansion and growth, and beliefs.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Jupiter sign. For instance, if his Jupiter is in Capricorn, read Venus in Capricorn.

Male Celebrities: David Bowie, Jay-Z, Jude Law, Jimi Hendrix, Jake Gyllenhaal, Ryan Reynolds, Kevin Costner, Cary Grant, Dean Ambrose, Rowan Atkinson, Samuel L. Jackson, Jimmy Page, Eddie Vedder,  LL Cool J, Eddie Van Halen (Van Helen), Sean Paul, Shaggy,  Kid Rock, Jonathan Davis, Lemmy, Omarion, Sisqo (Dru Hill),  Tevin Campbell, Fela Kuti, Kevin Jonas, Chamillionare, French Montana, Aloe Blacc, Lil Jon

Kpop idols: Henry Lau (Super Junior), T.O.P (Big Bang), Seungri (Big Bang), Jang Dongwoo (Infinite), Taecyeon (2 PM),- ChangJo (Teen Top), C.A.P. (Teen Top), Eunkwang (BtoB), Minhyuk (BtoB), Seunghoon (Winner), Minhwan (FT Island),  Se7en

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Scorpio “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Capricorn

One-word description: Cool

Venus in Capricorn men are drawn to individuals who are strong, smart, and cool. They generally like confident individuals.

They tend to like the loners. Despite any other energies in their charts that may move them to want someone who is humble and submissive, they just can’t help but be drawn to the person who stands up to them, to the individual who bosses them around. They crush on those individuals who are in control, those individuals who are firm about what they want. Though they prefer individuals who handle things with a cool head, they really don’t gravitate to people that agree with everything they do.

They tend to be attracted to darker haired individuals. They also like it when that individual wears darker colors.

They tend to crush hard on people who are older than they are. They crush on people who act mature and cool. They are drawn to individuals who are all about business in a relationship. They really can’t help but like individuals who are decisive and serious. Commitment is very important to them. Someone who seems to want them and is straight-forward about it earns this man’s respect. A woman who is mature about love is a major turn-on. He doesn’t go for the high school crush, he aims for the commitment-oriented adult!

He tends to be drawn to ambitious individuals who are successful and achievement-oriented. He crushes on the top athlete, the most popular cheer-leader, the lead singer in a band, anyone who shows they want to be a professional at their craft. That is sexy to him. They tend to like people in business suits. Dress like that, and he will fall immediately. They like people who have a sense of power and command about them. They respect boundaries and someone who is wise with finances. They do like individuals who carry a bit of class. They prefer modesty to wildness; On the other hand, they prefer someone who is down-to-earth and cool.

Physically, he’s attracted to individuals who look elegant, sophisticated, and authoritative. He tends to be drawn to individuals in a suit or really sleek and elegant looks. He tends to like a girl in jackets. Dark, solid colors, like black, dark gray, and dark brown, are more appealing to him than bright colors. Carry yourself with confidence and he will find that even more attractive.

Capricorn is an earth sign. Capricorns not only like down-to-earth people, but people in touch with the earth in some way. They may be drawn to potential love interests sitting in parks and gardens or tending gardens. Their favorite season for finding mates might be in the Spring and Fall when nature shows its colors. However, they might enjoy finding mates in winter as well because women tend to be more covered up and classy during this season, just to their liking.

Sexually, they want a partner who is cool and straight-forward. A measure of caution or maturity is a real turn-on. They may prefer really experienced partners or partners that are untouched and possibly inexperienced. They may like partners that keep a measure of control even during the sex act. They tend to be sensual, so they like to be able to caress their partners. Soft skin would be a turn-on.

If this man is attracted to you, you are one cool and successful person in his eyes. He feels that if he wins your heart, he will have one of the most valuable women in the world. It may be a challenge, but that’s what he loves. He pays attention to legs and teeth. He likes a bright smile and long, sleek legs. Well-developed individuals are also appealing.

How do I know he likes me? He may be a little nervous. Love is an out-of-character trait for him. When he’s around you, he may suddenly lose his usual cool. He may try to talk to you and get to know you more, but he will feel like he’s doing the wrong thing all the time. He’s generally insecure with his feelings. This guy kisses suddenly, and you may or he may not have even been prepared for it. It’s usually a moment they have decided on, but haven’t fully prepared for the feelings afterward. They tend to try to ask you out or do what anyone would expect him to do when he likes someone: buy her gifts and give her compliments.

TURN OFF: Someone who acts like a spoiled brat, someone who is whiny, clingy, and complains a lot. Someone who is flighty and not serious about anything. Someone without opinions, that just agrees with everything he says. Jealousy and insecurities are not bad as long as they are not handled immaturely. They hate volatile individuals. Standing up for yourself is one thing, but fighting someone on the first date? A turn-off.

Of course, after he’s noticed that you have your life together, he wants to know your struggles and successes. He wants to see how wise you are. He wants to know what’s most important to you or what’s very serious to you. There are certain things he takes seriously and he wants to know if you won’t jeopardize his security. Saturn gives us clues as to what this means for him.

Saturn is the planet of boundaries and limitations.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Saturn sign. For instance, if his Saturn is in Aquarius, read Venus in Aquarius.

Male celebrities:  Brad Pitt, Justin Timberlake, Elvis Presley, Steve Jobs, Jim Carrey, Michael Jordan, Frank Sinatra, Christian Bale, Taylor Lautner,  Paul Newman, Walt Disney, Adam Lambert,  Richard Burton, RuPaul, Ben Stiller,  Elijah Wood, Owen Wilson, Seal, Trey Songz,  The Weekend, James Blunt, Seal,  Alex Turner, Pitbull, John Mayall, Mike Patton, The Game,  Nick Lachey, Daniel Bedingfield, Psy, Nate Ruess (F.U.N), Cody Simpson, Aaron Carter, flo rida, Twista, Doug Robb (hoobastank), The game, Montell Jordan, Sean Kingston, Silento,

Kpop idols: Sungmin (Super Junior), Chanyeol (EXO), Kai (EXO), Jong Up (B.A.P.), Junho (2 PM), Chansung (2 PM), Jin (BTS), JB (Got7), Yugyeom (Got7), Ricky (Teen Top), B-Bomb (Block B), Jaehyo (Block B),  Hongki (FT Island), Hyungwon (Monsta X), Moonbin (ASTRO), The8 (Seventeen), Seungkwan (Seventeen), Vernon (Seventeen)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Capricorn “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Aquarius

One-word description: Unique

These men always fall for the reserved individuals with the quirky side. They generally fall for people who aren’t gaudy or flamboyant, but still are different from others around them in some other way. They like the nerdy, geeky types, too.

They easily crush on their friends and are known to have crushes on childhood friends. They tend to prefer a friendship to love, but they fall for friends so fast!

They are drawn to people who are intelligent and lively. They like individuals who are open-minded, independent, and freedom-loving. They tend like people who have a lot more to them than the superficial good looks. In fact, they like individuals who have their own style, instead of following the trends.

They don’t like to get too close to people for fear of being judged or controlled, so they like someone who is cool and keeps a little distance. They tend to like those individuals who do “their own thing”. They even like individuals who are just completely, insanely wild! They crush on people who are interesting and intriguing. For instance, when everyone is silently and calmly standing in line, and this one person is just popping gum hard and accidentally cutting everybody, that could be attractive to them. For Venus in Aquarius men, that’s cute. Those dorky qualities are tremendously appealing to him.

These men are sexual rebels, so they like people who think outside of the box with their sex appeal. They may be drawn to someone pansexual, asexual, or bi-sexual. Perhaps gender-bending fashion could go a long way with them, too. They also tend to like older people, but only because it’s different. They really like people who are different.

They tend to be drawn to individuals who contribute a lot to the world and do more meaningful things, like organize charities or join a reality show. Just something that seems greater than the usual day-to-day grind. They like people who step outside of the box.  They gravitate to people who are friendly and popular in their own way.

They tend to like individuals who can add something interesting to a conversation, but they like individuals who are intelligent. They really do like when someone holds an unexpected opinion. They like people who think differently more than anything. This man even wants this girl to be cool if he kisses someone else or takes someone else out. To many, this may seem like a super act of disloyalty. Sometimes, Venus in Aquarius men are testing to see how cool you will be. If someone he’s been crushing on doesn’t over-react, and instead reacts unexpectedly, this man will change all of his ways, drop his side lovers, and be stuck to you like glue! This is how badly he really is attracted to someone who is unexpected.

Physically, he may just be drawn to someone with a unique sense of style. He’s not as physical as the other men, but he does tend to be drawn to thin individuals. They like pretty faces as much as the next person, but that person must look distinct in some way. They tend to be drawn to fashion-forward individuals as well. They may like the glamorous types, individuals who are dressed elegantly and attractive, but they tend to like the cute types, no matter what. He pays attention to the ankles and legs. He likes legs, so accentuate them with a nice skirt, shorts, or fitted pants. He may drawn to electric or friendly colors like electric blue, aqua, and/or turquoise.

Aquarius is an air sign. Venus in Aquarius men enjoy watching potential lovers get their hair tousled by the wind! They tend to be drawn to carefree types anyway. They can mate in any season. They are outgoing enough to enjoy getting together with people in the spring and summer, and detached enough to enjoy the quieter winter season.

Sexually, they may want a partner who is open-minded and experimental, but mostly a good conversationalist. They may want someone who has a strong knowledge about sex or a strong curiosity. They prefer to have no strings attached, including no emotional demands afterwards.

If this man asks you out, you are loved for who you are! Your quirks are what make you charming. Not everyone is so lucky all the time. But you know how to make even your worst days look fabulous!

How do I know he likes me? This guy generally stays cool most of the time. If he lets on his feelings, it will be at some random and spontaneous moment. Possibly unexpected. Your best bet is asking him casually, while talking about a fun subject. They also tend to be a little jealous when they see someone they like with someone else. The usual cool Venus in Aquarius man will suddenly seem grouchy! Usually, though, this guy is a friend first. So technically, ladies, if you want to know who he likes, ask him who his closest friend is at this moment.

TURN OFF: People who fit the mold, who do what is normally expected of them. Individuals who try too hard to fit in and don’t speak up when someone is doing something unfair. They really dislike followers. They also dislike jealous types, individuals who are clingy and dependent, as well as those with nothing intelligent to say. Though they like people who rebel sexually, they don’t tend to draw towards the provocative types.

After Venus in Aquarius men see how interesting and intelligent a person is, they want to know what’s really important to this individual. They may also want to see what limits these individuals aren’t willing to cross. This could make them crush even harder! This will be decided by Saturn. They also prefer individuals from their generation or individuals who are progressive. They are looking for someone who has an open mind and new ideas, someone who’s looking to break away from traditional ways of doing things. Uranus, a generational planet, will decide how this plays out.

Saturn is the planet of boundaries and limitations. Uranus is the planet of freedom.

Read the Venus sign that best fits his Uranus and Saturn sign. For instance, if his Uranus or Saturn is in Pisces, read Venus in Pisces.

Male celebrities: Bruce Willis, Harry Styles, Mel Gibson, Ashton Kutcher, Adam Levine,  Nicolas Cage,  Quentin Tarantino, Michael Schumacher, Muhammad Ali, Daniel Craig, Ricky Martin, Elton John,  Tom Hiddleston, Stephen Hawking, Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Gary Oldman, Liam Hemsworth, Lebron James, R.Kelly,  Bow Wow, Phil Collins, Dido, Dr. Dre, Josh Groban, Daniel Smith (Bastille), Aretha Franklin, Timbaland,  George Friedrich Handel, Lars Ulrich (Metallica), Steve Harwell (Smashmouth), Pleasure P, Joel Madden (Good Charlotte),

Kpop idols: Xiumin (EXO), Onew (Shinee), Yong Jun-hyung (Beast), Yang Yoseob (Beast), Lee Gi-kwang (Beast), Bang Yong-guk (B.A.P.), Youngjae (B.A.P.), Jun. K (2 PM), V (BTS), Soohyun (U-Kiss), Yong Jun-Hyung (U-Kiss), U-Know Yunho (TVXQ), Hero Jaejoong (TVXQ, JYJ), L (Infinite),  Hyunsik (BtoB), Seungyoon (Winner),  Jonghun (FT Island), Wonbin (FT Island), Wonho (Monsta X), Joshua (Seventeen), DK (Seventeen), 

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Capricorn “ideal” can be seen below:

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Venus in Pisces

These men do like sexy people, but more on the mystic, enchanting side. Like a sea creature coming out of the water, they care about body language. The individual doesn’t have to say much, they just have to enchant them.

Speaking of sea creature, they love bathing suits!

They are generally drawn to physically beautiful people. They are not very discriminating about who they like. Physically, however, they are easily enchanted by an attractive, nice, and charming appearance.

Many of these men just love to be in love, and so don’t really care as long as the person likes them. Some, however, are wiser, especially if their hearts have been broken, which happens many times with these guys. After that point, many of these men are drawn to mysterious, quiet souls. They tend to be drawn to people who are accepting, kind, loving, and compassionate. They fall in love with people who actually notice them, especially since most are so quiet. They may like those individuals who need them, those people who are loners.

They tend to fall in love with a dream, which is decided by Neptune. These men are easily drawn to what’s on the TV, in the movies, and in the magazines. In this way, they have many fantasies about the woman they want. They tend to want a dream figure, someone that any man would want. This depends on the generation, but no matter what, they want the ideal. If they see these “dreams” in someone, they tend to fall head over heels! Many times, they are looking for a soul mate, someone who is exactly like them and feels the same spark that they do. These men tend to fall for people who treat them really nice and act really sweet towards them. They tend to crush hard on the most attractive, the kindest, most heroic person in the room. They can’t help it. They are always crushing on a celebrity of some kind, whether it’s a Kpop idol or a famous actor. They crush easily. If someone is presented to them as amazing and wonderful, with flaws made to look like an “asset”, they tend to be drawn to that illusion.

They tend to be captivated by someone that helps them escape the harsh world. They like those individuals who just go-with-the-flow and just enjoy life. In this way, they also tend to crush on people who want to change the world and make it a better place. They tend to crush on individuals who see the good in people rather than the bad.

Overall, they tend to crush on a dream. Real people can be hard for them to handle. Real love, with real world demands, is very hard for them to stomach. It makes them nervous. They would rather dream. If it’s not obvious already, Venus is exalted in Pisces. These men are molded and easily enchanted by beauty and charm. They see it all around them. They are gentle and charming as men! Their only problem is they have a hard time committing. They never know when to say “No” and they have a hard time dealing with the routine of a real relationship.

Physically, as mentioned before, he generally likes cute, enchantingly attractive individuals. He’s drawn to individuals who look like their face came out of a magazine or movie. Bathing suits are his thing. He loves individuals with wavy or wild hair. He may like beautiful, petite people in physical appearance, but he may be drawn to people in understated clothing rather than loud clothing. He’s drawn to subtle and soft colors like lavender, lilac, and sea green. He tends to like attractive feet. Wear some amazing shoes to catch his eye or make sure your feet are soft and well-manicured. He also likes stockings or silk socks of some sort.

Pisces is a water element sign. Venus in Pisces men enjoy watching potential love interests splashing in the waves at the beach, running in the rain during a certain shower, and soaking in a bath or hot springs. They may enjoy mating in all seasons, as they generally can find the beauty in anything. However, the Winter, Spring, and Fall produce natural wetness that they may enjoy. In the Summer, they may have to go the beach to really feel inspired to mate.

Sexually, these men are drawn to all kinds of partners. He may be drawn to the soft, sweet, and submissive types, as well as the adventurous types. Still, he won’t like a partner that is too aggressive, pushy, or demanding. He mostly wants a partner that fits his ideal or his dream-and that could vary.

If this guy asked you out, wow, I’m surprised. He usually never asks anybody out, even those individuals he likes! If he seems to be showing an interest, there is something about you that seems glamorous, enchanting, sweet, and amazingly charming! He sees you as his savior, as someone who just understands and accepts him, no matter his flaws and differences. I wouldn’t be surprised if a whole lot of men were falling at your feet!

How do I know he likes me? He’s shy, so he won’t show it openly. He will probably try to get you alone. He will send secret, sweet messages in a way that no one else can plainly see. He may tease you and even slip in little comments that let you know. He will dream about you all the time, so when he’s around you, he may stare a lot. He may also drop indirect hints and be a little clumsy.

TURN OFF: He will generally be attracted to all kinds of women, but mostly flamboyance annoys him. He may not say anything, but too much attention makes him nervous. He’s also an easy-going guy, so putting on airs and dressing up for stuffy occasions would make him want to run for the hills. They really aren’t attracted to individuals who care too much about their appearance or social decorum. He also doesn’t like to be bossed around. He tends to be turned off by aggression of all sorts and he hates confrontation.

After this guy has finally drawn himself to your caring and sweet personality, he will be looking to see only the good. He’ll be looking for the good in you. Jupiter would bring him the good fortune. He may also be seeking to be enchanted. Neptune, a generational planet, can help with that.

Jupiter is the planet of luck, expansion and growth, and beliefs. Neptune is the planet of illusions, inspiration, hope, and escape.

Read the Venus sign that best fits your Jupiter and Neptune sign and see if it feels more familiar to you. For instance, if your Jupiter or Neptune is in Aries, read Venus in Aries.

Male celebrities:  Ed Sheeran, Martin Luther King Jr, Alan Rickman, Kurt Cobain, Justin Bieber, Orlando Bloom, Heath Ledger, John Travolta, Edgar Cayce,  Jon Bon Jovi, Victor Hugo,  Hugh Hefner,  James McAvoy, Jesse McCartney, Brian Littrel (Backstreet Boys), Charlie Wilson(Gap Band), Nick Carter (Backstreet boys), David Gilmour, Rod Stewart, Marvin Gaye, James Iha (The smashing Pumkins lead drummer), Daniel Johns (Silverchair), Brendon Urie (Panic! At the Disco), Rick James,  Joungyun (shinee), Chester Bennington (Linkin Park), David Grohl (Foo Fighters), J. cole,  Kenneth Edmonds “babyface”, lloyd banks

Kpop idols: J-Hope (BTS), Lu-Han (EXO), D.O.(EXO), Kangin (Super Junior), Kyuhyun (Super Junior), Jonghyun (Shinee), Himchan (B.A.P.), J-Hope (BTS), Nam Woo-hyun (Infinite), Ken (VIXX), Sandeul (B1A4), P.O. (Block B), IM (Monsta X), MJ (ASTRO), Sanha (ASTRO), Dino (Seventeen)

Venus is considered a planet that represents young women. Visual archetypes of the Venus in Pisces “ideal” can be seen below:

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So these are the different Venus types! Later, I may also do the Moon and the Sun to show all of the planets that influence our love life.

Thanks for reading! I worked REALLY, REALLY hard on this one to make up for the one I lost. I hope you guys enjoyed it. Sorry for the length. I just really wanted you guys to get a good picture of the signs.

Venus the goddess is everywhere there is love, peace after war, beauty and style, comfort and pleasure

Venus the goddess is everywhere there is love, peace after war, beauty and style, comfort and pleasure

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24 Jan

I regrettably have some bad news for those people who were hoping to read certain articles only to find that some articles are not working. I accidentally deleted a whole slew of interesting articles. And yes, I am sick! All of that hard work, gone down the drain.

I will try to make up for some of the articles, such as the

GOT7 Ideal Types

Which I had just promised two Got7 fans, fadebubble and pearlgem

f(x) Ideal Types and Charms

Unfortunately, I may not be able to write it exactly like I once did. 😦 But I will try my best to make an article that is similar to the ones that I lost.

The others are not replaceable as they were written so long ago, I no longer even have the draft for them.

Yes, this makes maneuvering difficult. I apologize for the let down and I will try to restore whatever I can.

There are still plenty of other articles that may appease your interests. If not, I’m weally, weally, sowy. 😦

-From the Writer, GenerationNext

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